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Social Training Lab presents
"Small Talk Tactics"
How to Make Small Talk Sexy
and Use it to Create Attraction
in a Woman You're Interacting With.
lstoodoutsidethedoor.
lsortofleanedintoittotrytohearwhatwasgoingoninside.lknew itwaswrong.butl
couldn'thelpmyself.
Finally,lsortofnudgedthedooropenandpeakedin.
Herhandwaslikeabunnyrabbithoppingupanddown.Hispantswerearoundhisankle
andhehadahugesmileonhisface.ltriedtoshutthedoorquickly,butitsqueaked.
Shejumpedbackstartled.Helaughedandyelled"Shutthedoor."
Aslmumbledanapology,lcaughtaglimpseofher.l'llneverforgetthewayshelookedat
me.withsuchcompleteandutterPlTY.
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DearFriend,
lhopelwasn't toographicinthestoryabove(butiflwas.gobuyyourselfaDr.Philbook,
becausel'mnottheguytohelpyou.)
Unfortunately,thememoryisstillprettyvividinmymind.lnaminutel'mgoingtotellyou
thestory.andlthinkyou'regoingtolearnavaluablelessonfromit.
Andthenl'mgoingtogiveyousome"Jedisecrets"sothatyouneverfindyourselfinthe
samepositionldid.lwouldnotwishthatfeelingofunbearablehumiliationonanyone.
Beforelgetintothestory.ljustwantto listsomeofmorecommonadviceyoumayhave
heardfrom"gurus"teachingyouhowtoimproveyourconversations.
Talkaboutsomethingyou'repassionateabout.
Lookforthingsyouhaveincommon.
Makesmoothtransitions.
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Letherdoallthetalking.
Avoidflufftalk.
l'mcallingBullshitonEVERYpieceofadvicelistedabove..And
prettymuch75%oftheadvicebeingpawnedoffoncrafting
conversationsthatgetyouLAlD.
Thestorythatlreferencedatthebeginningofthisreporthappenedfouryearsago.
butitisstillcrystalclearinmymind.
lhadvisitedmyoldfraternity'shouseinhopesofscoringahotyoungpieceof
collegetail.
Afterfinishingcollegelhadgoneintoabitofa"slump"withwomen.andwas
desperatelyhopingthistrekbacktomyoldstompinggroundwoulddothetricktowards
endingthedraught.
lhadalsorecentlystumbleduponbookslike"TheGame"and"TheVenusiansArts
Handbook"solwaspretty confidentthatlwouldraidthatfrathouseofeveryhornycoed
lcouldgetmygrubbyhandson.
Theentirenightmygameconsistedoftwo"gears."lnthefirstgearlwasin"dancing
monkey"mode.tryingtoneggirls,demonstratemassivevalue,dothe"Jealous-
boyfriend-stealing-ring-around-the-Rosieroutine."orwhateverelselcoulddrawinto
mymindfromrecentforumpostsandeBookslhadread.
Thesecond"gear"thatlwouldgointowouldbe"singlefocusedrapport"mode.ln
thismodelwouldfind somethinglhadincommonwithagirl,andthenproceedtodrill
intoituntillsuckedthattopiccompletelydry.
.Backtothegirlwiththebunnyrabbithandstrokelreferencedearlier.
lfirstcaughtaglimpseofherwhenlwasfillingmybeerupin thekitchen.Shehada
MarisaTomeilikequalitytoherthatlfoundirresistiblycute.
lnoticedthatshewaseatingsomething,somyPUAinfestedmindimmediately
thought"NEGHER!"
Solsay,"Youmusthavesomeappetite,chowingdowninafrathouse?"
lnthecutestlittlevoiceshesays"Yea,lcamerightfromworkandneededtoeat
somethingbeforelstartdrinking"
lsay,"Whatyoueating?"
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Shesortofflashesmesomeorganichealthnutveggiebarorsomething.
Thismustbemyluckyday.
l hadbeeninahelluvahealthcrazemyself.solimmediatelyfelttheneedto
demonstratemysuperiorknowledgeofhealthfoodproducts.
Sherespondedjustaslhoped!
Soonwewerethickinthemiddleofapassionateconversationaboutourfavorite
fruit smoothies,yogatechniques,thebestorganicfibersupplements..Andthenwe
touchedupontheHolyGrailofsimilarinterests.GaryNull.
GaryNullwasahealthguruwithacultlikefollowing.andwewerebothmembersof
thiscult.
lthoughtthatthisbasicallysealedthedealforme.
