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About This Guide

This is a guide for text messaging game, its a summary of various recent posts on the
issue. I would like to give credit to all those who have contributed with posts on the forum,
PMs and text msgs, all were very helpful and much appreciated.
Since the follow up between day one and day two, depends so much on which direction
the initial interaction went, I have broken it down between comfort based game and
sexually direct game.
It is essential that the follow up is totally congruent with what went down during the set
itself.
Between day 1 and day 2, the only job for you as a man is to make her feel good about
herself.
You cannot do Negs / IODs / Takeaways / Freezouts etc, via text. If you make her feel
uncomfortable with text, why on earth will she meet you for a day two?
You can be C&F but make sure it comes off right, remember it is text, it has its limitations
and unlike phone calls its harder to recover from errors, so the fact that its a tease has to
spring off immediately from the text including any emicons available.
This guide is broken up into two distinctive parts... texting concepts and texting contents.
1) Texting concepts are how you should be acting.
2) Texting content is what you need to say.

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Texting Objectives
Its important to understand the objectives of texting before actually following through,
otherwise you run the risk of not getting out for a day two.

Making her laugh

Its great for using call-back humour (referring back to a funny experience you shared with
her) including creating new funny mental images in her mind.

Creating validation
Tith over the top compliments, which are actually not IOIs, since it would be obvious you
use it for every girl, but nonetheless makes her feel good about herself, in the same way I
like it when a girl calls me Handsome whilst I know she says it to everyone, I still like it.

Escalating properly
Never reply to static stuff, always be escalating. If during set it was sexual, ramp it up big
time, if not dont start going all sexual via text, shell be scared to meet you.

Frame control
Ensure your agenda is leading the text exchange. Logistics for getting together etc.

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Texting concepts
This is how you should be acting when youre texting a girl. Its the mindset behind text
game that makes it so much more powerful. So take it seriously!

Never answer right away

Dont answer right away and give a genuine reason as to why u were busy. Its all about
timing it right, at the beginning give her at least as much time she took to respond to you
and even more.

You set the agenda

Once a certain rhythm of text flow has been developed, then YOU should set the agenda,
sometimes replying quickly, sometimes slowly - never becoming predictable.
Because you ALWAYS end your texts with a simple question she can and should answer,
the onus is on her all the time to come back to you!

Avoid looking needy

She wont have the discipline to do that so you will be able to drop her and pick her up as
you chose. Initially very fast answers = needy, on the other hand unpredictability is great,
therefore it should be introduced into the dynamic pretty fast.

Attraction spiking
Keep the line alive starting right after the day 1 all the way through, become part of her life
immediately, can be done easily via small attraction spikes texts.
On the other hand stop texting at a high note, get your message across and STOP, dont
text her to death, she should always be wanting more.
If you want to just stoke the fire with a little spike, you can just fire off a spike text, but if
you target is for her to answer your text, ensure one question per text, always place
questions at the end of text.

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Keep it short and sweet if you can and throw in a funny snippet of your life right now with
an emotion attached.

Dont react emotionally

Be unreactive, you live in your own world, often shell write something and youll feel
compelled to answer right away and this is where mistakes happen, dont be impulsive,
review before sending off, make sure you stay on message.
Dont care about her not responding, disregard and start the next day another thread. This
is easier said than done, but works incredibly well.

Use a little cocky and funny

Be very careful with cocky funny in texts, remember you are not there smiling & kinoing
her, thus letting her know its only a tease! It should be jumping out of the text.

Get on the phone if need be

Notice how she answers her texts, is it long and elaborate? Then keep at it.
If it seems like the texts are not hitting the right spot with her, there are long time lapses or
short answers, move swiftly over to phone before a negative no ladder is built up.
Also note, for foreign girls sometimes its easier for them than talking over the phone,
because they have the text right there in front of them, but sometimes, if they dont get it
its better to talk, need to gauge that on a case by case basis though.

Mirror her messaging

Its good to mirror the style of your correspondent.
If shes brief, be brief. If shes chatty be chatty.
But always stay one energy level above her. If she doesnt ever use smileys or lols dont
use them. Use punctuation and haha!!!!

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If she never xs you only x when shes been good. Choose a word she uses in her text
and use it back, pick up on subtle writing styles, notice, does she use punctuation's at all,
is there a gap between one sentence and another or does she write like this, without any
gaps at all.

