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Volume 125 Issue 118 kansan.com Thursday, May 9, 2013
Lawrence has been recognized
for its friendly, inviting, college
studentfilled town as the eighth
best college town in the nation.
Among the top-10 best college
towns in the nation, Lawrence
ranks eighth, according to the
American Institute for Economic
Researchs (AIER) 75 Best College
Towns and Cities for 2012-2013.
AIER took into account 12 dif-
ferent aspects of the towns and
cities to create the list. The 12
categories were student concen-
tration, student diversity, research
capacity, degree attainment, cost
of living, arts and leisure, city
accessibility, creative class, earning
potential, entrepreneurial activity,
unemployment rate and brain gain
and drain.
The AIER survey made four
groups based on total resident
population. Lawrence falls under
the college towns category with
fewer than 250,000 residents.
Lawrence is home to many
traditions and unique places that
make it stand out. The University
is full of traditions; from the cam-
panile to Allen Fieldhouse, several
landmarks on campus set it apart
from other college towns.
Steven Henry, a senior from
Augusta, likes
going to Kansas
baseball games
because its a fun
thing to do with
friends thats free
and on campus.
He said one of
his favorite
places in town is
Henrys Coffee
Shop, located at
11 E. Eighth St.
Henry said its a nice place that
has a local feel and is a way to see
people from all areas of Lawrence.
Another place Henry frequents
is Louises Bar, located at 1009
Massachusetts St.
It has a wide range of peo-
ple who frequently come there,
Henry said. Theres not a specific
type of person that goes there, and
its really inviting.
Henry said the proximity of our
town being so close to Kansas
City correlates to the pace of the
town and overall casual and invit-
ing atmosphere.
Annie Drape, a sophomore
from Leawood, said one of her
favorite restaurants that has a
Lawrence feel to
it is 23rd Street
Brewery, located
at 3512 Clinton
Parkway. Drape
said the restau-
rant gives good
vibes that reflect
the towns atmo-
sphere.
Its a well-
known place
that I feel like
most everyone in town has been
to, Drape said.
Tansey Schoonover, a sopho-
more from Roswell, Ga., said it
almost feels as if Lawrence is hug-
ging you when youre walking
around town. Her favorite place
to eat is WheatFields Bakery and
Cafe, located at 904 Vermont St.
She always orders the biscuits and
gravy and said its the best bakery
around.
Downtown is awesome because
we have a defined street that youre
guaranteed to run into someone
you know, Schoonover said. Its
not only college students but also
the townies playing music, food
markets and festivals.
Besides cool bars and good res-
taurants, Lawrence is home to sev-
eral parks and outdoor recreation
areas. Topeka sophomore Lauren
Fitzgerald likes to explore Clinton
Lake and find new trails to run on.
She also said Massachusetts street
is a fun place to walk around and
people-watch, seeing the college
students and other members of the
community mix.
Another place unique to
Lawrence that Fitzgerald vis-
its is Liberty Hall, located at 644
Massachusetts St. She said the
town itself has an old-fashioned
feel to it sometimes, and Liberty
Hall is an old theater that plays
less mainstream films and more
indie films.
The movie store has some
movies that I cant find anywhere
else, Fitzgerald said. I love find-
ing the strange and obscure mov-
ies there.
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what: Lawrence Potters Guild sale
where: Carnegie Building, 200 W.
9th St.
when:10 a.m. to 4 p.m.
aBout: Support the Lawrence Potters
Guild at their spring sale, just in time
for Mothers Day and graduation.
what: 3rd Annual Red Rockin Music
Festival
where: Buford M. Watson Park
when: 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.
aBout: This event beneftting the
Lawrence Community Nursery School
features music, games, food and Free
State beer.
Thursday, May 9th Friday, May 10th Saturday, May 11th Sunday, May 12th
what: KU School of Music Youth
Chorus Concert
where: Murphy Hall, 328
when: 5 to 6 p.m.
aBout: This choral group, composed
of community children, will have its
fnal performance of the school year.
Admittance is free.
what: KU Tango Spring Classes
where: Kansas Union
when: 7:45 p.m.
aBout: Bring your dancing shoes
and an adventurous spirit to this free
tango lesson.
what: KJHK and SUA present Bad
Rabbits
where: Bottleneck, 737 New Hamp-
shire St.
when: 8 p.m.
aBout: Enjoy the musical styling of
Bad Rabbits, a fusion of futuristic
R&B and post-rock, free with your
KU ID.
what: Talib Kweli
where: The Granada, 1020 Mas-
sachusetts St.
when: 8:30 p.m.
aBout: In the mood for some politi-
cal hip hop? Tickets are $22 to see
Brooklyn-based rapper Talib Kweli
perform at The Granada.
what: Freedom on the Hill: 5/10K Run
for Boston
where: West campus
when: 9:30 to 11 a.m.
aBout: Want to help victims of the
Boston Marathon bombings? Put on
your running shoes and attend Free-
dom on the Hill, a run to raise money
for relief fund One Fund Boston.
what: Mothers Day at the Museum
where: Spencer Museum of Art
when: 12 to 4 p.m.
aBout: Take your momma out for a
day at the Spencer. Enjoy live music
and check out artwork inspired by
motherhood.
CHARITY
Freedom on the Hill run to fundraise for Boston
At 2:49 p.m. EDT on April 15,
runners across the nation bore
witness to an unexpected act of
violence, as two improvised explo-
sive devices exploded near the fn-
ish line of the Boston Marathon.
In the hours following the
bombings, Howard Ting decided
to take action in support of the
victims of the attack. Ting sent a
text message to the members of
his group for a project in Com-
munications 342 and told them of
his thoughts of changing the focus
of their service project to helping
those afected in Boston.
In the following weeks, Tings
idea evolved from a proactive
thought into a large-scale charity
event and relief efort. Te group
members (Ting, Laura Konecny,
Manny Delgado and Amber
Banks) went above and beyond
the requirements for the project
and created the event, Freedom
on the Hill, a 5- and 10K charity
run.
Te event will take place this
Sunday, May 12, at 9 a.m. Te
race will start at the marching
band practice feld on West Cam-
pus, run through West Campus
and Park and Ride and loop back
around to the starting point. One
lap of the course will constitute 5k
and two laps a 10k.
Te group has since evolved
from the original four members
to a staf comprised of 35 students
working around the clock to make
this idea a reality. As well as bol-
stering its staf, the group has re-
ceived sponsorship from various
campus organizations, including
KU Army and Air Force ROTC,
Inter-Fraternity Council and Stu-
dent Senate. Along with these stu-
dent organizations, Freedom on
the Hill received corporate spon-
sorship from Coca-Cola and Wells
Fargo Bank.
