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Fight
Flight
Freeze
Fawn
Assertiveness
Disengagement
Acute Awareness
Boundaries
Healthy Retreat
Mindfulness
Compromise
Courage
Industriousness
Poised Readiness
Listening
Moxie
Know-How
Peace
Fairness
Leadership
Perserverance
Presence
Peacemaking
Those who are repetitively traumatized often learn to survive by over-using one or two of the
4F responses (Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn). The following chart compares the harmful
behaviors of each of the 4Fs. Real or imagined danger (anxiety states) typically triggers us
into these roles and behaviors - by developing your own awareness of your preferred 4F type
- you can begin to understand why anxiety compels you to act in certain ways and make
conscious efforts to change these behaviors, recognizing that they are not indicative of
something being wrong with you.
DETRIMENTAL CHARACTERISTICS OF THE 4F DEFENSES
Fight
Flight
Freeze
Fawn
Narcissistic
Obsessive/Compulsive
Dissociative
Codependent
Explosive
Panicky
Contracting
Obsequious
Controlling
Rushing or Worrying
Hiding
Servitude
Entitlement
Driven-ness
Isolation
Loss of Self
Type - A
Adrenaline Junkie
Couch Potato
People-pleaser
Bully
Busyholic
Space case
Doormat
Autocrat
Micromanager
Hermit
Slave
Demands Perfection
Compelled to
Perfectionism
Achievment-Phobic
Social Perfectionism
Conduct Disorder
ADHD
ADD
Parentified Child