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YFCFamilyCulture TABLEOFCONTENTS Chapter1:THEFAMILYFOCUSEDACTIVITIESANDTHEFAMILYCULTURE A. Rationale B. OverviewoftheFamilyFocusedActivities C. OverviewofFamilyCulture D. Objectives E. ScheduleofActivities F. GuidelinesInConductingtheActivity 1. RolesandDescriptionofServiceTeam 2. ResourceMaterials Chapter2:YFCFAMILYCULTURESESSIONDYNAMICSANDEXPANDEDTALK OUTLINES A. Talk1PicturePerfect B. Talk2MyFamilyandI C. Talk3MyFamily,MyChoice D. PraisefestExhortationPoints 25 2 2 3 3 4 4 4 5 619 6 10 15 19

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A. RATIONALE:
Thefamilyisanimportantpartintheformationandlifeofaperson.Itiswhere the person learns and establishes his values, beliefs and experiences that eventually moldhimtobewhatandwhoheis.Thefamilycaneitherbethesourceoflove,blessing andinspirationorcanalsobeacauseofbrokennessandfrustrationintheperson.But whateverthesituationofthefamilyis,itisstillaveryimportantpartintheformationof theyoung. CFCYouthforChrist(YFC)believesintheroleofthefamily,mostparticularlythe parents,inthegrowthandformationoftheirchildren.AlthoughYFCisasupportgroup for young people ages1321 in a stage of their life where they are forming theirown identityandbuildingtheirowndreams,wecannotdiscountthefactthatYFCcannotdo these alone. YFC provides only a supplement to the kind of environment the youth experiencesinhis/herhome. Throughtheyears,YFCsawtheneedtoreinforcetheimportanceofthefamilyin moldingtheyoung.YFCthenseekstobringtheYFCmembersbacktotheirfamilyand acknowledgemorestronglythatthemoldingintheirownfamilytakesprecedenceinall othersupportgroupsfortheyoung.AndYFCseeksneithertoalienatenortoreplace the family. Hence, YFC introduces the FamilyFocused Activities, one of which is the FamilyCulture.

B. OVERVIEWOFTHEFAMILYFOCUSEDACTIVITY
The FamilyFocused Activities was envisioned because of the need to nourish themembershiplevelbystrengtheningfamilyrelationships. TheobjectivesoftheFamilyFocusedActivitiesareasfollows: 1. To allow the young to realize and claim Gods plan for their present and futurefamily. 2. ToteachtheyoungtobringChristtotheirfamily. 3. Tostrengthenthefamilyrelationship. 4. Togrowintheirloveforsiblings. 5. ToencouragenonCFCParentstoloveandvaluecommunity. 6. Tocreateanalternativeenvironmentforfamilyfellowship.

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ThefollowingarethedifferentFamilyFocusedActivities;eachwillhappenevery yearwithinthe3YearPastoralFormationTrackofYFCmembers: Year1:FamilyCulture Year2:ParentsHonoringNight Year3:BestWeekend a) MotherDaughterCamp b) FatherSonCamp

C. OVERVIEWOFTHEFAMILYCULTURE
TheFamilyCultureactivityisconductedtoanewmemberofYFC3monthsafter thememberundergoestheCovenantOrientation.Afterlearninghowtolove,tohonor and to serve the family, this oneday activity seeks to reinforce and strengthen their appreciationforthefamily,believeintheplanofGodforthefamilyandhowtorespond totheGodsplanforthefamily.

D. OBJECTIVES
1. This formation track aims for the YFC members to acknowledge, appreciate and understandthedistinctcultureineachoftheirfamily. 2. This seeks for the YFC members to believe and understand that the Lord has a uniqueplanfortheirfamily. 3. This aims to let YFC members realize that we are to fulfill Gods promises to our respectivefamilies.

