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Jude Council #5814 NY - 3rd District

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St. Jude Beacon

February 2018 - Volume XVI - Number II
William Swiatkowski, Editor

GRAND KNIGHT’S MESSAGE

ONE KofC COUNCIL
My Brothers All,

February is the time for Valentines, President's Week school vacations, Baseball
teams open Spring Training, we still have snow to dig out some days – and this
year on Feb 14th we celebrate Ash Wednesday and the start of Lent. The purpose
of Lent is to prepare ourselves through prayer, doing penance, repentance of sins,
almsgiving, and self-denial. Lent will bring us through March, ending on Easter
Sunday April 1st.
We are back to work on one of our most important activities – Membership. On
January 9th St. Jude Council hosted both Initiation (1st) and Formation (2nd)
St. Jude, Pray for Us Degrees, bringing in new members. Also on January 26th three members received
their Knighthood (3rd) Degree at Mother Cabrini Council in Coram. Coming on
Feb 13th is another Initiation (1st) Degree in Patchogue. Thanks to our membership
In service Chairman SK John Nugent for leading the Membership efforts.
to one. An upcoming event you won't want to miss is the Fraternal Benefits Night on

In service Wed Feb 21. The evening will include videos and presenters on such topics as:
Your KofC membership benefits; the KofC Life Insurance program for members,
to all. spouses and their children; Planning for Retirement and Assets; Final expenses
and funeral plans; Protecting Real Estate interests; and much more. Refreshments,
coffee and cake available.
The Suffolk Chapter 2018 Charity Drive is on and once again we have chance
books available. You can get chance books at our business meeting February 7th,
at the Fraternal Benefits Night February 21st or at the Council Hall. It is the
responsibility of all members to participate in this effort by either buying books,
selling them or attending a chance book sales event. The St. Jude Ladies Auxiliary
will also participate in the Chapter Charity Drive which supports the Council and the
Chapter. In the first half of the year, our C&B chance book drive provided the
Council with most of its income and allowed us to donate so much to our parishes.

