Fetlife Butthurt Report Form

Fetlife Nickname: _____________________________________

Date and Time the Butthurt occurred: _____________________________________

Please describe the location of the Butthurt

 Community
 Thread
 Wall Post
 Picture
 Profile
 Writing

Please specify.
Board: _______________ Thread: _______________ Nickname:_______________

Please describe the nature of the Butthurt

 Someone made a post I did not agree with

 Someone wrote about a fantasy or had a fetish that offended me
 Someone forgot to use my title or correct capitalization (IE: Sir Master Lord
Stabby McKnifey Pants)
 Someone posted pornography that I cannot unsee
 Someone told me they would like to unsee the pornography I posted
 I lost an argument in a thread
 Other (Please specify on a separate sheet and attach)

(Y) (N) Did you cry about the Butthurt?

(Y) (N) Did the Butthurt cause you irrevocable emotional damage?
(Y) (N) Was sleep lost over the Butthurt?
(Y) (N) Did Butthurt interrupt your daily schedule (IE: were you late to a
date, appointment or work?)
(Y) (N) Did you tell your friends about the Butthurt?
(Y) (N) Do your hands ache from typing long-ass Butthurt rebuttals?
(Y) (N) Were you forced to do something in meatspace to quell your anger
(IE: Did you take deep breaths or walk away from the computer?)

Please describe the person who caused the Butthurt

 They are not a True Dominant / submissive.

 They are the ones who give the BDSM Community a Bad Name.
 Unlike me they would did not learn about BDSM the Hard Way.
 People like that are sick and deserve to be rounded up and killed.
 They are not old enough to know the real meaning of BDSM.
 They are stunted in their Spiritual Journey.
 Their gender is inherently unequal and should be subjugated.
 Other (Please specify on a separate sheet and attach)

What did you do about the Butthurt?

 I wrote an incoherent essay detailing the extent of my Butthurt.

 I got my Leather Family together and organized a flame war.
 I attempted to black ball them from the Local community and/or spread nasty rumors
about them.
 I posted their RL information and/or outed them.
 I created a dummy account to escape the shame and/or flame them.
 I realized that arguing on Fetlife is pointless and did something else with my
time.