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IknowtwoAlphas
OnNovember7,2011byShark
Oneisapartneratalawfirm.Amultimillionaire,livesonParkAvenue,drivesaBentleyGT.
Theotherisamanagerataclothingretailstoreandmakesbarelyaboveminimumwage.Hedoesnt
drive,hetakesthetrainoraskateboardtosavemoneyiftheweatherpermits.
Onenevergivesmoneytohomelesspeople,hesaysitstheirfaulttheyreinthisposition.
Theotheralwaysgivesmoneytosomeonewhoasksforit,despitethefactthathehimselfisusually
broke.
Onetreatswomenlikecommodities.Hedates10+womeneveryyear,oftenconcurrently.
Theothertreatswomenlikejewels,butfromadominantlovingway.Hiscurrentgirlfriendandhimhave
beentogetherfor2years.Hehasnevercheated,despitehavingmultipleopportunitiestodoso.
Oneisextremelywittyandgoodonhisfeet.Hesprettydecentatcoldapproachingandoftenusesdirect
gameandsocialprooftoopenlegs.
Theotherapproachesindirectlyandlikestalkingtogirlsjusttogettoknowthem.
Oneisanassholeineverysenseoftheword.Hewillcutyouoffmidsentence,leadtheconversation
inwhateverdirectionhewants,andmakeyoufeellikeyouretalkingtothesmartestpersonina100
mileradius.Heremainscunningandsharpatalltimes.
Theotherisaniceguyineverysenseoftheword.HemakesYOUfeellikeyourethesmartestperson
ina100mileradius.Unlikeotherconversations,yougetthefeelingthathesreallylisteningtoyou,
absorbingmanyofthedetailsotherpeoplewouldmiss.Atthesametime,heremainsaloofandplayful.
Onewillneverbuyagirlagift.Heflasheshismoneyaroundeverywherebutneverspendsitdirectlyon
agirl.Ifhesinarelationship,hewillbuygiftsonbirthdaysandanniversariesbuttheywillbe
impersonalandexpensive.
Theotherremainsconservative,butperhapsitsbecausehedoesnthavemuchmoneytospendanyways.
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Ifhesinarelationship,hewillblowahugechunkofmoneyonagift,givenonarandomday.He
remainsunpredictable.
Oneusesjealousyinrelationshipsconsciously.Hisrelationshipgameistight,butsometimesleavesgirls
damaged.
Theothermakeshisgirlfriendjealousbyaccident,becausehesnaturallygoodatflirtingandtalkingto
others.Hisrelationshipgameistight,andheoftenleavesagirlheleftbetterthanshewasbefore.
Onehasaslewofexeswhohatehimandwhowanttoburndownhishouse.
Theotherhasaslewofexeswholikehim,justasaperson.
Onehasnoproblemlying.Beforeheactuallyhadanysocialproof,hewouldlieallthetimetogame
girls.
Theotherdoesntlie.Notbecausehesethicallyagainstit,hejustdoesntdoit.Heneverfeltinclinedto.
Onehasafewclosefriends,meincluded,butpreferstonotsocializetoomuch.Hewouldratherstay
focusedonworkbutlovespartyingwhenhegetstheopportunitytodoso.
Theotherisalwayshangingout.Heisntintopartiesasmuch,heprefersshindigsandsmallget
togethers.
Onelosthismotheratayoungage.
Theotherlosthisfatheratayoungage.
OneisNOTanatural.Everyounceofhimwasconsciouslyconstructed.Heiscalculating,keen,and
intelligent.
Theotherisanatural.Everyounceofhimisintuitivelyplayedout.Heischarming,warmhearted,and
happy.

Youdonthavetochangewhoyouaretofitsomehypotheticalstandardofmasculinity.Itsabout
freedomandpower.Notjustfreedomfromyourownfears,butfreedomfromthefearsofothers.Notjust
poweroverotherpeople,butpoweroveryourself.GetridofthesuperficialideasofAlphayouhave.
popular,rich,determined,mysterious,indifferent,assholenoneofthesewordsmeananything.