Vivat Jesus,

S.K. Eugene A. Johann

Grand Knight
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A Prayer for Love
Love is patient, love is kind and is
not jealous; love does not brag and
is not arrogant, does not act
unbecomingly; it does not seek its
own, is not provoked, does not take
into account a wrong suffered, does
not rejoice in unrighteousness, but
rejoices with the truth; bears all things,
believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things.
From Book of Corinthians
The Corner of Faith
Catechism of Life in Christ
2196 In response to the question about
the first of the commandments, Jesus
says: "The first is, 'Hear, O Israel: The
Lord our God, the Lord is one; and you
shall love the Lord your God with all your
heart, and with all your soul, and with all
your mind, and with all your strength.' The
second is this, 'You shall love your
neighbor as yourself.' There is no other
commandment greater than these."2
The apostle St. Paul reminds us of this:
"He who loves his neighbor has fulfilled
the law. The commandments,
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Conversion to the Gospel of Life
Supreme Chaplain Archbishop William E. Lori
THE SPIRIT of the annual March for Life in Washington, D.C., is extraordinary. It is not only peaceful but also full of hope and joy.
It is forward-looking as it seeks to create a culture of life and love. And while it draws people of all ages, the crowd tends to be
young, including many millennials and young families. Standing in the crowd, you feel as though you’re at a version of World
Youth Day — filled with the conviction that human life is God’s precious gift and that each person, from the moment of conception,
is endowed by the Creator with inviolable dignity and, indeed, “a right to life.”
I often ask myself what draws so many people to this event. What makes them travel great distances, spend sleepless nights on
buses, and stand for hours on cold, soggy ground? Is it merely a political movement, or is it something more? The answer, I think,
is that the Lord is at work in the minds and hearts of these good people and many more like them. The word for it has to be
“conversion” — the Lord is converting minds and hearts to the Gospel of Life. And I would further offer that this process of
conversion takes place within us on three levels — intellectual, moral and religious.
SEEKING TRUTH We commonly think of conversion solely as a religious experience, such as coming to faith in Christ or
converting to Catholicism. Yet conversion has other meanings as well. In general, it is a change of direction in our lives that takes
us beyond ourselves, beyond our limited point of view, beyond our purely personal interests — or, as Pope Francis would say,
beyond our comfort zone. It is a shift that leads us to strive to be better, more authentic versions of ourselves.
Conversion is thus a common human experience. And as noted above, it often occurs on three levels in our lives. Let’s look at all
three to understand more deeply the ways in which people can be converted to the truth and beauty of the Gospel of Life. First,
intellectual conversion begins when we start asking questions and challenging assumptions. We begin to wonder whether what
we had assumed to be true is in fact true. We question the rhetoric and hype that we hear and see.
Many people who once considered themselves avidly “pro-choice” arrived at a point in their lives when they started asking
questions about arguments for abortion, leading them to ultimately change their minds. At a certain point, they took seriously
the philosophical arguments and scientific evidence advanced in favor of the humanity of the unborn child. For others, the
breakthrough experience came when they actually saw an unborn child via an ultrasound machine. Indeed, this is the case for
many as a result of the Knights of Columbus Ultrasound Initiative.
MOVED TO GRATITUDE A change of mind often leads to a change in one’s actions, to moral conversion — to a different way of
understanding, judging and acting. As a rule, people see themselves as reasonable and conscientious. When individuals take that
view of themselves seriously, they may arrive at a point when they become uncomfortable making decisions and acting solely on
the basis of what they think is in their best interest. They start thinking not only about their own problems, comfort or convenience.
They start asking about what really matters, what is really important in life. In other words, they become concerned about virtues
and values.
When people become convinced of the value of human life, they may be led to make difficult choices. Their newfound support for
the cause of life may alienate friends and colleagues. Even as individuals undergo intellectual and moral conversion, something
deeper may be going on in the depths of their being — namely, a genuine religious conversion. After all, once life is understood
as a precious gift, many are struck by the thought that God loves what he has made. From there, it is a short step to thank the
Creator for the gift of life and, in so doing, to fall in love with him. We are prompted to believe in, trust and worship the living God,
thanking him for creating each person in his image; thanking him for sending his Son to assume and redeem our humanity;
thanking him for calling us to friendship with himself.
Thus, intellectual convictions and moral choices in favor of life become surrounded by God’s grace and love. This experience
transforms us deeply and fills our pro-life advocacy with genuine love of God and neighbor. We then become not only advocates
for life but also witnesses to the God of love who created and redeemed us.
From KofC.org 1/01/2018 Copyright Knights of Columbus KofC.org2018
"Today, the Knights of
Columbus is providentially
positioned to play a key role
'You shall not commit adultery, You shall in the new alliance between
not kill, You shall not steal, You shall not the Church and the family
covet,' and any other commandment, are
called for by Pope Francis…
summed up in this sentence, 'You shall
love your neighbor as yourself.' Love What is necessary now is
does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore our greater involvement
love is the fulfilling of the law." in the renewal of parish
-from the Catechism of the Catholic Church
and family life."
CHARITY, UNITY ~~
FRATERNITY, Supreme Knight
and PATRIOTISM Carl Anderson
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Brothers and Sisters, District Deputy’s Message

It is February and what does February bring to mind? When I think of February, I think about Washington’s
and Lincoln’s Birthdays. I guess now it’s just “President’s” day. I remember being in school and always
hearing the story of George Washington and the cherry tree and the old “I cannot tell a lie” when his father
asked him about it. And of course old “Honest Abe” Lincoln. Abe got his nickname because when he was a
shopkeeper he once walked 10 miles to give a lady back her change that she had mistakenly left behind
on the counter. Do they still tell these stories to kids in school today? I certainly hope so. I think it’s important
for kids to hear them, to know and understand that there is nothing more important than to be honest and to
be a person of integrity. I think they should go back to some of the old role models that kids had back in the
day, like our Founding Fathers. They certainly can’t look up to the celebrities of today, or the sports stars like
we used to. They’re in the papers everyday getting arrested and sometimes even worse. February also brings to
mind for some Valentine’s Day and candy and flowers and of course love. Where did the story of Valentine’s Day begin? A popular
account of Saint Valentine of Rome states that he was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry
and I guess that’s where the part about the love comes in. In the middle ages, it evolved into an occasion in which lovers expressed
their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery and sending greeting cards (known as “valentines”). Throw in a
naked little cherub shooting arrows and the legend is complete.
I would like to congratulate all of the New Brother Knights who Attended some or all of the Degrees we held in January. On
January 9th we held both an Admission and Formation Degree at St. Jude Council. A Special thanks to St. Jude for not only hosting
the Degrees, but for the great work of their Degree Teams ( with a little help from a few Brothers from The Queen and Kavanaugh in
the Admission Degree). And then on January 26th we held a Knighthood Degree, with over 50 Brothers taking their Journey into full
Knighthood in our Order. And we never stop recruiting. There is an Admission Degree scheduled for February 13th in Patchogue if
anyone is holding onto any applications or may have a prospective member, there is still time to bring him in.