Tis event is not about vili-
fying the perpetrators but rather
remembering the victims, Ting
said.
Ting said the group hopes that
this event will help to turn atten-
tion away from the perpetrators
and their trial and turn focus
to helping the victims and their
families.
Attacks such as these are meant
to instill fear in the masses and cast
attention towards those responsi-
ble, but we hope that through our
eforts we can prove that we have
not lost our faith in the American
Spirit, said Andrew Locke, Greek
life coordinator.
Participants must pay a $15
entry fee, which garners them a T-
shirt and knowledge that they are
actively assisting those afected by
this tragedy.
All proceeds from the event will
be donated to One Fund Boston,
a non-proft created by Massachu-
settes Governor Deval Patrick and
Boston Mayor Tom Menino.
Tose interested in partici-
pating or donating to the cause
should visit Freedomonthehill.
com for registration and more in-
formation.
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A class project sparked the creation of a race to beneft the victims of the Boston
Marathon bombings. Proceeds will be donated to One Fund Boston.
Rick Renfro didnt originally
think television in a bar sounded
like a good idea. When he heard a
television network was launching
24-hour sports coverage in 1979,
he reluctantly installed a few tele-
visions by the bar, afraid technol-
ogy would kill conversation. Now,
Johnnys Tavern, 401 N. Second St.,
houses 15 fatscreen televisions.
John Wilson would turn over
in his grave if he knew what Ive
been doing to the place, Renfro
said.
Te neighborhood tavern has
changed signifcantly in the 60
years since John Wilson bought a
few beer taps in 1953. Where most
new restaurants fail within three
years of being launched, Ren-
fro has worked to keep Johnnys
fresh, remodeling major facets of
his business model every 10 or so
years. Pizza and burgers now make
up 80 percent of his food sales.
Te taverns success, he believes,
can be attributed to two key fac-
tors: friendly staf and friendly
customers.
Its more the people than it is
the building, Renfro said.
Te eight other Johnnys Neigh-
borhood Taverns around the Law-
rence and the Kansas City metro
have spread the warm atmosphere.
When Renfro was looking to ex-
pand in 1992, the landlords, wear-
ing suits and ties, visited the Law-
rence location on a Wednesday
around 5 p.m. to see what kind of
operation they would be leasing
to. Te place was packed with col-
lege students, rough construction
guys and lawyers taking advantage
of the days special.
See those two cigarette butts
on the foor over there? they said.
We need to scoop up some of that
and take it to Johnson County.
Renfro describes Johnnys as a
comfortable pair of old jeans. Back
in the day, locals would either go
to a barbershop or hairdresser or
their local tavern to catch up on
the town gossip. Now, Johnnys
draws an eclectic crowd of locals
a group of retired men meet as
the bar opens at 11 a.m. to share
a daily beer, and more and more
parents are bringing children
under the age of 10. Pop, oldies,
country and rap shufe through
the bartenders iPod.
Te 60th anniversary specials,
including $6 burgers and $6 do-
mestic pitchers, last through Sat-
urday.
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A local patron enjoys some beer and baseball at Johnnys Tavern. Johnnys is celebrating its 60th anniversary this year,
making it one of the oldest bars in Lawrence.
Bus routes to change
next week for fnals
If youre planning on traveling to
campus before the semester ends, take
note: KU on Wheels will run altered route
schedules Stop Day and Finals week.
There will be limited service on Stop
Day. The following routes will not oper-
ate: 27, 29, 30, 33, 36, 38, 42 and 43.
Routes 11 and 41 will operate their B
schedules on Stop Day and will return
to their A schedules for one week on
Monday, May 13.
For students with 7:30 a.m. fnals, KU
on Wheels will service early bus routes
during Finals Week.
Route 11: The 6:18 a.m. bus will
operate as usual. A special 6:48 a.m.
departure from The Reserve and The
Connection will be added, which should
arrive on campus at about 7:20 a.m.
Route 11: Special 7 a.m. departure
from 24th and Naismith.
Route 27: Service will start at 6:25
a.m. from Haskell University.
Route 29: Service will start at 6:40
a.m. from 27th and Scottsdale.
Route 30: Service will start at 6:50
a.m. from Chelsea Place (westbound).
Route 33: Service will start at 6:53
a.m. from North Michigan.
Route 36: Service will start at 6:33
a.m. from Gateway Court.
Route 38: Service will start at 6:45
am from 25th and Melrose.
Route 42: Service will start at 7:01
a.m. from lot 94 at the stadium and at
the regular time from 18th Street, 7:10
a.m.
Route 43: Service will start at 7 a.m.
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Have KU graduates always walked
down the hill for Commencement?
Well, the Campanile has only been in
place since the early 1950s, but walk-
ing down the hill has been a tradition
since 1924. Rock Chalk!
poliCe RepoRts
Local potters club to
host spring pottery sale
the lawrence potters Guild will host
its spring pottery sale this saturday,
May 11, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. on the Carn-
egie Building lawn at 9th and Vermont.
it will present the work of 15 local art-
ists and include both functional pottery
and artistic pieces.
its a perfect opportunity to pur-
chase a gift that is both hand-made
and locally-made; something to last a
life time, says Kim Brook, president of
the Guild, who also teaches ceramics
at the lawrence Art Center.
shes been involved with the law-
rence potters Guild for two years and
participates in arranging the sales,
meetings, and events surrounding it.
Although Brook herself has been
creating pottery for 8 years now, all
members of the Guild have different
ranges of pottery experience.
We have artists with 30 to 40 years
of experience and those with only sev-
eral years; its open to anyone inter-
ested in pottery.
prices for the pieces range anywhere
from $5 to $300, and profts help sup-
port the art community in lawrence.
Krista Montgomery
Students of the University and
Lawrence residents will have the
chance to opt in this fall to Law-
rences newest gigabit internet
service, Wicked Broadband, tout-
ed as an equivalent to Kansas City,
Kan.s Google Fiber service.
Wicked Broadband, founded
and based in Lawrence, will pro-
vide their service to one neigh-
borhood in Lawrence when stu-
dents return to school. Wicked
boasts processing speeds up to
1,000 times faster than standard
internet.
Following a model similar to
the one that landed Google Fi-
ber in Kansas City, Wicked has
launched a pre-registration drive
for their service to determine
which neighborhood will frst re-
ceive their gigabit broadband this
August.