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E. SCHEDULEOFACTIVITIES
8:00am 9:00 9:30 10:00 10:30 11:30 12:00pm 1:00 1:30 2:15 2:30 3:15 3:35 4:00 Registration OpeningWorship Icebreaker Session1:PicturePerfect Groupsharing Processingoftheactivity Lunch icebreaker Session2:MyFamilyandI PrayerWritingActivity Session3:MyChoice,MyFamily Reflection/Closingactivity Praisefest Closing/homesweethome

F. GUIDELINESINCONDUCTINGTHEACTIVITY
This is a wholeday activity conducted to YFC members who have already undergone the Covenant Orientation 3 months before. It will be done in the cluster levelwhichisheadedbytheClusterCoupleCoordinatorsandtheclusteryouthheads fortheCommunityBasedProgram andinasectorlevelbytheSectorProgramHeads andSectorProgramCoordinatorsfortheCampusandHighSchoolBasedPrograms. It is very much recommended that the same service team who served in the CovenantOrientationwillserveinthisactivityforcontinuousguidanceandmentoring ofthegrowthofthenewmembers. 1. RolesandDescriptionofServiceTeam a. Coordinator Incharge the Cluster Couple Coordinator will oversee the preparationoftheactivity;makessurethatthelogisticalneeds,likevenueand soundsystem,areprepared. b. TeamLeadertheYFCmaleclusteryouthheadwillleadthewholeactivity.He makessurethateverythingwillbedoneontime,connects,wrapsupandmakes surethatobjectivesareachieved.

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c. AssistantTeamLeaderthefemalecounterpartoftheteamleaderwhoassists and caters to the needs of the activity like food preparation, materials needed forthesessions,budgetingandothers. d. Facilitatorsassistandhelpinthegroupdiscussionsduringthesessions.They can be the YFC Chapter heads and YFC Household heads who have undergone thisactivity. e. Music ministry incharge of the music during the worships, gatherings and reflectionduringthesessions. f. Speakersdeliverthetalksassignedtothem. 2. ResourceMaterials a. Theparticipantsareaskedtobringtheirownfamilypictures. b. Registrationsheets c. Soundsystem d. Lunchandsnacks e. Bondpapers f. Coloringmaterials g. Glue h. M&Ms,Nips,oranysugarcoated(indifferentcolors)chocolates i. Note: The service team is asked to prepare icebreakers to break monotony in betweensessions.Thiscanbeinaformofgameorteambuildingactivities.

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TALKONEOFTHEYFCFAMILYCULTURE SESSIONDYNAMICS DESCRIPTIONOFTHESESSION: ThisisthefirstofthethreesessionsoftheFamilyCulture.Thissessionisactivitybased withtworelatedpartswhichwillbedoneoneaftertheother.Alltheparticipantsandgroup facilitatorsintheactivitiesareexpectedtoshareabouttheirfamily.Thespeakeralsohandles thewholesessionwhichincludesgivingtheinstructionsandtheprocessingpointsofthetwo activities. OBJECTIVES: 1. Lettheyouthappreciatetheirfamily. 2. Identifyandunderstandtheirfamilyculture. 3. Leadtheyouthintoarealizationthattheirfamilyisablessingtothem. PROFILEOFTHESPEAKER: A YFC leader who appreciates his/her family regardless of the brokenness he/ she experiencedinhis/herfamily. MATERIALSNEEDED: 1. Bring a Family picture or individual picture of the members of the family or a close relativewhomtheyconsiderasafamily 2. M&MsorNips(coatedchocolatecandies,indifferentcolorcoatings) DYNAMICS: 1. Thespeakerstartswithanoverviewofthefirstsession. 2. The speaker shares about his/her family and then asks the participants to share the sametotheirsmallergroup. 3. Afterthegroupsharing,thespeakerwillcallononerepresentativefromeachgroupto sharetotheassembly. 4. Thespeakerwillthengivetheprocessingpointsofactivity. 5. Thesessionwillendwithaprayer.

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ACTIVITY: 1. The speaker will show to the participants the coated chocolate candies in different colorsaskingthemwhattheysee. 2. Then the speaker will show his family picture and will introduce the members of the family one by one. (In introducing, it should not just be the name but also a short description of each family member. (E.g. educational background, and physical description,character,etc.) 3. Thespeakerwillalsosharetothegrouptheculturethattheypracticeintheirfamily.i.e. kissingofparentseverymassduringthepeacepart,practicingthegestureofblessas asignofrespect,familydinnereverybirthday,termsofendearmentetc. 4. Thespeakerwillshowthepictureofhis/herfamilyandwillsharethepositivetraitsof each family member. He/she should look beyond the perfect picture. (i.e. My dad is strictbutthatishiswayoflovingus,mysistermightbestubbornbutshetaughtmeto extendmypatience) 5. The speaker will ask everyone to form a group of 46 members and everyone will be askedtoshareonthefollowing: a. Introducethemembersoftheirfamily b. The common activities, language, terminologies, practices, traditions in their family c. Thepositivetraitsofeachfamilymember.(atleastonegoodtraitorthething thattheylearnfromeachofthefamilymember) 6. The group discussion will allow the participant to appreciate their own family. Each groupwillhaveafacilitatorforthediscussion. 7. A representative from each group will be called to share his/her family to the whole assembly. 8. Thespeakerwillgiveprocessingpointfollowedbyaprayer.

