Celebrate!

Add a dash of sparkle to your holidays.

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December 2012

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AREA EVENTS
Cooking & Baking CLASSES
The Cookie Exchange: Saturdays & Sunday, December 8 & 9, 2:004:00pm. Holiday cookies are a special part of the season and its fun to try new recipes that become a favorite. If youre tired of trying to make cookies alone at home or are bored with the same recipes, come and make them with friends in our kitchen. You may be familiar with some of the recipes, and others may be new. Groups of two will make a different cookie to share, and what we dont eat during class, you can take home and enjoy with family and friends. Lets get into the holiday spirit baking together. $45. New York Wine & Culinary Center, 800 South Main Street in Canandaigua, (585) 394-7070 Holiday Hors dOeuvres: December 14, 2:00-4:00pm and December 6:008:00pm. This class will demonstrate the way to use fundamental cooking methods to prepare hors doeuvres ahead and finish them as the guests are arriving. Try canapes from chicken, fish and vegetables and filled pastries served hot with sauces so simple anyone can make them. Make your holiday entertaining easier and learn some great ideas and techniques. The group will make a variety of hot and cold hors doeuvres and at the end of class well set a buffet for everyone to enjoy. The presentation is just as important as flavor and well concentrate on unique and simple presentations that will wow your guests. $50. New York Wine & Culinary Center, 800 South Main Street in Canandaigua, (585) 394-7070

November 30-December 16: Fridays 5-8:30 pm, Saturdays 1:30-7:45 pm, Sundays 1:30-7:30 pm, Buffet each day 4-8:30 pm
The historic village will be all aglow with festively decorated homesenjoy reenactments of Yuletides past, sing along to joyful holiday songs, delight in merry music, catch the lingering aroma of wood smoke in the crisp, sparkling air, savor a refreshing drink and step to a lively tunewhile enjoying favorite Christmas customs. Delight in a buffet supper featuring festive dishes, soup, salad, plus a sumptuous spread of mouthwatering desserts. Buffet is open from 4:00 to 8:00 pm. Reservations required. Call (585) 538-6822. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Road, in Mumford.

Yuletide in the Country

Flower City Ballet Presents Tchaikovskys

7TH ANNUAL

Nutcracker

Friday, December 14 Saturday, December 15 Sunday, December 16 3:00 pm each day Children $10 Seniors $16 Adults $18 School of the Arts 45 Prince Street, Rochester [flowercityballet.com]

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A traditional holiday FAMILY AFFAIR

BY DEBOrAh BLACKWELL | MESSEnGEr POST MEDIA

Weve done five Geva shows, four have been Christmas shows, and this is our third Christmas Carol, says Debbie Mueller, the childrens mother. There are so many things we enjoy. The whole experience of doing a holiday production is wonderful. Mueller and her husband Jeff, have seven children ages 15 months to 14 years. This year daughter Erin, 6, plays Tiny Tim, daughter Megan 10, and son Kyle 11, also have roles in the show. Daughter Lauren, 13, is assistant to the director. Geva has been producing A Christmas Carol since 1986, and this is the third year of the adaptation by Mark Cuddy, with a specially composed music score by Gregg Coffin. The Christmas classic produced at Geva has all of the essential elements including Scrooge being visited by spirits who help him understand the true meaning of Christmas. Complete with the Fezziwigs, the Cratchits, and more, this magical production incorporates some of the newest stage technology along with a special group of actors who warm the audiences hearts. A majority of the cast have been involved with it since the premiere in 2010, so for them, it is very much like a homecoming and spending the holidays with family, says Dawn Kellogg, Communications Manager, Geva Theatre Center. And we have over a dozen children, all local kids in this show.

The story of A Christmas Carol, a traditional holiday favorite for centuries, is for one Webster family also a call to the theatre. The stage at the Geva Theatre Center is part of the Mueller familys annual holiday festivities because the children are frequently part of Gevas annual production of the holiday classic A Christmas Carol.

from costume to costume. In this show there are no breaks. It is constant motion for them, Mueller says. But its also constant motion for the parents in a different way. Kellogg says the commitment parents make is huge for a production like this. She says it is amazing to watch parents bring their children to and from rehearsals, ensure they are there for the shows, help chaperone, and make such a tremendous effort, especially around the holidays. Its a lifestyle almost. We are in Geva-mode and when we are in that there really is nothing else. Its every day, says Mueller. People know and understand that our lives revolve around it for two months solid. And even though there is no free time, they love it. Mueller works hard with the schools to help children catch up and make up missed work. Sometimes it is challenging as there are other responsibilities and what she calls Christmas conflict. Other activities may overlap, like holiday concerts and family gatherings and events throughout the holiday season. The whole thing is amazing to me, Mueller says. We do about 21 shows and the first time I was shocked and weepy when it was over. It takes a few weeks to get out of Geva-mode.

