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Jose Garcia Villa
• José Garcia Villa was born in Manila in 1908. He attended the
University of the Philippines, In 1929 he won a short story contest
through the Philippines Free Press and used the prize money to travel
to the United States, where he studied at the University of New
Mexico. José had a secret name when he wrote: “Doveglion.” It’s a
mix of three animals: a dove, an eagle, and a lion. Each animal
symbolized different parts of his creative spirit.
• Read them carefully and find out the problems encountered by the characters of the story
• Excerpt A 1 wil marry Teang," Dodong repeated. "I will marry Teang." His father kept gazing
at him in inflexible silence and Dodong fidgeted on his seat. "I asked her last night to marry
me and she said...yes. I want your permission. I... want... it...." There was impatient clamor in
his voice, an exacting protest at this coldness, this indifference. Dodong looked at his father
sourly. He cracked his knuckles one by one. and the little sounds it made broke dully the night
stillness. "Must you marry, Dodong?" Dodong resented his father's questions; his father
himself had married. Dodong made a quick impassioned easy in his mind about selfishness,
but later he got confused. "You are very young, Dodong." seventeen." "That's very young to
get married at." 1... I want to marry...Teang's good girl." "Tell your mother," his father said.
"You tell her, tatay." "Dodong, you tell your inay." "You tell her." "All right, Dodong." "You
will let me marry Teang?" "Son, if that is your wish... of course...„ There was a strange
helpless light in his father's eyes Dodong did not read it, too absorbed was he in himself.
Dodong was immensely glad he had asserted himself. He lost his resentment for his father.
For a while he even felt sorry for him
Excerpt B
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Problem Result
Solution
What are the types of conflict?
Internal conflict, called man vs. self, occurs when a character
experiences opposing emotions or desires simultaneously—good and
evil or vice and virtue, for instance. These conflicting desires force
the character to battle their own mind. Internal conflict frequently
occurs when a character struggles with mental illness or regrets
actions they committed in the past.
1. Getting Angry at Conflicts (Lose-Lose): This strategy involves reacting emotionally to conflicts
by becoming angry, frustrated, or hostile. It often leads to a lose-lose outcome because it escalates
the conflict, damages relationships, and rarely results in a satisfactory resolution for either party
involved. People who choose this approach may struggle to control their emotions and may resort
to aggression or passive-aggressive behavior, which can further exacerbate the situation.
1. Getting Angry at Conflicts (Lose-Lose): This strategy involves reacting emotionally to conflicts
by becoming angry, frustrated, or hostile. It often leads to a lose-lose outcome because it escalates
the conflict, damages relationships, and rarely results in a satisfactory resolution for either party
involved. People who choose this approach may struggle to control their emotions and may resort
to aggression or passive-aggressive behavior, which can further exacerbate the situation.
1. Getting Angry at Conflicts (Lose-Lose): This strategy involves reacting emotionally to conflicts
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