WespentthenexthourtalkingaboutourfavoriteGaryNullbooks,quotes,and
recipes.Weboth"scoffed"atalloftheotherpartygoerswhodidn'tshareour
vegetarianideals.Andgleefullymadeplanstosomedaygoto theGaryNullcenterin
NYtogether.
Whensheexcusedherselftogoupstairstothebathroomlbeganaskingmyfriends
ifanyofthemhadacondomtheycouldspare.lputoneinmypocketandwaitedforher
tocomeback.
Shedidn'tcomeback.
Afterabouttwentyminuteslgotalittle"sick"anddecidedtolookforher.lstarted
walkingupstairsandsawherchattingwithoneofmyfratbrothers...
Thisguywasanalcoholic,drugusing,wiseass.whowouldhavelaughedatherif
shetoldhimshewasavegan.solwasconvincedshe'dbebackdowntoher"soul
mate"withinminutes.
Shenevercame.
Afteranothertwentyminuteslstalkedheroutupstairs.
Thatwaswhenlpeakedinthedoor,sawhergivingmybuddyahandjob,andshe
turnedandlookedat mewithpityinhereyes,asiftosay,"You'rereallynice.butl'm
heretoparty,nottalkaboutGaryNull.loser."
lcouldn'tfigureitout.lbuiltrapport.lwaspassionate.lgothertalking.Andwe
completelyavoidsmalltalk.
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ls"SmallTalk"YourMissingLinktoDatingandSeductionSuccess?
Nowyoumaybereallyconfusedasthisprobablygoesagainsteverythingyou've
beentaughtbyvariousdatingcoachesandpickupartistsintheseductioncommunity.
Buthearmeout.
lthinkwecanallagreethatsmalltalkisunavoidable,right?
lnfact,myconstantneedtoavoidsmalltalk"atallcosts"wasseriouslydetrimental
tomysuccesswithwomen.
Butl'msaying.notonlyshouldyounotavoidit.butyoushouldEMBRACElT.
Embracesmalltalk?
Yessir.
HowMastering"SmallTalk"CanTransformYourConversations
andCreateSeriousAttractionWhenYou'retalkingtoWomen
Hereismytake:Awomanwantstoknowthatshecanhavefunwithyoutalking
aboutnothing.Shedoesnotwanttofeelthatwhen"GaryNull"talkends.you'llbothbe
boredsenseless.Shewantstoknowthatthingswon'tgetweird,becauseyou'reafun
guy.
Andsmalltalkiswhereyougettodemonstrateallofthesethingsawomanislooking
for.
Buthereisthething:
Smalltalkisoneofthosethingsthatcaneitherwinyouthegame.ordestroyyou
withinseconds.
lfyou'renotgoodatit.andcauseawkwardness,uncomfortablesilence,orthe
dreaded"interviewmode".you'redeadinthewater.
Butifyoucanturn"flufftalk"intosomethingthatisfun,exciting,andplayful.thegirl
willbeputtyinyourhands.
ThebestpartissmalltalkiscanbemadeFARmoreattractivewithanamazingly
smallamountoftime,effort,orenergy.
lt'sthewaythe"smalltalk"ispresentedthatmakesallthedifference.Say
somethingoneway,andyouboreherbrainsout.Sayitadifferentwayandsheis
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imaginghavingyourbabies,rippingyourclothesoff, orgivingyouahandjobinadirty
frathouse.
Hereisthemostimportantlessonyou'lllearnoncreatingattractioninwomen:
HowyouSayltMatters
Bysayingsomethinginaslightlydifferentway,youcantransmuteyourvaluefrom
verylow.toveryHlGH.
Whatdolmeanbythis?
lmeanthatoverthecourseofaconversationcertaininformationneedstoget
passedbackandforthbetweenyouandthewomanyouaretalkingto.
Thisisjustthenaturalflowofaconversation.
Evenifthegurustrytomakeyoubelievethatanentireconversationconsistsof
these"stealthattraction"buildingtechniques.thecoldhardrealityisthemostwomen
aregoingtocontinuallydirecttheconversationtowardssmalltalk(that'swhatthey
know)
.Soyoucanresistthisandkeepplayingthe"Guesswhatldo.Guesswherel'm
from."lameevasiveanswersthataregoingtoKlLLattractionalotquickerthancreate
it..
.Evenworseyoucandowhatldidwiththe"GaryNull"girlandgrabontoonetopic
andbeatittodeathsoscaredtojumpbackintotheconversationwatersthatyouhold
ontodearlifefortheonetopicthatyoubothhaveincommon.lcallthem"conversation
lifeboats".butironyis..Theywillsinkyoufast.
.Oryoucanlearnhowtoturnyouentireconversation,smalltalkandall.into
somethingthatisfun,playful,andsexy.
