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Intimate Interviews
Get provocative comments Give a new or different perspective Create original content Get the interviewee excited
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A well-done Intimate Interview is your surest way to develop a Viral Marketing Piece. Youll be able to create a buzz You should hear what _____ said about ______!
THIS IS The One Skill That Can Benefit Every Part Of Your Online Marketing.
If Youre a Copywriter or Write Copy For Your Business
Intimate Interviews will help you uncover Hidden reasons the target audience will buy Hidden reasons the target audience wont buy Deep emotional triggers you cant find any other way The hidden objections, perceptions and hot buttons And also Cut your research time by half Trigger your subconscious mind eliciting your best material Become connected and passionate about the person, product or service . Know that getting there is the key to effortless, emotion-driven, multidimensional copy. Copy that feels right, feels believable Copy that has emotion, strength and clarity.
THIS IS The Best Way To Leverage Your Assets -- Your Knowledge -- Your Experience -- Your Contacts.
No matter your goals with interviewing, you can accomplish them in a relatively short period of timeif you ingrain these techniques. Doing just one Intimate Interview a week will make a world of difference in your businessand its fun! You Won't Master This Overnight In these pages you'll find interview techniques and the secret strategies Ive used for years to extract potent emotional and useful information. But like any technique, studying and ingraining are essential. But like any new skill, study and practice are essential. Your goal is to ingrain these techniques, so they become natural and fluid. Then youll be able to turn your full attention to the conversation you are having which is the key to a brilliant Intimate Interview. You see, interviewing is not a passive form of listening. Its active participation. Its a tool. Its being tuned in to what people are not saying. You will gain access to the real issues, desires and motivations of your clients, your target market, or even your friends and family. Forget about running down a list of questions. That doesnt work if you want to get to the deeper objections, perceptions and hot buttons. It begins with you. The next time you react emotionally to something (like getting angry) ask yourself Why am I reacting in this way? Youll realize that the minor annoyances are usually masking a deeper issue. Dig for the answers. For example, are you annoyed with your spouse because they spilled coffee, or is it because you feel that they expect you to clean it up? Is there resentment or a feeling of being unappreciated? Perhaps thats the real issue at hand, not the spot of coffee on the kitchen floor. Take a few moments to figure out whats really at the root of your annoyance. With that realization. Other people are approaching their own issues from their own perspectives. Interviewing requires being tuned in to this.
Heres a great preliminary exercise: The next time someone is venting to you, refrain from offering advice. Instead, focus on being empathetic, a good listener. Give the individuals message your full attention Provide the time and space to merely express themselves Direct your attention so that they feel understood Feel whats going on for themnot you During an interview its your job to get them to the place where they trust you, and perhaps dump something on you that is pure marketing gold!
Your real Target Audience is the Chiropractor who will actually be LIKELY to buy from you. Most of the times, its only 1% of the market. This determination is highly specific to three things Those who are prone or susceptible to Your particular message Your particular persona Your particular offer What are the factors in their lives that trigger the need for this product or service? Why them and not the other Chiropractors? Whats their trigger? We should focus exclusively on themthe 1% that is likely to buy. Perhaps we could increase that from 1% to 2%. We dont want to miss any of the TA. Define your presentation for that 2% of the market and forget about the 98% that are not going to buy no matter what. Key points to uncover: What the person is into, or not into What do they like about the alternative What dont they like about the alternative Where stage theyre at in their lives Validate exactly what their hot buttons are. If youre interviewing prominent people to develop your own e-books or articles, the same philosophy holds true. You want to dig into their knowledge, their perspectives. If youre interviewing a client - What motivates her? What is her unique story? If youre interviewing your clients customers, the first thing you do is qualify them as part of the Target Audience. What is their motivation to try the product or service? What are the circumstances in their life that led them to this point? Tip: State that youre looking to gather testimonials for your client. This leaves the interviewee much more open to providing a testimonial than giving you an interview. (Your client should be informed that this is the
approach youre taking with her customers. She doesnt need anyone who is just a testimonial collector) If youre interviewing an Expert, figure out what other people would love to know. What differing perspectives do they have? How did they get to be where they are now? Why do they do what they do? The techniques of Intimate Interviewing will work in any type of situation. You are digging for the deeper reasons! Reasons people buy. Reasons a product was developed. Reasons behind an experts rise to the top of her field. Real Life Tidbit One of my clients hired me to write copy for an arthritis product he had developed He was convinced that the copy should educate people about the fact that the (Major Brand Name Pain-Reliever) they were taking were ruining the linings of their stomachs. I didnt believe this was the proper approach, but decided to do some investigation during interviews with his existing customers. When youre doing interviews with customers, try to figure out how they feel about alternatives. In this case, are they pro or con regarding traditional medicine? This is all part of trying to determine the perfect customerwhat they need to know.and what you dont need to have in the copy. As far as the (Major Brand Name Pain-Reliever)the customers really liked having these over-the-counter options. Not just for their arthritis but for other things like headaches. To have written copy slanted against these pain relievers would have alienated the TA, and decreased response. Figure out where theyre at The best way to handle a situation like this is to ask the customer, Do you take pain medication?
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Then you can even bring it up with them in an impromptu manner. How would you feel about the fact that its ruining the lining of your stomach. See how open or defensive they get. In this case, IF the perfect customer was already familiar with natural health, and was anti-medical establishment, then I wouldnt want a Medical Doctor endorsing the product. I also found out that once they got to a naturopath, they still werent antidoctor. Extremely useful information.
When you can ask specific questions of your market and get definite, heartfelt answers -- youre in the rare position to craft a message unique to their emotions, thoughts and values.
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They have their own set of experiences, stresses and forms of communication that should not be evaluated according to our skewed perceptions. Weve all been the recipients of receiving understanding from others. Pass it along. Do them a favor...take time for yourself How often have you been talking to someone on the phone, only to realize that theyre not fully present? Are you a bit annoyed when this happens? Of course! How do you suppose it feels to a person youre interviewing when you have to rush off the phone? Put yourself in their shoes. Clear your calendar so theres nothing crowding the time youve scheduled to interview them. Do whatever you need to clear your mind of any distractions. Go for a walk, meditate, or get some relaxation time before the call. Get clear. Unless you have clarity going into the interview, there cant be a genuine exchange, or flow, to the expressions of desire, need or pain. Empty your own emotional burden so you can be receptive to others. Leave your baggage out of the interview. NOTES:
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In seconds youll have attained instant credibility in that persons eyes, and will have gained value and importance. Theyll feel appreciated. Its instant camaraderie. Its a great way to network to the top. How do I Interview an Expert? Begin with your own niche. Something that youre comfortable withthat which you have knowledge insomething you find extremely interesting. Why? Personally, I know Ill be better in the interview when I have my own need to know. As in the interview with Trey Smith (Disc 10) I wanted to know for myself I had enough knowledge to carry on an intelligent and informed conversation and ask good questions. But I wasnt informed enough to be bored. In fact, the opposite was true. I was very attentive and truly wanted to know what he could tell me. Its best to interview someone who you actually want to learn from. Give them an authentic, heartfelt compliment. Then make a specific reference to information theyve presented that you like and what you now want to know more about. That real-life authenticity shows that you are into it, and that youre not just doing an interview. Experts love to talk to people who want to listen who are into what theyre into. Its part of being an expert. They want to share their knowledge with others, especially those who are willing to drink it in. Imagine this Youre speaking to someone and ask them what they do. They answer, I interview people. Youd think twice about that person, wouldnt you? Youd give them more attention. It happens all the time. Wouldnt you be curious about who theyve interviewed? What they do interviews for?
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And Would you feel special, validated, and unique if you were asked to be interviewed? Of course!
