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thinking patterns
Do you automatically think "I'm useless” if you do
something wrong, or assume that if your neighbour
ignores you, she must hate you?
1. Personalisation
Even though it’s largely out of your control you blame yourself for a
negative event that occurred 'If I had taken more care, I never would have
lost my mobile phone.'
2. Filtering
3. Rejecting praise
You draw negative conclusions without getting your facts straight. You try
and predict the future or guess what someone else is feeling 'My sister is
upset, she must be angry with me.'
5. Negative reasoning
You are sure that your negative opinion of a situation reflects reality. Such
as: 'My husband drops his socks on the floor just to aggravate me.'
6. Using the word 'should' in your vocabulary
You adhere to being a perfectionist and following certain rules about what
you 'should' be doing. You feel useless and guilty when you can’t stick to
your rules.
7. Overgeneralisation
8. Labelling
9. Magnification or minimisation
You wind yourself up so that molehill problems become mountains 'I know
I won’t be any good at it.' Or you minimize anything that might make you
feel good, such as appreciation for a kind act you did or the recognition
that other people have flaws, too.
Conclusion
Negative thoughts don’t have to be a way of life, you can 'unlearn' self-
defeating ways of thinking that pave the way toward mood disorders.
Writing things down on paper really helps. Take some time out of your day
to write down a negative event, notice your thought pattern from the list
above and look at then write down a different perspective with a more
rational and optimistic response.
Just the act of writing gives you back some power and control over the
situation and once you have recognised your negative thought pattern
you are on the way to teaching yourself new patterns, positive ones!