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TALKONEOFTHEYFCFAMILYCULTURE EXPANDEDTALKOUTLINE I. INTRODUCTION Godchosetobringushereonearthwithawholepackageourfamily.Wehave different setup and composition in the family. Some of us dont have siblings while somehaveadozenofit;somearenotlivingwithbothparents,whileothersareliving withtheirparentsandevenotherextendedfamily;andthelistofdifferentfamilyset upscangoalongwayyetwebelongtoafamily.LiketheM&Msthatwehave,these comeindifferentcolorsbutthesamechocolateisinsideit. II. UNDERSTANDINGOURFAMILYCULTURE Our different family setups have our own way of nurturing the relationships among family members. God has His own way of bringing the family together or somehow giving us a personal experience with each of the family member. We made memoriesandexperiencesandeventuallyobservecertainpracticesandtraditionsthat sustainedtherelationship.Fromthesharing,welearnedthat: 1. FamilyCultureisasetofpractices,traditions,events,languagesthatwefirstand regularly experienced in our family. We have different setups and different culturethatdefinestheuniquenessofourfamily. 2. Different families have different family cultures, different practices/traditions, language,andendearmentswecalleachother. 3. The differences of our familycultures do not define the kind of family that we have. (e.g. What can be a common/usual activity for one family may be a preciousmomenttoanother.) 4. Thereisnostandardofwhatafamilycultureshouldbe.Differentfamilieshave differenthobbiesandpastimeactivities. III. LOOKINGBEYOND Asweliveeachday,werealizethatthereismoretoourfamilymembersthan whatwesee.Ourfamilycultureallowsustoseetheuniquenessandgoodnessofeach andeverymemberofourfamily.

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a. Throughourparents/guardians Whentheydisciplineusandgiveusrulestofollowathome,thiscanbe theirwayofshowingtheirloveandconcernforus.Itisimportantthatwesee beyondtheactionsthattheyaredoingandappreciatethereasonwhytheyare doingthis. b. Throughoursiblings When we have small fights and misunderstandings with them, we need to realize that each of our brother/sister is different from us and we ought to respectthatthedifferencesthateachhas.Weneedtolovethemthewaythey areandalwayshavethepostureofforgiveness,humility,andrespect. Morethanjustappreciatingtheuniquenessof ourbrothersandsisters, wecouldusethesethingstogrowinourrelationshipwiththem.Wewillsoon realizethatthegreatestfriendsthatwecanhaveareoursiblings.Thesearethe peoplethatwecanultimatelytrustandleanon. IV. CONCLUSION Moreoftenthannot,whatourfamilyistousisjustamatterofperspective.Let us be thankful for our families because they are gifts from God. We now realize that each member of our family has a special touch in us and us in each of them. They contribute to who we are right now and the dreams that we want for our future families. The Lord has a great plan for our family. He has placed us there for a specific reasonandthisreasonwillultimatelyallowHimtofulfillthatgreatplan.Letusbeopen inbeinginstrumentstofulfilltheLordsplan.LetusbehopefulthattheLordwillfulfill HisplaninHistime.

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TALKTWOOFTHEYFCFAMILYCULTURE SESSIONDYNAMICS

OBJECTIVES: 1. Fortheparticipantstoknow,understandandbelieveinthegreatplanoftheLordfor thefamily 2. Fortheparticipantstobeencouragedtohaveavisionfortheirownfamiliesaccording tothegreatplanoftheLordforthefamily SPEAKERSPROFILE: 1. PreferablyasectoryouthheadoranyoftheYFCtopleaderofthearea 2. Ayouthleaderwhoknowsandwhocanhandlesensitiveissuesaboutthefamily. ACTIVITYDYNAMICS: 1. Thespeakerwillshowapieceofwoodandwillaskthemwhattheyseeataninstant. 2. Thespeakerwillcalloutfewparticipantstoanswer. 3. This time the speaker will ask the participants to look beyond what they see. (Participantshouldseetheendproductofthewoodlikeahouseorachair,atable,etc.) 4. Thespeakerstartsthetalkproper. 5. Beforeendingthewholesessionthespeakerwillleadthemtoareflectionandaskthe participantstowriteaprayerforeachmemberoftheirfamily.