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4) What is the turning point and what "opportunity" did I seize as a result?
Make note of what was said, the time it occurred and especially any insights that you may have.
1) Times you feel Foby "shift" -- IE: You notice a change in his tone of voice.
Why did it happen? What do you notice happens after the shift in tone?
3) Times when you feel that I'm "exploring" -- looking for opportunities.
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Lets say you have him at a 5. Hes talkative, but still not digging too deep emotionally. You ask him a strong question. Hes just dropped down to a 3. At this point, dont count on getting an answer from him. But if you have him at a 7, ask that tough question. Itll bring him down to a 5, but youll get a great answer. You can follow up a strong question with another strong question, but youll need to pay close attention to his tone before doing so. A great way to build that Emotional Bank Account when you feel them drop, is to ask a question that brings them back to the spot where they were feeling good. I want to go back to when you said ___________ I have another question for you about that but only after EBA has gone up. Monitor where theyre at as far as their changing emotional states. When they are at 2 or 3, dont even attempt the difficult questions. At 4 or 5, you probably still can't ask the real deep digging questions. So use your points carefully. You may not get them back up to a 7 before the end of the call. There are times when youll need to "budget." You may want answers to several difficult questions. But if you know you only have so much credit, you risk using it all on just one question. In this case, youll have to be discriminative about which question you ask first, knowing if you run out of credit it may be the only one you get to ask. Other times everything will go extremely well, and you may be able to ask anything without fear of going broke." Real Life Tidbit I interviewed an inventor (Disc 1) who wasnt very receptive to speaking with me. I wanted to know how much money it cost to come up with his invention. This could potentially be great information in the copy. His initial response? "A lot of money." Of course I wanted to hear the specificsthe exact dollar amount. I just knew he was losing money on it.
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But after spending 30 minutes getting him up to a 6 on the emotional scale, my account was fragile. I would not be able to ask more Digging questions. This guy was not very willing to share anything. In this situation, I had to make a decision. Ask those tough questions and lose the interview, or have him answer multiple questions that may not have rich content, but would still be useful. I opted for asking multiple questions and gleaning useful information rather than shut him down as a resource altogether.
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If you feel that the conversation isnt flowing - back off from the questions - see if casual talk helps lower their resistance to you. And most importantly Be Empathetic! You may need a few minutes to get into their frame of mindand stay there. Its important to stay connected with how they are feeling throughout the interview. Ask yourselfhow is this particular person reacting to the questions you are asking or the areas being discussed? To reiterate an earlier point, be certain that you are clear before beginning the interview. You have taken the time to clear your thoughts, your hectic schedule and any potential bias. Your subject needs to feel that you have no outside agenda, other than to listen to themwithout judgment. To empathize with your subject, simply ask how he feels about what youre discussing. This is not about what YOU feel its about what HE feels. This may reveal more potent information than anything you had planned to ask. Theyre going to tell you much more than you can imagine if they feel that youre just there to hear them. By following these simple guidelines, you should generate and sustain an engaging conversation. NOTES:
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Time: Phrase: Set up Disc 12 Robert Stover Interview Time: 29:00 30:20. Note when the question is asked to divulge some information, Robert states I cant share that one. Listen to his response when I ask if we can switch the topic. Hes slipped a few points in the Emotional Bank Account. Can you feel the difference?
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Wisdom is the reward for a lifetime of listening ... when you'd have preferred to talk. D J. Kaufman
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What is it? Intense Listening! Theres a BIG difference between hearing and Intense Listening. Hearing is what we do every day. We hear things on the radio. Hear the neighbors dog barking. Hear people gripe about their relationships. But were most likely not Listening.
Have you ever wondered why? Its a sure bet theyre a great listener. Remember your first real love? You clung to every word as if it was gold. They had every ounce of your attention you didnt argue or judge. The two of you felt like the most important people in the world. Perhaps you wanted to keep on talking late into the night, because you finally had someone who really listened someone who really seemed to get you. That is Intense Listening. Feels good, right? When youre in that heightened state of listening, your thoughts become more focused, undisturbed. Your ability to quickly process information and respond with insightful questions and comments is magnified. The depth of your concern, understanding and empathy is also magnified when youre in the zone.
- Resolve conflicts more easily - Create win-win situations - Make more money The list could go on and on Theres a BIG difference between hearing and Intense Listening. Hearing is what we do every day. We hear things on the radio. Hear the neighbors dog barking. Hear people gripe about their relationships. But were not really Listening. Intense and empathetic listening is about opening up with total understanding of another person. It means not judging -- not thinking about what youre going to say next. It means leaving yourself behindand focusing entirely on the other person what HEs saying, what HEs feeling. Not an easy thing to do. Youre not expected to fix or change anything. You dont offer your opinion.
Were overloaded and overwhelmed We all lead very busy lives. Think of who we listen to dailyspouses, children, parents, friends, co-workers, media, salespeople, etc. How can we possibly listen to every single message? We cant, so we need to allow our minds to wander. Or, choose which messages are important and give those our full attention. Preoccupations and distractions are part of our daily lives. Yet -- next to survival -- the greatest need of a human being is to be understood, affirmed, validated, and appreciated. How many people ever get to finish being heard? Just think of how allowing someone else to be heard will affect them. And, in turn, elevate your influence because youre willing to HEAR them. The long-term results in possessing the skill of attentive listening will be felt in both your personal and professional life. Quicker conflict resolution When dealing with an emotionally charged topic or crisis, focusing on listening helps both the talker and the listener remain calm. The core of the problem is identified much more quickly and the coolingdown process is able to occur. Higher self-esteem and respect An active listener gets along better with others, is perceived as confident and gathers more respect. Higher productivity If people are encouraged to explain problems and start working through them, their output and creativity levels increase. This pertains to business as well as relationships. Fewer miscommunications Better listening leads to better information. By listening attentively, youre able to more clearly see the issues experienced by the other person. The facts arent misconstrued by your own interpretation. Carl Roger (founder of humanistic psychology) offers this quote The way of being with another person which is termed empathetic means temporarily living in their life, moving about in it delicately without making judgments To be with another in this way means that for the time being you lay aside the views and values you hold for yourself in order to enter the others world without prejudicea complex, demanding, strong, yet subtle and gentle way of being.
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Its all about viewing the world from another persons perspective. Youre able to step inside another persons shoes -- see the world as he does. Granted, this type of listening takes time to develop. But not nearly as much time as backing up and trying to correct misunderstandings. Think about this Its much easier than having to live with the problems that result from not giving others you care about the respect they need and deserve.
If youve been able to establish any type of real connection, it will most likely be damaged. On the other hand When we really deeply understand each other, we open the door to creative solutions and alternatives. Our differences are no longer stumbling blocks to communication and progress. Instead they become stepping stones to synergy.
Here are some key points to becoming an effective and intense listener
Monitor Your Own Level of Focus Let go of what youre going to say next. Be attentive to the conversation, not to your responses. Possible comments to make are If I understand you correctly, you feel Why did it make you feel that way How did you feel when Refer back to what they said without paraphrasing their statement. Especially make note of any feelings they may have revealed.