For $10, Lawrence residents
can vote to bring Wicked to their
neighborhood for the upcoming
school year and take advantage
of internet service that will allow
users to upload videos in seconds
rather than hours and watch mul-
tiple programs online in HD with-
out bufering or pixilation.
Te pre-registration drive,
which began April 16 and con-
tinues through June 15, is located
on Wicked Broadbands website,
www.wickedfber.com. Partici-
pants in neighborhoods that do
not win the drive will have their
$10 refunded.
Tis drive gives the commu-
nity the opportunity to tell us that
they want the next generation of
broadband, said Wicked Broad-
band owner, Joshua Montgomery.
Montgomery is excited to ex-
pand the promises of gigabit
services that became so famous
through Google Fiber to the Law-
rence community. But he sees a
few things that help his company
stand out.
One is a technology called a
community wireless network
which integrates entire neighbor-
hoods of broadband users into one
secure grid, streamlining the ease
with which Wicked can control
services and provide better access
to customers during potential di-
sasters or severe weather a ser-
vice that Google Fiber customers
dont have.
Wicked Broadband is also
seeking out a unique connection
to Lawrence businesses that will
likely need fber service in the
near future. While Google Fiber
currently does not fll the niche
of business internet integration in
Kansas City, Wicked hopes their
model will become a platform for
other providers to ofer gigabit
service to local businesses.
In that same spirit of competi-
tion, Wicked invites future Law-
rence internet providers to join
the rapidly growing domain of
fber service through their strat-
egy of providing excess capacity
throughout the city. When Wick-
ed frst delved into gigabit ser-
vice laying down fber cables that
spanned Lawrence, they added
not just two cables for their own
company, but two more cables
open for other companies to ex-
plore fber broadband and even-
tually compete with Wicked for
gigabit customers.
Aware of the implications his
company and gigabit internet have
on the world of communication
and entertainment, Montgomery
asserts that this is a game-chang-
er thats turning companies that
sell you three services internet,
phone, and cable at a premium
price into one service data
transport.
For those looking to pursue
the latest in internet service and
get the most out of their devices,
Montgomery encourages students
to try and cut the cord when it
comes to cable and phone lines,
recommending cheaper alterna-
tives like Vonage and Hulu Plus,
each of which are compatible with
Wickeds internet service.
For students concerned with
being tied down to a pesky con-
tract even afer they move to dif-
ferent neighborhoods or away
from Lawrence altogether, Mont-
gomery reassures that contracts
run in 10-month intervals, from
August to May, specifcally for the
beneft of students.
Some students have already
become loyal Wicked customers.
Te gigabit service was installed
two years ago in half of the Greek
houses on campus at a rate of $24
per month per person for each
house. While students who live
on their own will pay anywhere
from $50 per month for 20 Mbps
internet to $100 per month for
the gigabit package, Montgomery
points to successes in the Greek
community as reason to test out
the service.
Montgomery hopes that anyone
interested in the gigabit internet
revolution will get involved and
pre-register for Wicked. While
only one neighborhood wins, the
company plans to use the results
of the drive as a guide for where
the service will expand in subse-
quent years.
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inteRnet
Lawrence neighborhoods to compete for gigabit service
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Wicked Broadband is coming to lawrence. the company is said to be equivalent to
that of Google Fiber, which is already in Kansas City, Kan.
CRAFts
Information based on the
Douglas County Sheriffs office
booking recap.
A 34-year-old male was arrest-
ed yesterday on the 600 block of
Whitfield on suspicion of domestic
battery. no bond was posted.
A 27-year-old male was ar-
rested tuesday on the 1700 block
of 24th street on suspicion of theft
of property, third offense. A $3,500
bond was paid.
A 31-year-old male was arrest-
ed tuesday on the 2300 block of
iowa street on suspicion of theft of
property. A $1,500 bond was paid.
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W
hether you had a
good year or a bad
year, once final exams
wrap up next week, its time for
everyone to pack it in and split
off on their separate ways for the
summer.
Leaving school for the summer
can be quite bittersweet. Nothing
beats returning to the quiet
comforts of home where you can
sleep in your own bed and laze
around without having anything
to do or study for. Plus, you
have unlimited access to a fully
stocked refrigerator usually
full of food that you didnt have
to buy, for once.
I always love the first few days
of being home, but then, like
anything, it starts to suck as time
goes by. Eventually, youll fully
catch up on all the sleep you lost
from finals week; youll have
already devoured all the good
food from the refrigerator and
youll have hung out with your
old friends to the point where
youre tired of them again. At
some point probably dur-
ing that sixth straight hour of
watching Mad Men on Netflix
youre going to wish you were
back at school.
A lot of people stay in
Lawrence to take classes during
the summer, and others may land
internships in a big city. Im lucky
enough to be interning in New
York, so Ill only spend a few
weeks at home before heading off
for the summer. But, in my first
summer home from college, I fig-
ured out ways to make a summer
at my parents house feel a lot
more bearable. If youre stuck at
home, heres what you can do:
Get a job, man.
This should go without say-
ing if youre not taking sum-
mer classes or dont have an
internship, theres no reason you
shouldnt be working full-time to
save up some cash. I have plenty
of friends who work at restau-
rants or bars during the summer,
and since you dont have to pay
rent or tuition in the summer,
the money you make piles up
fast and can sustain you for the
better part of next year (if youre
smart). If you dont have a job
lined up already, youre probably
going to be stuck at some podunk
fast food joint. That will likely
suck, but at least youll be making
money.
Get out of town.
Road trips are already sweet,
but when the weathers this nice,
theyre a thousand times better. If
youre from Kansas City, youre in
luck because were virtually equi-
distant from cities like Chicago,
Minneapolis, Dallas and Denver
(plus everywhere in between).
Take a few days off of work,
gather up some friends and head
somewhere better than where you
already are. If youre a music fan
and youve never been to a big-
time festival which means you
havent lived scope out some
tickets to Bonnaroo, Lollapalooza
or any other big summer festival
and hit the road. Festival passes
usually run upwards of $200 or
so for the whole shebang, but ask
any one of the billions of Chicago
kids at the University about going
to Lolla: Its a blast.
Get better at SomethinG
(yeah, i know thatS cheeSy,
but what elSe are you
GoinG to do?)
There will be several weeks/
weekends when your friends are
all out of town on vacation with
their families and it feels like
theres nothing to do. Youll have
nothing but time. Remember how
you only made it two weeks on
your New Years resolution to get
back in shape? Well, you might as
well give it another shot.
