Punishment

Guidance

Lowers Self-Esteem
Humiliates the child
Degrades the child
Hurts (physically or emotionally) the child
Angers the child
Frustrates the child
Thwarts efforts
Embarrasses the child
Discourages the child
Belittles the child
Socially isolates the child
Emotionally abandons the child
Depresses the child

Builds self esteem

Strengthens the child
Respects the child
Heals the child
Gives hope to the child
Models coping skills
Enables efforts to the child
Gives confidence
Encourages the child
Enhances self-image
Facilitates trust
Gives emotional support
Comforts the child