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Use Presence-Confirming Statements At first glance, these phrases may seem ordinary but in an active listening situation, they become extremely valuable. These are statements that show them youre listening. They make them feel youre with them. Uh huh Yes Really?" "Mm - mmmmm." "Interesting." "You don't say." "How about that!" Be Aware Of Their Tonality Pay attention to their tone, speed and inflection. This is the emotional content of the words. When youre present and tuned in to their tonalities, even your simple presence-confirming comments will carry more emotion. You will use them naturally, because youre picking up on the subtleties. Be Fully Present Instead of really listening, most of us are busy thinking about how we are going to respond what were going to say next - while the other person is still speaking. This is not being fully present and respectful of the conversation. Clearly, a listening connection isnt possible when we arent fully present. But if you are able to quiet your own internal chatter, youll be able to pick up the little nuances of what is being said and how theyre saying it. Youre able to respond based on those nuances what is REALLY being said - instead of just the surface material. External distractions are things that you can see or hear - things that may be impacting your other senses. A television turned on, a phone ringing or a noisy environment. Dont let your thoughts drift focus on the person who is speaking. We all have 100 other things going on in our lives, but those must take a back seat during the Listening process. How is this done?
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Concentrate On The Speaker Face the speaker. Your shoulders and your face should be open and facing them completely. Dont angle away from them. This will force you to focus. If youre doing the interview over the phone, still be attentive to your body language. Its conveyed even if they cant see you. Spend time trying to understand what the speaker is trying to say instead of trying to figure out how it affects us or what we want to say in return. Questions should be not have an interrogative feel to them. Come From A Place Of Understanding Try to put yourself in their shoes. If you want to truly understand where the speaker is coming from, forget about your own situation and feelings. Try to see things from their perspective and frame of reference. Sounds easybut it takes practice. Never Assume We all do it. It could be that weve had a similar experience. Whatever the case, Its easy to think that we already know what someone is going to say. Instead, allow them state their point fully. Youll receive the whole message and be able to respond in a more open manner. There have been times when, although I thought I knew how someone would answer, they surprised me by taking it in a completely different direction. Typically this happened when I asked a follow-up question. Be certain you have their perspectivenot yours. Use follow-up clarifying questions such as "Tell me the whole story." "What did you do then?" "You used the word ________, what exactly did you mean by that? IMPORTANT - Check Your Emotions Be aware of topics and things that trigger your emotions. Increase your efforts to focus on a clear understanding of whats being said.
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For example A lot of people are passionate about politics or religion. What are your views? If someone has an opposing view, how does it make you feel? Are you able to put your own perspective aside and really hear someone elses? Be An Active Listener Ask questions and seek clarification. Actively share in the speakers efforts to improve your level of understanding, whether or not you agree with their point of view. Have Them Understand That You Understand State your understanding, but be brief. You dont need to get into a full-blown story of your own life, but rather acknowledge an incident that may have been similar to theirs. Communicating is not just saying words its creating true understanding.
During An Interview
Seek first to understand Take yourself out of the picture. Dont allow your ego to get in the way of any valuable information you might obtain. By accepting them, you create a high Emotional Bank Account. Notice your responses - Are you evaluating the other person? Offering advice? These may be typical responses in communicationbut an effective listener does none of this. Be authentic. An individual will see right through you when youre not with them emotionally. If they feel that youre not being open (even subconsciously) they wont want to divulge or share any pertinent information. Always enter an interview as if youre getting together with your best friend, someone you can trust, someone who has something wonderful to tell you.
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If youre an interviewer Youll get fresh, provocative insights and comments from the Experts. Also, word will spread that an interview by you is sure to generate positive exposure for them. In your business and personal life Theres nothing else like learning to truly listen. All relationships improve and understanding is achieved. Daring to be completely open to another person is powerful and instills trust. Try this experiment. The next time youre in a social situation, notice how many people are truly listening. Its going to be rare to find even one. Then practice Intense Listening. Just dont be surprised at how many people want to talk to you!
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What do we want to know? The hidden objections the compelling story the hidden desires
Before we start the Secret Six Techniques, you should first understand how to utilize Directive and Secondary Questions. These will be used along with the Secret Six Questions to get the most out of your interviews.
Directive Questions
There are times when its good to just let your subject talk I call this letting him dump. Eventually though, you will be trying to get to specific information. Directive questions will help get you there. The Directive Question focuses in on your target, as well as softens the initial question. It will generate something of relevance from your subjectif its based on what youre searching for. Placing a Directive Question directly after your primary question also defines which direction the answer lies. If youre asked a single, direct question, you typically give back a singular answer. Correct? Were you speeding? Yes sir.
Pointed abrupt questions = surface answers. Avoid this at all costs. Imagine the same question, asked along with another. Were you speeding? Are you in a hurry to get somewhere? Yes sir. My wife is in the back seat having a baby. Okay, thats a bit dramatic but you get the point. The first question, Were you speeding? is a very direct question. Its rather intimidating when asked by itself. But by adding the second question, Are you in a hurry to get somewhere? you soften it. It also helps define the answer youre searching for which in this case could be the story behind the action.
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The Directive Question will: Pinpoint the answer Soften the edge of that first question Help maintain the flow and momentum of the call Ask your first question. With the second (or Directive) question, define it for your subject. Dont let them go on blindly. Something to think about... A Directive Question leads them gently down the conversational path. It prevents the subject from having to pause then think, What did he mean by that? Lets assume youre in the middle of an interview. The other person has several topics on her mind. By stating a questionby itselfyou will stop that thought process. Shell be trying to guess which venue to go down. Its too abrupt and interrupts the flow of the conversation. Lets follow this as if in an actual interviewwithout a Directive question. Q: How do you know that? A: How do I know what? (Natural flow of conversation is immediately halted. Shes checking her watch, slightly annoyed.) Try this instead Q: How do you know that? Had you already tried the alternative? Can you feel how the disconnecting pause was prevented? To reiterate The Directive question complements the first question with something relevant to what you want to know. Its based on what youre searching for. Define it for your subject Dont allow them to go on blindly You define the conversationin a natural manner
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*Each of the Secret Six Question types can take on the form of a Directive Question.
Listed are examples of questions followed by Directive questions found in the interview materials. Youll notice that very rarely do I ask one single, pointed question. Its typically followed up immediately with at least one or two more directive questions. Excerpts: Disc 8 - Brian Keith Voiles 2:40 How do you know that? How does somebody know it if theyre not? 7:40 How do you know that? If its such a choice, why isnt everybody choosing it? How do you know its a choice? Disc 9 - Brian Keith Voiles 10:45: And so, what have you done, Brian, when youve gone into this big huge starving crowd with lots of competition? Have you essentially become another 1 in the pile, or have you somehow differentiated yourself to attract your section of that niche market? How did it happen? Why did it happen? Who used to do that? Whos the master of artful writing from the past? Disc 11 - Robert Stover 27:20 So now that you know this, Robert, how do you apply it? Do you just kind of have your radar up that when you have this kind ofIll call it fear attentionare you better able to recognize that?
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Secondary Questions
While Directive Questions are used to clarify your first questionSecondary questions can be described as Digging questions. They were designed to direct your subjects focus towards something specific. To use them effectively Your intuitive radar must be up throughout the interview. Many times you will want to follow-up on something interesting or provocative your subject just said. Youre noting what theyve said and how theyve said it. Youre tuned in to their responses. Theyve tossed an intriguing comment or phrase your way. Perhaps answered your question with something totally off-topic. Thats a subconscious invitation to follow them down the rabbit hole Youll have to decide whether or not you really want to go there. Example: Disc 1 Sanitizer Product Interviews 53:55 Primary Question: Tell me another story about someone thats called the office. A: (goes into explanation of how a worker at a nursing home cut her finger on a wheelchair. The finger got infected and the worker died three days later from a flesh-eating bacteria) Secondary Question: So she had picked up something from that wheelchair? Listen for times when youve asked them something, and their response surprises you. Maybe its a curious inflectionor word choiceor you sense an underlying emotion. It may even trigger something in you, a gut feeling that this could lead to something interesting or useful. Trust your intuition. Example: Previously, you used the word painful to describe _______why did you use that particular word?