According to Mueller, her children love connecting with other actors and being in the Geva environment every day. She says they become very close, very quickly, and become their own little family. The kids look forward to auditioning and every year hope they get a part and then they make very good friends who they keep for many years, she says. But Mueller also believes it is a great educational opportunity for her children. It isnt just a social opportunity, but a learning experience that pushes them to know what it means to take responsibility, learn about commitment, to remember lines and songs, being on time and in the right place at the right time. They do miss school, there are actually eight or nine days of all-day rehearsals, says Mueller. The shows run late in the evenings so they are often late to school the next day. Sometimes we arent home until 11pm and by the time they wind down its after midnight. But she says the children do not seem to be phased by it, and welcome the opportunity to be part of the production. They each play several different roles in the show and switch costumes frequently. They love the costume changes. They have very elaborate costumes, and are constantly switching

Geva Theatre Center is Rochesters leading professional theatre, renowned nationwide for its outstanding live productions including classics, musicals, comedies and dramas. It attracts more than 180,000 patrons annually. A Christmas Carol is the only production Geva brings back each year, and according to Kellogg, the house is usually full for each show. The community loves the tradition, says Kellogg. As I talk to people around the community, many tell me how they bring their family every holiday season making it part of their annual celebrations. Kellogg says what makes A Christmas Carol such a great story is the combination of dark and scary moments and funny, lively ones. She says there is so much to see, there are so many special effects, and so many how did they do that? moments. Mueller agrees. But for her, how did they do that? means something different. You may feel like being chosen for a Geva show and then making the family commitment is not attainable, but thats just not true. It is attainable, says Mueller. Geva looks at more than talent. They look at prepared, well-behaved kids and parents who can take on the responsibility, and the commitment, and who just want to have a lot of fun. These are the holiday memories we will have forever.

Geva presents A Christmas Carol November 23 through December 23

Box Office 585-232-GEVA www.gevatheatre.org 75 Woodbury Blvd., rochester

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The Ellwanger Estate: HiSToRy and TRAdiTioN to BEHoLd

BY DEBOrAh BLACKWELL | MESSEnGEr POST MEDIA

The Ellwanger Estate is known for its lush gardens, elaborate setting, and its historic legacy to Rochester. Both inside and outside this stately homenow a private bed and breakfasttradition is celebrated from deep roots, with a valuable story that lives on in the community to which it belongs. The Ellwanger Garden on the estate, open seasonally to the public, is a living museum and testament to a man and a family who, according to the Landmark Society of Western New York, changed the face of Rochester.
George Ellwanger, born in Germany, came to rochester in 1835, seasoned in horticulture at the young age of 19. In 1840 he began a partnership with Irish immigrant Patrick Barry, forming the Mt. hope Botanical and Pomological Gardens (Mt. Hope Nursery.) According to the Landmark Society, it quickly grew from eight acres to over 650 acres, and by the 1870s it was the largest and most respected horticultural firm in the country. Ellwanger and Barry were instrumental in creating the citys landscape according to the Landmark Society, through the mens donation of 20 acres to the city, the rochester Parks Department was formed in 1888. Those 20 acres created what is known as highland Park, where the Lilac Festival is held annually. The altruism of the duo, and the success of their nursery trade earned rochester the title, The Flower City, and that heritage lives on today. But that is not the only historical mark Ellwanger left on rochester. The German immigrant, along with a few fellow members of Zion Lutheran Church at Grove and Stillson streets, erected a 12-foot-high spruce, in honor of their old-world tradition: the Christmas tree. It was rochesters first Christmas tree, says rosemary Janofsky, owner, The Ellwanger Estate. According to Janofsky, between 18,000 and 20,000 community members were invited to the church to see the tree on Dec. 25, 1840. Ellwanger gave a speech about Christmas celebrations in the old country and explained the symbolism of the tree. The The Ellwanger Estate 625 Mount hope Avenue rochester 585-546-51`03 www.ellwangerestate.coom Christmas tree was, brilliantly illuminated and adorned with a great variety of toys and sweetmeats, as published in the Rochester Union Advertiser, Dec. 29, 1840. Janofsky is proud of the history she preserves at The Ellwanger Estate Bed and Breakfast, which she operates year-round. She serves approximately 200 guests annually, primarily form the East coast, Canada and Europe. She says the estate is serene and pastoral, and is much like looking through a kaleidoscope at the 19th and 20th centuries. There are five fireplaces exemplifying the grandness of the estate, walls are adorned in rich oak paneling, there are carved pillars in the great room and grand hall, and a glass-enclosed conservatory. The views from the windows frame the picturesque landscape including heirloom pear trees, boxwood-edged paths, flowering ancient roses, and perennials in season. The home is beyond a historical site, its a living legacy, says Janofsky. Continued on next page...

