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to understand; we listen to reply
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We have two ears and one
mouth so that we may hear
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more and speak less
Hearing vs. Listening
Hearing vs. Listening
L Look interested
I Involve yourself by responding
S Stay on target
T Test your understanding
E Evaluate the message
N Neutralize your feelings
Basic Types of Listening
1. Active Listening
2. Selective Listening
3. Emphatic Listening
4. Ignoring Listening
Active Listening
Understanding everything
Proper interaction
Proper feedback
Selective Listening
We remember only
Selective portion
1. Hear
2. Clarify
3. Interpret
4. Respond
Non-helpful Responses
“You shouldn’t have . . .”
“You’re wrong.”
“What were you thinking?”
“Well, I would have said / done . . .”
“If you don’t . . .”
“Did you try to stop it?”
“The best thing to do is . . .”
“Let’s talk about something else.”
Listening Blocks
Jumping to conclusions
Infatuation with own words: Too eager to talk,
or solve the problem
Judging: Formulating responses while the
person is talking
Short attention span
Semantics: Don’t assume that words, phrases &
terms mean the same to everyone – it varies by
education, profession & socio-economic class
Listening Blocks . . . 2
Enhances productivity
Improves relations
Avoids conflict
Improves understanding
Improves negotiation skills
Helps you stand out
People will appreciate it
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