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“Brethren, I do not want you to be ignorant about those who have
The Feast of the Three Great Hierarchs: fallen asleep, so that you will not grieve like those who have no hope.”
St. Basil the Great, St. Gregory the Theologian,
and St. John Chrysostom – 1 Thess. 4:13
For many of us the close of 2010 was met with a profound and inevitable sadness and loss as our
dear friend and brother Antoni succumbed to the insidious disease that he confronted and battled
so valiantly for months. My hands are literally trembling as I type; so raw, immediate, and over-
whelming are the emotions that we, and most especially Antoni‘s family, are experiencing. Our
lives have been transformed and beautifully morphed through the didactic presence of a young
man whose tenacity and love for life was only rivaled by his undying sense of humor and conta-
gious smile. A paradoxical paradigm of life imbued to the absolute fullest sense all the while
staring into the face of death. Antoni‘s memory will indeed be eternal and we who remain (for
the time being) must manage our profound sense of sorrow and grief using the therapeutic meth-
odology of Orthodoxy: authentic grief permeated by hope.
The quote cited above is taken from the epistle reading that is chanted at every Orthodox funeral
service and many of us are familiar with the message St. Paul delivered to the Church in Thessa-
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fer for contemplation for all of us who are suffering the loss of Antoni, or any other friend or
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ing or undermining the natural and innate human response to the loss of a loved one. I remem-
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The Feast of the Holy Theophany of our Lord God and Savior Jesus Christ January 6th, 2011 Lord, when You were baptized in the Jordan, the worship of the Trinity was made manifest.
Festival of Tables 2011 Our faith, on the other hand, not only allows for the expression of grief but encour-
ages it! In revealing our pain and suffering we are simultaneously witnessing our
Saturday, February 19th love and tenderness towards the person who has fallen asleep and it‘s a testimony
to their role in our life. Grief is a catalyst for spiritual and emotional healing; a pro-
cess through which we are able to assimilate and manage the new reality that faces
6pm social hour, 7pm dinner us. The Wisdom of Sirach (38:16, 18) instructs us, ―My child, shed tears over the
dead, lament for the dead to show your sorrow…and then be comforted in your
75 dollars per person sorrow; for a grief-stricken heart loses all energy.” Without its manifestation de-
bilitating temptations and emotions can invade our persona, specifically denial and
hopelessness, which brings me to the second point.
St. Paul tempers his allowance for grief by wedding it inseparably to the
Christian virtue of hope. He does not espouse an expression of grief that
is utterly melodramatic in its misery, inconsolability, and despair. For
truly, ―mourning for the dead lasts seven days, for the foolish and un-
godly all the days of their lives” (Sirach 22:12); there exists a great dan-
ger in perpetuating a grief that is bereft of hope. As Christians we are
not ‗ignorant‘ of the reality of death and its ultimate and definitive de-
mise through the Resurrection of Jesus Christ. We believe and love the
One who ‗destroyed death by death‘ and precisely for this reason Pascha
is the Feast of Feasts and highlight of our liturgical calendar.
Gourmet dinner prepared by our very own celebrity chef, Johnny Mangouras, that
When confronted with death we must strive to maintain the middle path and not allow ourselves to be diverted to the
highlights the five main ethnic groups of our parish: American, Ethiopian, Greek, Ro- right or to the left. We should not deny ourselves the ‗right‘ to feel and experience emotions that are not only natural
but are actually a necessary component of the healing process. Yet, those emotions must always be built upon the
manian and Russian. Bar provided by Ari Kolas and Apollo Liquors. Our own unshakable foundation of hope. Hope in what?...we might ask. Hope in the utter futility and transient nature of
death, hope in the loving embrace of God ―who shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more
GOYANS, assisted by Mike Brekke, once again will be the enthusiastic wait staff. death, neither sorrow, nor crying…‖ (Rev. 21:4), hope that not even the separation at death can dissolve the inde-
structible bonds of love, hope that one day ―we will be caught up with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air
and remain with Him forever”(1 Thess. 4:17).
It is a wonderful evening that is unforgettable and a fantastic way to celebrate our
Grieve, beloved.
community.
But do so with hope…one day we shall em-
brace one another again, never to be separated.
Proceeds to be divided between Hoppe Family Missions, and our own Philoxenia
Ανηώνι μας, καλό ηαξίδι και θα ηα πούμε
Houses. Reservations are required. ζύνηομα.
Philoptochos News
Happy New Year!
On January 2nd, we will be passing a tray to collect donations for St Basil‘s Academy. St Basil‘s is an orphanage that Philoptochos Our Sunday School families were "Santa's Helpers" again this year and collected and sent off 2 large boxes of shirts, toys,
has been a big part of for many years. and electronics for the children of St. Innocent Orphanage to start our month. Their generosity and readiness to help with
the drive was amazing! The boys at the orphanage will open these gifts with wide-eyed excitement and appreciation.
Our next meeting is to be determined. Unfortunately, Sundays have too many activities. GOYA ventured up to the Mall Of America to take in the holiday color and do some Christmas shopping early in Decem-
I will let everyone know when we will have the opportunity to meet again. ber.
MALL OF AMERICA
Denise Mangouras
Philoptochos President
Christmas Pageant
JOY and GOYA once again led a group of carolers from Holy Anargyroi to sing for patients at St. Mary's Hospital and
for the residents of Shorewood Senior Center. The Christmas cheer was evident as we brought smiles to the faces of the
nurses and patients and folks joined in the singing. We finished up with our traditional gift exchange and pizza at Godfa-
thers.
CAROLING
We wish everyone a most blessed Feast of the Nativity and a bright New Year!
