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17—December 2009
What is Wisdom??? 17
“The moment a person realizes that reality has many faces, he/she takes the first step on the road to wisdom.”
CONTENTS: a.o.
Holiday
The Final Issue
A Beauitiful Word
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3
Season!!!
Wisdoms??? 5
Mixed news 6
What is Wisdom? 8 The value of a man is in what he gives and not in what
Graduation 2006 10 he is capable of receiving.
Lipstick on your ... 12 Albert Einstein (1879-1955—German-born American physicist)
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Apart from this, however, I must confess I’m just not enthusiastic about continuing What is Wis-
dom??? The feedback we received during the past 2 years has been minimal. Sometimes I had the fee-
ling we made the Wisdom??? just for a handful of friends. It took quite an effort to get pictures from
personal events, such as weddings and babies. Rarely we received notifications, or pictures.
One obvious cause of the lack of feedback is less and less attention for the graduates from your year.
And hence, more and more to people you don’t know. The inclusion of Wittenborg wasn’t appreciatd
by all. So I can imagine the magazine has lost some of its attractiveness. Besides, DDU no longer
exists, and Wisdom??? was 95% DDU. Wittenborg contributions totally depended on Peter.
On www.scribd.com you can find all Wisdom???’s. Not many know about this site; I mentioned its
existence once. The readers—who may have looked at a few pages—are not familar with DDU or
Wittenborg. They may have found it by Google (search ‘what is wisdom’) or by exploring the site.
Whatever their motivation, it’s interesting to note how many reads each issue has had over the past 9
months, since I uploaded them. Issue 5 (the one with the pretty cow, October 2006) sofar has 775
reads. Number two is issue 13 (October 2008): 469 reads. What makes issue 5 stand out from the rest?
It has the highest number of articles written by different contributors: not Peter or me, but people who are on our
mailing list. Of course Peter has contributed lots of articles and pictures to nearly all issues, including
no. 16. But from number 5 on, articles written by others have become rare. The last few issues contai-
ned no contributions from others; the feedback on nos. 15 and 16 has been nearly zero. Peter and I
agreed about reducing the frequency from 4 to 2 per year. No demand, no supply … And now, with
Peter gone, I decided to call it quits. It was great fun making them. All the best, Loek
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Becoming • Adjective
Pronunciation: bee-kum-ing
The fundamental meaning of becoming is “attractive” but it may refer either to attractive people or
attractive behavior (behaviour outside the US), where the meaning leans more toward “appropriate”.
A very comely word, this. The two sonorants, M and NG, help make this authentic English word
beautiful. The B and the M are labial sounds, made with the lips alone and their association with affection
helps beautify the word. This word originated as the present participle of the verb become but in a quirky
meaning that verb bears, “to make attractive,” as in, “That dress becomes you.” You may use this word
negatively if you properly prefix it, as in, “behavior unbecoming a gentleman.”
Remember the two senses of this word. It can refer to beauty itself: “Natalie Cladd’s broad-brimmed hat
sat askew on her hair in a becoming fashion no one could ignore.” As a result, Natalie herself was most
likely quite becoming. This word also refers to appropriateness, especially if referring to behavior: “I
thought the snippy remark from Maude Lynn Dresser about Natalie’s hat was most unbecoming of
Maude, though.”
The verb become has borne several meanings over its lifetime. In Old English it meant “come to,” which
led to the broader sense of the verb today “come to be,” as to become a doctor. The sense of “coming to”
also led to the sense of bekommen in German today, “to receive.” Later in Middle English it came to
mean “happen to, befall.” The sense of “to befit, to suit” apparently has been expressed as “come to” for a
long time in Indo-European languages since idët tebe, literally “it comes to you,” means “it suits you” in
Russian.
Amsterdam Elephants: becoming or unbecoming?
Dutch Lady???
Guess his name ...
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Mixed Messages
Gladwell wrote several interesting & bestselling books, like The Tipping Point,
Blink, and Outliers. His latest is a collection of articles he wrote for The New Yorker
magazine. I couldn’t put it down until the final part, ‘Troublemakers’.
