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What is Wisdom???
“The moment a person realizes that reality has many faces, he/she takes the first step on the road to wisdom.”
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This summer’s word: doozy (with a note on ‘lulu’) Hobby madness
Pronunciation: du-zee . Part of Speech: Noun
Meaning: A pip, a beaut, a lulu, a humdinger, a lollapalooza, in other Many of my friends at some
point in their lives have gone
words, an epitome, prime example, something truly extraordinary in its totally out of control, where
class. their hobby was concerned.
Notes: Although I’ve equated lulu, beaut, humdinger, and lollapalooza in They collect everything that is
today’s definition, this characterization is at odds with the late George even remotely connected, the
most trivial information, and
Carlin’s. According to Carlin, “There are two pips in a beaut, four beauts pay lots of money for souve-
in a lulu, eight lulus in a doozy, and sixteen doozies in a humdinger. No nirs. They become member of
one knows how many humdingers there are in a lollapalooza.” a club that consists of the
same mad people. Travel half
I wouldn’t argue with him; I don’t think I have ever seen a lollapalooza. the globe to visit congresses
The plural of this word is doozies, which leads some speakers to assume where they collect more use-
that the singular is spelled doozie. It isn’t. less knowledge and collectors’
In Play: Our original choice for a Good Word for today was lulu, but the items.
origin of this word turned out to be a doozy of a mystery, so we settled In fact, I’m crazy too. You
may recall I’m a fan of Duke
for doozy itself—a lulu of a word, if I do say so myself. If we follow Ellington, the American
Carlin’s formula, we could say things like, “I wouldn’t say his new car is a bandleader and composer. I
doozy but she sure is a lulu.” But would we want to? have nearly all his recorded
Word History: The question of the origin of this good if slangy word has output. Know thousands of
very small details only my
bred two schools of thought. Some think it a corruption of daisy which Ellington friends are intere-
referred to anything first-rate in the 19th and early 20th centuries. Howe- sted in. But they know them
ver, the slippage from the vowel in daisy to that in doozy is unlikely. already, so when we talk we
Others think this word is a variant of Duesy, a clipping of Duesenberg, usually just confirm our
the expensive and exquisite car of the 20s and 30s. The problem here is knowledge. Every day I recei-
ve on average 10 emails con-
that the word doozy first appeared in print in 1903. However, prior to taining information and dis-
building their superb cars, the Duesenberg brothers built superb racing cussions on this topic. I read
bicycles (raced them, too), and they began that business in 1895. The best them all. End of May I missed
speculation, then, is that our Good Word began as a clipping of the attending the Duke Ellington
bicycle name, which was reinforced in the 20s and 30s by the reputation 2008 Conference in London,
felt this was a serious loss.
of the car. Like in Stockholm (2004) I
(Source: Dr. Goodword - www.yourdictionary.com) could have met again some of
the living dinosaurs of the
world of Ellington, people
who have worked with him
60, 70 years ago.
Why go mad with a hobby?
We all have the ability to start,
move/change and stop some-
thing. But once we find some-
thing we really really like, we
start, and just keep moving …
Why stop? This of course
may lead to excesses like fat-
ness, gambling debts, or on a
different level, to becoming
filthily rich. It can also lead to
relationships going down the
drain, as the partner feels
second place after the hobby.
So the solution to all of life’s
problem is, to turn your life
partner into your no. 1 hobby.
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Top: Morgan, 2008; left: singing with Peter on the Graduation boat, July 15, 2005, singing ‘Sealed with a Kiss’; right: with
Corné in the frontyard of their house, September 1, 2006. Below, left: Morgan in Shanghai dress, June 23, 2006. Below and next
page: Morgan & Corné’s wedding. Below middle: Morgan’s mom. Below right: Peter arrives at the party.
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Top left: Amy and Peter Waite, June 14, 2006; top right: Graduation, June 23, 2006; below left: Amy & Nhat celebrating Moon,
October 10, 2006; below right: Amy collecting fruit in her backyard, April 22, 2007. Next page: Amy & Nhat’s wedding, HCMC
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At DDU I ran several classes on ‘Image & Identity’, as part of the PR block. At Wittenborg, I delivered
an I&I seminar. Most students like it, as it’s not limited to business use, but also for personal use, as in
career building and personal PR. It’s an intriguing subject. Finding out about a person’s true identity
may take years, or seconds. Many of us need others to help us discover who we really are. Usually,
when a person feels good and is among friends, it’s easy to show the identity. It’s easy to ‘be yourself’.
Those moments life feels very simple; no theatre, no stress, no hiding behind masks. You can be ‘just
you’. The image is that of a person who feels good. Like Apple above. It’s quite relaxing: you don’t
need to think, play a role, consciously put on a mask. It’s different when the image does not reflect the
identity. When you feel bad, but want to make a good impression, you’ll tend to hide your identity be-
hind a mask. Then you hope for better days, so you can take off your mask and be simple again.
Some argue we wear masks all the time. This would mean that everyone is to some degree lying about
his or her true identity. I’m not that cynical. I know that those who are closest to me make me feel I
don’t need to play a role, or wear masks. I can be just me. Nothing is more relaxing!