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When you say ______, explain what you mean by that. Define that . What does that mean to you? Dragging them back out of the rabbit hole There will be times when the emotional bank account is going to be high. The person will become very comfortable, very talkativeand theyll go off-track. Depending on the subject, you may not want to pursue it. During one such interview, I struggled to bring my subject back on topic I was interviewing one of my clients customers and he was starting to delve into past emotional issues. I really didnt want him to go there. It took a couple of tries on my part to bring the conversation back to the subject at hand. As an example: My dad used to go down to the bar every night. I think my mom preferred having him gone. In this case, I really didnt want to go there. Lets look at it from another point of view If I had been interviewing my client, I would want a bit of background. But I would be looking for something less destructive like: Im determined to be a success because my dad never was. In fact his business went bankrupt when I was 7 years old, and he ended working for my grandfather. I swore that would never happen to me. Can you feel the difference? Its emotion-driven, but not destructive. The difference is... The above statement could be a piece of the clients Unique Selling Point. Hes driven. Hes motivated and this is part of the cause for it. It doesnt mean Id be interested in hearing about dads failed businessif it was coming from my client and not one of his customers. If Im interviewing one of his customers, Im searching for his/her reasons that they buy. This most likely will not include their traumatic childhoodUNLESS it directly pertains to your clients product.
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So, how do you respond to an off-topic statement like My dad used to go down to the bar every night. I think my mom preferred having him gone. Bring it back on-topic. You start by acknowledging what they just said. Then you direct them back to the conversation you want to have. Huh, thats something. Now, Id like to go back to the article you were telling me about.. Do your best to make it as seamless as possible. Ideally, use something theyve already stated for the direct tieback. Refer to a comment or word, or use a transitional sentence to bring them back. Transitional sentences: Getting back to the ___________, could you explain that a bit more? I hope you wont mind, but could I ask you to define_________ Id like to go back to the point you made about __________ It would be really great if you could take some time to tell me about________ Previously, you used ___________ to describe _______why that particular phrase?
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Tip: Until youve gained a fair amount of experience, interview more people than necessary. This will ensure you get the material youre looking for. Plus, by doing extra interviews early on, you will become a better interviewer in a shorter amount of time.
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Without interviewing, It can take days and weeks to come up with enough content to create articles, e-zines, blog posts or e-books. But by using the Intimate Interview process, you will have access to expert advice, extremely valuable insights and market definition. Study and learn the various types of interview questions and their functions. By strategically positioning them within the flow of the interview, youll uncover the richest material necessary for great copy and product creation. Tip: By positioning the interview as Market Research, you can give yourself license to delve a little deeper if it serves the purpose. NOTES:
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Ask these general questions until you can feel a flow to the conversation.
3) Persona Questions
Your Radar Needs To Be Up In Order To Catch Inflections In Their Voice Which Indicate The Deeper Benefits or Key Points The purpose of Persona Questions is to look for material which creates resonance. Youre trying to find a common thread of the persona of the Target Audience A Persona Question will identify behavior patterns such as Definition of a Persona Question: Identifies behavior patterns such as Why do they make decisions about certain products How does the product fit into the flow of their day Why are they using the product in the first place Does it fulfill a goal they have Does it alleviate a problem Does it improve their lives
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Were hoping to find out what is triggering their purchase, or motivating them. Tell me what you really like about _________. Whats your best experience with that? Directly follow up the moments where you can feel emotion coming from them. Tell me whats behind what you were just Saying. Thinking. Wanting to ________. After they have explained a pertinent event, ask them, Why do you think that happened? This will give you deep insight as to their perceptions and frame of mind in regards to that experience. Attitudes and environments are significant. For each product, there is a small set of personas.one of whom will be the primary focus for your copy. That one persona could represent hundreds of people with similar goals and behavior patterns which would benefit from your product or service. What youre trying to find out about your client, product or service is. How does this relate to the target audience? Who is the target audience? What does it mean to them? What is it not to them? What is it like? How is it similar? Get the customer to dump their perspective to you so you can tell where theyre coming from. This will help define if theyre part of the target market. Example: In conducting interviews for an Arthritis product, I found that a good portion of the TA was living alone, thus more motivated to be self-reliant.
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They were more likely to try a new product. It was a common personality trait which built resonance with those most likely to buythat is the real TA. Tip: There will be times when the line between Persona Questions and Revealing Questions is quite blurry
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Reasons They Buy -- Reasons They Dont Buy Exactly When They Buy Here are some questions you might ask a business owner or top salesman: Where do most of your sales come from? Why? Whats your best-selling product? Why do you think that is? What do you find easiest to sell? Who is it easiest to sell to? Why is that? After they explain a product/benefit, ask Is that a common experience for people? What is a not-so-common, but compelling result you see? Other Revealing Questions would be: How would you describe Why did you do it that way? What surprised you about the result? What kind of an experience was that for you personally? On a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being Fantastic! and 1 being Awful, how would you rate that experience for you personally? Given your preference, is that the way you prefer to work? Why? Did you receive adequate credit for your efforts? Why do you think the situation was approached in that way? What was the most difficult part of that for you? Why? What did you think of that? Did that make sense to you? Should that have been done differently? Was that your preference? How would you like to have seen it done differently? If it was your call to make, how would you have decided? What was wrong with that approach?
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If you had your preference, how would you... How did that decision strike you? What was your biggest frustration with... If you could do that over again, how would you approach it? Revealing Questions will provide you with rich, rewarding material to better define and get to know your client, or their TA. 5) Digging Questions Open The Door For Emotional Material While digging for information, youll most likely lower your emotional bank account. Thats why its best to soften these questions. Barging in like a news reporter and placing demands upon a person will likely end up with a door being slammed in your face, or a dial tone in your ear. Use qualifiers so your subject realizes that youre sensitive to the fact that the question may be unsettling for them. Examples of qualifiers: Please allow me to ask you If youd be so kind as to answer this. Tune in to when the light goes on for them. When do they really get it? How did you get to this point? What was the first step in that process? How did you come to this conclusion/result? Whats the #1 reason that ____________? Whats the one thing that _____________? How did your life changefor the better? Examples of Questions along with Softeners and Directive Questions from some of my interviews: Do you mind if I ask how much money you did lose? Who do you find are your customers? If you could describe your typical customer, how would you describe them? How do they come in contact with you?
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Give me your quick rundown if Im a prospect of yours.give me your presentation, if you will. As if Im a new person. Just go through the basic questions for me. Do you know what your conversion is? How many actually become customers? Is it true that even if I have a run of the higher gains, if I have a loss its a higher loss so I kind of go back to zero? I want to get straight on the numberwhen youre talking on a modest trade, what category would you put that? So if you had one big tip to give to peopleone thing that youve learned thru your experience.what would that be? So continue then, with answering my basic questions on how the trades come in, how I get started, and that type of information. Explain to me what you go thru on a daily basison a weekly basis. At this stage, be especially alert when they use an interesting word or phrase. Follow up on it by asking Could you please define (interesting word or phrase) for me?
