Alabel National High School

True Love Waits

Early Pregnancy Prevention
Workshop Seminar
February 13-14, 2020
Alabel National High School, Alabel
Sarangani Province
Situationer
2013
*AGE
BRACKET ALABEL GLAN KIAMBA MAASIM MAITUM MALAPATAN MALUNGON TOTAL

10 – 14 y/o 9 23 9 4 3 5 11 64
15 – 19 y/o 461 520 337 288 340 412 383 2741
Teenage
Pregnancy 470 543 346 292 343 417 394 2805
2014
*AGE
BRACKET ALABEL GLAN KIAMBA MAASIM MAITUM MALAPATAN MALUNGON TOTAL

10 – 14 y/o 11 62 29 16 2 6 16 142
15 – 19 y/o 432 561 367 356 220 516 691 3143
Teenage
Pregnancy 443 623 396 372 222 522 707 3285
2015
*AGE
BRACKET ALABEL GLAN KIAMBA MAASIM MAITUM MALAPATAN MALUNGON TOTAL

10 – 14 y/o 9 18 20 12 9 24 30 122
15 – 19 y/o 422 602 373 368 221 467 649 3102
Teenage
Pregnancy 431 620 393 380 230 491 679 3224
Source: *AGE DURING PREGNANCY (in years) – 2013 -2015
Situationer
2016
*AGE
BRACKET ALABEL GLAN KIAMBA MAASIM MAITUM MALAPATAN MALUNGON TOTAL

10 – 14 y/o 8 15 6 8 12 1 14 64
15 – 19 y/o 424 613 366 386 203 402 649 3043
Teenage
Pregnancy 432 628 372 394 215 403 663 3107

2017
*AGE
BRACKET ALABEL GLAN KIAMBA MAASIM MAITUM MALAPATAN MALUNGON TOTAL

10 – 14 y/o 9 14 10 10 9 20 29 101
15 – 19 y/o 435 519 382 349 215 467 605 2972
Teenage
Pregnancy 444 533 392 359 224 487 634 3073

Source: *AGE DURING PREGNANCY (in years) – 2013 -2016

Provincial Health Office – Sarangani Province
Situationer
*HIV/AIDS cases by municipality (n=30) *HIV/AIDS cases by age group (n=30)
1984 - Present
Municipality Age
AIDS Asymptomatic Group 1984 - Present
Alabel 0 11 <15 0
Glan 0 7
15-24 18
Kiamba 0 12
Maitum 0 4 25-34 24
Malapatan 1 4 35-49 11
Malungon 1 10 50 &
Maasim 1 1 older 0
Unknown 0 1 TOTAL 53
TOTAL 3 50
*HIV/AIDS cases by mode of transmission (n=30)
Mode of
Transmission 1984 – Present
*HIV/AIDS cases by sex (n=30)
Sex with males and
Sex 1984 - Present females 16
Female 7 Heterosexual 11
Male 46 Male to male sex 26
TOTAL 53 TOTAL 53
*Source: Philippine HIV and HIV Registry, EPIDEMIOLOGY BUREAU, DOH
LESSON 1
TO KEEP AND TO REGAIN

VIRGINITY
A quality or state of being
chaste
Pure Fresh
new Untouched
“a person is a virgin when he is or she has never had sexual intercourse”
 Matthew 5:28

But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath
committed adultery with her already in his heart
MISUSES OF SEX

1. FORNICATION
Sexual intercourse with someone to whom you
are not married

“Pre-marital Sex”
If you are having sex and you’re not
married it’s not called dating it’s
called FORNICATION
ACTIVITY

RATED SPG
COMMERCIAL!
BREAK UP
REALITY CHECK!
The 2013 Young Adult Fertility and Sexuality Study
(YAFS 4) of University of Philippines Population
Institute (UPPI) and the Demographic Research and
Development Foundation, Inc. (DRDF) shows that 1
in every 3 youth aged 15 to 24 years old has
engaged in premarital sex, the number increasing
by more than 14 percent from almost 20 years ago,
when the second YAFS was conducted.

This translates to about 6.2 million youth who have

engaged in sexual intercourse before marriage.
MISUSES OF SEX

2. ADULTERY
Sexual intercourse between a married person
and someone to whom that person is not
married
 Hebrews 13:4

Marriage is honourable in all and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will
judge.
MISUSES OF SEX

3. HOMOSEXUALITY
Sex with a person with of the same sex
 Romans 1:26 – 27
For this cause God gave them up unto
vile affections: for even their women did
change the natural use into that which is
against nature;

And likewise also the men, leaving the

natural use of the woman, burned in their
lust one toward another; men with men
working that which is unseemly, and
receiving in themselves that recompence
of their error which was meet.
 I Corinthians 6: 9 – 10

Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not

inherit the kingdom of God? Be not
deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters,
nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers
of themselves with mankind

Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards,

nor revilers, nor extorioners, shall inherit the
kingdom of God.
ACTIVITY

SENSUAL
POP
SONGS
 CAUSES OF PRE-MARITAL SEX
PRESSURE
CURIOSITY
ELECTRONIC MEDIA
BOOKS AND MAGAZINES
ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCE
COVETOUSNESS
INDISCIPLINE
WRONG ASSOCIATION
IGNORANCE
WRONG INFORMATION
BAD PARENTING
IDLENESS
LONELINESS
BROKEN HOMES
ACTIVITY

TORN
APART
CONSEQUENCES OF PREMARITAL SEX

When you give in, you

give away a priceless
gift to a person you
may never marry or to a
person who does not
truly love you.

