How to Kiss a Girl for the First Time and Not Screw Up Kissing a girl for the first

time is an art. It s not hard, but it s definitely an art many guys haven t mastered yet. Kissing a girl on a date or an empty hallway is all about perfect timing. You try to kiss her a moment too early, and she may back away. You try to kiss her a moment too late, and she may have lost the mood. Now it does sound really tricky. But there are ways to turn things in your favor, and create the perfect chemistr y whenever you want! [Read: 10 ways to arouse a girl and make her want to kiss you!] How to kiss a girl for the first time The biggest worry for any guy who wants to kiss a girl is the dreaded moment whe n you pucker up and move forward, and she backs away! It just makes everything so much more awkward. And if she ever does back away from a kiss, things could just go from awkward to no contact! So if you do like a girl and desperately want to kiss her, don t make the crucial mistake of getting the timing wrong. [Read: 25 things about a guy that turn a girl on sexually and otherwise] The big mistake: Rushing into a first kiss There s no feeling that s worse than lunging for a kiss, only to watch your date mak e an awkward expression and back her body away from you. *her embarrassed smile or laugh will only make things so much more awkward!* [Confession: A teenage boy 's first kiss gone completely wrong!] And that would almost always happen if you rush into the kiss without giving you r date a chance to prepare herself for that inevitable smooch. If she likes you already, chances are, she may not oppose your kiss. But if it s j ust a first date, and you lunge for a kiss, there s every possibility that she may back away even if she thinks you re a nice guy and had contemplated over kissing you at some point during the date. [Read: How to touch a girl on a date and warm her up for a kiss] 10 steps to kiss a girl for the first time and make her want more! Take it slow, use the steps given below, and you ll be well on your way to perfect ing every kiss. And the best part, you ll be able to use any circumstance to creat e the perfect setting for that first kiss, and kiss the girl even if she s never e ven considered kissing you yet! [Read: 11 moves to seduce a girl and get her in bed within a few days!] #1 Alone time. The most important thing you need to ensure is privacy. Kissing a girl for the first time is awkward for the first few seconds, until it starts t

o get perfect. But for that transition to be smooth, you need to avoid any kind of distractions. Try to get some alone time with the girl, be it in your room, in your car after the date, or in a quiet corner as you walk her home. It s very important that you find the right place with a lot of privacy, or you may end up ruining all chance s of kissing her. #2 Don t talk about the kiss. If you know the girl already, chances are, you ve spok en with her about the first kiss at some point of time, either while text flirti ng with her or over the phone. [Read: 20 sexy questions to text a girl and make her wet!] But when you re in the moment, in a quiet place where there s no one else but the tw o of you, don t talk about it. Don t mention anything about wanting to kiss her or a bout wanting to make out with her. She knows both of you have discussed it and s o do you. Don t make the situation awkward by arm twisting her into a kiss because both of you have talked about it! #3 Take your time. There s nothing like the perfect time to kiss a girl, especiall y when you re the one who s in control of the situation. Relax, sit down with her an d just talk about something. Help her feel at ease, because the more comfortable she is, the more the chances of her enjoying that first kiss with you. Just fli rt with her, and talk about something both of you did that day. #4 Don t ask her if you can kiss her. It s true, girls love a knight in shining armo r and she ll love a guy who s chivalrous. But asking her if it s okay to kiss her isn t a sign of chivalry, it s a sign of awkwardness. Don t ask a girl if you can kiss her because her answer will almost never be in yo ur favor. If she s really into you, she may accept to kiss you, even if she feels surprised by your *bold question*. But in any other case, you re setting yourself for a fall. There s one thing you can do though, you can kiss the girl gently on her lips, bri ng your face back a few inches, look into her eyes and ask her if you can kiss h er. By doing that, you re teasing her sexually, and she would definitely say yes , an d it ll actually make the first kiss a lot more intimate! [Read: 15 secrets to mak e your first kiss so much more memorable] #5 Get closer. The best way to warm her up for the first kiss is by cozying up w ith her. If you re sitting down, seat your butt closer to her so your arm can easi ly graze against hers. And if you re standing, move into her personal space and ju st stand a few inches away from her body. The second you get into a girl s personal space, it ll make her feel awkward. But do n t let her awkwardness scare you away. Talk to her and flirt with her, and don t ma ke it obvious that you re coming closer to her. Instead, just pretend like you cam e in closer involuntarily, and didn t even realize it. [Read: How to sit next to a girl and make her horny and wet without being obvious] #6 Warm up the sexual tension. Touch her often. Use your finger and run it throu gh her hair or along her arm. Compliment her as you touch her, be it about her h air, her fragrance or her soft skin. If she smiles or blushes when you touch her, it s a sign she likes what you re doing . Speak softly in a low tone and avoid any sudden movements. Whisper in her ears , and run your fingers against hers playfully. [Read: 50 cute things to say to a girl and make her blush before kissing her!]

#7 Make your intentions clear. Move in close until your face is just inches away from her face. You don t need to stop talking though, just say something, but as you say it, look at her lips, and then back again at her eyes. She ll know exactly what you re looking at, and her mind would be racing just as fast as yours is! Wet your own lips discreetly as you stare at her *not in a murderous maniac kind of way*. Licking your lips subconsciously sends the message across to the girl that you intend to come in for a kiss very soon, and moist lips are so much bett er to kiss. [Read: 10 sexy tips to kiss a girl passionately and arouse her] #8 The perfect time to kiss. If you use these steps on how to kiss a girl for th e first time, you don t really need to worry about the perfect time to kiss her be cause you re the one in complete control of things. But just to create the right cue, move in closer for the kiss when there s been a bit of silence for a few seconds. Stop talking and don t say anything. Just look i nto her eyes, and run your fingers through her hair. If she just looks back at y ou without saying anything, that s the perfect moment you ve been waiting for! #9 Take it easy. So yeah, you ve just kissed the girl. But don t get carried away an d ruin the moment. When you kiss a girl for the first time, you need to be very gentle and delicate. Place your lips on hers and kiss her lips softly. Don t try to use your tongue too early into the kiss. Instead, just relax, and try to enjoy the way her lips feel against yours. You have all the time to try new things later. But for now, just focus on kissing her gently, and don t get pushy. [Read: How to make out with a girl on a date and make her love it!] #10 Don t be overenthusiastic. When you kiss the girl for the first time, don t let your hands wander too soon into the kiss, or she s just stiffen up or push your ha nds away *and that s a terrible mood kill!* As you kiss her, place your hands on her shoulders or along the sides of her arm s, and just move it gently along the sides of her body. Don t try to move your han ds over her breasts or her stomach unless both of you have been kissing for a wh ile. Touching a girl s breasts during the first kiss can make things awkward. Well, unl ess you know the perfect way to do it and make her enjoy it! [Read: The right wa y to place your hand over the girl s breasts when you kiss her for the first time! ] A first kiss can seem complicated, but by using these 10 steps on how to kiss a girl for the first time, you ll be in complete control of the situation the whole time. And you ll definitely build the right kind of sexual tension to make sure sh e enjoys that first kiss, just as much as you do! We re trying hard to create better relationships in the world. But we can t do it without YOU! Did this feature help you better yourself or your relationship? You can change someone else s life too!