Make a sign that reads 'do not disturb' on stiff paper and carry it with you. Make someone's day Bake a few dozen cookies and wrap them into small packages. Look down. Walk the streets of your city looking down. Find treasure.
Make a sign that reads 'do not disturb' on stiff paper and carry it with you. Make someone's day Bake a few dozen cookies and wrap them into small packages. Look down. Walk the streets of your city looking down. Find treasure.
Make a sign that reads 'do not disturb' on stiff paper and carry it with you. Make someone's day Bake a few dozen cookies and wrap them into small packages. Look down. Walk the streets of your city looking down. Find treasure.
on stiff paper. Carry this with you in your bookbag or attache case when you are going to be out for a while. It might be a good idea if this sign is attached to a small stake or is folded in half like a tent so you can put it in a number of different places. Keep your eye out for nice plac- es that seem quiet and are not too hid- den from sight. Use your jacket as your pillow and keep your backpack under one arm. Place the sign on your chest or on the ground in a visible place. Good places to start napping are parks and public libraries. Keep a list of these sites so when you are walking around and you get tired you will know of a good spot to have a nap. If your list gets long and detailed, consider printing it off and sharing it with your friends on their birth- days. Don’t nap longer than 20 minutes or you will be groggy. Make someone’s day
Bake a few dozen cookies (or brown-
ies or whatever your specialty is) and wrap them into small packages of 5 or 6 cookies. Carry these around with you in a box. Throughout the day, whenever anyone starts to complain about another person offer them a trade - if they stop complaining you will give them some cookies. This will make them happy, and also, you will not have to listen to someone complain. You could also do this with chocolate bars, flowers or pancakes (but if you choose pancakes you might need to carry syrup in your box). Give gifts to everyone
Cut lovely images out of magazines.
Pictures of things that make you smile. Tape them up in public places. On lamp- posts, on train windows, on shopping trolleys.
Smile while you do it.
Find treasure
Look down. Walk the streets of your
city looking down. Be careful not to hit any poles or cars or people while you do it, you might need to sometimes look up, a bit, to ensure this, but, mostly, try to look down. Tell yourself that on this journey, this trip from, say, your apart- ment to the grocery store, or from the park to the university, you must find at least one beautiful thing. A button, a lost note, a coin. And you will, you will find them. And when you do, stop, pick them up, hold them in your hand, and look at them, feel them and feel lucky and proud of your treasure. Then put it in your pocket and continue on.
If you do this twice or three times or so,
you’ll build the habit and you’ll find your- self finding treasure nearly every time you walk. Fill your pockets. Send a leisurely letter
Write a letter to a friend. It does not mat-
ter what it is about, specifically, but may- be it is some news about an upcoming vacation or something equally exciting. Address the envelope to a fictional per- son or place in another country, prefera- bly as far away as possible and put your friends address as the return address. When the letter gets to Australia (or wherever you choose) it will be returned to your friend (you will have to pay full postage for the let- ter to actually travel around the world). Not only will your friend have good news in the mail, but the letter will also have traveled a great distance to get to them. Walk differently
• Go somewhere without a plan.
• Let a friends from out of town lead the
way.
• Walk at a different time than you nor-
mally do. Walk in the middle of the night. Walk very early in the morning.
• Every third intersection, turn left.
• Take the subway to a new neighbor-
hood every week. Walk it. Get to know it. See what you are missing
On regular day, carry a camera with you
everywhere you go for the entire day. For the entire day, take photographs of things you have never seen before, of things you have not noticed before - be on the lookout for the new amongst the day to day. Save these pictures for a week before you look at them and when you do, look for what you have been missing each day. Go on a silent date
Do this after a week where you have
had too much talking and listening and are mentally tired. Go to your friend’s house to pick them up. From this point on, neither of you talk. From your friends house, walk to the nearest public transit and take it to a theatre. Be sure to sit together on the bus or train but do not talk. Walk from the stop to a movie the- atre. Try not to say anything to the ticket taker. Do the same when you get pop- corn and a drink. Sit through the movie in silence no matter how scary or funny (you can laugh or scream on the inside). When the movie is finished, walk back to the transit station, take the bus or train back to your friend’s, walk back to their place and say goodbye. Maybe goodbye is the only thing you say that night. Or maybe you hug good night. Have dinner with strangers
Make a list of people you know a bit but
would like to know better. Invite them all to your place for a sunday night after dinner snack. Ask each person you in- vite to also bring one other person they also would like to know better. Invite a lot of people as not everyone will be able to come. Ask them to bring snacks and drinks and chairs just in case you do not have enough. Supply name tags, refreshments and music. It might also be a good idea to have an end time set if you have to work on monday morning. Make the city your playground
Take a few friends and a couple city
blocks and play:
Hide and go seek
or Tag or Sardines or Capture the flag or Cops and Robbers or Wink murder
Don’t do anything ille-
gal. Don’t worry about looking silly. Just play. Strangers might ask what you’re doing. They might ask to join you. Say yes. Make real imaginary friend
Next time you are somewhere with a
lot of other people, a lot of strangers, choose three that don’t look like people you would normally be friends with and make up their whole stories. Write their lives in your head.
• Where are they from?
• Where are they going? • What do they want more than anything right now? • Who do they love most? • What makes them sad? • What would happen if two of your real imaginary friends met? • What if they met you? Spend time
Don’t talk. Hold hands.
Contributers Biographies Emma writes things and plays music. She has a book called “The Alphabet Boys,” a band called “The Cedar,” a teaching job at Bath Spa University and an almost-Doctorate from the University of East Anglia. She lives in England where she loves the rain and flowers but often misses Canadian home.
Robin makes art things and teaches art things. He occasion-
ally hosts Dinners for Strangers, is in a Gang (the Social Evolution Research Gang), teaches at Red Deer College and has big plans for the future. He was born in British Co- lumbia but raised in Alberta - not in the circus but he thinks that would have been cool.
They both would like to thank Erin K. Hooper for her illustra- tive assistance.