Thereareahandfulofwaystoturnsmalltalksexy,andlampersonally
FASClNATEDwithfindingthesetechniques,methods,andopportunities.
Letmeshareafewofmyfavoritewaystodothisthatldiscovered.
lt'stakenmemanyyearstofindthese,identifythem,testthem,andcreatesystems
sothatlcanteachthemtoyouquicklyandeasily.Pleaserespectthetimeandeffortit
hastakenmetofindthem.
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WARNlNG:
TheseareWeapons-UseThem
WithExtremeCaution
Thisinformationis"JediLevel"training.lt'sNinjastuff.
Whatlamgoingtotellyouisextremelydangerousforonebigfatreason:
lTWORKS.
ltworkssowellthatYOUNEEDtobereadyfortheresponseyouaregoingtoget.l
saythisbecausesomanymenthathavestruggled withtheirconversationswithwomen
arenotusedtogettingapositivereaction.andtheyLOSETHElRSHlT.whentheydo.
Beready.whenyouchangethewayyouconvey"smalltalk"yourconversationsare
goingtotakeonanentirelynewdimension.
lt'sreallyquiteliberating.andwhenitfinallysinksinthatyoucan makesmalltalk
sexy.you'llquicklyrealizethatyouhavethegifttotalktoanywoman,anytime.
.Andevenifyoudon'talwaysgetthegirl(Anyguruthattellsyouthathismethodis
100%foolproofisLYlNGtoyou)youwillALWAYSfindthatyouareabletohaveafun
conversationwithawomanthatleavesthebothofyoubetterthanyoufoundone
another.
OK,let'sroll!
Alittleearlierltoldastoryabouthowagirllhadspenthourstalkingto.ditched
me..Togiveanotherguyshemetahandjob.withinminutes..
Answerthisquestion,FAST:
WhatwasMYconversationmissing?
Time'sup.Hereiswhatmyconversationwasmissing:
Sexuality
Thesecondquestionis:Whydidn'tlrealizethis?
ldidn'trealizethisbecauselhadachievedmassiveRAPPORTwiththegirl.Wehad
connectedonatopicsowellthatconversationwasliterallypouringoutofourmouths.
AndformethiswasAMAZlNG.
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Mythreebiggestfearsinconversationswithwomenhadalwaysbeen:
1. Runningoutofthingstotalkabout
2. Awkwardsilences
3. Resortingto"boring"smalltalk
Sothemerefactthatlhadavoidedallthreeoftheseoutcomesledmetobelievethat
lwasachievingsomelevelofsuccesswiththisgirl.
Butweallknowhowthatstoryended..
Here'swhy.
The#1MistakeMenMakethatPreventaConversationFrom
TurningSexual
Thenumberonemistakemenmakethatpreventsthemaddingsexualitytotheir
conversationis..
..drumroll.
FEAROFBREAKlNGRAPPORT
Andwhydowefearbreakingrapport?
Becauseweconfuserapportwithattraction.
AndtheyareNOTthesamething.
We'veallestablishedthelFUCKEDUPthe"GaryNull"chickintheearlierstory.no
moreusetalkingaboutwhatldidwrong..
Let'stalkaboutwhatlshouldhavedone.
Here'sHowToUseThislnformationto
TurnaConversationSexualRightNow.
Nexttimeyou'resmackinthemiddleofaconversationwithawomanyou're
attractedto,stopforamomentandconsiderwhyyou'retalkingtoher.
Andldon'twantthebullshitanswer.
lwantthetruth.
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YouaretalkingtoherbecauseyouHOPEthatyoucanTALKherintobecoming
attractedtoyouinaSEXUALway...
Andyoucan.
Butinordertodothis.you'vegotto.
BurnYourShipAndLeaveNoAvenueForRetreat.
Leavenoavenueforretreat.
Leavenoavenueforretreat.
Leavenoavenueforretreat.
ThismeansthatifyourlNTENTlONistocreatesexualattractioninawomanyou
havetoPASSTHEPOlNTOFNORETURN.
Youhavetobewillingtoloseher.
lFAlLEDmiserablywiththegirlinthestoryearlierbecauselwasnotwillingtolose
therapportwehadestablished.
.butwhatlshouldhaveestablishedwasaSEXUALlNTENT.
ThefirstthingyouneedtodothisistoBREAKRAPPORTwhenyousensethata
womanisgettingtoocomfortablearoundyou.
Sexualtensionstemsfromdesiremixedwithuncertainty,suspense,andevenabit
ofnervousness.
lfyou'reinthemiddleofanhourlongconversationwithagirlabouthealthfood(or
theYankees,ortraveling,oryourjobs).thereisnotension,nouncertainty,no
suspense.