Remember how youve always
said that you wanted to learn to
play piano? Or paint? Or some
other quarter-life crisis skill? Do
it; its going to be a lot easier in
the summer when youre bored
out of your skull than it would
be during the school year, espe-
cially if youre trying to get back
in shape. The gyms back home
are usually a lot less packed than
the Rec, and youre probably not
going to be distracted by all the
fun things that pop up in college
because, when youre at home,
fun things just dont pop up that
often. Might as well do some-
thing productive.
Or, you could always just watch
Netflix. Who cares? Its summer
its not like your friends from
school are going to know.
barbosa is a junior from leawood
majoring in journalism
By AJ Barbosa
abarbosa@kansan.com
editors note: ive been the ffa edi-
tor for a year now. this is my last one.
thanks for the fun times, ku.
The FFa editor is a woman. #mywhole-
lifeisalie editors note: uh. no im not.
Bravo! to the cast of the Police acad-
emy movies for making it through seven
amazing flms!
To the random girl that honked me
and told me she loved me... Youre mov-
ing too fast for me. Seriously that was a
25 mph zone.
all right kids, its time to play Home-
less Person or college Student?
When people say it is never too early
to start drinking, i always thought it
was dumb. Until today.
My big toe is such a slut, its always
banging everything it can!
Yes i would love to help get animals
out of those awful cages.... aND iN MY
BeLLaY.
after my frst year of college, all i can
say is that im now scared sh*tless of
having a daughter.
Mega FFa on Thursday? Talk about
that christmas eve feeling... but better.
its Mega FFa eve.
i know you can see my panties
through my shorts, OK! Back off!
Who is this?
To the fool who thinks he/she can be
an engineer: at least youll contribute to
the curve.
Pretty sure i just saw Buster Bluth
skateboarding down Tennessee.
it would be so clutch to marry a wife
with a well paying job. i feel like i would
be a great house-husband.
Um.. The same crossword two days in
a row? Not cool Robert Frost!
instead of worrying about what the
other will make in a career, perhaps we
should be thankful for the education and
money we have. There are people in the
world living on less than a dollar a day.
Fun fact: to help lower allergy severity
in spring eat a spoon full of local honey
a day. Thank you bees.
So out of curiosity, where does The
Doctor stand in the whole superhero/not
superhero debate? i mean he saves an
average of a planet a day, and the whole
universe on a bad day.
Blue Steel.
Yeah, but reddit is all reposts anyway,
so...
Shout out to the editor and everyone
who summited posts for making this
years FFa section.
Steal.
i bet engineer majors fell back on the,
My dad can beat up your dad line a lot
during childhood.
ah springtime, when the birds sing
and girls resort to skrillex haircuts.
#notagoodidea
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his is the last column I
will ever write for the
University Daily Kansan.
And it starts like this: My mother
is the strongest person on the face
of the earth.
On April 29 at 7 p.m. my
mothers name lit up my
cell phone. I knew what she
was going to tell me before I
answered. There was no pain in
her voice when she spoke to me.
She gave me the news the same
way she did the last two times she
had to deliver bad news.
***
My freshman year at the
University was the worst year
of my life. After almost being
expelled for poor academic
standing and fighting depression
from a broken heart and home-
sickness, I came home to Wichita
that December to find my
grandmother fighting borderline
dementia caused by medicine.
I went to see her at the hospital
and witnessed how bad it was.
It broke my heart seeing her not
understand what was happen-
ing around her and using anger
to lash out at the confusion. The
next day when I visited her again,
she was different happy to see
me because she hadnt seen me in
so long.
She didnt remember that I saw
her the day before.
I prayed to God she would
make it through Christmas. She
made it through. I came back to
the University and stayed. I was
going to graduate no matter what.
***
My grandmother was a student
at the University in the 1940s.
Thats where she met my grand-
father. Ive been a Jayhawk my
entire life because of them. In the
fall of 2009, I began my career
at the University, the first in the
family since my grandparents.
When I was facing expulsion,
I thought of my grandparents.
I thought about how family
tradition says I should graduate
a Jayhawk. If it werent for my
grandparents, I might have given
up a lot easier. If I gave up, I
wouldnt be graduating from the
University later this month with a
degree in journalism.
I knew my grandmother was
going to die before she did. I
prayed to God she would make
it through my graduation. On
April 29 at 7 p.m., my mother
called to tell me Vonda Hilliard,
my mothers mother, had passed
away. She wont be making it to
my graduation.
***
My mother used to trick me.
Whenever I would come home
to Wichita from Lawrence, she
would take me to get groceries or
new clothes. But before we would
make it to the store, my mother
would take a detour to my grand-
mothers apartment.
If my mother had asked, I
probably wouldnt have gone. If
it werent for her, I wouldnt have
the memories I have today. She
understood family meant more
than food or clothes. And Ill
never forget those days when I sat
on my grandmothers couch and
she reminisced about her time at
the University and reminded me
that Im only a Jayhawk because
of her.
***
My mothers voice had the
same comforting sound, just
turned down a bit. She wanted to
make sure her own children were
OK first. Thats how she handled
it when I was 6-years-old and my
cat was hit by a car. Thats how
she handled it on July 18, 2001,
when her father my grandfa-
ther, the World War II veteran
who will forever be known to me
as the biggest badass to ever live
died in his sleep.
My mother had to be strong
for the rest of us and always has
been. Shes been the most con-
stant support in my life, and cre-
ated the strong family bond we
share that has always been there
for me. My father often brags
about my mothers ability to be
cheerful no matter what. Shes
strong for all of us.
***
Sunday, my family sat down
with the minister giving the ser-
vice for my grandmothers funer-
al. She asked us questions I didnt
want to think about. I couldnt
answer. I just sat there staring at
her trying not to cry. My mother
spoke up for me. Out of all the
people who were affected by my
grandmothers death, my mother
had the most right to breakdown.
But she didnt. She was strong for
me when I couldnt be.
I sat there looking like a
spoiled brat who had noth-
ing nice to say about his lovely
grandmother, all because I didnt
want to cry. My mother stood up
for me and dealt with the hardest
situation I can imagine. And I
thank her for that.
***
This column isnt supposed to
make you feel bad for me because
my grandmother recently passed
away. Its not supposed to make
you realize that I have an amaz-
ing mother and family. Its sup-
posed to remind you that some-
times, we take things for granted.
Youre told this all the time, but
you dont really notice it until its
forced upon you and you fail to
understand why the great things
in life are taken away.