Establishing a concept
Our goal is to establish the concept that we are alike.
In fact using we is very powerful. Whenever you can, its good to use we instead of you
and I.
It establishes a connection in a very powerful and subtle way. when can we get together?
says something very different to when are you free? it assumes that we both are
participating in mutual process of getting together. Shes not being asked out.

Put yourself in her shoes

Think of it this way, before you send a text try to put yourself in her shoes and look at your
text and say is that funny? Is this different? is this crazy? Is this someone I definitely think
can brighten up my life? if its a yes to any of those, send, if its lame dont do it.
This is an art form and being lazy with texts will get you nowhere, fast.

IODs and takeaways

There are a few things you can do, by way of IODs / takeaways, but this has to be only
once she is quite invested in the interaction, since you can only do a takeaway if there was
something there to start off with.
Take a longer time than normal to reply and totally ignore what she said, if you dont like
her last response.
Send her a txt that says youre very busy and cant meet her this week (whether or not
you had offered to before or whether you are busy) and dont propose anything else
Drop the x from your text (she WILL notice)

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Flaking Points
If a girl flakes me, Ill tease her on it in a funny way. I never get angry or look genuinely
upset about it. I never focus on reasoning with them logically.
I also dont give up if a girl doesnt call back. At the same time, if they say theyll call back
Ill just say OK cool. and give them the chance.
But then if they dont call back when they said they will, Ill call back a bit later and just reinitiate the conversation as if I dont even remember that they didnt follow up.
If you react to her flaking with anything more than an I didnt even notice you flaked
reaction, than you are telling her:
a) You lack emotional maturity, since you cant handle disappointment or changes in your
rigid, structured little life.
TRANSLATION: Youre about as fun as a stick in the eye.
b) You must not go through this experience of being flaked on very much or you would
have figured it out by now. What, this is the first time youve been flaked on? Get over it.
TRANSLATION: Youre a loser.
c) If you HAVE been flaked on before and STILL react this way, it tells her that insecure
anger is where you react from, and she knows what THAT means about you.
TRANSLATION: (I dont need to translate this one, do I?)
After all, what kind of guy isnt even phased by a woman flaking on him?
ANSWER: A man who has other options in his life.

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Questions And Answers

What do I do if she ignores my text(s)?
Check if it was clearly a question that needed to be answered, if it was very obvious, dont
rush to send another text, that would be a total DLV.
Drop it, since she is not interested in investing even something minimal as a text, (mainly,
if it is the first text) or move over to phone game right away (if she never picks up, it will
reconfirm where you are standing with her) If it was not something that clearly required an
answer, you can ignore and start a new thread.
What do I do if she is exchanging texts, but somehow never lets it get to a day two?
Switch to phone game, there is a need for more comfort and trust, afterwards try for a day
two.

Should I text to re-confirm she is coming?

Text assuming she is coming just tell her something about dress code, like dont wear high
heels, or youll be 15 minutes late, etc.

If you wanna change to another day, how

should I work it?
Say so, without giving specifics, (let her wonder if its another girl or any other reason.)
Write: I cant do it at the designated time, what is your schedule for the rest of the week?
Thus, leaving you the power to choose from the other options she gives you, as opposed
to offering a date or two and letting her decide which one, keep the power to yourself.
This is good when setting up any day two, specially if you have already been rejected due
to scheduling.

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If it comes close to the day two and she has

not yet confirmed 100%?
Text her/call her, tell her a genuine thing that has come up and you working through your
schedule and need a definite answer, etc.
When there is a reason to believe she will be flaking for a day two, there are three options:
1) Flake on them
How about every HB that could possibly flake, flake on her instead. Its not different than
all the other push pull moves that are played out in set, where you pull out their card
before they get a chance to play it.
They are supposed to resist your forwarding moves, you resist for them instead. oh we
shouldn't move so fast.
Her flake is actually her feeling the same thing, so do it for her, before she gets a chance.
2) Text them about being late
Say something like: Im gonna be 15 min late, please let me know you got this message,
so I know youll not be hanging about waiting.
If there is no reply call and tell her since she has not replied you will not be there.
3) Call her
Call with the same message, telling her you will be late, if she does not pick up, leave a
message saying you wont be there as she seems to be otherwise occupied.
What do I do if she flakes just before the day two and offers another day?
Accept or reject, accept with a hoop for her to jump through, make the hoop a DHV too
combined with bringing her into your reality, your life is not only about meeting her, yeah
you have this other thing planned, you can get her in there too, but on your terms.