In social life we are forced to play our roles. In her time, Queen Wilhelmina—grandmother of Queen
Beatrix—was the sole successor to the Dutch throne. She grew up and was educated to be fulltime
Queen. She was seen as a strict and formal, even somewhat cold person. Someone you wouldn’t dare
to approach. The Statue at the Deventer Brink conveys this image. This was before the Second World
War. During this war the real identity of this lady came out: a 100% committed, disciplined yet warm-
hearted and emotional woman, the mother of all Dutch, who both deeply impressed, and stole the
hearts of those who met her.
“Apply yourself. Get all the education you can, but then, by God, do something. Don’t just stand there, make it
happen.”
Lee Iacocca (1924-, American Businessman, Former CEO of Chrysler)
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Above: Nieuwe Markt, Deventer, as seen from the semi- Above: Dai Jiaying (Wing) in Shanghai
nar room at Wittenborg, May 16. Rain was a needed
“Life isn’t about finding yourself. It’s about creating
change after two weeks of sun. Two days later, the skies
were clear again for another period of early summer wea- youself.”
ther. The Dikke Van Dale terrace is full of people. George Bernhard Shaw
Left: Manish Gaurav successfully runs his clothing
shop in Bahraich, Uttar Pradesh, India. He has
marriage plans.
Returning to Vietnam
Two years ago (Wisdom no. 4) I wrote an article “If one advances confidently in the direction of
called ‘Before reality there is a dream’. The quote his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which
on top said: “One does not discover new lands he has imagined, he will meet with a success un-
without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a expected in common hours...If you have built
very long time.” castles in the air, your work need not be lost;
Nearly all readers have done just that. You left that is where they should be. Now put foundati-
your homeland for a few years, even. You have ons under them.”
discovered at least The Netherlands, small as it is.
Henry David Thoreau (1817-1862, American
Until recently I had spent altogether just 4+ weeks
essayist, poet, naturalist
in Vietnam. This proved to be too short. Nga
(Anna) was right all the time: “You have to be here
a few months!” Well, finally I have listened to her
advice. Since June 14 I am in Ho Chi Minh City,
and will not leave until August 4. Seven weeks!
This time it’s ‘now or never’: if I succeed, GREAT.
If I don’t, great! Vietnam has gotten ‘under my
skin’; it feels like a second home. When the ‘call’
came, I bought a ticket to Ho Chi Minh City, whe-
re Lien Huong (Jane), Huyen Nga (Anna) and Hai
Ha (Jenny) made sure I’d meet the right people.
And I did: I now have a most interesting network.
I ran a workshop for supply chain managers in
Vietnam. There will be free introductory lectures.
I’m also helping to establish a knowledge link bet-
ween Dutch and Vietnamese lawyers. Still, sofar I “Chance is always powerful. Let your hook be
haven’t succeeded in setting up shop. I’m not ma- always cast; in the pool where you least expect it,
king money: the dream is still a dream. Yet, the there will be a fish.”
adventure is one that has been worth every effort. Ovid (BC 43-18 AD, Roman Poet)
From reuniting with DDU alumni, and meeting
several of their families, to being introduced to ele-
ments of the country’s culture no tourist will ever
experience. I’m no longer a tourist, I’m a Dutch
Vietnamese. Even if I only speak a few words, and
have no clue what the Vietnamese talk about. What
is it then? In the book ‘Saigon’ the main character
says that once you’re infected by Vietnam, you
won’t get rid of it. Of all foreigners I’ve met, only
one wanted to move on. As he is a career diplomat,
it’s not surprising. So I’ve returned to Vietnam, for
work, for the country, the people, and yes of cour-
se, for my special and dearest friends. Some first
impressions you see on the next pages.
“We grow great by dreams. All big men are dreamers. They see things in the soft haze of a spring day or
in the red fire of a long winter’s evening. Some of us let these great dreams die, but others nourish and
protect them; nurse them through bad days till they bring them to the sunshine and light which comes
always to those who sincerely hope that their dreams will come true.”
Top: delivering a workshop; home cooking delight. Above: dining with Nga
(Anna) & her brother Trung, and Huong (Jane).
Right: all over the world there Above: May 24 Patrice reads
are walls where people put up from her book, the day it was
notes. Often these are ads, or published: ‘Memories from my
prayers. Sometimes cries from the heart’s little drawer.’
heart. Like someone looking for The book deals with her per-
a loved one, after a disaster. Liu sonal life, about losing her
Fan (Sarah) poses next to such daughter, nearly her life, and
a (Chinese) wall. picking it up again. In a
grand way.
“You create your oppor- Actually, the book is an ac-
tunities by asking for count of survival. It could be
them.” an encouragement to anyone
Patty Hansen who needs to overcome serious
loss.
WHAT IS WISDOM???
What is Wisdom??? is
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Amsterdam/Deventer/Ho Chi
Minh City, June 30, 08
Rachael graduated in England … she’s Master in Finance & Business Management