Why you dont have a Goal Setting Mindset!!

Td were tlkng but ttng gl. Tht rght. A you know, goals r very importantly when t m t ur
lf. It dnt mttr f ur in hl if you have a jb, whatever t may bgl are ur mrtnt. But did you
knw that thrr four reasons wh l dnt t gl? Th rn r:
number one, fr.
Numbr tw, th hv a poor lf mg. They dnt fl lk thr wrth f gl.
Thrd, th fl like they dnt nd them, and
the fourth onewhich as mrtnt probably ll f thm, actually is tht they dont knwhw t t
gl. And tht t bad because we all knw wh we nd gl, rght?

S lt dv nt, frt f all, wh l dont fl lk they need gl, and th first reason bu f fr. So
there are thr reasons why l r afraid f gl.
Numbr n, fear f flur. Thats a hug n. Evrbd, it dnt matter wh you are, wht uv dn, wht u
accomplished, wht u did not mlhfr f flur is a bg dl. It fft vrbd. Failing at something is
mbrrng. Its knd f lk a stab to our ul, ur rnlt, th thng that rll mk u wh w are. If we fail
at something, w fl, like we let dwn thr people even thugh those people, dnt rll r.
Th second one judgment. W have fr of l judging u if w d t th gl, f we d ud n them.
Judgng thr l to d when t that rn, but we fl the rur whn l r judgng u.
Nbd wnt to be dffrnt; nobody wnt t b tht dd bll. And th last one f fr success. And t sounds
weird because whn u think you rh u you wuld b okay. Yu wuld be fine like, I reached u. I ht
m nnl. But in tult, when you rh tht u nd you rh tht gl, l r gngt b mad t
u. Pl rnt going t like u. People r gng t be wondering, How did you do t? Dd u cheat? Dd you
tl? Did u know mbd?, wht hv you. Theyre so mn thng when t m to u vn thugh
rnll when u reach it youre like, Yeah!
But vrbd l rund gng to be lk,
Wht? Whats u wth u?Wht dd u do? S
those are th thr rn wh l doesnt
rh goals whn it m t failure. S lt g
into th nd n: poor self-image. Nw tht
n ntrtng n bu whn u think f t
r lf mg lot f times l lw t
like thr mbd. Pl always acts like
theyre dng well n m ubjt, doing wll n
lf,dng well n their rr, but n tult theyre
really not bu w ll hv that internal lf
dubt. Tht self dubt something that u
mn f us t get ff trk,t follow a th, nd
then w gt knkd ff to th side f th rd,
and hn are were nt gonna rbund frm
tht. S whn t comes t ur self-image, we dont fl lk wr worthy to hv th goals. W dnt fl lk w
huld rll t these goals bu hn r wr gnn gt knkd off th. But why nt g hd nd tr to
rh thm? S thats th second rn wh l dont t gl.
The thrd rn is a lot of l dnt fl like th nd thm. Wh huld I t gl? I have a rr, I hv a
fml, I my bll, I g n vtn, nd thn w enjoy th weekends. Why huld I t goals? An lt of l
dnt fl lk goals are really gng t help nhn thr rr, enhance thr fml lf, nhn thr njmnt f
lf. S tht th thrd reason.

Now lets dv into th furth reason: l dnt knw hw t set goals. And tht kndf a big dl. A lot f l
tull dnt knw how t t gl. It like f I kd u a mltd math rblm. Nw, if it was 3 x 3, u could
tell me tht nwr rght w, but f it w 472,782,000,000 dllr 17, u would have to write t dwn nd
lult t out. The m applies to your goals. If t a gl today r ur gl rght nw to g tk a hwr, you
n d tht in a n of a fngr. Ok, thats your gl. Go jum n nd take a hwr. But f t was a bg, mlx
gl, u would hv to sit down nd brk it dwn into the corresponding t. It lk doing tht division rblm,
but when t m t setting th gl w rll dont thnk f it lk tht. W jut thnk f a bg goal, and, k, I
wnt t gt tht gl. Wll, we rll dnt tlk but how d w gt that gl?S in th fllwng series f this, n gl
setting series, were gng to b tlkngbut hw to t the goals th rght w, how t get over these fears wthn our
lv,hw to buld tht lf image, nd hw t undrtnd we d nd goals n ur lv. S th is part n f a fourpart r, and I thnk u for reading and I h t nr ut t gl t gt th mt ut f life. Th life
hrt, mght wll nj t.