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Continued from previous page... historically, the preservation efforts have been exacting, thanks to many very skilled craftsmen. Every dollar made at the B&B goes directly into preservation. The home also maintains its status as a 2008 rochester Philharmonic Orchestra (rPO) Showhouse. Each guest room has its own distinct style, as created by the rPO Showhouse designers. Mixtures of new and antique furniture, wall art and murals, and special window treatments grace the elegant rooms. According to Janofsky, the home has been considered special from its earliest days, stately in appearance and style. With patience and perseverance I have been able to sustain my vision for the Ellwanger Estate, says Janofsky. And the holidays are particularly nice. We start decorating at the end of October, so its enjoyable for two months, and Dec. 25th is my birthday. The holidays are celebrated with ornamental tradition including a real, 14-foot Christmas tree set up at the foot of the stairwell expanding to the second floor landing. And of course there are plenty of holiday lights, stockings and candles. The large fireplace mantel in the great room is festively decorated, becoming a holiday focal point. The palladium window of the carriage house is adorned with a large wreath, which Janofsky says is a welcoming way to greet her guests.

But her most treasured holiday item? The 150-year-old majestic blue spruce tree outside, which according to Janofsky is the first to be planted in rochester by the Ellwangers. The tree is significant to the home, like the Ellwanger Garden, which has been maintained to the original design through the Landmark Societys staff and volunteers. now over 150 years old, Janofsky says the Ellwanger Garden is the oldest perennial garden in the United States, and is spectacular throughout the four seasons. The space is sleeping during the winter months, but what I like about the garden in the winter is that you really can admire its structure, says Cindy Boyer, director of Public Programs, The Landmark Society of Western new York. With the leaves gone and the perennial beds tidied for the cold-weather months, you can clearly see the form of the garden, with the intersecting paths dividing the garden into four main quadrants. The boxwoods, the shape of the branches of the old pears, and the hemlocks are the stars at that time of year. Although not open to visitors in the winter, guests at the bed and breakfast can see the paths lined with boxwoods, which Boyer says is one of the nice remaining touches of green in the garden during the holiday season. There is much to attract the Ellwanger guest, says Janofsky. The Ellwanger Estate is truly a celebration in all seasons. Landmark Society of Western new York 133 South Fitzhugh Street rochester 585-546-7029 www.landmarksociety.org

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TRU hOLIDAY GLAM

While the holidays are filled with tradition, they are also a good time to reinvent our style and find exciting ways to go beyond our everyday look.
BY DEBOrAh BLACKWELL | MESSEnGEr POST MEDIA

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Tis the season to dress up, to celebrate bold colors, deck out in sparkling accessories, and embrace special occasions. Whether we get into the spirit by changing our hair style, getting a makeover, or simply digging into our closet for old items to use differently, we can move through the holiday season seamlessly with the right mix of holiday glamour know-how. The holidays give us the perfect excuse to step out of our usual fashion routines. Bold eye colors, bright nail and lip shines that sparkle, exciting new hair colors and stylesall add that touch of glam to the holidays, says Julie Judge, owner, tr salon. Judge knows glamour. nestled between quaint shops and ambrosial dining overlooking the Erie Canal in scenic Pittsford Village, tr salon, recently named among the top 200 fastest growing salons in the country by Salon Today magazine, offers exceptional services for spalike indulgenceperfect for the holidays. There will always be holiday events, super dressy or less formal, and people want to look good for their work colleagues, families and friends, says Judge. Its an incredibly busy time for us, and we see it every year like clockwork. Our guests want their hair to look perfect and they really care about their manicures. At tr, the use of special products, including cut and color collections, is seasonal. This winter colors include what Judge calls, neo-Goth, but not traditional Gothic using mostly black. She says the colors in this Goth-line are vibrant and rich, with strong eye makeup and more severe hair styles. The makeup is gorgeous. Its about beautiful red