This is an adaptation on How do you know that?, but it goes deeper. This question needs to be asked in an authentic manner, but if you get the chance to do so, grab it. Work to bring out the emotion youre sensing. There will times when youll hit one of your subjects hot buttons quite by accident. This occurs because of your genuine interest in them. Youre tuned in and really listening to them. Why do they think or feel a certain way? This will help to bring out those underlying emotions. When youre reviewing your own recorded interviews, do you have a sense of what theyre feeling? You want to confirm this. So in your next interview, when your emotional bank account is high, ask them. Example: During an interview with customers of an arthritis product, I sensed a loss of dignity with the ailment. It was sensed, but they hadnt expressed it verbally. As an interviewer, I wanted to find out how emotional was it for the Target Audience. In my next interview, I wanted to find out. When the Emotional Bank Account was high enough, I was able to ask Sounds like youve even lost a sense of yourselfyour dignity perhaps (softens it) Is that so? Feel the difference in that question as opposed to, Do you feel a loss of dignity from having arthritis? BIG difference. Youre allowing her to tell you instead of you telling her. When in this situation, your subject may come back with Absolutely! Whatever comes next is gold. Other potential questions What you just said, __________________(ex: I decided at an early age I wasnt going to be like that), what exactly did you mean? At times, it isnt a specific question that triggers the emotional material. Its the comfort level that has been achieved which allows an atmosphere of sharing..
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Example: Disc 13 - Alan Forrest Smith 56:00 Alan and I are discussing the lack of depth in much of todays copy. I asked him if he knew why that was. Heres his response One of the problems these days, Shaune, is that people have handed their brains overto TVto radioto iPod.to MP3.to videosto movies. He expounds, frustrated that people are on the information highwaytaking in so much information to the point of inaction. This interview is an example of a sharing of ideas, opinions and concepts, as opposed to asking a lot of questions. Following are a few more personal questions that may be used, dependent upon the comfort level of the interviewee. Reminder: Define your interview from the start as Market Research. Once the interviewee is comfortable, introduce a few of the following questions (just pick a few) by saying Now, Id like to ask a few of our market research questions. Were getting to know the type of person that (you or your client) resonates with. Do you mind if I ask a few questions about your personal preferences? Some basic personal questions to choose from: 1. What books are you reading now? 2. If you woke up tomorrow, and could do whatever you wanted to in those first four hours, what would that be? 3. Do you have a motto you follow in life? 4. If you could make one change in your life, what would that be? 5. What's the most important lesson you've learned in life? 6. What three words best describe you? NOTES:
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Your client is an expert in their own business. Your job is to find what makes them uniquesets them apart from the competition. Ive had clients who feel that they dont have an interesting story. This has never been the case. In fact, what seems common to them may be extremely interesting to others. One of the easiest ways to find their story is to gently start digging into the background. It comes down to finding their specific reasons why. Find their past history
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All experts know the power of exposure the power of sharing a piece of themselves as a sample of who they are and what they do. This is particularly true if the expert happens to currently be promoting something. They have something they want to spread the word about, and an interview with helps them accomplish that goal. No question about it, theyre always ready for free exposure. Simply put You will offer others a piece of that experts knowledge, a provocative comment or something revealing. In exchange, the expert gets introduced to a new audience. Thats win-win! So if an expert feels itll be a fun experiencean engaging interviewand they can get free exposure, thatll usually do it. A few tips on how to leverage moments into big interviews Opportune moments: One of the best times to ask for an interview is at one of the experts own events or especially at an event where they are speaking where they arent as consumed with the running of the event. Its somewhat assumed that if youre there, then you must be somebody. At the very least, you have paid to be there, so there is an economic relationship. You have paid to see them they appreciate that and are open to reciprocating if they can. Not to mention that they are in share information mode. In fact, I once saw a guy who simply brought a Camcorder to an event. He hung out in the hotel and used chance meetings to pull experts into an unused portion of the hotel restaurant to do video interviews. I know because he interviewed me! Leverage Who You Know This is quite simple and straightforward. Whatever your topic or niche, ask others who they know in that particular field. Leverage that relationship to score interviews.
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Start by explaining your project Ive put up a website called _________.com. Ill be interviewing experts and offering the recordings. (these could be free to generate viral traffic, or as a paid-for info product) I was wondering who you might know that _______________ Getting To Top-Tier Experts For experts that are a bit less reachable, you can start where youre at. The points above are powerful. They can get you at least second-tier interviews. Once youve done enough of them and created a couple of great pieces from them, youll be building your reputation as an interviewer. After each Intimate Interview when you know theyve enjoyed the experience their Emotional Bank Account is at a high level. You can ask them who they might be able to introduce you to. Eventually one of them, based on the success of your interview, will endorse you to a top-tier expert. So, in some cases youll need to climb the ladder. Keep in mind Sometimes the second-tier interviews are better, especially when it comes to being provocative. They want exposure, so if they have something strong to say, theyll be more willing to let it go. Not to mention that you may be able to get a second-tier expert to reveal something about a top-tier expert. Provocative and Revealing dont have to come from top-tier experts to go viral! What if you havent gone to a seminar, or other places where experts hang out? Heres something else that works I like to call it Getting Scrappy. Are you determined to get that elusive interview? The one that you just know will provide you with top-notch material? It can be done. Just perhaps not through the typical venues.
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The best way to describe it is to show you how Ive done it. Heres how it all began for me. With an authentic desire to learn from others, I began buying their programsgetting on their mailing lists. When I came across an item or statement that I appreciated, Id be sure to email or call them to let them know. Most times, Id get a response. To me, this was a door-opener. A dialogue would develop and before too long, I was able to get them on the phone for an interview. A relationship was established due to the previous rapport that had been built. Also theyd leave the interview with a positive opinion which paved the way for future communication.. These relationships have been leveraged for mutual benefit. We all profit from them, as there isnt a feeling of being used. Getting experts, or anyone for that matter, to hang up the phone after an interview knowing it was a mutually beneficial experience is key. Becoming proficient in the Intimate Interview process will raise you up to that level quite quickly. Still, youll need to work to get the interview.
So if an expert hesitates when you offer to interview them, its possible theyve had a bad interview a bad experience. Its up to you to make it a thought-provoking and enjoyable experience for all involved.
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So what happens if I have an interview that I just cant pass up but dont have much knowledge about the subject matter. This may occasionally happen. Its not the ideal situation but you can still make it work. Lets say that youre set up to interview a bass fishing expert but youre not a bass fisherman. What do you do? You interview one or two bass fishermen first. Create a connection, understanding and empathy for that Target Audience. Youll get to understand the struggles, the questions, and the nuances of the questions that theyd love to ask an expert. Keep your ears tuned for the language they use. Shad..breamlargemouth. If you become familiar with the common terms, your interview will flow much more smoothly. TIPS FOR INTERVIEWING EXPERTS Be authentic and sincere Develop your listening skills Prepare for the interview Keep the objective in mind Write down potential questions as a guideline not a map Gain permission to ask one more question at the end of the interview Review your recorded interviews what did you do wellnot so well
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More importantly These are subjects I cant get enough of myself! We already have established common ground before going into the interview. Use those interviews as examples of using tone of voice to build momentum. Mirror their speech patterns and tone to build rapport In order to build or add momentum during the interview, take your tone about notch higher than theirs. Be sure to reflect enthusiasm in your voice when theyve said something you appreciate. One thing to be conscious of is that they may have done many interviews around the same subject matter and have a rhythm to their interviews. We need to give them promotional value in exchange for their time. Also, were looking for something deeper more revealing than their standard, canned presentation. This can be done by using the Intimate Interviews techniques.
Youve practiced, become fluid and have an Expert interview lined up -- now what?
Interview experts on their success, not How To Get Rich We all know that success doesnt always mean money. There are experts in every niche with varying degrees of income. For example A top horticulturist doesnt earn as much income as a professional athlete, yet the extensive knowledge base is there. Theyre still considered an expert. The depth of the interview is a good reason why its SO important to interview people in a niche youre interested in. Your authentic enthusiasm will ignite the conversation. The sharing of ideas and perspective will be appreciated. Theres a perfect time to do an interview There are a few things to consider before you do an interview. What level are you at, personally? Consider this When youre brand new to a topic -- a newbie -- theres a different flow to the conversation than when youre familiar with the ins and outs of it. So what does that mean as far as your interview?