I couldnt be happier to call
Vonda Hilliard my grandmother,
or Jena Lysen my mother. The
strength it took my mother to
inform the whole family that one
of us has left this earth on April
29 a day before her own birth-
day, and sitting at her mothers
bedside for 12 hours is some-
thing Im afraid I wont be able
to do in the future. Im having a
hard time just writing this down
right now.
My mother is a walking, talk-
ing representation of FOE: Family
over everything.
***
This is the last column I will
ever write for the University
Daily Kansan. And it ends like
this: I love you, mom.
lysen is a senior from andover
majoring in journalism.
By Dylan Lysen
dlysen@kansan.com
Go work on those great ideas that
engineers have and then try to tell
theyre not overpaid.
if The Suite Life of Zach and cody
was part of their childhood... Theyre
too young for you.
KU can spend 3 million on one
persons salary but can not afford to
re-surface the campus pavements that
everyone needs to travel on...
Teachers bring their classes to
campus for a scavenger hunt? That
cant possibly go wrong!
i bet Batman was in a frat.
^ This guys knows what hes talking
about.... v This guy has NO clue
if there was an MvP award for the
FFa Lebron James would win that too.
One Day i Will Become a Beautiful
Butterfy, and Then everything Will Be
Better!
The redder the head the better in
bed ... hmm well im a redhead turned
blonde . Beat that!
i wanted to tell that little kid wear-
ing a K-State jersey to make sure he
wore a different one the next time he
visited. ashamed that i didnt.
Well editor, thanks for a great 3
years. You had certainly made my
semesters more humorous and i ap-
preciate it!!
We should go show our support for
our Baseball Jayhawks!!!
if your childhood was Suite Life
of Zack and cody then... WHaT THe?!
HOW OLD aRe YOU?!
Tabling at Wescoe? Just get a puppy.
Thatll do the trick.
The engineers work harder all se-
mester than most of you do for fnals...
lay off. Respect, nerd homies.
if Zach and cody was your child-
hood, you must be a freshman. Real
childhood memories are Rugrats,
ahhh Real Monsters, and all That.
Just thanked a girl because shes
the only girl i can talk to and not be
annoyed. Guess fnals are coming up.
a super gigantic enormous FFa?! My
chance to get in is here!!!
You will be pleased to know that i
fnally felt barbaric and drank the milk
from the bowl in public.
if she watched Suite Life of Zach
and cody, shes too young for you, bro!
ive lost a black notebook stuffed
with all my notes for semester. if anyone
fnds it please turn it in to Hash!
Suite Life of Zack and cody
...When was your childhood? Last year?
i love our campus roads, said no
one ever.
The FFa editor is a guy? Heres my
offcial proposal. Lets get married.
editors note: Supposedly ive already
married someone in the ffa.
im obsessed with sleep. My last
thought of the day is about how happy
i am to fnally sleep. My frst is unhap-
piness at being awoken. My second is
planning my next nap.
But didnt the tulips just bloom?
Why must maintenance take them
down?! Theyre just so pretty!
The Sweet Life is your childhood?
You were obviously depraved of the
sweet glory that is cartoon Network.
Walked by a physically handicapped
man and casually asked how he was
doing. He responded with being
blessed. Theres a lot to learn from
that man.
Well im stoned as shit for my last
day of class.
That awkward moment when youre
wearing rain boots when its 70 and
sunny because it was raining when you
left your house this morning.
Bass is love, bass is life.
is it raining outside or are those
just tears because this is my last time
reading the FFa?
always amusing how the Film 100
class population is cut in half when all
of the frat boys and sorority girls leave
during the flms.
RcJH.
Heres to the class of 2013!
Last FFa of my KU career. its been
an honor and a blessing to get to call
myself a Jayhawk. i may be graduating
but i will forever bleed crimson and
blue.
and with my graduating this year,
this school will offcially lose its hottest
ginger... My sincerest apologies.
Being an engineer major is like be-
ing a vegetarian, you can choose to do
it, but you dont need to let the whole
world know you do.
engineers are great, but they dont
know much about nutrition and exer-
cise. Thanks to engineers, ill be able
to pay off my med school loans faster
and make bank.
Holy allergy medication, Robin!
The U.S. doesnt have as many in-
novators as it used to because people
major in stupid things like buisness.
Hey FFa editor, do people send in
pictures? Just curious. editors note:
no.
The Batman Superman argument is
moot because Marvel
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entertainment
T
errence Malick is a film-
maker whose deliberate,
ethereal style has earned him
nearly four decades worth of criti-
cal acclaim and unwavering respect
within his industry. The notoriously
reclusive auteur, who hasnt given
an interview since the 1970s, pos-
sesses an almost alchemical ability to
transmute dreams and memory into
the realm of pure cinema, taking
the weightiest of existential musings
and distilling them into their light-
est, purest essence. His polarizing
masterpiece The Tree of Life was
my favorite film of 2011; a rhap-
sodic, oracular ode to the interplay
of human nature and divine grace
that likened the daily struggles of a
family in 1950s Texas to the birthing
pains of the universe itself.
His latest effort, To the Wonder,
contains similarly rapturous imag-
ery, some of it cobbled together from
unused Tree of Life footage. But
the evanescent magic that sustained
his previous work is gone, replaced
by a moody, ponderous sense of self-
indulgence that verges on flagrant
self-parody towards the final act.
This drastic lapse in quality is alter-
nately frustrating and depressing,
the cinematic equivalent of Hendrix
suddenly forgetting how to play the
guitar.
The plot, which we gradually
piece together through a miasma of
whispers and sighs, revolves around
environmentalist Neil (Ben Affleck,
fresh from his Best Picture win)
and his budding relationship with
Marina (Olga Kurylenko, last seen
dodging alien drones in Oblivion),
the beautiful French girl he falls
for during a trip to the island for-
tress of Mont Saint-Michel, whose
soaring spires and shifting sands
are undoubtedly meant to represent
some unachievable romantic ideal.
He eventually convinces Marina
and her saucer-eyed young daugh-
ter (Tatiana Chiline) to start a new
life with him back in Oklahoma, a
land of open spaces, contaminat-
ed groundwater and endless Sonic
Drive-Ins (its mildly disconcerting
to see Malicks brilliant cinematogra-
pher Emmanuel Lubezki reduced to
pursuing transcendental splendor in
a burger stand parking lot).