lips, and really rich and deep eyes, says Judge. There are lines in the cuts and lines in the way the hair is sectioned for color. Its like Gothic architecture. Its really fun to use this style to get more glamorous for the holidays. Judge and her skilled staff say there are simple ways to make the basics of hair, makeup and clothes, new and interesting. By adding accessories like a scarf and high heels to a pair of jeans and a blouse, that will create glamour. Eyes can be more vibrant and intense with certain shadows and liners. Trying different makeup colors with extra sparkle is another easy way to add glamour. To make a classic look, more special, is with lipstick, says Judge. You can use two different colors to create depth and contour then highlight them with lip glazes to make them a little shimmery. Everybody can do their lips, you dont have to be an expert. Little things can make a big difference. Judge suggests having a consultation with a makeup artist before the holidays to pick and choose what colors you like, and to learn how to add dimension to your makeup. She says hair stylists can also show you how to do things yourself, teach you tricks to add volume to your hair, and suggest ways to dress yourself up to feel more glamorous. During the holidays, we have more requests for the shellac manicure, which lasts for two full weeks, says Kristine Consler, esthetician and makeup artist, tr salon. Our guests have fun choosing colors and defining their own look for the season. Continued on next page...

tru salon 7 Schoen Place Pittsford 585-586-7870 | 603 park avenue rochester 585-244-0044 | www.truconceptsalon.com

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Continued from previous page... The holidays are busy, so staying glamorous from event to event is important. Judge says people often cannot get into the salon due to time constraints or lack of available appointments, even with the staff working extra days and hours to accommodate guests through the holiday season. She suggests bringing in pictures of outfits for quick advice on how to coordinate it with hair and makeup. recommendations might be as simple as adding a wavy curl to straight hair with a curling iron, or straightening curly hair with a flat iron. We are busy in our real world, every day, with jobs and families, and we want to feel good. The current styles allow for that, says Judge. We want to look nice and put together, and we can easily add excitement but still feel like ourselves. Dedication to feeling good runs high for this chic salon, where guests will enjoy the contemporary, serene setting, the cool music and aromatic atmosphere, and the soothing treatments that lend themselves to beauty.

Around the holidays people want to kick it up a notch but still feel like themselves. You want to be you when you have your makeup and hair done and feel comfortable in your own skin, says Judge. But you can also make it a little extra-special for that special occasion.

tr salon at Schoen Place

Annual Holiday Open House

DECEMBEr 1 4:00 to7:00 PM PITTSFOrD Treat yourself to some tru holiday fun and relaxation with food, wine, and a staff ready to help you enjoy a sampling of indulgence. Pampering stations include hand massages and sensory journeys with aromatherapy sprays, makeup exploration, holiday games and a raffle. This is about youa thank you from our staff for visiting throughout the year.

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HO HO HO Santa Delivers to pets too!

BY DEBOrAh BLACKWELL | MESSEnGEr POST MEDIA

Make a list, check it twice, and dont forget about Fido. Mans best friend deserves a Merry Christmas, and the options are plenty. From dog biscuits to cat-fancy apparel, grooming to electronics, the variety of holiday gifts for for our furry friends is endless. Here are a few ideas to help stuff this seasons stockings.

Pet Acoustics offers the first sound system designed to support the high-frequency audio sensitivities of dogs, cats, horses and birds. Animals hear sounds differently, and the input can oftentimes cause anxiety, stress, and discomfort. To stabilize the sound environment of animals, Pet Acoustics has created ways to help pets feel more calm and relaxed, with soothing music created just for them. We have really unique and great products for pets, especially for the holidays, says Janet Marlow, CEO, Pet Acoustics.
Did you know that dogs prefer long sustained tones and harmonies at a moderate to low volume to feel relaxed? Did you know that a cats hearing is three time greater than a humans? Felines, like canines, prefer lower volume, long sustained tones and harmonies. Marlow is a music composer and performer, and spent several years gathering data on the frequency and decibel levels of animals hearing. her expertise about how animals hear sounds and how it affects their behavior inspired her to create products to help animals relax. She suggests My Pet Speaker, which helps animals hear melodic sounds especially created for them. The Cats See and Play DVD keeps cats entertained, active, and soothed, and Pet Acoustics offers a wide selection of relaxation CDs. There is also an iPhone application to help create an appropriate sound environment for pets at home, or on the go. [www.petacoustics.com]