• LOSS OF WHOLENESS AS A PERSON

• TENDENCY TO REPEAT

• INCREASED TOLERANCE TO SIN

GOD’S PLAN FOR MARRIAGE

“One Man for One Woman for life”

 Man and Woman
Relationship
 Primary Relationship
 Permanent Relationship
 Exclusive Relationship
Genesis 2:24 (KJV)
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and
shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
LESSON 2

GIVE ME FIVE
 ACTIVITY

WHAT IS
LOVE?
 God defines Love in
1 CORINTHIANS 13
LOVE IS
GENEROUS NOT SIN LOVING
ABLE TO SUFFER TRUTHFUL
NOT ENVIOUS SUSTAINING
NOT BOASTFUL TRUSTING
NOT CONCEITED HOPEFUL
NOT RUDE (offensive) ENDURING
NOT SELFISH SUCCESSFUL
NOT IRRITABLE ETERNAL
NOT CENSORIOUS GREATER THAN FAITH
(critical) GREATER THAN HOPE
 LOVE
IS A
COMMITMENT
WHO SHOULD YOU LOVE?

GIVE ME FIVE!
 WHO SHOULD YOU LOVE?
1. GOD
2. YOU
3. FAMILY AND FRIENDS
4. FUTURE MATE
5. FUTURE KIDS
We express our love for God
by offering our bodies to
him, and our being
committed to live by His
standards of sexual purity.
John 14:15 (KJV)
“If ye love me, keep my commandments”
 ACTIVITY

D E A R L O V E
 ACTIVITY

G M OM A N D D A D
FE E L I N
LESSON 3
THE WAIT LIST
FACT # 1:
AIDS AND OTHER STDs

In the acronym AIDS,

“A” means Acquired.

It is a disease you
have to ACQUIRE.
AIDS can be
transmitted through a
single sexual contact
with an infected
person.
SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED
DISEASES
There are more than 26 known STDs today

• CHLAMYDIA
• GONORRHEA
• TRICHOMONIASIS
• SYPHYLIS
• HERPES
• HUMAN PAPILLOMA VIRUS (HPV)
• ACQUIRED IMMUNE DEFICIENCY
SYNDROME (AIDS)
Is using CONDOM really safe?
• According to studies, CONDOMS has a 10 -
15% Failure Rate, even if it is used correctly.
• Manufacturing defects (HOLES)
• Can break if it is old, or if it has been stored
where it is too hot or too cold.
THE CONDOM IS NOT
ACTUALLY RISK-FREE.
IT JUST REDUCES THE
CHANCES
FACT # 2:
UNWANTED PREGNANCY
About 16 million aged 15-19 give
birth each year. (UNFPA global
statistics)

According to National Youth

Commission; In the ASEAN
region, the Philippines has the
third highest teen pregnancy
rate and is the only country in
the region where the rate is
increasing.

Almost 10 percent of all Filipino

women aged 15-19 have already
given birth.
REALITY CHECK!
About 16 million aged 15-19 give birth each
year. (UNFPA global statistics)

According to National Youth Commission; In the

ASEAN region, the Philippines has the third
highest teen pregnancy rate and is the only
country in the region where the rate is increasing.

Almost 10 percent of all Filipino women aged 15-

19 have already given birth.
REALITY CHECK!
INCREASING TREND OF MATERNAL DEATHS
AMONG TEENAGERS!

The proportion of maternal deaths was doubled from 5

percent to 10 percent between 2000 and 2010. In 2010,
168 Filipina mothers under the age of 20 died giving
birth, four of them under the age of 15. (NSO data)

The Commission on Population also noted that 8.3

percent of the total number of infant deaths were borne
to mothers aged below 20 years old.
FACT # 3:
EMOTIONAL TOLL

FRUSTRATION GUILT
ANGER
BITTERNESS SUICIDE REGRETS

MISTRUST
DAMAGED SELF-IMAGE
ALCOHOL & DRUGS
 WHAT TO DO WHILE WAITING?
1) SEEK GOD’s GUIDANCE
2) GUARD YOUR HEART AND THOUGHT
3) LOOK AT OTHERS IN A DIFFERENT LIGHT
4) STRIVE FOR PURITY IN ALL YOU DO
5) ASSOCIATE WITH GODLY FRIENDS
6) PREPARE YOUR ANSWER
7) GET INVOLVED IN SOMETHING BIGGER THAN YOURSELF
8) THINK OF YOUR SINGLENESS AS A BLESSING