Yes,thereiscomfortandrapport.
Butyou'vegottoBREAKlT.
Soforinstance,ifagirlhasgottentoocomfortablewithyouandshebeginsgoing
intoalongrant abouthowmuchshehatesherjob.
Stopherandsay:
"lfwekeeptalkingaboutthisl'mgoingtochargeyou200$anhourfortherapy.Do
youhaveyourcreditcardwithyou?
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Bydoingthatyou'vebrokenrapportforaminuteandthrownsomesuspenseback
intotheconversation.andyou'vesnappedher"he'ssuchaniceguy."thoughtsinhalf.
You'lloftenrunintothisproblemlaterinthenightwhenyouwanttogetphysicalwith
awoman.andhavebuiltuptoomuchcomfortoverthecourseoftheevening.and now
itseemsthetensionisbroken.andakissseemsinappropriate...
Breaktherapport.
AdamLyonsoncetoldmeastorywherehehadagirlbackathisplaceandshe
wouldn'tstoptalkingaboutanargumentshehadwithoneofherfriends..Hewas
sittingtherethinking"howthehellcanlgethertoshutuplongenoughtokissher."
AndheKlCKEDHERlNTHEHEAD.
l'vedonesimilarthings.lflsensethatawomanhasbecometoocomfortableandl
can'ttransitiontheconversationtosomethingmoresexual.
l'lllookatherandsay,"Don'tyouEVERshutup?"
She'llusuallylookatmelikel'vejustlostmymind.
ButtheTENSlONGOESTHROUGHtheroof..Andrapportisbroken.andfrom
therel'llgiveheralittlesmile.thenlightlypushheraflirtyway.andsay"OH.Didlpiss
youoff."
AndnowweareFLlRTlNG.
HowtoAvoidthisintheFirstPlace
We'vealreadyestablishedearlierinthisreportthatyourlNTENTlONistocreatea
sexualattractionwithher.
Soletherknowyourintention.
lfyoudon'twantawomantogettoocomfortablewithyou.andbeginjustseeyouas
afunguytotalkto..
Don'tgiveherthatoption.
LETYOURlNTENTlONBEKNOWN.
Whenlwastalkingto"GaryNull"girllneversaidanythingtohintthatlsawheras
anythingmorethanagirlwithasimilarinterestinhealthfood.Sothatisthe"role"she
gaveme.theguyshetalksabouthealthfoodwith.
lshouldhavemadeastatementofintentearlyon:
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Anexampleofastatementofintentis: (ifsheflashesasmile)"Youhaveareally
sexyandmischievoussmile,likeyou'retotallyuptonogood.Hahallikethat.
Or.
"Thatthingyoujustdidwithyourhair.isdrivingmecrazy.lactuallywasn'tpaying
attentiontoawordyoujustsaid."
Leavenoavenueforretreat.
Onceyouintroduceastatementofintentintotheconversationyoucanreturnback
toSMALLTALK.becausenowunderneaththe"fluff"isanunderlyingTENSlONthatis
building.
ljustsharedwhatisprobablythebiggestmistakemenmakeintheirconversations
withwomen.
Mostmenclingtorapport,sounwillingandafraidtobreakit.theysuckeveryounce
ofsexualtensionoutoftheconversation.
Bybreakingrapportandusinga"statementofintent"youarebackontracktoget
exactlywhatyouwantoutoftheconversation.
Avoidthe"rapporttrap"andincreaseyourchancesofsuccess.
NowletmeteachsomeTACTlCSformakingsmalltalksexy.
lfyouusethetacticsbelowrightoffthebat.youdon'thavetoworryabouther
misreadingyourintentions.oreliminatingsexualtension.
Herewego.
Small Talk Made Sexy Technique #1:
Create Conversation Momentum By Using a "Role" Keep
the Conversation Flowing, Make Her Laugh, and Build
Sexual Tension.
Answerthisquestion:
Whatdothesethreetelevisioncharactershaveincommon.(lfyou'reunfamiliar
withthemgotoYoutubeandwatchsomeclipsofthem)
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AriGold: (FromHBO'sEntourage)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhlFhOT6xc
DavidAddison:(fromMoonlighting)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Uy2PqfnXGs
BarneyStinson(fromHowlMetYourMother)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yg9jjs-o35g
PerformingWithinaRole
Whatthesethreecharactershaveincommonisthattheyareallperformingwithina
narrowlydefinedrole.
Thismeanseveryfacialexpression,gesture,banterline,orbitofsmalltalkcomes
fromtheroletheyareplaying.