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Take into account your audience your listeners. You should know more than your audience does Otherwise, youll bore them to tears. The basic material may be too low-level for them, unless theyre also just beginning in the same industry. For instance, lets say youve started a DIY (do-it-yourself) site for home ownersbut youve only swung a hammer a few times in your life. Do you suppose an interview with the carpentry expert on how to use a sander will hold the interest of someone whos already moved on to building a wraparound porch? It wont. Theyll quickly realize that your information isnt relative to them and move on. You need to be at least one step ahead of their learning curve. . As you become experienced, your interviews become more finely tuned The more interviews you do on a topic, the more you learn. Your level of knowledge rises significantly. Your ear becomes finely tuned to the interaction from the higher-level experts. You have a good working knowledge of the topic. Youre now able to allow the experts to speak about something you may already know. The great thing about this is that now you notice the subtleties. While theyre speaking about something with which youre familiar, your mind can attentively listen for the nuances in their voicethat unusual word they just usedthe inflection when they speak of their past. Be a detective. Youre looking for clues especially if youre well-prepared. Once you hear something thats different, bring it back. Many times, the result is something theyve never said beforenew and provocative material. Tune into the tonality in the experts voice. Chances are theyve been allowed to run along the same track of patter. Heres what happened to me I interviewed a copywriting legend, and it was extremely difficult to break him out of his ingrained habit of providing sound bites. He was running along full steam, disregarding my attempts to divert him. Finally he finished his spiel and I was then able to get to the real conversation.
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Hint: You can sense the interviewees discomfort when the answers start getting shorter. You can either change your approach when you notice this happening, or dig into the EBA if you feel theres a real gem a provocative statement behind it. What if they cry or get emotional? This is not planned, and can take you by surprise. Your interviewee may get emotional. The time it happens is typically 30 - 40 minute into the interviewwhen the level of trust has been attained. The guard is down. Theyre connected. Keep in mind that it isnt your fault. You touched on a sensitive area in their lives. There should be no regrets on either side. Acknowledge the fact in a soft way. Then use a bridge from where youre at to a safer ground if necessary. Offer to pause. I had an experience where I asked an expert about his motivation and drive and if it was tied to a specific event in his past that wed been discussing.he went silent. I asked, Are you still there? When he replied, his voice was cracking, so I knew that Id hit a nerve. I offered to pause the interview, but he said No, just give me a moment. He did bring himself out of it, but the next few minutes were undeniably awkward. A good interviewer constructs the safety net. There has to be an element of security in the environment youve created during the interview. In order for that sensitivity to be triggered, there has to have been some kind of lowering of the wall. A feeling of refuge where its ok to be more vulnerable. Theyre annoyed You caught them off-guard with a comment. Taken them in a direction they dont want to go. To handle this, go back to the topic that they were excited about. Did they use interesting or provocative words to describe something? Did you feel there was more to an answer that could be explored? Or you could even find out the history behind a particular achievement. Try to salvage what you can.
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If your Expert has a large egolittle patience Occasionally, youll run across an expert who is quite taken with him or herself. What this means is that you cant be too casual at the start of the interview. Ask them if you can call them by their first name, or if theyd prefer their more formal title (Dr., Mr, Ms, etc) Do your homework to show them you know who they are. Be respectful but still be natural. Use humor only if it pertains. Be your authentic self. The Expert isnt familiar with a topic you bring up This can create a loss of momentum to the interview. By doing homework ahead of time, youll be able to avoid this type of landmine. Once you realize its a dead-end, back off and take it another direction without making the expert feel inadequate. Ask questions that show they have valuable information to share Begin the interview with easy questions. Refer to the Rapport-Building section. Some people will ease into it quickly, others will take a bit more time. Your goal at this point is to Raise their comfort level Reaffirm that there is value to their information Increase their confidence levels by displaying their knowledge Begin your understanding of their mindset Create connection When interviewing an Expert, dont assume you dont need to boost their confidence. They also need to feel your genuine interest in what they have to say. Generate questions for experts based on their area of expertise These will be very specific to them and their field of expertise.
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Lets say youre interviewing a womens soccer player. The questions youll be asking will vary from those you would ask a naturopath. But, the categories for these questions would be the same. Such as Experience What is something theyve changed Regrets - Something they wish they hadnt spent time on Perception What does it really take? Advice What are suggestions for a novice to speed up his learning curve? Ask questions with strategic intent!
The interview turned out well and was enjoyed by both of us. The following day, I got an email from the experts marketing manager
(Expert) was very impressed about the depth of the interview - he asked a lot of questions about you.
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Regret Looking back, what would you do differently? Have you gambled and lost? What did you learn? Is there something you wish you had done that you didnt? What was your most expensive mistake? Create 3 of your own Regrets questions youd like to ask an expert? 1) 2) 3)
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Other questions to ask an expert In all successes there are circumstances there are variables. What is one of the things that has happened to youopportunities you have created around unique circumstances? Its something that could only have happened due to a certain chain of events Besides setting goals, learning time management skills and ________,what is the best activity/thing you would recommend we get better at? Use the following as idea-generators for questions along with Directive Questions and Secondary Questions. Fine-tune them for your expert. What does it take to be a success (indirect compliment) The best decision youve made A decision you wish you hadnt made. What did you learn from that? Something youd like to learn A challenge in your life A miracle youd like to see happen A person who motivates you The best piece of advice you received
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7. Dont be too attached to it. This should flow within the interview as seamlessly as possible and not be out of sync. Be conscious about seizing the opportunity. Example #1 When you first get on the phone, you may ask a question/comment relative to somebody/another expert you may want to use as a point of reference later in the interview. Reference that person in passing. I notice that you were working with _____ on the ______ project. I was intrigued by the way the two of you _________. This enables you to refer back to that person at some point. It wont be cold. For example, If youd like for your name to be passed along to them for a future interview, youve already made mention of their name. Example #2 During an interview, I had an expert say something positive, as well as negative, about another expert. As it turned out, I was given the opportunity to interview the expert who was spoken negatively about. Of course, this creates a tremendous opportunity for a provocative momentas well as an opportunity to dramatically lower the EBA. I go into this interview knowing that if I can get the EBA high enough, Ill ask this expert what he things about the comments (both positive and negative) To set this up, Ill make a comment about the positive comment made. This will be done early in the interview. Then, use the Intimate Interview process to build the EBA. Once again, Ill reference the positive comment -- then gracefully also bring up the negative comment. The best outcome will be that the expert makes a positive comment then make a negative one as well. Again, Ill only do this if its done good-naturedlynot to start a fight. Im just looking for an unusual, atypical comment that will make this a rare interview. Example #3 I interviewed a millionaire with a diverse portfolio of ventures. The greatest jewel I can get from him is a stock tip.
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Early in the interview, I compliment him on his success in the stock market. Also, (if its true) Ill bring up that another expert gave me a similar piece of information. This helps it seem more normal to pass along this type of stock tip. During the interview, Ill be looking for opportunities, once the EBA is high, to ask specifically what was the last stock he invested in. Consider that its already been framed as a normal occurrence by another expert. (a mild form of peer pressure) Ill only ask him if it works or flows into the rest of the interview. This is information he holds tightly, and wouldnt normally give away. By bringing up the topic early, Ive helped him warm up to the idea. My authentic compliment early in the interview makes my question not so cold. Its going to pause him whenever I do ask him. The EBA needs to be high at the right time. Most of all, keep it a win-win situation. Itll be memorable, enjoyable and help create lasting relationships.