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MYFAMILYANDI
TALKTWOOFTHEYFCFAMILYCULTURE EXPANDEDTALKOUTLINE AsformyfamilyandmeIwillservetheLord(Joshua24:15) I. INTRODUCTION In our first activity today, we talked about the culture of our own family. Its amazing to realize that we have different culture inside our family that one way or another defines who we are at present. This culture makes our family special and uniquefromtheotherfamilies. Wehavetolookintowhatisbeyondourfamilyssituation.Theworlddictatesthat we can live without our family and sometimes implying that we can survive without them.Whatwouldwebecomeifwehaventexperiencedthefirstlove,ourfirstadviser, ourfirstfriend,andmanymorefirstthatweonlyexperienceinsideourhome. II. GODSPROMISESFORTHEFAMILY Aswehaveseentheuniquenessinourownfamily,wealsoopenoureyestothe futurethatstillawaitsourfamilies;afuturethattheLordheldpreciouslyinHishands;a futurefilledwithhope,healing,andlove. A. GodspromiseofHope Godisatworkinourfamily.Despitethemisunderstandingsanddifferences thatwehave,Hehaspromisedusthegiftoftransformation.Godisassuringusthat He will notwaste the learning that we have from our experiences now. These will evenbeameansoftheLordtoteachustocontinuehopingforourfamily. Inthesameway,astheLordistransformingourfamilies,Heisalsopreparing usforourfuturefamilies,throughthelearningandsituationsweareexperiencing now.Thatiswhytherolethatweplayinourfamiliesisimportant. Godspromiseofhopedoesnotmeanweshouldjustleaveeverythingtothe Lord,butrather,weshouldallowGodtouseusandprepareustobethevesselsof GodsfulfillmentofHisplanstoourfamilies.

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*Notetothespeaker:Considerthattheremightbeextremesituationswhichareseemingly impossible to resolve. (e.g. When both parents who are separated may have their own respective families already, the focus on this should be on hoping a better family of their own)

B. Godspromiseofhealing God is promising us His power of healing. Despite conflicts, and misunderstandings, God is assuring us that eventually all our relationships will be fullyhealed. We,too,mighthaveourownresentment,prejudices,ourbiases,againstour family members but healing is still possible. Healing can start with us. The actions that we make towards our family members and our change in perspective can contributegreatlytowardshealingwithinourfamilies. Thesebringaboutnotonlyhealingamongfamilymembersbutalsohealing within ourselves. Eventually, these promises of healing will give way to restoring relationshipswithourfamilymembers. C. Godspromiseoflove Ourfirstexperienceofloveiswithinourfamily.Ourparentsprovideandtake care of us because of their love. Our siblings gave us the first encounter of friendship. There may be moments that it will be hard for us to see/experience Gods love but God is promising us that in spite and despite of every situation we face, Godslovewillalwaysbethere.Itisimportantforustohangontothispromiseand continuelovingthem.Letusnotstopmakingthemfeelthattheyarelovedby: a) Lovingthemdespitethemostuncomfortablecircumstance, b) Notgivinguponlovingthem, c) Remembering that they are gifts from God and there is something we can learnfromthem, d) Havingtheinitiativetoconcretelyshowthatloveisunconditional.

