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CHILDREN ARE
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The #1 key to raising
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WANTED: REAL
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What your love and time
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SENSE OF
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The choices that shape
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EDITOR
the baby was in the car. Life was dearer now. I had
Keith Phillips more reason to work hard, and more to come home
to. I wasn’t just a husband, but a husband and a
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Giselle LeFavre father. I was a family man! If you have children of
your own or children you have loved as your own, you
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know just what I’m talking about.
This issue of Activated is dedicated to one of
VOL 3, ISSUE 8 God’s most wonderful earthly creations, the family. We
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Scripture quotations in Activated are
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Bible © 1982 Thomas Nelson, Inc.
THERE ONCE WAS A LITTLE BOY WHO When the boy got home, his
WANTED TO MEET GOD. He knew it mother was surprised by the happy
was a long trip to where God lived, look on the boy’s face. “What did
so he packed his suitcase with cook- you do today that made you so
ies and a few bottles of juice and happy?” she asked.
started his journey. “I had lunch with God,” the boy
When he had gone only a few replied. But before his mother could
blocks from home, he met an old respond, he added, “And do you ... the
man in a park. The old man was sit- know what? He’s got the most beau-
ting by a pond, feeding the birds. tiful smile I’ve ever seen!” power of
The boy sat down next to him, Meanwhile, the old man, also
opened his suitcase, and was about radiant from his day in the park, a touch,
to enjoy a drink when he noticed returned to the home he shared
that the old man looked hungry. So with his grown son’s family. The son
the boy offered him a cookie. was stunned by the look of peace a smile, a
The old man gratefully accepted, on his father’s face and asked, “Dad,
and smiled at him. His smile was what did you do today that made kind word,
so incredible that the boy wanted you so happy?”
to see it again. So he offered him a “I ate cookies in the park with
a listening
drink. God,” the old man answered. But
The old man smiled at him before his son had a chance to
again. The boy was delighted! They respond, he added, “You know, He’s ear ... the
sat there all afternoon eating and much younger than I expected.”
smiling, but they hardly said a word. Too often we underestimate the smallest
As it grew dark, the boy realized power of a touch, a smile, a kind
he was tired and he got up to leave. word, a listening ear, an honest
But when he had gone only a few compliment, or the smallest act of act of
steps, he turned around, ran back caring—all of which have the poten-
to the old man, and gave him a hug. tial to make someone’s day a very caring ...
The old man gave him his biggest special one, or even turn someone’s
smile ever. life around.
—Author unknown
Wanted:
Real Parents
has faith in them, enjoys answered, “Taking drugs.” got hope. We’ve got dreams.
their company, and looks “Fighting a lot.” “Pimping We care too. Now I want to go
forward to being with them. girls.” “Shooting people for to college.”
All children need someone fun.” This woman’s closing
who they know will be there When talking about message to parents was:
to feel for them and pray for the kids, the woman said, “Love your children. Don’t
them when they’re deeply “They’ve lost all hope. give up on them. Love them
disappointed, to hold on to They’ve lost trust in adults. till it hurts. That’s what love
them when they’re about to We adults are too busy. We is all about—loving uncondi-
lose hope, and to celebrate don’t listen anymore. No one tionally, till it hurts!”
with them when their dreams has time for the children This woman is making
come true. anymore.” a difference. Just one caring
Are your children getting When asked what person is changing the lives
that kind of love? Are there the children need, she of those kids. We can easily
other children around you responded, “These guys? It’s lose sight of the power of one
who don’t have a father, who a very simple formula. You individual. We can depend
need that kind of love too? know what these kids really too much on society as a
You can make a difference! need?—Motherly love. They whole—its institutions,
We often see stories on want role models. They want government, schools—so we
TV of otherwise ordinary people who will be honest as individuals don’t feel the
people—teachers, pas- with them. They want some- need to take responsibility for
tors, police, etc.—who have one to discipline them. They children, whether our own
helped bring about remark- want someone who can or some whose paths simply
able changes in young teach them responsibility, cross ours, who may need us.
people’s lives, even the worst consequences. Someone to You could be Jesus’ love
of delinquents, because they hold them, hug them. I don’t for a child. You could be part
gave them their time. give up on them. If you teach of God’s plan of love and
One such news spot them to give up easily, they’ll care for that young life. Your
featured a woman who had give up.” love, concern, and friendship
opened a home for troubled One of the older boys could make a world of differ-
kids—runaways, castoffs, hugged this woman and ence! •
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Thank You, Jesus, for the great gift You are offering me—forgiveness for my sins
and eternal life with You in Heaven. I open my heart to You and accept this gift that
You paid for with Your own life when You died for me on the cross. Please give me a
new life, a fresh start, with Your sense of values. Help me to learn to know You better,
find Your plan for me, and to love You and others more. Amen. •
Q: MY ELDEST SON HAS BECOME them more room to grow. your heart and mind with the
Whatever the case, it’s guidance and solutions you
REBELLIOUS to just about every
important to find out why need.
