Turn on your speakers! CLICK TO ADVANCE SLIDES By Anita Healey In the movie The Pursuit of Happiness (2006), Will Smiths !hara!ter ma"es the o#servation that the $nite% States &e!laration of In%epen%en!e in!lu%es in its short list of 'unaliena#le ri(hts) the ri(ht to the pursuit of happiness *not the ri(ht to #e happy, #ut the ri(ht to pursue happiness+ Why, he ,uestions, -as it -or%e% that -ay. His !on!lusion is that its author, Thomas /efferson, must have un%erstoo% that happiness is somethin( that -e all %esire an% strive for, #ut also somethin( that not all -ill fin% or #e a#le to hol% onto+ 0of al-ays feelin( that if only I ha% a #oyfrien%, if only I !oul% !han(e !ertain aspe!ts of my 1o#, if only my !ir!umstan!es !oul% #e 1ust the -ay I -ante% them, then I -oul% #e happy an% free from the #outs of %epression I stru((le% -ith+ I had my years of chasin happiness! T"o years ao I hi# a $o" poin#% In despera#ion I asked &od #o do some#hin 'any#hin' #o pu$$ me ou# of #he morass I "as sinkin in#o% I fe$# #ha# a$$ #he cards had (een s#acked aains# me) #ha# I mus# (e #he mos# horri($e person in #he "or$d) and #ha# I "asn*# "or#h any#hin% In one of my times of prayer, He helpe% me see that a ma1or reason I -as so %o-n -as that I -asn2t -illin( to a!!ept an% ma"e the most of the situation I -as in+ It was true. I felt that the problem was always with my circumstances, never with me. That ma%e me even more %epresse%, #ut finally I (ave in an% as"e% 3o% to help me to a!!ept that truth *that the real pro#lem -as not my !ir!umstan!es, #ut my a##i#ude to-ar% them+ Accep#in my circums#ances) "ha#e+er #hey happened #o (e a# #he #ime) seemed impossi($e a# firs#% 4or e5ample, #efore lon( He #rou(ht a -on%erful person into my life, an% that reassure% me of His love an% #ooste% my self6esteem+ Once I "as "i$$in #o $e# &od chane my a##i#ude) ,e did #he res#% I have learne% that happiness is a choice) an% one that I must make e+ery day% Circums#ances don*# need #o (e perfec# for me #o choose #o (e happy and #hankfu$ for "ha# I ha+e and #o make #he mos# of i#% ---+tommys-in%o-+!om 4or more Po-erPoint sli%esho-s, visit7