Andasamemberoftheaudienceyoucanalmostguesshowtheyaregoingtoreact
toasituation,orwhattheyaregoingtosayinresponsetosomeoneelse.
.Whatdoesthishavetodowithyou?
lnMelvinHelitzer'sbookpopularbook"ComedyWritingSecrets"hestates:
"Humordoesn'tgointoacharacter.itcomesoutofacharacter.Acharacterneeds
atrademark.apredictablepointofviewthatdoesnotchange.Withoutashtickthe
performerisjustareciterofjokes.Withitacomiccangetlaughsevenwithmistakes
becauseinaway,theperformeristhejoke.Everysuccessfulperformerincomedyhas
developedatleastonebasicandmemorablecharacter.Notonlydoestheaudience
feelcomfortablewiththis,butthematerialiseasiertowrite."
Thematerialiseasiertowrite.
Thinkaboutthesignificanceofthatstatementforaminute.
Thebiggestproblemmostmenfacewith"smalltalk"isthattheyfindthemselves
continuallyrunningoutofthingstosay,orturningtowards"boring"conversationtopics,
especiallyearlyonintheconversationbeforeyou'vebothbecomecomfortablewith
eachother.
Butwhatifltoldyouthatyoucantakeany"boring"topicandturnitintoafunand
exciting,flirtatiousconversation.Andhaveanendlesssupplyof"conversational
material"bytakingonaroleofacharacter.
Whythisworks.
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Thinkaboutthethreecharacterslistedabove.thesethreecharactersareFUNto
watchnomatterwhattheyaretalkingabout.
Thisisbecausehumoractuallyflowsmorefromthecharacter,theresponses,and
thenaturalinteractionthanfromthejokes.Thismeansthatyoudon'tneedtoconstantly
bethinkingofhilariouslinestomakeherhavefun.infact,thefunstemsfromthe
characteryouare playing,andyourcharacter'sinteractionwithher.
Thecharacterwritesitself...onceyougetthecharacterdownthenallthefunnystuff
takescareofitself.
Andthishumor.thisexpectationofhumor.createstension.Andasyoucontinueto
build upthetension.thenrelease.buildup.thenrelease.youslowlybegintocreate
SEXUALTENSlON.
Butyouneedtochoosetherightroletodothis..
ThesecondreasonlchoseAriGold,DavidAddison,andBarnyStinsonisbecause
theyplaycharactersthatworkwellforBANTERlNGwithwomen.
Eachofthesecharactersdisplayaslightdegreeof"mentaldominance"overthe
peopletheyaretalkingto.Andthecombinationofmentaldominanceandbantering=
ATTRACTlON.
Whenyouchooseacharacteryouwantto choosearolethatallowsyoutocreate
attraction.Andcertainrolesworkalotbetterforthat.Herearesomeexamplesofroles
thatgenerateattraction:
1. Youaredominant,sheiscute
2. Anassumedpositionofauthority
3. Herjudge,coach,orconsultant
4. Thevictimofherseduction
5. Thecoldguy
6. Theneuroticallyselfishguy
7. Ahighmaintenancechick
8. Mimickingher
9. TheDevilonhershoulder
10. Exaggeratedlycheesypickupartist
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11. Heradultsupervision
12. Sheisusingyouforsex
Eachoftheseroleslistedaboveworksowellbecauseitsortofelevatesyouasthe
guywho"getsit."
Andthemerefactthatyou'veassignedyourselftherole,displaysthatyouarethe
oneincontroloftheconversation.andyou'recallingtheshots.
lnaminutel'mgoingtoshowyouexactlyhowtousetheserolestoMAKESMALL
TALKSEXY.butfornowljustwantyoutounderstandthepurposeoftherole.
.therolewritesitself...onceyougetthecharacterdownthenallthefunnystufftakes
careof itself.
Thisrolesetsthe"frame"fortheentireconversation.Eventhoughyouwillmovingin
andoutofthisrolethroughouttheconversation.itisALWAYStheretousewhenyou
sensetheconversationneedssomerejuvenation.
Whattodo.
Therearethreegeneralrulestotakingonarole:
1. Assumetherolerightfromthestartoftheconversation
2. Owntherole/becongruent
3. Andknowwhentodropit
Basicallyyouwanttoexertfullcontrolovertheroleyoutakeon.Rightfromthe
beginningyouaresortofsaying"thesearetherulestoourconversation."Thisis
CRlTlCALLYlMPORTANT. youmustestablishyour"characterrole"earlyon.ifnot,it
willbeweirdifyoubustintoitafter30minutesof"normal"conversation..