Little by little, the lovers turn cold,
mainly because the dull, earnest Neil
refuses to join the alarmingly free-
spirited Marina (we can tell shes
free-spirited because shes constantly
twirling around the house, spout-
ing faux-profound poetry about the
love that loves us) for the ump-
teenth frolic through the flowing,
sun-dappled gossamer of the living
room curtains. This drives the pitiful
lug into the arms of his childhood
sweetheart Jane (Rachel McAdams,
barely registering), a female rancher
who frankly doesnt seem that much
different from Marina.
In the midst of all this literal and
figurative spinning in place, its easy
to miss the one performance that
makes To the Wonder a salvage-
able experience. Just when we feel
as if we cant stand another minute
trapped with the aggressively sullen
Affleck and Kurylenko, the spiritual-
ly conflicted Father Quintana (Javier
Bardem) appears like an emissary
from one of Malicks past master-
works. Bardems scenes in the film
are absolutely exquisite, a powerful,
unadorned portrait of a holy man
who can feel his connection to God
slipping away after years of soaking
up the doubts and fears of others.
The Class of 2013 would do well to
memorize his sermon concerning
the man who hesitates.
Malick was once considered cin-
emas least productive genius, releas-
ing only four films (Badlands,
Days of Heaven, The Thin Red
Line and The New World) in the
span of nearly 40 years. Now, follow-
ing an unexplained burst of volition,
he is said to have no less than three
new projects in development. Could
this be why To the Wonder feels
like such a frail, formless wisp of
a movie? Is the mediums greatest
living impressionist guilty of overex-
tending himself to the point of cre-
ative exhaustion? Or is this merely
a case of familiarity breeding con-
tempt? Theres only one man capable
of answering these questions, and he
isnt talking.
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By Landon McDonald
lmcdonald@kansan.com
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to the wonder.
Aries (March 21-April 19)
today is an 8
Venus enters Gemini for over a
month of learning. study with
passion. in a conflict of interests,
walk a thin line. Follow rules, and
complain only to someone who can
do something. trust your heart.
taurus (April 20-May 20)
today is a 9
its easier to make money for the
next month, and youre in the zone.
the New Moon solar eclipse in
your sign today provides confident
energy for six months. Follow your
own drummer.
Gemini (May 21-June 20)
today is an 8
the urge to run and play tempts.
youre irresistibly lucky in love,
with Venus in your sign. use the
New Moon solar eclipse to organize
and clear space.
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
today is a 9
you wont wear your heart on your
sleeve as much this next month.
sweet dreams and fantasies
abound. Allow yourself more quiet
time to consider. sort, file and dis-
card. dont reveal all your secrets.
Leo (July 23-Aug. 22)
today is an 8
youre especially popular, and
group activities go well. its a good
time to get your message across.
Evaluate accounts. settle an old
debt. reconsider a decision a bit
longer.
Virgo (Aug. 23-sept. 22)
today is a 9
divide the necessary tasks more
equitably. then sell, sell, sell! For
four weeks, its easier to advance
your agenda, and social network-
ing is key. take your time with
complex computations. Give and
receive love.
Libra (sept. 23-oct. 22)
today is a 9
dont push too hard or youll break
something. its good for travel and
setting goals this coming month.
Make a list. sidestep a conflict of
interests. Confer with your team.
think (and reserve) ahead.
scorpio (oct. 23-Nov. 21)
today is a 9
its easier to save this month and
to push forward. increase assets
by being aware of expenditures.
stay out of the argument yet soak
up their enthusiasm. youre gain-
ing confidence. re-assess your
aspirations.
sagittarius (Nov. 22-dec. 21)
today is a 9
provide leadership. partnership
and compromise arrive more eas-
ily. watch out for misunderstand-
ings. question tradition. you dont
need to tell everyone everything.
Capricorn (dec. 22-Jan. 19)
today is a 9
your work is more fun and cre-
ative. A feminine touch colors your
workplace. you can afford to save.
shop carefully, and dont lose
receipts. provide support.
Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18)
today is a 9
Artistic efforts blossom. youre
lucky in love for the next month,
and beauty abounds. Finalize cre-
ative plans with discipline. Calm
your mind. Cutting corners costs
you. Avoid reckless spending.
pisces (Feb. 19-March 20)
today is a 9
start from practical basics,
and toss out the superfluous.
your home can become your love
nest. domesticity thrives for the
next month. use your own good
judgment, and dont be afraid to
change routine.
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stress is to learn to recognize it by your body language
and to put yourself first when those awkward situa-
tions arise.
Whether its telling a friend you cant go out with
her tonight because you have too much homework
or telling a neighbor you cant babysit her daughter
because youd rather see the newest Brad Pitt movie,
sometimes you just need to say no and do what is
best for you.
Susan Newman, a social psychologist, wrote four
simple steps on Health.com on how to say no when
you really need to: Be enthusiastic, skip the excuses,
show empathy and start with the no part. Brown
agreed that you need to have a process laid out to
help you steer clear of getting pulled into unwanted
situations.
Brown said to give your deci-
sion thought before you respond.
If its out of habit to say yes, think of the relative
importance of what theyre asking and how thats
going to play into your time and priorities, he said.
Because once you say yes then you have additional
stress if you change your mind.
Ferrell said a lot of times, people will call her first
if they need a favor.
I just feel bad when they ask, she said. So even
if I have something I need to do, Ill put that aside to
make sure they get done what they need to. Most of
the time, she said, she doesnt even feel appreciated
afterward.
Despite her willingness to bend over backwards
for her friends, Ferrell knows it sometimes affects
her health.
I feel stressed a lot, she said. I wish I could say
no more.
Ferrell struggles with rejecting friends on a daily
basis, but is learning to put herself first.
My thought process is: I should say no, but if I say
no, then no one else will say yes. So I go do it for them.
But I need to stop that.
Brown posed an important reflection question:
What is going to make you feel better, even tomor-
row? Not just what will make you feel better right
now?
When saying yes isnt your stress
We all get stressed about different issues, and
Kocan and Brown agree that we have unique ways of
dealing with it.
Kristian Farner, a junior from Towanda, said feel-
ing compelled to help out a friend comes natural to
him, but his biggest monster is stress from procrasti-
nating. He relies on his Adderall prescription to help
out with his late-night study habits, but sometimes
that can be worse.
Adderall just boosts whatever type of mood Im
in, so if Im already stressed, Im going to be really
stressed, he said. Its stress building on stress.
Farner found he goes through the same scenario
almost every night that puts him back in the same
situation.
I realize this is what happened last time, he
said. Why am I an idiot? Why did I let that happen
again?
Kocan suggested to identify the source of stress and
to get away from it for a while.