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III. HINDRANCESTHATWILLSTOPUSFROMEXPERIENCINGGODSPROMISE Asthesepromisesarebeautifulthings,weshouldalsobecautiousbecausethe evilonewillnotletushavealltheseunchallenged.Hewillsurelydeceiveanddisillusion us. He will feed us with false ideas that will hinder us from experiencing Gods promises;thesearewhen: A. Wefailtobelievewedontbelievethatourfamilyisourhopeandthattheyare the source of our strength. We see our family as the source of failures and disappointmentsbecauseofthesituationinsideourhome.Wedonotseethatat theendofourentireproblem,itisourfamilywhowillbethereforus. B. We fail to accept we fall short accepting our family for who they are and whatever attitudes or characters they have. (e.g. family members who have different principles from us, a nagging mother, irresponsible father). We sometimestellpeoplethatwehateourparentsorsiblingsthatwemadethembad familymembersintheeyesofothers. C. WefailtorecognizewefallshortinrecognizingthatourfamilyisagiftfromGod and we should take care of it. We choose not to care; we dont take effort of lookingattheproblemsofourfamilyandhelpingthemsolveit.(E.g.wedonot correctourbrothersorsistersthathaveviceslikesmoking,drinkingetc.) IV. GROUPSHARING:
NOTE:Itisencouragethatsiblingswithintheclustershouldbegroupedseparately.Thereshould beamaximumof3inagroup.

Bynow,weallrealizethatwehavesituationsinourfamilythatweneedtopray for.Liketheactivityearlier,thewoodwhichmaystandforoursituations,isallthatwe see. We must realize that there is something more to look forward to. We need to rememberthatGodisstillatworkinourfamilies,thatthereisavisionyettobefulfilled forus. DiscussionStarterforSharingofthesituationsofourfamily: 1)Whatisanidealfamilyforyou? 2)Whatareyourhopesforyourfamilies? V. PROCESSING/CONCLUSION:

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We, too, need to realize that there we play an important role in fulfilling the Lords promiseforourfamily.Letusrememberthatthefutureofourfamiliesrestsonhowwedoour partinthefulfillmentofGodsplanforus. Despite all this, the Lord continues to bring about His promises of hope, healing, and love. Let us hang on to these promises and realize that there is something that we can look forward to. God is at work in our families and all we have to do is trust in His love and faithfulnesstous.

PRAYERWRITINGACTIVITYAFTERSESSIONTWO
1) The speaker will open the activity with a prayer. The prayer should allow the participantstobeabletoreflectonthesituationsoftheirfamilies. 2) A reflection song should be played as the prayer starts. The song should be about fulfillmentofpromises,hope,orforgiveness. 3) The speaker will then give time for the participants to reflect on the song and at the sametimewritetheprayer. 4) Theparticipantsarethenaskedtowriteashortprayerforeachmemberofthefamily. 5) Afteramaximumof10minutes,thespeakerwillthencontinueandclosetheprayer.

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TALKTHREEOFTHEYFCFAMILYCULTURE SESSIONDYNAMICS OBJECTIVES: 1. FortheparticipantstomakeapersonalresponsetoGodsplanintheirfamily. 2. For the participants to identify concrete steps in making Gods plan happen in their families. 3. Fortheparticipantstostartprayingfortheirfamily. DYNAMICS: 1. Thespeakerisintroduced. 2. Thespeakerwillconducttheopeningactivityfirst. 3. Thespeakerproceedswiththetalkproper. 4. Thesharerswillbecalledbeforetheconcludingstatement. 5. The speaker continues with the closing activity while the music ministry plays the reflectionsong. 6. TheClusterhead/chapterheadwillleadeveryonetoapraisefestwheretheywillread silentlytheprayerthattheyhavemade. MATERIALSNEEDED: Piecesofbondpaper Coloringmaterials Glueorpaste SPEAKERSPROFILE: 1. AtleastaYFCClusterHeadmember. 2. AYFCleaderwhocanknowtheissuesoftheYFCmembers. 3. AYFCLeaderwhocanhandlesensitiveissuesaboutthefamily. SHARERSPROFILE:(therewillbe2sharers) 1. AYFCmemberwhodidnotappreciatehis/herfamilybeforebutnowpracticedhis/her roleasason/daughterinthefamily. 2. AYFCsiblingwhousedtofrequentlyfightwitheachotherbutisnowappreciatingthe blessingofeachother.

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OPENINGACTIVITY 1. Theserviceteamwilldistributesheetsofpapertotheparticipants. 2. The speaker will ask them to draw on the upper right corner their dreams for their family. (if they have hard time drawing it, they can write their dreams on that same corner) 3. Thespeakeraskstheparticipantstoplacethepicture/softheirfamilyatthebottomleft ofthebondpaper. 4. The speaker then asks the participants to draw a ladder or staircase steps from the familypictureleadingtothevisiontheyhaveforthefamilywhichisdrawnattheupper rightpartofthebondpaper. 5. ThespeakerthenaskstoasktheparticipantstowriteconcretestepstofulfillGodsplan fortheirfamily. 6. Shareyourvision/stepstothepersonnexttoyou.Allow3minutesforthesharing.

