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How Apprehensive Are You in Interpersonal Conversations?
How Apprehensive Are You in Interpersonal Conversations?
Feedforward
Opening
Feedback
Closing
Opening
Starts with a
greeting
Signals a stage of
access
Reveals
information about
the relationship
between the
persons
Helps maintain
the relationship
(usually both verbal
and nonverbal)
Verbal: verbal
salute, initiation of
topic, making
reference to the
other, personal
inquiries
Nonverbal: waving,
smiling,
handshaking
Feedforward
Business
Opens
communication
channels, usually
with a phatic
message (eg.
Havent we met
before?)
Previews future
messages
altercast- to place
the receiver in a
specific role and
request that they
respond in terms of
that role (eg. Youre
my friend, you have
to help me.)
Persuades
listener to hear
message as it is
intended to be
heard (eg. Dont
get me wrong,
Im not angry.)
The substance or
focus of the
conversation,
directed to
achieving the
purpose of the
communication
Is conducted
through an
exchange of
speaker and
listener roles
Tips for mutual
satisfaction
Ask questions,
opinions or ideas.
Strive for balance
between speaking
and listening.
Avoid interruptions.
Use backchanneling
cues (a frown to
show disagreement,
gestures of
disapproval)
Pay attention to
Feedback
The reverse of
feedforward
May signal that
business is
concluded
eg. So, you may
want to send her
a get-well card.
but may be
countered with
But what
hospital is she
in?
in which case
there is a going
back and
business is
continued.
Important
dimensions
Positive-negative
Person focusedmessage focused
Immediate-delayed
Closing
The opposite of the
first step
May be verbal or
nonverbal, though
usually a
combination of both
Signals the end of
accessibility
Usually signals
some degree of
supportiveness
(eg. Well, it was
good talking to
you.)
May also
summarize the
interaction.
An effective communicator
1. is flexible and adapts to the situation
2. is mindful and aware of the available communication choices
3. uses meta-communication (nonverbal behavior) to avoid ambiguity
almost always
often
sometimes
rarely
almost never
Development of a
sense of mutuality
Falling in
love
Recognition of problem
Productive conflict
resolution
Search for possible
solutions
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