Farner likes to take short naps to give his mind a
break.
I feel like too many things are going on in my
head, he said. I dont make an improvement if I keep
trying to power through.
Meredith Allison, a junior from Larned, works 20
hours a week at the Alumni Center and the Clinton
Lake marina and is enrolled in 19 credit hours. Her
busy schedule leaves her overwhelmed.
I really have a plan every day, she said. If I get off
schedule, everything turns into stress, stress, stress.
Brown said it is crucial to keep your priorities
straight and to focus on what you really need to get
done. Dont stress yourself out by trying to do too
much.
Know what needs to get done and do that first,
Brown said. If you have time left, then decide want
you want to do with that.
Allison said that balancing work, school, extracur-
ricular activities and a social life can get hectic, but
she has learned to make the best of it.
I dont take any moment for granted, she said. I
weave my social life in with school and extracurricu-
lars, and Im always trying to do the best I can for my
friends and for myself.
Kocan said the key to relaxing is to put yourself
first. If you cant make yourself happy, youre not
likely to make anyone else happy, she said. Listen to
your body and treat it well. Allison has learned to do
PAGE 6A thE UNIVERSItY DAILY KANSAN thURSDAY, MAY 9, 2013
Who knew a simple word such as yes could be
adding to our mountain of stress?
Her phone simultaneously buzzed and lit up with
a new text. Emily Ferrell immediately stopped typing
her paper and read it.
Can you drive me to class?
Buried in homework, she reluctantly pressed the
letters y, e, s.
Ferrell finds it hard to say no, and a recent Health.
com study attributed higher levels of stress to feeling
pressured to accommodate other people. It said stress
is especially prominent today because requests are
consistently coming at us through a constant connec-
tion with technology.
The overused affirmative can often make us feel
better about ourselves, but it can sometimes be a
burden without us realizing it. Theres a line between
being generous and being a doormat because we
all know giving to others periodically makes us feel
good. So, when do we put our foot down?
The most obvious sign youre being too nice is
when saying yes makes you feel bad, said Robert
Brown, a physician at Watkins Memorial Health
Center.
Liz Kocan, a health educator at the University, said
its when you begin to feel stressed about it.
You have to do whats right for you, she said.
For Ferrell, a junior from Shawnee, the answer is
always yes. She feels obligated to help her friends,
whether theyre asking for a ride to class or for help
with their homework.
I will say yes probably 99 percent of the time.
Ferrell admits that more often than not, she puts
others feelings above her own. Four years ago, her
doctor prescribed her Xanex to help lower anxiety
and stress, but her failure to say no in most situa-
tions often hinders her life.
There are an infinite number of situations that
cause us to feel stressed, and whatever it is, you are
certainly not alone. A survey sited in the New York
Times found that the average college freshmans stress
levels are at an all-time high since more than 25 years
ago. It found that only 52 percent of college students
reported having above-average emotional health.
I asked 89 college students in my Applied Behavioral
Science 100 class to rate their current stress level on a
scale of one to 10, 10 being extremely stressed. More
than 60 percent of them ranked their stress level as a
seven or higher. The top four stressors were school,
finances, the future and relationships.
One student anonymously wrote, Where am I
going to be in two years when I graduate? Theres so
much stress with money afterward, and I also want to
find meaningful relationships while in college to help
prepare myself for marriage.
Someone put their stress level as 100, and said,
There is never a slow week Teachers keep it com-
ing.
Another wrote about the stress that comes with
being depressed and overweight. Ive never been at
the weight I want to be. It makes me self-conscious
about what other people think of me.
Stress can have seriously negative implications
on our body, Kocan said. It affects the immune
system drastically and breaks it down, causing you
to feel sick or tired, she said. It also can cause heart
problems. Kocan called stress the silent killer Its
unknown. You dont know youre causing it to your
body. She said that one of the biggest ways to reduce
JUSt SAY No!
Quit committing to all the
things that stress you out.
Do what you want to do.
tRAVIS YoUNG/KANSAN
Students often fnd themselves swamped with too many commitments, whether to school and work or favors for friends. When it
all starts to be too much, fnd a way to make yourself happy before helping others.
this and has found it easier to do throughout her col-
lege career.
Most people are their own biggest critic, and its
important to discover how to turn that into something
positive, said Kocan. A former college softball player,
she channeled her frustration through hitting practice.
Softball was simultaneously her stressor and her stress
relief. Kocan said it was a long period of trial and
error before she could pinpoint what was wrong and
take care of herself.
I didnt realize I was stressed at the time, she said.
And that affected me for a long period of time.
As the semester progresses, the stress piles on with
tests, projects and finals. Some students, like Ferrell,
worry too much about pleasing others that they forget
to please themselves, while others, like Farner and
Allison, struggle to keep stress out of their lives. You
can benefit from just saying no sometimes, or even
just taking a deep breath and a short break from your
stressors.
Caroline Atkinson
How to deAl
Liz Kocan, health educater at the University, suggested
an easy solution to help reduce stress: Do something
you love.
I posted on Twitter to see what individual people do to
zap stress. Maybe one of these peer-approved Twitter
tonics will help you:
@Sam_Albers
going to the gym, listening to music,
and having a beer with a friend.
@beckzzz11
over eating!
@Ja_DoreAsh:
listening to music :)
@_andikristine
driving around, windows down, singing
along to The Breakup CD at the top of
my lungs!
@AJBARBRoSA
booze.
@GarretBuie
driving back roads at uh the
suggested speed limit
@Lstaples24
run!
@erains22
Running!!! Driving around back
roads, listening to music really loud,
yoga, long talk sessions with my good
friends, laughing.
Follow
@UDK_Entertain
on Twitter
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Thursday, May 9, 2013
NEW YORK Helping to free
three women from nearly a decade
in captivity would seem to be
enough. Neighbor Charles Ramsey
has also become a star, offering
moments of levity in an unspeak-
ably horrible story, free publicity
for a restaurant chain and unex-
pected lessons in race relations.
Ramsey lived next door to where
Ariel Castro is alleged to have kept
the women in a makeshift prison
until Monday afternoon, when
Ramsey happened to be home and
heard Amanda Berrys scream.
Or let him tell it: I got the day
off from work, so naturally youre
doing nothing.
Actually, he was eating my
McDonalds, a fact he trumpeted
so frequently that the grateful food
giant is trying to get in touch with
him. A website that compiled some
of Ramseys television interviews
kept count of how many times he
mentioned McDonalds in each.