Trixie & Peanut

is an upscale, online pet boutique offering a wide selection of fashionable and fun merchandise for pets and their people. From designer collars, leashes and jewelry to beds and blankets, toys and treats, travel totes, feeding and grooming accessories, and heartwarming gifts for celebrations, milestones, sympathy and other events, Trixie & Peanut is perfect holiday shopping for pet owners and animal lovers. Pet apparel options are abundant, with offerings from coats and formal-wear, bath-wear, and boots, to pajamas and more, all fashion-forward of course. Trixie & Peanut has thought of everything. Dog wigs, hats, and tiaras, hair bows and barrettes, necklaces and scarves, nail polish, organic items, holistic pet guides, breath mints, memorial candles and ornaments, theres something for everyone. Their inventory is expansive, and the assortment is always fresh. named after her two rescued boxers, founder Susan Bing created this leading and unique pet retailer to celebrate the relationship between pets and the people who love them. her distinctive products and trendy flare attracts quite a list of celebrity clients including musicians, politicians, actors and talk show hosts. Visit online or in person at the emporium, 23 East 20th Street, new York, nY. [www.trixieandpeanut.com]

Bark Avenue Dog Salon is a professional all-breed dog grooming salon and boutique located on Park Avenue in rochester. State-of-the-art grooming services, a relaxing atmosphere and unique items and solutions for dogs is what the personalized service is all about here. People want their dogs to look and smell their best for holiday company, says Jeanette Bourcy, owner, Bark Avenue Dog. Sometimes they are taking family portraits that include their furry friends and want them freshly spruced up. Dogs even get their pictures taken with Santa Claus.
Bourcy says that holiday grooming is part of the season for pet owners, and her salon is bustling. Some of her pets get color put on their fur, others opt for Mohawks. But they also take her advice on gift-buying for their pets. Studies show that at least 55 to 65 percent of dog owners buy their pups holiday presents, says Bourcy. Some recent trends in the industry are human retailers focusing on pet lines such as Omaha Steaks selling dog treats and Paul Mitchell who has a full pet-product line. There are plenty of sweaters and coats, but the options are unlimited. 159 Park Avenue, rochester, 585244-2275. [www.barkavedog.com]

Pawdukes Treats offers natural dog treats made with simple people-food ingredients that not only taste good, but are good for your canines health. Pawdukes treats help boost immune, digestive and circulatory systems and work to improve overall health and even appearance. The crispy treats help encourage teeth cleaning and tarter control. Made in a in a certified humangrade bakery, only the best products go into each treat, like garbanzo bean, rye and rice flour, peanut butter, oatmeal, bananas, carrots, honey, and dried whole eggs. There is no salt or sugar, no preservatives, chemicals, dyes, or animal by-products in any of the recipes. Flavors include banana carrot, Italian herb, apple molasses, pumpkin, peanut butter, holiday mix, gingerbread men, and honey berry. [www.pawduketreats.com] Greener Wiener provides eco-friendly, natural pet products that promote wellness for dogs and cats. Pet wellness is important to the owners of this online supplier of all-natural, healthy pet food and accessories. Try some BowWow butter balm for dry noses and paws. Elk antler long-lasting chews provide lots of nutrients. happy Tails Dog Smog helps keep your pup gas free. Calming mist Cat nap helps kitty relax. Organic cat nip perks him up. Treats and chews, toys and grooming supplies, remedies and supplements, even household items like cat litter odor neutralizer or linen spritz are available. Visit the website to read the blog and the newsletters, offering pet information and tips to keep your pet healthy and happy. This is a green Christmas for Greener Wiener pets. [www.greenerwiener.com]

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whats hot in jewelry this holiday season

BY MOLLY LOGAn AnDErSOn | GATEhOUSE nEWS SErVICE

All that glitters

If gift givers are filling up the nice column on their holiday lists, look no further. This seasons jewelry trends are full of gorgeous items, in deep colors with a bit of whimsy. Everyone is hoping for gifts that are all glittery and bold this year!

Women go for color

The jewel tones of red and green are sure to be the it colors, in everything from clothing to jewelry. Look for them in beaded pieces or precious gems. Add a pop of these tones with a scarf to set you apart.

Big and bold

Simple and feminine styles of years past seem to be absent from stores these days, as a huge trend toward bold, chunky and almost masculine jewelry takes its place on shelves. Statement-making pieces like these will catapult a look with ease.