Each article offers a new viewpoint—and often more than one—on an issue that
somehow relates to my life and experiences. The title article is a great read for anyo-
ne who finds it hard to believe that other people can have a different viewpoint—let
alone, dogs. His remarks on the Enron affair are to-the-point. Subtitles of articles:
What the Inventor of the Birth Control Pill Didn’t Know About Woman’s
Health
Should a Charge of Plagiarism Ruin Your Life?
Why Do We Hire When We Can’t Tell Who’s Right For The Job?
Just buy it, read it and fill your mind. (See also http://www.gladwell.com.)
Holiday Seasons in Holland: December 20, from Zaandam my sister Loes sent me the picture on the left,
while I was completing this Wisdom??? She saw her son Daan (waving) and his girlfriend, letting their dog out.
Note the seagulls. The pic on the right I took June 1, late springtime.
Living as an expat in Vietnam means you have to abide with the local laws. For example, in order to drive a motorbi-
ke you need a Vietnamese driver’s license. Without it, you can get fined. The chance you get caught is tiny. But if it hap-
pens, as it did to a Dutch friend, they may even confiscate your motorbike for some time. So I went through the motions
of getting a license. You will recall the hassle of getting and keeping or extending
your residence permit in NL. My Tempo- rary Residence Permit enables me to travel in
& out of Vietnam until end 2012. One requirement: be involved in Vietnamese busi-
ness. I am: Alliance’s Director of Training.
It is not the presence or absence of difficulty, but how you deal with
the inevitable difficulties of life. Jim Collins
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To understand reality is not the same as to know about outward events. It is to perceive the es-
sential nature of things. The best-informed man is not necessarily the wisest. Indeed there is a
danger that precisely in the multiplicity of his knowledge he will lose sight of what is essential.
But on the other hand, knowledge of an apparently trivial detail quite often makes it possible to
see into the depth of things. And so the wise man will seek to acquire the best possible know-
ledge about events, but always without becoming dependent upon this knowledge.
To recognize the significant in the factual is wisdom.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Mr.
Gerard
Smits &
David
Peter van Oosten & Mrs. Trees
congratulating the Graduates
Everybody say: DUTCH CHEESE! Amy &
David
On the ferry:
Amanda,
Shirley,
and
Paul Scholey
& his wife Nasir Ali
The Chinese Graduates
(Loek is in the
background,
hoping his
throw results
in a strike.)
Nepalese:
Roshan,
Ritesh,
Saurav &
Sashanka
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YouTip: see what millions before you have seen: Kseniya Simonova’s incredibly moving and artistically briljant
performance ‘1945’ at a recent ‘Ukrain’s Got talent’ night: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=518XP8prwZo.
FYI, the Russian message at the end means: “You are always near.” I think she is referring to the millions of
innocent Ukrainians who died due to massive killings and destruction, which ended in 1945. The monument
she shows just before she finishes is the obelisk on Kiev’s Victory Square, erected in memory of the dead.
It’s still 2009, so not too late to remind you of the fact that 400 years ago Dutchmen set foot on American
soil. They bought an island called ‘Manhattan’ by and from the native Indians. Their settlement became ‘New
Amsterdam’. Many locations in this worldfamous city have Dutch roots. Such as Brooklyn (named after Breu-
kelen, a town close to Utrecht), Harlem (named after Haarlem), Broadway (the former ‘broodweg’- where the
17th century ‘Broodje Bart’-entrepreneurs had their shops), and Wallstreet (remember the Walstraat in Deven-
ter?). So, any idea which city is shown? Tip: the West is top. The English, who took over New Amsterdam
from the Dutch in 1664, renamed it. After one of their famous cities. You may have three guesses ...
Social networks have become part of everyday life. I have reduced mine to a few. No. 1 is LinkedIn
(business) and MSN no. 2 (the rest). After Yahoo! ended its 360° service, I ended adding to Yahoo! Too much
hassle. Yes, I’m on Facebook. But since a few weeks the Vietnamese government has ordered local providers
to block access to this site. Reason? You may have three guesses ...
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