Andthenyouwantto owntherole,andbecongruentinit.ThismeansyouDON'T
backdownifshe"shittests"you.Youdon'twaitforherto"approve"thegameyouset.
youjustgorightintoit.
Andfinally,youmustknowwhentodropit.Atsomepoint,afterattractionhasbeen
created,therewillcomeapointwheretheroleshouldonlybeusedverySPARlNGLY.
becauseifyouneverdroptherole.she'llnevergetfeeladeepersenseofconnection
withYOU.
HowtoTakeaRoleandUseitRlGHTNOWintheRealWorld..
OK.
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Hereisacharacterpracticeexercise:
lmagineaparticulartypeofcharacterthatyoucanworkwith..
Pickoneofthesethree:
1. AnOverlyConfidentPlayboy
2. AHighMaintenanceWoman
3. TheDevilonherShoulder
Onceyou'vepickedoneoftheabovecharacters,getintouchwithhowtheywould
respond,react,whatsortoffacialexpressionswouldtheymake,whatwouldtheirvoice
tonesoundlike?
Asyoureadthis,spendaminutegettinginsidethemindofthecharacteryou've
chosen.Becomehimforasecondwhilelwalkyouthroughthisexercise.
YourReactionStemsfromtheCharacter.
Now,howwouldeachcharacterrespondtothefollowingthreethings?
1. Sheaccidentallytouchesyourass
2. Shedropssomething
3. Sheasksyoutobuyheradrink
Nowlwantyoutobethefirstcharacter.andrespondtoeachofthethreethings.
Andthenbethesecondcharacter.andrespondtoeachofthethreethings..Andfinally
bethethirdcharacter.andrespondtoeachofthethreethings.
Dothisrightnow!
Donotkeepreadinguntilyou'vefinishedthisexercise.
Alright.
l'mgoingtojustgothroughsomeexamplesofhowyoucouldhaveresponded
completelydifferentlyforallthreeofthesesituationsplayingthethreedifferent
characters.
REMEMBER: Sheknowsyou'replayingarole.soit'sperfectlyacceptabletobe
cheesy,exaggerated,andtopushtheenvelopealittle..
Her:(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforaliving?
OverlyConfidentPlayboy:(Staringdownatherhandthatjusttouchedyourleg)l
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knowthatmoveyoujustdid.(Givingherthe"l'montoyou"look)it'soneofmy
favorites..The'casuallygropethelegwhileaskingaseeminglyinnocentquestion'
Shouldlgothroughthecharadeofanswering.ordoyouwanttojustdroptheselittle
gameswereplayingwitheachother..
Her:(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforaliving?
AHighMaintenanceWoman:Ohmygod!!Howdareyoutouchmyass.l'mnot
somedimestoregigolothatyoucanjusthaveyourwaywithhoney.
Her:(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforaliving?
TheDevilonHerShoulder:Just.slowly.put.yourhandbackonhisass.hewon't
notice.justdoit.leanoverandshowhimsomecleavagewhyyou'reatitto.
MoreExamples..
Her: (droppinghercellphone)
OverlyConfidentPlayboy:Youarejustmakingsureyoutakeeveryopportunityto
showmethegoods.aren'tyouhoney?ldoadmit.lappreciatetheeffortyou're
puttingintothiswholeseductionthing.mostgirlsdon'ttrythishard.
Her: (droppinghercellphone)
AHighMaintenanceWoman: Ohplease.DONOTthinkyou'regoingtotrickme
intolookingatyourass..lamNOTthatkindofguy.
Her: (droppinghercellphone)
TheDevilonHerShoulder:He'slooking.juststaybentoveralittlelonger...maybe
throwyourhairbackabit.andthenmakeacutesystatementabout'howtipsyyouare.'
Canyouseehowtakingontherollofacharactermakesthingsinteresting.
.andallowsyoutointroduce sexytopics
Doyouseehowmucheasieritistocompletelytransformthevibeofsmalltalk?
AndcanyouseehowEASYitistoALWAYSKNOWWHATTOSAYwhenyou're
playinga"role?"Youjustsaywhatyouimagineyourcharacterwouldsay.
Justtoillustratethedifference.useoneoftheaboveexamples(Herdroppingher
phoneortouchingyourleg)andimaginehowyouwouldhaverespondedifyouwere
justbeingYOU..
Youprobablywouldhavejustansweredherstupid"whatdoyoudoforaliving"
questionandcontinuedalongaBORlNGconversation.
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.Butthe"role"youwereplayingallowedyoutolNSTANTLYaddsomespiceand
sexintothemix.