rule in our home. This has
they’re misbehaving, and If your child has been
been going on for months
how you can help them get going through a difficult
now, and it’s getting harder
back on track. Most problems phase that is trying your
and harder to communicate don’t just go away by them- patience, ask Jesus for help.
with him or to get to the selves, nor are children usu- Share your burden with
bottom of his bad behavior. ally equipped to handle them Him; He has lots of patience.
I’m exasperated! What can I do on their own. Many times the He has had a great deal of
to straighten out my son? children themselves don’t patience with your faults
A: When children seri- even know what is wrong. and failings, so you can be
ously misbehave, there is They need a parent’s love and sure that He will help you be
usually an underlying cause. guidance. patient with your children’s.
Maybe they feel insecure, The best way to know When you feel at the end of
so they act up to get more what your children need your rope, ask Him for His
of your time and atten- and how to help them—the love and patience. His Spirit
tion, reassurance, and love. only way, really—is to ask will calm your own spirit,
Maybe they’re upset about the Lord to show you. Next bring solutions to your mind,
something that happened at to having the Lord’s love, the help you to ride out the storm
school. Maybe they’re test- most important key to suc- of difficulties that may arise,
ing the boundaries you’ve cessful parenting is learn- and help you be the kind of
set, to see if you mean what ing to ask the Lord for the love and support to your chil-
you said. Maybe they think answers. Jesus always has dren that He is to you.
they’re old enough to make just the answer you need.
their own decisions and Having Him as a parenting *This month’s answer was
don’t understand the reason partner lifts a great deal of provided by Derek and Michelle
behind some of your rules. the load off of you. You know Brooks, from their book Keys
Maybe it’s time to change you can always go to Him in to Kids, available from Aurora
some rules in order to give prayer, and He will speak to Production. •
By Joseph Candel
The world is waiting for perdition [Hell],” and “the shall be according to their
a superman to come and wicked one.” [evil] works” (2 Corinthians
put an end to the wars and “[There] shall stand up a 11:14–15 KJV).
armed conflicts, religious vile person … he shall come
squabbles, and political and
economic instability. And
in peaceably, and obtain
the kingdom by flatteries”
2. The Antichrist will be
according to the Bible, just (Daniel 11:21 KJV). Some ver- outspoken and have great
such a superman will soon sions use the word “intrigue”
appear on the world scene— here, in place of or in addi-
speaking ability.
a man who will be the Devil tion to “flattery.” “He shall speak great
incarnate, who the Bible calls “Let no man deceive [pompous] words against the
the Beast and the Antichrist. you by any means: for that Most High” (Daniel 7:25 KJV).
Numerous Bible passages day [the Second Coming of “He was given a mouth
describe some of the Anti- Jesus Christ] shall not come, speaking great things and
christ’s personal characteris- except … that man of sin be blasphemies” (Revelation
tics. Pieced together like the revealed, the son of perdi- 13:5).
criminologist’s composite tion” (2 Thessalonians 2:3
sketch of a suspect, they can KJV). 3. The Antichrist will have a
help us recognize this man “Then shall that Wicked
when he begins to rise to be revealed, whom the Lord fierce countenance.
power, so we won’t be duped shall … destroy with the “In the latter time [the
into following him. brightness of His coming [at Endtime, just prior to Jesus’
the Battle of Armageddon]” return] … when the trans-
(2 Thessalonians 2:8 KJV). gressors are come to the full,
1. The Antichrist will be “Satan himself is trans- a king of fierce countenance,
intrinsically evil, yet appear formed into an angel of light. and understanding dark
Therefore it is no great thing sentences, shall stand up”
as a savior. if his ministers [such as the (Daniel 8:23 KJV).
He is variously described Antichrist] also be trans- The prophet Daniel also
in the Bible as “a vile person,” formed as the ministers of describes him as a man
“the man of sin,” “the son of righteousness; whose end “whose appearance was
CAME was speaking to then asked Him who was their neighbor, and with the
story of the Good Samaritan, Jesus tried to show them that it is anyone
who needed their help. If we have real love, we cannot face a needy situa-
tion without doing something about it. We can’t just pass by the poor man
on the road to Jericho! We must take action like the Samaritan did (Luke
A BABY 10:25–37). Love is making a connection like that from God to somebody
who needs His love. The next issue of Activated will help you do just that!