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MYCHOICE,MYFAMILY
TALKTHREEOFTHEYFCFAMILYCULTURE EXPANDEDTALKOUTLINE I. INTRODUCTION In the second session, we learned the plan of God for our family. We, as YFCs should believe that our family is at the heart of Gods creation. Our family is united throughGod,withGodandinGod.Andourfamilyisthesourceoflove,thesamelove that comes from God. But we are faced with the hard and sad realities that we have imperfectfamiliesbutstilltheplanoftheLordforourfamiliesstillstands.Here,weare toproactivelyrespondandknowhowtofulfillHisgrandpromisesforus. II. OURRESPONSETOGODSPLANFOROURFAMILY A. Value our Family our family is priceless. Value the family you have right now. Whateverandwhoeverisinsidethathome,itisstillourfamilythattheLordgaveto value. 1. 2. 3. Serving our family serving our family in small ways (e.g. cleaning our room andhouse,cookingforthem,etc.) Respect Respecting our family members, (parents and siblings) or even our extendedfamily(grandma,grandpa,etc.)inourwordsorinaction. Loving showing affection that would make our family see the love for each other, e.g. giving quality time for our family. (Dinner with the family, playing withyoursiblings,watchingTVtogether,goingtomasstogether)

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BegratefulBeingthankfulforthethingsthatourfamilyisdoingandgivingforus. 1. Appreciating their effort thanking them in small things that they do for us. (E.g.whentheycookforyouorpreparefoodforbreakfast,expressingwords ofaffirmationandlovelikesorry,thankyou,youarewelcome,pleaseetc) Remembering them in special dates giving them something special during theseoccasionssuchasvalentines,anniversaries,Christmasandetc. Prayingforthemincludingallthemembersofourfamilyinourprayertime.

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C.

BeObedientObeyingthemisourwayofshowingourloveandrespect. 1. Acknowledging authority God gave us our parents as our pastors in this world. As our parents and older siblings we ought to follow them as people whohaveauthorityoverus. 2. Obeyingtheirrulestheyaretheonewhowantsthebestforussotheywould notguideusinthewrongdirection. 3. Acceptingcorrectionsacceptingourmistakesandlisteningtothemforthey loveusandtheywantustobeontherightpath.

(Speakernowcallsthesharersbeforestatingtheconclusion) III. CONCLUSION GodenvisionsforustobeFamiliesintheHolySpiritrenewingthefaceofthe Earth.TheLordiscallingustotakepartinthebiggermissionofbuildingthechurchof theHome. Letuscontinuetobelieveandhopeinthisvision,thatyoungasweare,wehave abigroletoplayinmakingourvisionareality.Letuscontinuetoinfluenceotherpeople inbelievinginthisvision.Letusstartnowwithourselvesandinourownhomes.

REFLECTIONSONG
While they are doing their activity a reflection song is being played. The song should expressbeingthankfultoourfamily.

CLOSINGACTIVITY
1. The Speaker will lead the participants to a prayer. As the prayer starts, the reflection songwillbesung. 2. Duringtheprayer,thespeakerwillasktheparticipantstobringouttheprayerthatthey madeduringthesecondsession. 3. Thespeakerwillgivetimefortheparticipantstoreadandreflectontheprayer. 4. Thespeakerwillinstructtheparticipantstokeepitintheirbiblesothattheycanreadit everydayintheirprayertime. 5. Thespeakerseguethereflectionsongtothepraisefest.

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PRAISEFEST
THEYFCFAMILYCULTURE EXHORTATIONPOINTS SuggestedPraiseFestExhortation WewillacknowledgeGodsgreatnessforthegiftoffamily. WewillthankGodforallowingustorealizethebeautyofeachofourfamily. WewillexpressourconvictionthatGodhasaspecialplanforourfamilynomatterwhat setuporbackgroundwearein. PlacingusinusinafamilyisagreatmanifestationofGodslove.Helovesussomuch that he thought of us and believed that theres something we can do to make a differenceinoursituation. WewillprayforGodsgracethatwemaycontinuetoappreciateandacceptthefamily thatGodhasgivenus.