Matthew 6:33 (KJV)

But seek ye first the kingdom of God,
and his righteousness; and all these
things shall be added unto you.
 • Proverbs 13:20 (KJV)
• He that walketh with wise men shall be
wise: but a companion of fools shall be
destroyed.
 • Philippians 4:8 (KJV)
• Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are
true, whatsoever things are honest,
whatsoever things are just, whatsoever
things are pure, whatsoever things are
lovely, whatsoever things are of good
report; if there be any virtue, and if
there be any praise, think on these
things.
 • 1 Corinthians 7:1 (KJV)
• Now concerning the things whereof
ye wrote unto me: It is good for a
man not to touch a woman.
 • Proverbs 4:23 (KJV)
• Keep thy heart with all diligence; for
out of it are the issues of life.
WHO TO WAIT?
•A PERSON WHO LOVES THE LORD
•WITH GODLY CHARACTER
•FAMILY ORIENTED
•FINANCIALLY STABLE
•EMOTIONALLY STABLE
•PHYSICALLY FIRM
•MENTALLY PROACTIVE
SUGGESTED DATING GUIDELINES

•DATE IN GROUPS
•CHOOSE DATES WHO SHARE YOUR
CONVICTIONS .
•AVOID DARK AND SECLUDED PLACES.
•ASK PERMISSION FROM THE GIRL’S
PARENTS.
•START AND END THE DATE IN PRAYER.
•DO NOT DROP ROMANTIC HINTS IF YOU
ARE NOT SURE.
 HOW DO I KNOW I’M ALREADY PREPARED
TO ENTER INTO LOVE-LIFE RELATIONSHIP?
1. How’s my relationship with God?
2. How faithful I am with my responsibility at
home?
3. How stable I am emotionally?
4. Boys, can you provide the needs of your
own family without depending from your
parents?
5. Girls, are you willing now to submit and
follow your mate?
6. What motivates you into this relationship?
7. Is it the RIGHT TIME, RIGHT AGE, and under
the approval of authorities? GOD, Parents,
Godly counsels
 PRINCIPLES TO HELP FINDING THE RIGHT
PERSON FOR YOU
1. Be the RIGHT kind of person God wants you to
be.
2. Consider the RIGHT TIME under the approval
of authorities.
3. Open your heart for someone. Don’t be too
choosy.
4. Always starts with FRIENDSHIP and getting to
KNOW each other.
5. Observe how faithful the person is in the
things of God.
6. Am I willing to spend my life with this person
throughout the years?
7. Can I visualize a strong family with this
person?
AFTER I HAVE LOST MY VIRGINITY, CAN I
EXPERIENCE WHOLENESS AGAIN?
STARTING OVER
YOU CAN’T REGAIN PHYSICAL
VIRGINITY, BUT YOU CAN REGAIN
PURITY IN YOUR HEART.

• Secondary Virginity
• Second Chance
• A New Beginning

GOD CAN MAKE YOU PURE IN HIS

EYES, FORGIVING AND CLEANSING
YOU BY THE BLOOD OF THE LORD
JESUS CHRIST
STARTING OVER
POWER TO DO RIGHT
Once you receive Jesus as your Saviour, you are totally
forgiven! There’s no more record of your sins. You are
accepted as part of God’s family…
you are no longer the same, and He will always be
there to help you live a NEW LIFE.

2 Corinthians 5:17 (KJV)

Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is

a new creature: old things are passed
away; behold, all things are become
new.
 THREE LETTER WORDS!
Romans 6:23
GOD FOR WAGES OF SIN IS
JESUS CHRIST, THE
DEATH!
SEX NOT SECOND SON OF GOD, DIED
(SPIRITUAL)
John 3:16
FOR OUR SINS
SIN DEATH
For God so loved the world, that he gave IN HELL
his only begotten Son, that whosoever
believeth in him should not perish, but
have everlasting life. MAN
ALL
YOU SON YES
DIE
A CHALLENGE TO
COMMITMENT
 PLEDGE CARD

Believing that true love waits, and

trusting God’s plan for my life, I make
a commitment to God, to myself, to
my family, to my friends, to my future
mate, and to my future children to be
sexually pure from this day until the
day I enter a biblical marriage
relationship.

Signed: __________________

Date: October 15, 2018

 COVENANT CARD

James 5:16
“Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another,
that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a
righteous man
availeth much.”

Believing that God desires

sexual purity, and that God desires for me are best,
I covenant to pray for
_________________________

And to hold him/her

accountable for remaining
sexually pure.
_________________________
Accountability Partners
RING CEREMONY
Because I love you and
believe in the work GOD
is doing in your life…I
give you this ring as a
symbolic commitment of
God’s standard of
purity…May it be a
constant reminder of
your pledge of purity…
before God…and if God
wills…before your future
marriage partner.
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