Julien Manifesto

Opening
Opening is the least important part of the game
Three rules when opening
1. Lower your time of reaction
2. Instead of calibrating before, start calibrating after the fact
3. Set the frames of the interaction from the start (man to
woman)
Physicality
Strong eye contact
Breaking rapport tonality
Be clear in your intent: thoughts, words and actions aligned
Comfort is having no filters
Be yourself, but dont worry about the outcome
Hooking
After opening, your objective is to reach the hook point
Indicator: anime eyes
Sometimes set will automatically hook after your opener, other
times you need to plow
You want the girl, but you dont need the girl
Set the rhythm of the interaction: you want her to be reacting to
you
First 3-5min: short, breaking rapport: Hey, whats your name, cool,
what do you, etc., come here, boom (you talk 90% of the time)
Get close, in her face
Be the cause, not the effect (poke her in the stomach randomly)
Be the buyer, not the seller
Vibing
Once hooked (see anime eyes), then turn it to a normal
conversation, you talk 50%, she talks 50%
Give her the opportunity to talk back (contrasted with above)
Get to know her as a human being
Build a bubble with just you and her, isolate, turn her away from
her friends
Bounce her around (lets go outside, lets go talk to my friends, etc.)
Roleplay (hey, this is my gf, this is my sister---makeout!)
Get her to emotionally invest (You can go if you want to)
What Next?
Find out the logistics
1. Who are you here with?

2. What are you doing tomorrow?

3. Where do you live?

Timeline
First 2 hours: shorter sets, less investment/commitment, joking
around
Its all about me
Warm up, get in the social zone, screw around, pranks, be loud,
no pressure, bounce around
Get numbers, build leads
First ask 3 logistic questions (find out whos DTF)
Were hanging out laterwhats my name?...coolwere
hanging out later repeatedly
If cant hang out later, then suggest Day 2: have coffee
with me tomorrow (hammer out the logistics in person)
Text her next day, what are you doing tonight?
Later that night, can text these leads
Last 2 hours: longer sets, more investment/commitment, pulls
Determine the girl youre going to pull and commit for the SNL
(could be one of the leads from before, could be a new girl)
Set will be 45min-1.5hrs: open, hook, vibe, then pull
Establish logistics for her to go home with you: Hey,
afterparty, lets go!
Take responsibility, give her bits and pieces to rationalize why
its ok