Go boho
Bohemian jewelry is nearly a classic in its own right. Its casual appearance lends itself perfectly to almost any outfit or style.

heavy metal
The full fashion effect of heavy metals like gunmetal or pewter just dont go out of style. Look for pieces in super-hot chocolate metal for the most current look.

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Sanctuary of restoration

LAVENDER MooN

BY DEBOrAh BLACKWELL | MESSEnGEr POST MEDIA

Outside the village of Honeoye Falls, lies a sanctuary of restoration. Lavender Moon Herb Gardens offers hand-manufactured and custom formulated fresh, natural herb products to nourish the body and spirit.
herbalist and educator Angela Tibieros growing business was started on her seven-acre farm in 1996. It is through her gardens, herbal apothecary, and learning center that well-being can be found. Using natural remedies has always been in my family, says Tibiero. My grandfather was a naturalist and my paternal grandmother a lay midwife and a healer in her community. The use of herbs to promote health and wellness is not a new concept. The practice dates back thousands of years. Herbal oils, lotions, teas, tinctures, capsules, and other formulas can be effective to boost the immune system, help resist infection, and increase vitality. Chronic ailments can be relieved with herbal medicine, which also prompted Tibiero to pursue her trade. I have always been sensitive to commercial products as well as a lot of additives in medications, says Tibiero. The reactions I would have were very frustrating and sometimes very scary. After her fourth pregnancy when she suffered a severe allergic reaction to fragranced-body lotion, she began investigating which ingredients might be causing her reactions. She says little by little she experimented with making her own products, like simple cleansers and toners. She also tried teas, and found that many of her chronic issues were resolved. I became very interested in the medicinal abilities of plants and read every herb book I could get my hands on, says Tibiero. I fell in love with rosemary Gladstars herbal books and just knew I had to study with her. Tibiero began an internship and eventually completed advanced clinical training with Gladstar, who is considered a pioneer in the herbal industry. Gladstar is the author of several books and study courses on herbal medicine, and is the founder of the California School of Herbal Studies, the oldest running herb school in the United States. I drove to her place in Vermont regularly and everything exploded from there, says Tibiero. I hardly slept for two years as I developed product after product, along with formulating herbal teas, infused oils, and heating salves. Family and friends took a quick liking to Tibieros products. her former background in the teaching field propelled Tibiero to take her knowledge into the community to talk about the healing benefits of herbs, to anyone who seemed interested. She met a woman in line at the grocery store who was complaining of a constant upset stomach. Tibiero talked with her about specific herbs, which the woman tried. Because they worked so well, Tibiero says the woman asked her to give a talk about herbs at her home. home herb parties were born. She continued to pursue teaching others about herbal healing. Eventually Tibiero and her husband purchased the farm in honeoye Falls where there is plenty of land to grow herbs, and a restored 19th century barn that houses Lavender Moon, where she makes and sells her creations, holds classes, parties, and special events, and gives herb walks. Tibiero makes highquality, all-natural skin care products made from her own organic herbs, and formulates herbal infusions, plant extracts, and plant oils using traditional recipes. her formulas are blended in small batches to ensure freshness. Lavender Moon also sells first-aid products, medicinal teas, oils, salves, extracts, herbal vinegars and other herbal products for house and home. Tibiero even makes and sells supplements and gifts for pets including cats, dogs, horses and chickens. She also sells herbal gifts such as eye pillows, neck wraps, sleep pouches and gift baskets. Tibiero is committed to serving the community and the environment with thoughtfulness and care. She invites guests to her working farm and educational facility for private consultations, lectures, product demonstrations and herb walks. I feel a deep respect and responsibility to these plants which continue to teach, nourish and heal us all.

Lavender Moon herb Gardens 7 Boughton hill road honeoye Falls 585-624-4220 www.lavendermoonherbs.com

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Holiday recipes
for a festive holiday gathering
FAMILY FEATUrES

Pickled Grapes
Currently all the rage on little plates these can provide that wow moment at your table. 1 lb. seedless grapes, cut into medium size clusters on stem 1 cup unseasoned rice vinegar 1 cup sugar 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt 1 teaspoon whole black peppercorns 1/2 teaspoon whole cloves Large pinch red pepper flakes Accompaniments Wedge of Manchego or cheddar cheese Crackers or toasted baguette slices For pickled grape clusters: Place several large grape clusters into large bowl.Combine the rest of the ingredients in a small saucepan, bring to a boil. Stir just until the sugar has dissolved. Pour over the grapes. Cover and refrigerate at least 1 hour. Place into serving dish of choice, and serve with the cheese and crackers or bread. For more intense flavor: remove grapes from stems. With a sharp paring knife, cut an X in the stem end of each grape. Divide between 3 pint-size canning jars. Make pickling sauce according to directions, then pour over the grapes in each jar. Cover, refrigerate at least one hour. Makes 3 pints.