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Like she says: Cannot meet today, but can meet on Wednesday?, you say, Wed is no
problem, but I have to meet my aunt early evening, to help her prepare for this event,
cooking etc, you can meet me afterward in that area, change the place or/and the time,
from the previous plan.

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Texting Contents
This is what you NEED to be saying during your texts. It doesnt need to be verbatim, but
as near as you can really.

Day two texts

Once the initial rapport has been built, youll want to set up a day two by using a few
proven text messages.

Becksters marshmallow text

Hi it was lovely to meet you last night. Shame we didnt get longer to talk/I hope you got
back safe. p.s. do you like roasted marshmallows?!
So we both like marshmallows! Cool, you have some sweet tooth, huh! p.s. do you like
red or white wine?
Red/white wine girl eh? And champagne goes well with anything! p.s. whats your
favourite movie genre - romance, comedy or horror?
Excellent! We shall have to have a DVD, wine and marshmallows evening! p.s. I hope
you are good at picking one of them, would you rather pick the wine or the DVD?
Cool! I shall trust your excellent taste! p.s. which night shall we go for - Monday or
Wednesday?

Marshmallow text notes

Everything has an easy question to answer p.s. with options. Options give an illusion of
choice but actually constrains her and keeps her on the yes ladder.
Using her name is good at the start! If shes got a nickname or you can construct a good
one, you could use that instead e.g. such and such girl or Ms such and such... but only
if its really good.
Could also throw in a we are so alike at some point e.g. after wine or DVD choice.

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If you can think of something genuinely witty to say following one of her answers, then
responding to what she says is ok, otherwise just keep on track.
Ive tended to f**k up when Ive added stuff, so keeping it simple is probably better. Do
NOT add cocky funny - fight the urge! Really! Lie down until it goes away!
Every message should have a fluff bit in it, responding to her hooks, drawing her in and
using humour, its all a bit contrived without that.
I like which night shall we go for... IM not asking YOU, WE are planning something weve
both decided WE want to do.

The switch (if something doesnt go to plan)

You might notice when it comes to the nitty gritty, she might try to lead towards meeting
elsewhere.
This is because there is not enough comfort and trust built up during the set. From
experience youll be able to gauge how much trust has been built between you and if she
would actually follow through, if in doubt, switch to a normal day two.
Heres an example of a switch I did recently with a 20 year old girl I met last night in Cafe
De Paris (a night club in central London).
She was quite reserved, her best friend told me, that she has maybe only had one
boyfriend and just about lost her virginity, I knew she would not come to my place, just like
that:
I wrote towards the end of the marshmallow routine: Excellent! We shall have to have a
DVD, wine and marshmallows evening! p.s. I hope you are good at picking one of them,
would you rather pick the wine or the DVD?
She wrote:
Oh I thought it would be more of a champagne and cinema evening.

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What she is saying is, I wanna meet up with you, but I dont have enough trust to come to
your place, how about we meet outside somewhere. At that point I made the immediate
smooth switch to a low pressure quick get together:
I wrote:
Greedy girl, actually Ive got a few dinner meetings this week, I sort of have to attend, I
have an hour or so to spare at some point, lets grab a drink for half an hour, hows youre
w/k looking?
She wrote:
Actually (notice how she uses the same term as me actually) Im quite busy this week
(she is busy too.. ahaha..) but for a good glass of champagne I will find an hour.
I wrote:
Taste for the finer things in life, huh? Meet me there and then.
She wrote:
Awh, I thought that you also have a taste for the finer things in life... I will be there.

AFC Adams penguin text

Watcha cutie! You wont believe whats happened to me over the last 24 hours, [lets just
say it involved 3 work meetings, 5 glasses of vodka, 2 late night cab rides and a penguin].
Anyhow Im going out a couple of times to celebrate this week, but might get a few hours
spare at some point, hows your week looking?
Notice how I didnt directly invite her out. Normally she will suggest a time she can meet
with me, or something like, Im busy this week, I cant make it, Maybe next week? at
which point you can take it from there.
However what if she responds like this Nah, sorry Im busy this week You can reply with.
Ha ha ha, you wish! I wasnt offering, if I get a few hours free Im going to use it to chill
out. I love how you were pretending to be busy though. In fact me and my mates were

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saying just this week people dont tend to lead interesting lives outside of work... so what
do you do thats interesting?
Or:
Hey cutie, so random meeting you just now, are you always so friendly to strangers? Then
I add some random question at the end.

