20 Dating Digs By Ada Elechi

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Are you dating someone ? or intending to date someone but you are not so sure? Here are some things you may want to consider ;

Ladies , Make Sure you do a background check on him . Very important ! Guys ,you may want to know more about the lady otherthan what is presented. Be sure to dress well perhaps not too expensively , modest is okay and neat though. Be a good listener Find out areas of common interests Be honest in your conversation Do not have sex with him /her. Save it for your wedding day! Yes you read correctly, save it for your wedding day! This may not be common but it will save you a lot of heart aches and diseases. Anyone who really loves you will wait till after marriage This may not be popular in today's world believe me ,what it saves you from is huge compared to what you think you'd miss. Develop platonic friendship and know more about him/her. If he/she gets impatient with you and pressures you for sex, stop the relationship. If he/she cheats on you or is promiscous, discontinue the relationship. This are difficult decisions to make but they pay off in the future.

If he is the violent type ,or is drug addicted ,stop the relationship as they will escalate later. Find out the person's goals and objectives in life. Do not date a purposeless individual. Find out if you are comfortable in his /her company

Is he/she fun to be with or someone yo can relate to?

Do not give too much and unnecessary information on yourself on the first date.

Find out the kind of friends he/she has and family.

Try to know what /she actually does for a living

Perfection is a process , know how compactible you are with his/her weakness and decide if you can put up with them. The fewer there are , the better.

If the relationship and dating process is not leading to marriage , discontinue. Do not co-habit with your date.

Pray to God for your marriage partner.