Smoked Salmon Appetizers with Grapes

These elegant, open-faced sandwiches with grapes complement the flavors of the smoked fish and cream cheese with their refreshing tanga balance of sweetness and acidity that is key to the grapes versatility. The chopped grape garnish provides another color accent to these beautiful bites. 1 cup finely diced red and green seedless grapes 1 tablespoon chopped fresh dill 2 teaspoons rice vinegar 1 teaspoon sugar Pinch salt 4 tablespoons low fat cream cheese 4 slices Danish-style rye bread, each cut crosswise into 4 pieces 2 ounces thinly sliced smoked salmon In small bowl, combine grapes, dill, vinegar, sugar and salt. Spread cream cheese on bread slices and top with pieces of salmon. Drizzle with the grape relish and serve. Makes 16.

Grape Salad with Feta and Olives

A green salad is always welcome at a holiday feast. The inclusion of grapes in this Greekinspired salad balances the peppery arugula and salty olives, while also enhancing the flavor of the mint. 2 tablespoons red wine vinegar 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard 1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil 1 tablespoon dried mint* Coarse salt and freshly ground black pepper 2 cups halved green seedless grapes 2 cups halved red seedless grapes 6 cups arugula (about 5 oz.) 1 cup crumbled feta cheese 1 cup pitted Kalamata olives In small bowl, combine red wine vinegar, Dijon, olive oil, mint and salt and pepper to taste. Blend well. In large bowl combine remaining ingredients. Pour dressing over mixture; season with salt and pepper, toss and serve. *If you cant find peppermint in the herb section of your grocery store, just buy bulk peppermint tea. Makes 6 servings.

Grape Rosemary Martini

Your guests will be pleased with this green-hued, aromatic and spirited drink. 2 oz. vodka small sprigs of rosemary 1 oz. freshly made green grape juice* Ice Green grapes for garnish Combine vodka, 1 sprig of rosemary, fresh grape juice and ice in a cocktail shaker and shake hard. Strain into a martini glass. Thread 1 grape on a rosemary sprig and place in glass. Serve. *To make fresh grape juice, puree 1 cup seedless green grapes in a food processor or blender and strain through a fine sieve. Make about 1/3 cup. Makes 1 cocktail.

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George Eastman House

Unique Gifts & Relaxing Cafe

GIFT idEAS
Landmark Society
Featuring specialty items for garden enthusiasts, film and photography gifts, jewelry, toys and books. After shopping, sit, relax, enjoy a light meal, cappuccino or dessert at the Eastman house Cafe. You may also browse items online. 900 East Avenue, Rochester (585) 271.3361 www.eastmanhouse.org Erie Canal Map. Printed on parchment stock, this official new York State historic map depicts in minute detail the Erie Canal as originally built in 1825. It is eminently suitable for framing and permanent display in a library or study. 9 x 39. $19 Songs of the Erie Canal. Take a musical trip back 175 years with the sparkling Songs of the Erie Canal CD, performed by the famous Dady Brothers. $10 133 Fitzhugh Street South, Rochester (585) 546-7029 www.landmarksociety.org

Great

Strong Museum
Whether a budding builder, aspiring artist, or tiny thespian, kidsand the kid in youwill love Everything for Play! and the Butterfly Garden shops: Plush, puppets, and books featuring Curious George, the Berenstain Bears, favorite superheroes, and more Dress-up clothing Extensive selection of Melissa & Doug merchandise Puzzles, crafts, educational games, and a special selection of toys featured in the national Toy hall of Fame A wide range of delightful souvenirs 1 Manhattan Square Rochester (585) 263-2700 www.museumofplay.org