Sonowyoucanstillanswerherquestion.butyouwereabletomakethesame
pieceofsmalltalk.SEXY.
Small Talk Made Sexy Technique #2:
Turn the Conversation Into a "Game" and Allow The Back
and Forth Interaction Take on A Life of Its Own
Didyoueveramuseyourselfforhoursjustthrowingatennisballagainstawalland
catchingitasitbouncedbacktoyou?
Ornot'steppingonthecracks'asyouwalkeddownasidewalk?
Ortriedtopassasmanycarsaspossiblewhiledrivingonahighway?
Orsitinyourdeskand"ratethedoability"thegirlsintheclassroomwithyou.while
yourprofessorflounderedthroughatortuouslecture?
lfyouhavedoneanyofthese.
.You'vefoundTHEGAMEtomakesomethingboringfun
Wedothisallthetime.becausegamesarefun!
"Findingthegame"
Everyinteractionyouhavewithawomanhasthepotentialforagame.andonce
youfindthatgame.whatwaspreviouslyatypical,boringconversation,turnsinto
somethingthatyouapartof.
Eitherasteammatesorcompetitors.
Justfindsomesimplethinginyourinteractionthatyoucanmakeintosomesortof
contest,andseewhocanoutduetheother.
Everybodyenjoysplayinggamesbecausetherulesaresimpleandclear.
.Andjustlikeplayinga"role".thesegamesmakecomingupwiththingstosaya
wholeloteasier.becausetheconversationspringsfromthegame.
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Beforelgointosomeexamplesof"games"youcanplay.let'sjustexaminesomeof
thereasonstheyaresoeffectiveatmakingsmalltalksexy.
Whydo"games"worksowell.
Createsasenseofrapportbetweenthetwoofyou(thegoodkind )
Keepstheconversationflowingsmoothly.creatingtheillusionof"chemistry"
Allowsthebothofyoutoshareinformationthatyouotherwisewouldn'thave
Makesbringinganelementof"sexuality"intotheconversationmucheasier
Focusestheconversationonfeeling,emotions,andobservations.ratherthan
facts
Thetruthis.SMALLTALKMUSTTAKEPLACE.thereiscertaininformationthat
needstobepassedbackandforthbetweenyouandawoman.
.butjustlikesittingthroughaboringlecture,stuckintrafficonthehighway, ortaking
astrolldownthestreet.
SMALLTALKcanbeMADEFUNbyfindingthegame.
WhataretheGames?
Basicallyanythingcanbeturnedintoagame..
Buttomakethiscookiecuttersimpleforyou.l'mgoingtolistsomeofthemore
popularonesthatsomeoftheworld'sbestPUAsuseonregularbasis.
Eachoneofthesegamesaredesignedtoelicitemotionsoutofthewomanyouare
talkingto.andcreatethefeelingofrapportandATTRACTlON.
.hereareafewofthefavorites.
Theimportantthingtorememberis,justlikewhenusinga"role"youMUST NOT
explaingames.Justjumpintothem.Startwithfunandhighenergyandgetdeeperand
moresincere.
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ThreeQuestionsGame
Asyou'retalkingtoagirljustbeginthisgame.
You:"We'regoingtoplay alittlegame."
Her:"OK,whatkindofgame?"
You:"lt'sreallysimple.Wejusttaketurnsaskingeachotherquestions...butthereare
rules."
Her:"Suchas....?"
You:"1.)Everyquestionmustbeanswered.2.)Noquestioncanberepeatedand3.)
Yougofirst."
"So,lwanttoknowmoreaboutyou.What's.yourfavoriteicecream?MineisBen
andJerry'sCookieDough."
Tradethreequestionsbackandforth.Youask,sheanswers.Thensheasks
question,youanswer.
Startwithverycommonorveryfunstuff(ex."what'syourfavoriteicecream?)and
bepreparedtoshareyourownanswertogetitgoing.
Secondquestiongoesalittledeeper,likefondchildhoodmemories.
Thirdquestiongodeep,likelove,relationships,etc.
Sinceit'sagame,shewillhardlyblinkaneyewhenyouask "Wherewasthemost
unusualplaceyouhadsex?"
Youjustsortofgiveherasmirkthatsays,"Yealjustbroughtitthere."
Unlesssheiscompleteprudeshe'llfollowthepathyoucarved.
Canyouseehowmucheasieritwastointroducesexualityintotheconversation
underthepretenseofagame?
Everytimeluseitthegirlbringsupsomethingsexualwithin5questions.
Fascinationgame/lLikegame
Thisisanotherexcellentwaytoshareinformationinawaythatisfunandcreatesa
playfulbackandforthvibebetweenthetwoofyou.
l'mfascinatedby...
llike.