Itsamindset,notalistoftraits.Itsawayofliving,notawayofacting.

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celect
November7,201112:05pm
solidpost
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Fang
November8,201112:06am
Imstartingtoseealotfromlifestylejourneyonhere.Perhapsyouvetakentoreadingallofit?
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Jay
November8,20114:19am
Good.
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Drew
November8,20115:25pm
Shark,
Isitpossiblethatreadingyourcontentcanhaveanegativeeffectsononesgame?Ihavealways
consideredmyselftobenaturallysuccessfulwithwomen,butafterreadingthepostsabout
womensbehaviorIhavestartedtobecomemoreconsciousoftheiractionsandmentality,which
inturnmakesmeconsciouslythinkofhowIshouldreacttocertainsituationsandleadsto
unnaturalencounters.EX:IdoA,shereactsB.ThatmeansCsoIshouldD.vs.situationsnaturally
playingoutinmyfavor.IfeellikebeforereadingthismaterialIintuitivelyknewhowtogetwhatI
wantedfromawoman,andImfindingitdifficulttogetbacktothatinternalmentality.Itsalmost
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likeIwentfromhavinginternalizednaturalgametoanexternalunderstandingofgame,andlately
IhaventbeenASsuccessfulwithwomenasIusedtobebecauseofit.
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Jake
November8,20118:58pm
Imanunderachiever,tobehonest.Alonermostofmylife.Yet,
Ivebeenapreacher,amissionary,anatheist,arunner,alacrosseplayer,anartmajor,
aguitarist/violinist/pianist/singer,apoet,anarmchairpsychologist,apartier,andadropout.
Ivebeenamilkman,aquailfarmhand,anightclubbouncer,analcoholic,andseveralotherother
professions.Ive
hadonlyacoupledozenwomeninmy26yearsarangeoftypes:thecocktailwaitress,the
Christianteetotaler,
thehippie,thepartygirl,thegirlwhostripsontheside,theintellectual,orevenanexcheerleader
mother
recentlydivorcedmarine.Iwasmyself(extremelyshy,honest,unsuccessful,andintroverted)with
eachofthem.
SoIvefeltconfusedastowhetherIshouldaspiretobecomeanextrovertedalphamaleorjustuse
platetheoryand
spreadmyinfluencewithashotgunknowingthelawofaveragessaysIdeventuallypickup
anynumberofwomenthatway
solongasImjustoutthere.Funny,Iadmiretheworkyoudo,butyetIjustnowrealizedyourea
philosopher.MaybeIjustneed
tosynthesizeyourideaswithmineinaHegeliansortofway.
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Jake
November8,20119:13pm
Oh,andIsayallthisbecauseyoustrikeastrongbalancebetween
teachinggameandopenmindedness.Youdontfilteroutcomments
thatdisagreewithyou,butpostandaddressthem.Youreawarewe
shouldntclingtoanythingdogmaticallyandseemtoholdtherationalist
viewthattruthistentativealwaysawaitingnewfacts.Pleasekeepitup!:)
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M_D
November8,201111:37pm
readingthesiteforawhile.
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Probablyoneyourbestposts.Mademerethinksomestuff
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m
November9,20116:53am
thisclearsupalotforme,thanks.
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NealConroy
November17,20114:06pm
HeyShark,afterlookingthroughthissiteonceinawhileforsomemonths,Iwashopingyou
wouldeventuallygettothistopiconalphamalesbutyouhaventyet,soIfiguredImightaswell
jumpstartyouintothisidea:thatitspossibletobeanalphamaleandstilldontgotanyfemales.
Thatitspossibletoneverhavebeeninarelationship,neverhavebeenonadate,stillavirgin,and
stillbeanalphamale.
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Chan
February5,20122:30am
Brilliantpost!
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Mongoose
March5,20124:33pm
Iappreciatethat
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