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Personal Attributes and Using Power To Accomplish Your Goal
Personal Attributes and Using Power To Accomplish Your Goal
Geraldine C. Duron
Doctorand
• How many times have you heard someone say” s/he is just too
nice?
• Pfeffer (2010) points out “ being nice to people can be effective
because people find it difficult to fight with those who are being
polite and corteous.
• Gilley ( 2006) suggest that being nice to others is an underutilized
but very effective approach to accomplishing one’s goals.
• Pfeffer (2010),” nice people are considered warm but
niceness comes across as weakness. This sentiment was
reinforced by President Dan Mahony ( Winthrop University),
when he was cautioned that people often” misinterpret
kindness for weakness”. This suggest that one may need to
balance being nice with being assertive or firm-in other
words you do not have to come across as mean when you are
being firm but you also want to make sure that you do not
appear to be too soft or weak when you are being nice.
PLANNING AND SETTING CLEAR GOALS
• Tolerance of conflict does not that you are looking for conflict for
a fight nor does it means that you retreat from disagreements and
simply give in to avoid conflict. If you are consistently creating or
causing conflict you may be labeled as someone who is difficult to
get along , which can jeopardize your future career within that
institution.
• Brass
( 2002) “ power is most likely to be exercise and visible
when conflict exist”
TRANSPARENCY
•Framing
Tversky and Kahneman (1981) suggest
that framing of acts or outcomes can
influence their desirability or acceptance
COMMITMENT
• Language can create perception of the speaker, giving him/her power over
his/her audience. Pfeffer states, “the language people use and how they
construct presentations and arguments help determine their power” and he
goes on to suggest that those with power interrupt and those without get
interrupted.
• An example of how word choice impacts the way the
messages are received comes from a new president’s first
year at a university. In this case, the new president had
been visiting each college to introduce himself and
provide a brief talk as to his vision for the university.
• The power of the words he chose cost this provost his
job. Word choice does have an impact. Obviously, not all
phrases are inflammatory. Within the administrative ranks
of higher education institutions there are always words or
phrases that are trending.
The Myth of Best Practices
• Best practice is a special case for the use of language. This
phrase has become a common place in administrative meetings
and is usually brought up by someone putting forth a proposal
for a new process or policy. The individual proposing the policy
provides little or no evidence demonstrating that the practice
works any better than what presently exist, but instead states “
we need to adopt this policy or process because it is a best
practice.”
• The implication is that there is no better process or
policy, therefore, your institution should adopt this
practice and change its process(es) as quickly as possible
or risk being left behind. It is nothing short of amazing
that a college or university would change a process based
solely on the new process being called a best practice.
• I believe that the term should be eliminated from our
lexicon and replaced with a common practice. At some
institutions, the term is used to mean a practice currently
used by an aspirant institution. In reality, I contend there
really is no best practice for all institutions.
When supervisor or colleague uses the term best
practice it indicates:
A)He just returned froma national conference
B)She read an interesting article in a professional
journal
C)He wants your institution to look more like an
aspirant institutions
D)She wants your institution to look more like her
previous institution
E)All of the above
F)Any combination of the above
• The Retention Myth