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LEsson 3 Coping Up With Stress 0
LEsson 3 Coping Up With Stress 0
TRIGGERS WORKSHEET
1- Does not bother me at all
2 – Makes me feel a little
uncomfortable
3 – Makes me feel stressed
4 – This upsets me
5 – I’m going to explode!
1. A teacher gives me feedback/constructive criticism
2. Someone or something interrupts me while I am working
3. A teacher tells me to correct a mistake
4. When I disagree with my classmate
5. When a classmate asks for help
6. Homeworks
7. When a teacher tells me to do something
8. Group work with peers/classmates
9. When others make suggestions on how I will do something
10. When on of m ideas is not included in a project/activity
11. When someone starts ‘small talks’ with me
12. Reporting in front of the class
13. Meeting new people
Defining Stress
When there are real or imagined
disruptions in our lives, may it be a
demand or a stimulation in our life,
stress occurs.
Stress is defined as a reaction of the
mind and body to a stimulus that
disturbs the well-being, state of calm,
or equilibrium of a person.
Stress as Stimulus,
Response, and Relational
(Feist & Rosenberg, 2012)
STRESS IS A STIMULUS.
Stressed is caused by
situations that may be life
threatening or life
changing.
STRESS AS A RESPONSE.
Fast heartbeat
sweating
feeling sick
shaking
feeling hot
Stressors
These are the factors
that causes us stress.
School and Interpersonal Stress
Test Anxiety – causes distress
during exam
Speech Anxiety
Math Anxiety
Environmental Stressors
Environmental stressors such as light,
noise, smells, pollution of all sorts, and
temperature can add misery to an already
difficult situation (Gregson, 2000).
Internal Stressors
Procrastination – the tendency to put things off
until a later time increases stress.
Perfectionism – the desire to perform or
complete things with no room for mistakes
Self-criticism
Expecting too much from ourselves in a short
space of time
Impact of Stress
Physical. You may experience physical issues
with your body such as headaches, muscle
tension, fatigue, change in eating habits, and
even loss of sleep.
Mood. You may start having moods that are
driven by anxiety.
Behavior. You might start to not eat as much,
yell or become irritated with individuals more
quickly.
HOW TO REDUCE,
PREVENT, AND COPE
WITH STRESS
Stress Management
Stress management is all about taking
charge of your lifestyle, thoughts,
emotions, and the way you deal with
problems.
In dealing with stress, keep in mind that
there is no “one size fits all”
Stress management allows a
person to:
Change the stressful situation when
he/she can;
Reverse one’s reactions when he/she
cannot;
Take care of herself/himself;
Make time for rest and relaxation.
COPING WITH
STRESS: The Unhealthy
Way
Smoking and drinking
Using drugs to relax
Splurging on junk or comfort food
Sleeping too much
Spending too much time in front of TV or
computer
Withdrawing from friends, family, and other
activities
Procrastinating
Pretending to be busy to avoid facing problems
Lashing out stress on others
COPING WITH
STRESS: The Healthy
Way
1. Get in motion. When you exercise,
endorphins are released which boost
mood and make you feel good.
2. Engage socially. Social engagement is
the quickest, most efficient way to
overcome stress.
3. Avoid Unnecessary Stressors. Learn to
say no. Avoid people who stress you out.
Take control of your environment.
4. Alter the situation. Express your
feelings. Learn to compromise.
Embrace time management.
5. Adapt to the Stressor. Look at
things from a positive point of view.
Look at the bigger picture. Adjust your
standards.
7. Accept the things you cannot change.
Express your feelings. Consider the plus side.
Learn to forgive.
8. Have fun and relax.
9. Adopt a healthy lifestyle. Eat a healthy
diet. Stay away from caffeine and sugar. Avoid
alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs. Get enough
sleep.
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