CALMING DOWN and managing one’s emotions and thoughts 2 Objectives: By the end of the session, you should be able to:
➜ Identify positive ways to manage one’s emotions
➜ Practice calming down using relaxation exercises ➜ Be able to practice reframing one’s thoughts 1. Identify positive ways to manage one’s emotions 2. Practice calming down using relaxation exercises 5 SUGGESTION # 1 If you feel that you are getting more upset or stressed or anxious or nervous. You can ask to be excused or you can just close your eyes, or turn around Count and just silently, count backwards from 10 until 1. Backwards While doing so, focus on your breathing and tell yourself to calm down. 6 SUGGESTION # 2
In this method, I want
you to quietly name 3 things you can see 3-2-1 Senses around you, 2 things
Check you can feel and 1 thing
that you can hear. 3. Be able to practice reframing one’s thoughts 8 SUGGESTION # 3
This means that a
feeling usually comes from a thought and when we can change Reframe or reframe a thought, then we can change how we feel. 9 3 C’s Catching your Check your Change that feeling feelings feelings Some feelings are It is always good to Were those feelings productive and catch what you are helpful to me? You useful while some feeling. It is a will probably may be normal and valid answer with both a unproductive and feeling. It’s okay to yes and a no. That useless. It is because not feel okay. But means that some of they are no longer they are real and your feelings were appropriate to the true only as the not- helpful but others situation.. so-normal situation were not. that triggers it. ANALYSIS ABSTRACTION APPLICATION never in the history of calming down has anyone calmed down by being told to calm down.