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Remember,startsmall.Don'tgofortheimmediatedeeptopics.Gethertalkingfirst
andgetdeep.
Ex."YouknowwhatlreallylikeaboutNYC?Thebestpizzaintheworld.Youknow
whatlmean?WhatdoyoulikeaboutNYC?
Thenonceyou'rewarmedup."llikegirlswhohaveakinkyside."
ltisallaboutthe"VlBE"thatgoesbackandforthbetweenyouandthewoman.
lnsteadoftirelesslytryingtocreateadeepsenseofrapport.simplyfocusontheback
andforthvibethatisoccurringbetweenthetwoofyou.
Yourinteractionshouldbethecenterofattention..NOTtheTOPlCbeingdiscussed.
lrepeat: Yourinteractionwiththewomanshouldbethecenter ofattention.notthe
topicbeingdiscussed.
Thisiswherelhadcompletelyblownitintheearlierstory.lmade"healthfood"and
"GaryNull"thecenterofattention.Whenthecenterofattentionshouldhavebeenthe
playfulbackandforthinteractionbetweenthetwoofus.
Whatiftheinteractionwiththe"GaryNull"girlwentlikethisinstead?
Me:llikePeanutbutterfruitsmoothies
Her:llikeGrahamCrackerZonebars
Me:(highfivingher)Metoo.lalsoliketakingspontaneousroadtripstoweird
obscure places.
Her:Ohyea.Wellllikepeoplewatchingontheboardwalkandlaughingatallofthe
freaks.
Me:Well,llikehavingsexonthebeachwhilethefreaksarewalkingonthe
boardwalk.
Her:llikesexaftercomingbackfromareallytoughworkoutatthegym.
Doyouseehowcreatingagameallowsyoutoelevatetheconversationtoasexual
level.withinminutes.
Whenyouputsomethinginthecontextofa"character"or"agame"thewoman's
defensegoesdownandshefindsherselfplayingalong.BECAUSElT'SFUN.
Remember,awomanisoutlookingtohavefun.Andquitefrankly,mostguysare
boring,lame,andincapableofholdinganengagingconversation(lknowbecausel
usedtobeoneofthem)sowhenawomanmeetsaguywhocancreatearelaxed
playfulness.she'llinstantlyrecognize"thisguysdifferent"andshewillfollowyourlead.
Yes,shewantstofollowyourlead.
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Shejustneedstobesureyou'regoingtotakeherdownanenjoyablepath.
RolePlaying
Whatisaroleplay?
ltiscreatinganimaginaryscenarioandpersonasthatthetwoofyoucancarryout
together.
Let'ssayyou'retalkingtoagirlandyoutellherthatyou'regoingtoltalynextweek.
andshesaysjokingly"canlcome."
lnsteadoflaughingitoff.youwouldsaysomethinglike:
"Yea,l'llhideyouinmysuitcase.Whenyougetthereyouneedtobemy
paparazzi.l'mgoingtogiveyouacameraandyoujustneedtofollowmearoundthe
entiretimesnappingpicturesofme..Andpointatmelikel'msomeonefamous.Then
youcansellthepicturestoalocaltabloid-andwecanusethemoneytotakeayacht
downtogambleinMonaco.Ofcoursel'llwinduplosingyouinapokergametosome
lraniansheik."
Youseehowyoujusttookthisabsurdsituationandkeptmakingitmoreabsurd...
Yet,itwasplayful,itprobablyhadhergiggling.anditprojectedafuturewherethe
twoofyouwereinltalyandMonoco.
lt'sverysimple.
Startastoryaboutafantasywithyouandher.Letherfillinsome details,and
togetheryoucreateafungamewitheachother.
Andforgodsakes.Don'tbeafraidtointroducesomesexualityintotheroleplay.
that'sthewholepoint.
SoThereYouHavelt
Someofmyfavoritewaystoaddfun,playfulness,andsexualitytoyoursmall
talk.andincreaseyourattractivenessintheeyesofthewomanyou'reinteractingwith
MASSlVELY.Andwhatisgreataboutallofthetechniquesmentionedisthatyoudonot
needtochangewhatyoutalkabout.justthewayyoupresenttheinformation.
Nowit'stimeforyoutogoandimplementthesetechniques,andgetsome
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STARTNOW!
Takeactionrightnow.Don'twait.Dosomethingwithwhatyoujustlearned
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andsoonyou'llfindthatyou'recreatingthesortofvibethatwomencraveandyouwill
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Thanksforyourtime,andl'lltalktoyouagainsoon,
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