Genesee Lighthouse
Purchase a copy of The Ghost of the Charlotte Lighthouseand support the Genesee Lighthouse. Please send a check or money order to the Charlotte Genesee Lighthouse historical Society, 70 Lighthouse Street, rochester, nY 14612, for $13.50. This covers the cost of the book $9.95 and shipping & handling $3.55. There is a limited supply of books signed by the author, so place your order soon. If you have any questions or would like to pick up more than one book, call (585) 621-6179 or email info1@geneseelighthouse.org

dont forget the

Lollypop Shop

hills Science Diet Dog and Cat Food Kuvasz Greeting Cards Premier Pet Toys Cloud Star Treats Books, gifts and kids toys Oxbow Small Animal Food, Bedding and Litter Lupine Collars Cat trees, litter boxes, toys, food bowls, and more Kong Pet Toys Dog crates, toys, treats, training clickers, and more Small animal supplies Lollypop Farm apparel Zukes Treats 99 Victor Road, Fairport (585) 223-1330 www.lollypop.org
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MESSENGER POST MEDIA

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Local angels promote one of the areas best-kept secrets:

ThE COMMUnITY WIShBOOK

BY DEBOrAh BLACKWELL | MESSEnGEr POST MEDIA

When Nona Maurer wanted to do something special, little did she know that her work would change the lives of so many people who rely on charitable giving. Maurer took over management of the Community Wishbook, a forum for non-profit organizations in the rochester area to request needed items and recruit volunteers to help with their work. Back in 1999 I was looking for a project, I was going to be retiring and wanted to stay involved in something, says Maurer. I truly appreciated the Wishbook and had used it myself in previous years. I wanted to volunteer with this organization. But she does more than volunteer. She and her husband Jim work together in what is almost a full-time job helping match donations and volunteers to over 200 organizations, coordinating incoming lists and donated items, answering emails and phone calls, and working with people who do not have computers or Internet access connect with charities. They have even spoken publicly about the importance of not throwing usable items in landfills. Its a great project for Jim and me, we can do it at home. We get a lot of calls from the public saying they want or need things and we try to locate the right charity, says Maurer. It helps the person get the item out of their house, and it helps the charity because they are looking for the items, which keeps useful things out of the trash. Maurer also writes a weekly wishlist column that appears in the Messenger Post newspapers. She structures a monthly advertisement listing a specific item or a volunteer-need and lists charities that want or need that item. Charities appearing in the ad are chosen on a rotating basis. When the Maurers first took over the Wishbook in 1999 it was just a small publication with a listing of specific items various charities needed. But the couple kicked it up a notch. They began categorizing things and setting up web indexes. They took an Internet class and created a website which they started in 2000. They added a volunteer section. now this community publication is available in free literature racks throughout the Greater Rochester area, in library branches, restaurants, convenience stores, public buildings, as well as the Eastview and Greece ridge Malls. It is published once a year and is available until the end of January. The Community Wishbook is also distributed to scout troops, church groups, school classes and other organizations who ask for copies to pass out to their

members, in order to help local charities. The Maurers say that every day is different and are amazed at what people need, and what people want to give away. They once had a charity looking for a farmer to grow produce and take care of acreage. Another organization looked for chicken quarters and venison to feed to its animals. Even these unique items are listed in the Wishbook and on the Wishbook website, so when someone had chicken quarters, they called the charity to find out when and where to donate them. The Maurers have coordinated items from stores that close and want to donate their shelving and displays. They see trends in donations, like few requests for fax machines, or portable CD players and more requests for digital cameras and MP3 players. They say charities can be very specific on their needs, and often times those needs are met. We recently got a call from a person who had a ping pong table and we put him in touch with the charity that needed that, says Maurer. We love to hear the stories, thats what motivates us. Another motivation for use of the Wishbook is the positive impact that exchange of these items has on the environment. The Maurers efforts for environmental consciousness support the nations movement, as nona says, towards downsizing, de-cluttering, and reorganizing our stuff. She says the Wishbook is the perfect way to take stuff and put it to good use. In addition to keeping stuff out of landfills, the Maurers are committed to helping charities find volunteers who will donate time and talent. She says if you want to help people, children, or animals, there is an agency for you. Ironically, this husband-wife team is extremely humble about their own contribution. We dont need the recognition but the Wishbook does, says nona. The more people that know about it the more it will help these charities. Thats our focus. In their spare time Jim plays golf and tennis and nona does other volunteerwork, enjoys gardening and traveling. Their daughter, who also helps with the Wishbook, lives in Lexington, Ma. with her husband and daughter. The Community Wishbook and wishlist column is printed as a public service by Messenger Post Media.

For more information call nona Maurer, 585-225-4226, email: wishbook@rochester.rr.com, or visit the website www.communitywishbook.com For more information call nona Maurer, 585-225-4226, email: wishbook@rochester.rr.com, or visit the website www.communitywishbook.com

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