I look forward to seeing you all in the weeks to come or at the next Degree.

Vivat Jesus-

Michael Boehm P.G.K., D.D. Third N.Y. District

Chairman of the Board of District Deputies
p: (631)774-2605 e: mb1122@msn.com

Suffolk Chapter News - This month in the Chapter:

The Chapter Charity Drive is underway! This year‘s recipients will be the 9-1-1 Vets and the The Gianna Center.
Our Council is selling Charity Drive Raffle Books now, so to purchase Books or to see how you can help, contact GK Gene Johann.
The Chapter Fraternal & Weekend is March 16, 17 & 18 at the Villa Roma. To get more information call Tom Romano at (631) 561-7052
If you are interested in attending the weekend with Brother Knights from throughout the Chapter, please contact the Grand knight, Gene Johann.

#5814 St. Jude Council Officers February Birthdays

Corporation Directors
Chaplain Msgr. SK Rev. William Breslawski 631-744-2609 Lawrence Di Palma PGK 2/1
President Chaplain Rev. Fr. Thomas Tuite 631-744-2800
Grand Knight SK Gene Johann 631-804-1886 Henry Tomaszewski 2/4
SK Vincent J. Maggio, 744-1673
Deputy Paul Knudsen 631-664-6410 Richard Grecco 2/9
Chancellor SK John Nugent 631-744-1821
Vice President Nano Bustamante 2/12
Warden SK Steve Spector 631-821-3249
SK Salvatore J. LaLima, 821-0082 Recorder SK James Lilley, PGK, PFN 631-294-8001 John Minton 2/16
Fin Secretary SK John Sommers, PGK, FDD 631-513-2626 Bernard Tenreiro 2/17
Secretary Treasurer SK Richard Bowne 631-793-3037
SK Robert W. Wilken, 821-4962 Advocate SK Paul Basileo, PGK, FDD 631-375-7088 John O'Hara 2/18
Lecturer SK Ralph Ferrara, PGK 631-662-1235 Russ Lascala 2/20
Treasurer Inside Guard SK Jonathan Romano 631-821-2570
Kenneth Scalfani 2/21
SK Richard B. Landers, 291-9440 Outside Guard SK Gary Duryea 631-905-3568
Trustee 1 Year SK Joe Daly PGK 631-744-2433 Frank Cosentino 2/23
Director Trustee 2 Year SK Joseph Badalamenti 631-744-0752 Lawrence Paone 2/25
Herbert B. Simmons, 744-0951 Trustee 3 Year SK Fred Hess, PGK 631-603-7348
Anthony Schmidt PGK 2/25
Director Donald Sioss 2/25
Contacts:
SK Joseph Padovan, 821-1633 Walter Tracy 2/25
District Deputy SK Mike Boehm PGK, COB 631-744-2605
Director Field Agent SK Johnathan Bittner 631-207-4242 James Mannetta 2/28
Henry Walden, 744-9775 Beacon Editor William Swiatkowski 516-729-3142 John Modica Sr 2/28

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Financial Secretary’s Corner 2018 Dues

Membership Numbers: Reminder Notices were sent out Feb. 1st.
Associate Members - 122 Dues can be mailed to FS John Sommers or
Insurance Members - 79 handed to him at a Business Meeting.
Inactive Members- 21 Please pay dues promptly in order to avoid
Total Membership - 222 the expense of additional mailings.
Honorary Members - 4 Dues for the year are $40.
Honorary Life Members - 56 If you have any questions contact
Disabled Members - 0 FS John Sommers at
- SK John Sommers, FS, PGK, FDD jsommers@optonline.net or 631-513-2626.

Upcoming Events for February 2018

02/02 Friday National Ground Hogs Day Punxsutawney, PA
2/7 Wednesday Council Business Meeting St. Jude Council 7:30pm
2/9 Friday Suffolk Chapter Meeting 7:30pm Dinner / 8pm Meeting
2/13 Friday TueInitiation (1st) Degree Patchogue Council 7:30pm
2/14 Wednesday Ash Wednesday
2/14 Wednesday District Deputy Meeting Patchogue Council 7:30pm
2/14 Wednesday Valentine’s Day
2/19 Monday President’s Day
2/21 Wednesday Fraternal Benefits Night St. Jude Council 7:00pm
2/27 Tuesday Council Officer's Meeting St. Jude Council 7:30pm
2/28 Wednesday Shea Assembly Meeting Sts. Philip & James 7:00pm
2/28 Wednesday Ladies Auxiliary Meeting St. Jude Council 7:00pm