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If you can learn how to interpret peoplebecome awarethen youll be successful. Its all about Really listening Reading between the lines Knowing how to direct it Realize that when he/she says ___________, then what theyre really saying is _________. If its something positive, magnify it. If its an objection, overcome it If its a question, clarify it. Long Pauses Pauses are part of natural conversation, but may seem uncomfortable during an interview. These lapses may occur for a number of reasons. You should anticipate lulls during the interview. For the times when its moving slow, its okay to ask a question here just for the sake of keeping it going. But that being said Once you start unearthing information in an interview, its likely that youve dug into uncharted territory. The interviewee may need time to find the necessary descriptions. Pauses allow them the opportunity to verbalize their emotions and reactions. Give them as much as 15 - 30 seconds. Especially if was a potent comment. You may want to throw in a "huh" or a "very good" if the silence feels off. But that's it. Let it go back into silence. Again, be sure youre not communicating anything other than empathy. Something may be brewing on the other end. 90% of the time, this gives the person a chance to breathelet something surfacegive their thoughts a chance to see the light of day. This method often releases an avalanche of emotional or deeper hindsight material. A little bit of silence from you can encourage them to explore more indepth emotions or insight. Also, it keeps the interview from feeling rushed. Getting comfortable with this comes with experience. Youll see that pauses will happen and that it's fine.
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Go ahead -- allow yourself that few seconds of silence to collect your own thoughts -- to come back with another question. You will be surprised how quickly an interview can open up if you just "hang in there long enough. That said an interview should rarely be longer than an hour and to many of these pauses can be detrimental. The pauses that youll want to have questions prepared for are more likely at the start of the interview when it's still a little cold. Example: Disc 8 Brian Keith Voiles 15:50Thought provoking question: Is there a copywriting principle, or practice, that is touted as being good that you dont agree with <long pause> Then huh <another pause> Well, you know were all in different places. <struggles> Even the formula stuff I hate. (then hopefully says) I could rail on swiping a bit. I said: Go! Thats a favorite topic of mine It gives Brian license to dump at this point. Softening Statements and Getting Permission Lets say you have your interview subject into the flow of the conversation. Theyre willing to give up good information, but youre sensitive to the fact that a blunt question would dampen their enthusiasm. This is the time to use softening statements. Example: Thats well said! Im anxious to hear, Robert, if youre willingand if youre not I completely understand. You said that Ask for permission and soften those tougher questions. Sample softening statements Do you mind if I ask Please allow me to ask you If youd be so kind as to answer this Its okay to take a moment before you answer.
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Keep in mind this is a strategic conversation, not an interrogation. Real Life Tidbit During an interview with a prospective customer for an Internet Marketing program, I wanted to hear (in his own words) how he would describe the sales funnel for an online business. When I first asked him, he went off on a tangent about Internet Marketing in general didnt really answer my question. I let him run with it though, then brought the question up again.. Please be patient with me, Im going to dig here a bit. All of what you just said is great, but getting back to the sales funnel in your own words how would you define it? He went off again this time on what he didnt like about Internet Marketing in general still didnt provide me with an answer. He was giving me great information, but not his definition of the online sales funnel. I had to try a third time, but I knew he would feel a bit pushed. This was definitely going to lower his Emotional Bank account. It really would need to be softened even more. I know this is redundant, I hope you wont mind, but could I ask you to define the sales funnel? I really want to see how you would word it. Do you mind? I got permission to ask one last time. He still did feel a bit pushed, but what he gave me was gold! Keep it Flowing Having the interview flow is extremely important. As long as youre getting good material, dont abruptly insert topics you may have on your list. Stay in the flow. Get what youre going to get. If you get the change at the end of the interview to ask more pointed questions, do so. Example: I interviewed a designer who had been on HGTV. The interview was going exceptionally well, and I was fine not to bring up that detail within the conversation. Doing so would have derailed the interview into a venue that wasnt pertinent to me.
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Be aware of your own reactions Not everyone you interview will have the same personality. For this reason, youll need to adapt to the person youre speaking with. Reserved, analytical people prefer low-key, intelligent confirmations, or responses to their comments. Getting too excited while interviewing this type of person can make them uncomfortable. Referring back to my interview with David the inventor, I got too excited when he finally divulged a valuable piece of information. It made him uncomfortable, and he backed up a step. His emotional energy went down. I worked at getting him back with me by going back into an intellectual mode. I knew we were back on solid ground when he said, I love you Canadians! after asking where I lived. Yet on the other hand, his secretary proved to be the emotional type. With her, I was able to express appropriate enthusiasm. In fact, the following section applies directly to interviewees just like her. Allow them to leadfor a while Some people will take a subject and run with it. Theyre dumping information on you, which may or may not be relevant to the interview. Allow them to get it out of their system. Because of this, theyll have a renewed sense of appreciation for you when you gently guide them back into the interview. If you have a subject who wants to expound on a subject, but you dont allow her the opportunity, she may lead every question back to that issue. Its possible that very few people are willing to listen to her on a particular subject. Let her run with it, and listen attentively. Youll build up a large amount of emotional credit. Tip: While your interviewee is dumping their initial baggage, you may want to write a note as to the point that you really wanted to capture so it isnt forgotten. Still, you need to find the balance between the unloading of their ideas and emotions, and transitioning them back into the conversation. Youll figure out what surface stuff can be let go. Once its passed, then the real material comes out. Youre just waiting to get to that richer substance.
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Help them achieve confidence To reiterate, view people without judgment. There may be instances during an interview when you can express this. They may state something like, "You must think I'm crazy/a bit much/too extreme or somethings wrong with me." Again, a bit of empathy will help ease them into a secure comfort level. Show your interest and validate their emotions. Let them know that they are more aware than the average person in regards to that particular issue and pay attention to what is important. Make them feel comfortable in your presence. Do it in a genuine, caring way. Dig deeper on abstract statements If a statement is made that is interesting or unique, follow up on it. This type of exploration may lead to a bigger picture, and a new realization of what is important to the target market. Explore their tangents, and figure out how it ties into their emotional triggers. After all, its their opinion, not yours, that matters. In Summary The most valuable asset you can bring to the interview process is an empathetic attitude and a genuine desire to get to know your subjects perceptions, feelings and emotional hot buttons. This is best accomplished by leaving your own predispositions aside, which may not be an easy thing to do. Be cognizant of what questions to ask during the various levels of emotion. Tune in to what people are NOT saying. Follow your instincts. Dig for the deeper meaning.
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comes up for them -- its what is important to them thats what they need to talk about. Dont fall into the trap of feeling like you always have to ask questions. If theyre ready to just take it and go, let them. This ties into the emotional bank account of that person. Real Life Tidbits Provide Priceless Details Once the flow of the conversation has been established, you may ask the person for stories regarding their experiences. Stories can give you so much valuable informationReal-life tidbits, a glimpse into their world, a better feel for where theyre coming from. Instead of imparting basic information, people are more likely to reveal subtle little details in the framework of a story. Real life tidbit A Chiropractic patient related how she misaligned the vertebra in her neck while working as a stage hand for a theater group. She provided details about the trip to the hospitalfollow-up treatments from the medical doctors that didnt help the daily painas well as the inability to participate in sports or even do chores. Not to mention the endless hassles with the insurance company. The content of this interview was far richer than if the vague, How did it feel when you got hurt? was asked. And its these details that will make your writing more honest and real. Dig Deeper To Hit That Nerve If youre sensing a benefit or emotional hot button, but theyre not getting to it, look for opportunities to prompt them. In a friendly, questioning voice ask, Well, would you say that.? If they agree, ask a second question to dig deeper. You want to evoke those deeper emotions. This type of question is specific if youre bringing up a difficult topic, trying to evoke a loss theyre experiencing, but not expressing. In interviews with arthritis sufferers, I sensed a loss of dignity as the common thread. They had to rely on others to open jars, go up or down steps, or even get in and out of the bath.
