Professional Documents
Culture Documents
1.Have identity.
- Know who they are, what they are capable of becoming, what they
want in life and what is essential in their lives.
- They are aware of early decisions they make about self, others and
the world.
- They are not victims of these early decisions for they are willing to
revise them if necessary.
- They are aware of ways which their own culture affects them.
- They respect the diversity of values exhibited by other cultures.
- They are sensitive to unique differences which arise out of social
class, gender, age and race.
13. They become deeply involved in their work and derive meaning
from it.
- They can accept the rewards flowing from their work, yet not become
slaves to work
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14. They are able to maintain healthy boundaries
- Although they strive to be fully present for their clients, they do not
carry the problems of their clients around with them during leisure
hours.
- They know how to say “no”, which allows them to keep a balance in
their life.
NB; No one can have all of them but must have a continuum
The counselor’s /Therapist’s values in therapeutic proces s
This includes;
-Married woman with 3 kids who has issues with husband in that
husband.
-She claims the husband is not financially supportive and he is boring
and she is currently having a sexual affair.
- He has refused to seek therapy and insists he is ok but she not ok.
- The woman tell you that she is in the marriage for her kids else he
wound divorce him and is contemplating divorce.
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Issues
1.Your personal view on “ for the sake of the kids”
2.‘’ ‘’ ‘’ ‘’ Divorce
3.“ “ “ “ Sexual affair
- Get the client’s expectations from the therapy and since at times they
may not know, explore them during intake.
6. Avoid perfectionism
- May mean self reflection, evaluating what they have said pondering
on a question you have asked, or could be moments of waiting etc.
12. Avoid losing yourself in your client by; -worrying too much about
them, sympathizing- be aware of counterference, it blurres therapist’
objectivity.
- Look within self and what choices you are making to keep alive.