Future Dates
3/16, 3/17, 3/18 Fraternal Weekend Villa Roma, Upstate NY

Lent is Coming
Feb 14th - April 1st

St. Jude Council #5814 Ladies Auxiliary Corner

The St. Jude Council #5814 Ladies Auxiliary:
• President Marie Basileo (631) 821-6071 • Vice President Betty Pizza (516) 375-5248
• Secretary Diane Morgan (631) 648-3120 • Treasurer Linda Nugent (631) 512-8505

Upcoming events include hosting a Soup Supper one Friday Evening during Lent and a family Movie Night in the month of April.
If you would like to join the Ladies Auxiliary, please call one of the women listed above.

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Around the Community

Chairman Paul Basileo
and Youth Director
Jonathan Romano
with Free Throw participants.

Fraternal
Benefits Night
Wednesday
February 21st at 7pm
Members & Spouses and Non-members welcome
~
Many members may believe that they know about all the benefits available,
but actually they change and you should keep up on what is available.
~
For more information please contact GK Gene Johann at 631 804-1886

St. Patrick's Dinner

coming March 11, 2018
Life Insurance • Long-Term Care Insurance
right after we march Retirement Annuities • Disability Income Insurance
in the parade. Contact Your Representative Today.
Jonathan Bittner
(631) 466-0828
More Info to Come. jonathan.bittner@kofc.org

** Wake Service **
The Council is updating its Wake Service notification record. If you would like to be informed of the passing of a brother
and the wake information please provide your phone number and/or email address to FS John Sommers. You can
either email the information to jsommers@optonline.net (put Wake Service in the subject line) or call 631-924-8708.

Grand Knight’s Corner

If any member knows of the passing of a Brother Knight or knows of a
Brother Knight in need, please notify GK Gene Johann at 631 804-1886 or
our Funeral Services Director Ralph Ferrara at 631 662-1235

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Suffolk Chapter
Charity Ball 2018
Sunday June 24th 2018
12:30PM - 5:30PM at The Watermill
Cocktail Hour
Sit-down Dinner (4 Choices)
Open Bar
Ice Cream Bar, Chocolate Fountain, Cake
Coffee
Live Band “Hart & Soul”

$77 Per Person

For Reservations Call John Mastrosimone Ball Chairman at (631) 943-5771

Thursday Night Game Time

Come join your fellow brothers to watch the
NY Islanders play the NY Rangers on Thursday, February 15th.
If you don't like hockey or the teams playing don't interest you,
consider coming down to the hall for some fun and camradry with your brothers.
Food & snacks will be provided beginning at 6:00pm. Cash bar.

Game Time: 7:00pm

Donations appreciated.
RSVP John Sommers at jsommers@optonline.net or 631-513-2626 by Monday October 16th so we can have enough food.

Please Keep in Your Prayers

Brother Richard Bowne’s Granddaughter
Scarlett, Brothers John Lennon, Barney
Flanagan & wife Joan Mastrogiacomo as
she works on getting better. Brother Rich
Olivia, PGK and Bill Christiansen's daughter

All the souls of Brothers lost

in our Council and in The Order.
(if you need prayers or know of a member or family etc.,
please send me the information to share).

Contact G.K. Gene Johann at 631-804-1886

St. Jude, patron of hopeless cases, pray for us.

Receiving the Bulletin by Email

Brothers if you would like to receive the bulletin by email please forward an email to FS John Sommers at jsommers@optonline.net.
Please include St Jude Bulletin in the subject line. Receiving the bulletin by email will reduce the monthly printing and mailing costs to the Council.

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 Prayer for the Canonization of Father Michael J. McGivney

God, our Father, protector of the poor and

defender of the widow and orphan, you called
your priest, Father Michael J. McGivney, to be
an apostle of Christian family life and to lead the
young to the generous service of their neighbor.
Through the example of his life and virtue may
we follow your Son, Jesus Christ, more closely,
fulfilling his commandment of charity and building
up his Body which is the Church. Let the
inspiration of your servant prompt us to greater
confidence in your love so that we may continue his work of caring for the
needy and the outcast. We humbly ask that you glorify your servant
Father Michael J. McGivney on earth according to the design of your
holy will. Through his intercession, grant the favor I now present
(here make your request). Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be.

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