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This emotion wasnt openly expressed, but I knew it was there. In these interviews, I asked (after getting their Emotional Bank Accounts quite high), Would you say that there is even a loss of a certain amount of dignity? How do you feel with becoming a bit more dependent on others? It struck a nerve with that Target Audience. As another example, I recently interviewed Master Copywriter Terry Dean. Hed purchased my Best of the Best program, and I knew hed have an opinion of me as a coach/teacher. I wanted to know what it was. I sensed hed have a positive response, but I softened the question so hed feel comfortable answering even if the response wasnt so positive. I was searching for genuine feedback, and phrased it as such. The end result was that I did get feedback, and a topic-specific testimonial from him. Ask For Specific Numbers Another thing I like to do is ask for a specific number of things. So, tell me three things that people say about you. If you were to define what you do in one sentence, what would it be? At this point, your subject will pause. And think. Theyll come back to you with a thoughtful, original answer. Truly rich material. Keep in mind how each question affects your Emotional Bank Account. Some questions will prove uncomfortable for your subject. If you can feel your credit level dropping because you are probing deeply, keep in mind that if you keep going, you may have no credit left to probe in another direction. Q: If you dont mind, can you tell me how much money you lost on this venture? A: <pause> a lot. The Emotional Bank Account just experienced a drop.
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At this point, you'll need to decide if you should back off and explore something else which may be more comfortable for them. Dont Allow Vague Answers Be on the lookout for vagueness in your interviewees replies. Dr. Miller really helped my dogs arthritis. This is a signal that your questions or conversation arent specific enough. Its also a golden opportunity to find out whats lying below the surface. Ask a more direct follow-up question such as, What signs of arthritis did your dog exhibit? How is that different now? or even better Can you give me 3 symptoms of your dogs arthritis? Appreciate the answers given. Let your interviewee know that youre attentive and their input is extremely worthwhile. Listen with genuine, authentic concern. You may bring it back to the topic 2-3 more times to get to the real answer. Phrases to use in instances like this may be, Please forgive me for being redundant, but Id like to clarify _______. I know Ive already asked this, but _____________
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Prepare/Research Whenever possible, try to get some background information on the person youre about to interview. This might only take 5-10 minutes to read, but can provide valuable insight. Be especially tuned in to areas where you can start digging for information you are looking for. If you are interviewing a business owner or product developer, there should already be some copy material available, most likely on their website or promotional materials. When interviewing your client's customers, ask your client for a little background information on them. Find out why he selected them to be interviewed. Arrange compensation (if necessary) If interviewing customers for a client, most of your interviewees wont be paid for their services. Theyre doing it as a favor of sorts. But if your client really wants to pay the people for their time If the person you are interviewing knows they are receiving $50 for the time they spend with you, they may be even more forthcoming, and willing to cooperate. You may find it easier to get an OK to use their signatures and testimonials. In this case, there are a few necessary steps to youll want to follow. Have your client set up the agreement ahead of time. Dont get in the middle of this. Your client has already built a relationship with this person let HIM make the agreement. (I recommend $50, or equivalent in product, for a 30-60 minute call, with the client paying for it in most cases.) Ask that payment be made AFTER the interview. The truth is, paying in advance dilutes the enticement. Often, people have already spent the money by the time you do the interview and thus the value is already gone. Dont give them the reward before theyve done the work! Preliminary Contact You need to begin the interview at a Level 3 or 4. To do this, put some time into setting it up. Preparation for an interview is essential. Define your own goals for the interview. What information are you trying to find? Be specific.
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After your client has provided you with the names and phone numbers of people to interview, call and set up times with these people. Don't expect them to be immediately available. Call them, and ask for a good time to talk. Try to cater to their schedule. Give them specifics such as the potential length of the interview, and the types of questions you may be asking. Also, find out what their schedule is like. If it's a choice between interviewing them a. On their cell phone. b. At their work. c. At their home in the evening Obviously C is the best choice. B is the next-preferred option. Real life tidbit I just got off the phone with one of my client's staff members who called back to arrange an interview. I asked which time was good for her, and her response was, "Oh, I'm flexible!" I cringed. Dont take such a statement literally. Get an exact time and day that would work best for them. At what time are they most available and relaxed enough to give you the time you need? ALWAYS give them a reminder phone call or email the day before the scheduled interview. When you call, be sure to introduce yourself properly. Give your full name, and let them know on whose behalf youre calling. Something to the effect of: Hi, this is (your name). Im calling on behalf of Mr. Snyder and XYZ Cleaning Company. He said youd be willing to speak to me regarding your experience with his company, XYZ Cleaning. Keep the questions simple 1. What's your occupation? 2. What do you enjoy about your job? 3. How long have you been a customer of XYZ Cleaning? My experience has found that most people are a little nervous when you first contact them. Ease them into the conversation.
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Encourage them. Youre asking for their opinions. Its not a test. There are no right or wrong answers. Leave your phone number in case their schedule changes. Even when you call at the appointed time, ask if its still a good time to talk. Taking a few minutes with this step before the actual interview will help it proceed much more smoothly. Persist in getting the interview It happens. You may not hear back from the person right away to set up a time for the interview. This doesnt mean that theyre not willing to speak to you. In most cases, they probably have other things going on, as we all do. They may intend to return your call, put it off, and forget about it. Give people 48 hours to respond. After that, call again. After several attempts, move onto another person to interview. Asking for more sources Listen to see if there are other key people mentioned that you could interview. Often, a client will mention another person who may have a better view on the matter. Or they may even know of another client who has a great story. Ask your client for more people to interview than you really need. Not everyone will be amenable to donating their time for this purpose. If you think you only need two interviews, ask for three leads. You can always go through the process of interviewing, and then decide if you really need that third person. Follow-Up Leave your phone number and email, in case they think of anything else to share. Reassure them you want to know when they come up with new or different information. One of my coaching students interviewed a 65 year-old lady (customer of his client). Her memory wasn't the best, and would every few days call back with
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more information. Always good stories. She'd be at home, recall more use tidbits, and call. Also, youll have more questions upon reviewing your interviews afterwards. At the end of the interview, ask the person how they prefer to be contacted in the event you have a few more questions. Theyll never deny you that information, especially if youve done your job and established rapport. At the very least, get their email address and send them a thank you for their time. In that email, you may want to remind them that they can call you even though the official interview is done in case they come up with additional insights. Many times, these secondary insights can prove worthwhile.
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Actual Email from an Interviewee: Hi Shaune, I wanted to thank you for the interview Wednesday evening. You are a very talented interviewer. (OprahBarbara WaltersShaune Clarke) and I really enjoyed our talk. I hope it was productive for you and your clients as well. I mentioned to Allen that I had a few revelations about what makes me tick, which made it all the more worthwhile for me. Thanks for a lively and enriching experience. All the best, Trish
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My "New Copy Secrets" Newsletter and "Maximum Website Profits Checklist Are Available For FREE at... www.DynamicResponseMarketing.com Shaune Clarke is
A Canadian talk show host turned marketing consultant and advertising copywriter. Years as a talk show host have given Shaune a unique appreciation for human nature and what moves people to respond. He uses his interviewing skills to uncover the hidden emotions that trigger prospects to buy. Shaune writes and teaches No-Hype Ad Copy. He says I prefer to use the power of connection, empathy and Indirect Persuasion TM to sell. Rather than creating resistance and closing you can respectfully, yet powerfully, guide the prospect to a buying decision.
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