The Feast of the Holy Theophany of our Lord God and Savior Jesus Christ January 6th, 2011 Lord, when You were baptized in the Jordan, the worship of the Trinity was made manifest.
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created world, of which we are a part, were created to be filled with the sanctifying presence of God. After the solemn
blessing, the Holy Water is distributed to the faithful and is used to bless homes during the Epiphany season. When the
faithful drink the "Epiphany Water," we are reminded of our own baptism. When the Church blesses an individual, or
object, or event with the water, we are affirming that those baptized, their surroundings, and their responsibilities are
The Church is a Hospital sanctified through Christ and brought into the Kingdom of the Father through the Spirit. In addition to the Great Bless-
Orthodox people view the Church as a spiritual hospital, a clinic, a hospice, a therapeutic center, and a fitness center—all com- ing of Water, there is a Lesser Blessing of Water service which can take place at anytime. Usually, it is celebrated
bined in one! The aim of the treatment is to provide spiritual cure, maintain wellness for its patients (faithful members) and lead when a home is blessed, on the first day of the month, the beginning of the school year, and beginning of new respon-
them to eternal life! sibilities.
The cure we obtain in the Church is not for the benefit of our souls alone—it does not pertain only to the future life. It includes
our bodies and our life here on earth. In fact it is the most complete program, addressing all our needs—spiritual, emotional, mate-
rial and intellectual. Getting Ready
The Church takes a broken human life and restores it in all its dimensions, renews it, transforms it, sanctifies it and enriches its Christ, by entering the Jordan, sanctified it, and with it all creation. Mate-
interpersonal relationships, bringing the human being to a fuller communion with society and nature, and ultimately unites it with rial creation once again became "very good" as it was in the beginning.
God. The central sign of God's sanctification of all things through the feast of
The main task of the Church and her ministers (bishops, priests, elders) is to make us well (make us like Christ). Unfortunately, Theophany is the act of blessing the homes of faithful Christians. The
the great majority of the people are not even aware of this truth, and therefore are not taking advantage of the spiritual treatment priest visits all members of the Church to pray with them in the place
provided by the Church. The result is that we do not get well and we die in our sin (cf. John 8:21-24). where they live, and to bless their surroundings with Holy Water. He asks
God to have mercy on the house, to rid it of every evil and to fill it with
every blessing. Thus the house itself, together with the living persons of
Christ is the Physician the family, is "filled with all the fullness of God". To prepare for the
The Lord taught us this teaching in the parable of the Good Samaritan (Lk. 10:25-37). Man, through the devil's deception, made
priest's visit to bless your home:
the wrong choice and fell among thieves, that is, the devil and the hostile powers, and left half dead. Christ found the human being
lying down infirm, wounded by his passions and by the deceit of the devil, He picked him up, restored him with His Holy Spirit
÷ Make a list of the first names of those family members you wish to pray
and the holy sacraments, and carried him to the inn (His holy Church), to be fully healed through the care of the innkeeper (priest)
for when the priest arrives, with the living and the deceased in separate
(This analysis is provided by St. John Chrysostom, P.G. 62, 755-57; cf. I. Vlahos, Orthodox Psychotherapy, 25-26).
columns.
Christ referred to Himself as a physician, "Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick" (Mt. 9:12)–
the sick being the sinners. The Church refers to Christ as "the Physician of our souls and bodies." And in the prayer to the Holy ÷ On your dining room table or family altar, place a lighted candle, a The-
Trinity we say, "Holy One, visit and heal our infirmities." ophany icon or icon of Christ, a wide bowl (to hold the holy water the
priest will bring) and a sprig of Basil. Be sure your prayer list is there,
Theology is the knowledge we acquire on how to get well. We get to know what it means to be well, what are the various illness- too!
es, how cure is achieved, what diet we are to follow, what exercises to do, etc. Obviously theology does not make us well. Putting
into practice what we learn will make us well.
÷ Turn off all TVs, stereos, and computers.
The Patient
Basically there are two categories of Christians: "Those who are well", and "those who are sick". Those who are well are the ÷ Turn on a light in each room, so the priest can see where he is going.
saints. Among the sick there are those who are cognizant of their sickness and undergo therapy, and those who are unaware of
their sickness or choose not to undergo therapy. So the Church's work is therapeutic in nature. Christianity (i.e. the Church) ÷ Secure any pets that might jump up on the priest or family, or "get underfoot" as you move from room to room. (Pets
should be viewed more as a medical science--closer to psychiatry--than as a religion (Fr. Ioannis Romanidis, quoted by I. Vlahos, may be blessed, too!)
o.c., p. 27).
As with our physical illness so it is with our spiritual illness: the first step toward wellness is to have a thorough checkup. We
Everyone in the house when the priest arrives should gather around the table/family alter and join in the singing of the
should educate ourselves about the various illnesses and how a cure is achieved, what diet we are to follow, what exercises to do,
litany responses and Troparion. The children may lead the priest around the house with a lit candle, if he permits.
etc.
Before we seek cure we must know that we are sick. Sometimes a sickness is obvious, but other times it is not. That is why regu-
lar check ups are recommended in order to discover any problems early and address them with a greater chance of success. Unlike Troparion (tone 1): ―When You, O Lord were baptized in the Jordan; The worship of the Trinity was made manifest; For the
our physical health, which may be good at birth and continue to be good for many years, our spiritual life is infected at conception voice of the Father bore witness to You; And called You His beloved Son. And the Spirit, in the form of a dove; Confirmed the
with the disease of our progenitors, Adam and Eve. truthfulness of His word. O Christ, our God, You have revealed Yourself; And have enlightened the world, glory to You!‖
Continued in the February Edition