Phoenixs text / phone crossover

Phoenix:
OMG I saw this cat the other day and it really reminded me of you - hope you havent
turned into a cat - if you dont reply I will try to help you babe x.
Reply: blah blah blah
Phoenix:
So glad you are ok!!! Im calling you now just to check that the person who changed you
into a cat, isnt texting me instead of you.
Then call she will still be laughing - this is a great way to build fun - especially if you came
across as fun when you met her.

If shes playing hard to get

Dont play hard to get with a man whos hard to get (and add a smiley on the end)
Playing hard to get? Thats cute! Talk to me
Tried calling you but no answer, I cant sleep at night - I cant eat - oh my heart is breaking
haha... call me back punk!!!
Hey angel, youre adorable when youre hard to get a hold of... call me back.
Youre so annoying to get a hold of! Its so cute though, youre so confused and
disorganised. Its like youre my bratty little sister. I dont even think Im attracted to you

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anymore, I just want to take care of you and help you get organised like a helpful big
brother.
OMG youve been kidnapped! Tell them Ill pay the ransom! X. p.s have they been feeding
you properly? Ill bring chocolate! Plain or milk?
We are sooooo getting divorced, call the lawyers, cite Irreconcilable differences, I want
the cat back.
The super alpha response to a flake, ohh something terrible must have happened, I hope
all is ok with you and your family.

The last resort

Acknowledging that she is ignoring you, might not always be such a good idea, if you dont
mention it, it didnt happen and you can start a fresh thread all together but if nothing else
works, try these:
Wow the silent treatment, havent had that in a year or so, are u out of credit?
OMG, youve disappeared! Ive offended you, Im really sorry. I didnt mean to! X it should
include a p.s. with a question - which might be which is sexier chocolate or strawberries
and cream? or anything upbeat.
OMG - Youve disappeared! Have I offended you? I do hope not X
I guess I should take the hint. Seems a shame though as I actually really liked you
(compliment - past tense) and thought you were a smart, sassy, fun wee lass (WILKY but
slightly patronising).

Text attraction spikes

In between setting a day two and the actual day two, ensure a theme of one text per day is
going back and forth, some attraction spikes and teasers, just to keep the link alive.
So I thought Elvis would be a great theme for our wedding

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Hi, How u doing naughty/funny girl? Im in my Jacuzzi with some aromatic candles
listening to Mozart..;-) NO, Im not! Out wit sum mates having fun, wanted to say Hi!
OMG I just saw a golfer walk straight into a SLIDING GLASS DOOR! It was funny till I
realised that could have been me :-0

Sexual text
Follow up in text must be congruent with what happened in set.
Validation... basically a text always has to make her feel good. If it was a comfort based
set, suffice with some light endearments, if it was more a sexually charged interaction,
stick in lots of hey sexy, or hey angel eyes in any event have lots of smileys :) winks
;) and kisses xx.

Escalating
So for instance, in the Golfer example above, she texts back:
haha hope hes alright! where were you?
Our natural reaction would be to agree with the humour haha... answer the questions
he got up but was embarrassed, I was at a little cafe in Soho for a meeting... and then
ask her out what are you up to later, wanna grab a bite?
DO NOT DO THIS!
Move on! She replies with some crap like that, you completely ignore and ESCALATE.
What are you up to? Come get in to my bed. (They always say no, but they love it).
Or if u want to be less sexual, you can C&F it trying to scout out all my favourite spots are
ya?
Either way though, the main point is, dont waste time replying to static rubbish.
Once youre escalating and texting about corrupting each other, doing dirty things, thinking
dirty thoughts, things will naturally progress to meeting up.

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But it will be mutual, rather than u saying hey want to meet up for _____ - it will be more
like a mutual arranging of details.
You: I now understand the TRUE meaning of freedom!
Her: Why?
You: Im not wearing any underwear!
Those beautiful eyes... Those sexy lips... The smoothest walk... But enough about me,
how are u doing?
Whats going on in your fucked up world right now?
When was the last time you got a proper seeing to
I always tell them that I am in love with them when I first meet them and that I cant wait to
father their kids.
How much do you love me today?
What are we going to call our first boy?
What are you wearing?
I want you naked in my bed right now

Conclusion
So thats it! Mostly everything you need to know about text game. This stuff is proven, it
works and is being you RIGHT NOW so make sure you start implementing the advice
given above.
Speak to you soon,

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