Ramsey, 43, gave a series of
interviews to Cleveland television
stations as the story broke Monday
night that were replayed on nation-
al news. CNNs Anderson Cooper
tracked him down for a lengthy
conversation the next night. The
interviews are performance art
masterpieces, so filled with color-
ful language and astute reporting
that he trended on Twitter and was
the subject of Internet memes and
an Auto-tuned song.
Similarly, a tape of a much more
profane Ramsey talking to a 911
operator (whom he later called
an imbecile) is circulating on the
Web.
During his initial interviews,
Ramsey said he was shocked to
learn of allegations that Ariel
Castro led a double life. Ramsey
said he used to barbecue with this
dude. We eat ribs and what-not,
listen to salsa music.
There was nothing exciting
about Castro, he said. Until today,
he added.
Youve got some big testicles to
pull this off, bro, he said.
During his Tuesday interview
with Cooper, Ramsey, who works
at Hodges Restaurant in Cleveland,
noted that he had trouble sleeping
with the knowl-
edge of what had
been happen-
ing in the house
next door. Up
until yesterday,
the only thing
that had me los-
ing sleep was the
lack of money,
he said.
If he had
known what was going on, he said
hed be facing a homicide charge
for taking matters into his own
hands.
Im glad it turned out this way,
Cooper replied.
Ramseys realization of what was
happening on Monday was itself
a revealing observation on race.
Seeing a white girl in that situation
was a dead giveaway that she was
either homeless or had other prob-
lems, he said.
When a little pretty white girl
ran into a black
mans arms,
something was
wrong, he said.
That sen-
tence itself made
Ramseys inter-
viewer uncom-
fortable; their
c o nv e r s a t i o n
quickly ended.
But the sound
bite was also highlighted in a paro-
dy song that was quickly doctored
with Auto-tune and posted online.
The phrases picked out for the
song like we eat ribs with this
dude also seemed to emphasize
Ramseys blackness.
Past examples of television inter-
views that seem to play to exagger-
ated ethnic stereotypes have been
the subject of online mockery that
struck some observers as racist. An
Alabama man, Antoine Dodson,
had his comments about a relatives
attempted rape go viral.
Ramsey is the latest hilari-
ous black neighbor to become
an Internet celebrity, wrote Aisha
Harris on the website Slate. Its dif-
ficult to watch these videos and not
sense their popularity has some-
thing to do with a persistent, if
unconscious, desire to see black
people perform, she wrote.
Theres always this sense of
otherness when something like
this happens, when you see people
who dont look like you or talk like
you, said Tracy Clayton, a writer
and editor for the Root website.
I like to laugh and make jokes as
much as the other person, but I
hope that we remember the women
in this story, too.
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Lauren Dowben always wanted to meet her signif-
cant other in college, so when she exchanged numbers
with a guy she met in one of her classes, she consid-
ered him a possible mate for a long-term commitment.
Over the next few months, they communicated via text
message and Facebook, and they spent time together
watching movies and hanging out, but eventually he
told her that although he liked her, he did not want a
relationship with her.
He didnt know what he wanted, and he thought
it might be me, but it wasnt, Dowben, a senior from
Mountain Brook, Ala., said. When he fnally told me
he didnt want a relationship, I still held out hope be-
cause I liked him.
Dowben constitutes 63 percent of college women
who yearn to fnd their future husband in college, ac-
cording to a 2001 study by the Institute for American
Values, a socially conservative organization. Te study
interviewed 62 undergraduate women on 11 campus-
es, including private and public colleges, and surveyed
1,000 college women students. Although college can be
a great place for us to encounter new people, it can be
harder than it may seem to obtain an enduring rela-
tionship.
In college, it may seem a little easier because you
are in contact with so many people all the time, so there
are a lot of options, Allyn Lueders, a graduate teaching
assistant in communication studies at the University,
said. Unfortunately, college is also stressful, and that
makes it hard. To fnd the right one, you have to be the
right one for someone else, and that means prioritizing
the relationship over other things.
College is also a place for us to experiment, which
includes making mistakes and learning from them. Lu-
eders said one misunderstanding we have involves our
perception of how to fnd the right one.
Its common to think that fnding the right person
will be easy or fast, but it isnt always, Lueders said.
Also, it might not be love at frst sight. Ofen times,
love grows out of friendship so, you shouldnt dismiss
someone completely just because you werent in love
with him or her from the very beginning.
Another mistake we may make includes searching
for the right person in the wrong place. Jeremy Nich-
olson, a social and personality psychologist and dating
and relationship consultant on Psychology Today, said
those of us who want to meet potential partners for a
serious, long-term relationship should avoid parties
and any settings where people only want short-term
satisfaction.
Te best environment is any environment where
students are more serious about themselves and rela-
tionships, Nicholson said. Any environment that has
a shared goal where you have common interests and
can build upon an established relationship is good.
But just how exactly do we know when someone
is supposedly meant for us? Ronnie Ryan, a dating
coach on YourTango, said we should evaluate whether
someone is right for us by how he or she treats us and
how compatible we are with that person.
You should be able to be comfortable around and
understand each other, Ryan said. Communication
and trust are crucial. Also, you have to want the same
things and have similar life goals.
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Women use college as
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A recent study shows that 63 percent of college women aim to fnd their future husband during their college careers.
WASHINGTON (AP) Mi-
chelle Obama on Tuesday returned
to the business of selling her frst
book, and she started by telling
scores of people waiting in line at
a popular bookstore to buy away
because Mothers Day is coming.
Its a great gif, she said of
American Grown: Te Story of
the White House Kitchen Garden
and Gardens Across America.
Te book was published about a
year ago in late May, and the frst
lady did just one book-signing
event in Washington about two
weeks aferward. She was, at the
time, taking part in an even bigger
sales job: campaigning around the
country to help President Barack
Obama win a second term.
If you recall, when the book
came out we were in the middle
of this campaign, or something or
other, she joked Tuesday. So we
were a little busy.
With the election over and a
second term in the history books,
Mrs. Obama ventured a few miles
north of the White House to the
Politics and Prose bookstore on a
rainy morning to plug the fruit of
her frst turn as a best-selling au-
thor.
Te frst lady said she wrote the
271-page book for a bumper crop
of reasons: to tell the story of her
White House garden on the South
Lawn, to spread the word about
the history of community garden-
ing in the United States and to
start a conversation about child-
hood obesity in the U.S.
Before the signing, the frst lady
said all book proceeds are going
to the National Park Foundation
to help support the White House
garden and community gardens
across the country.
Ramsey gains fame from 911 call