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Abrahams instructions
In Genesis 18:19, God gave Abraham sound, clear
instruction on how to construct a family that would
stand. His word to Abraham sums up the entire mes-
sage of this booklet: For I have chosen him, in order
that he may command his children and his household
after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing righ-
Shaping Your Childs
teousness and justice; in order that the LORD may
Spiritual Future
All of us know the childrens story, The three little bring upon Abraham what He has spoken about him.
pigs. As the story goes, a big bad wolf is roaming the Three things were necessary if Abraham was to avoid
forest with an appetite for pork. To protect themselves, the destruction of his home by the world. First, he was
the pigs constructed houses. to give his family a sense of destiny, a sense of purpose
The first pig built his house of straw. The second, real- that grew out of knowing his own purpose. Our world
izing that straw was too weak to stand up to any serious is full of meaningless distraction but very little purpose,
huffing and puffing, constructed his home using sticks. and purposeless parents raise purposeless children. All
great people have before them a sense of destiny that
The experience proved both pigs wrong. Their houses
transcends their own lives.
turned to rubble by the wolf, they ran to the home of
pig number three, who had built his house of brick. How do we instill a sense of purpose in our kids? We
start by thinking of family life as a relay race. In a re-
As expected, the wolf made numerous attacks on the
lay, everything depends on the baton. It doesnt matter
house, but all to no avail. Why? The third pigs house
how fast you run, how fine your form, or the distance
had been constructed with the right kind of building
between you and the runners behind you. If you fail to
material.
pass the baton, you are disqualified. In the race of faith,
Today theres a big bad wolf standing outside all of the same is true. You may have fine form in the church.
our homes, seeking to blow them down. That wolf is You may be sprinting with this committee or that. Per-
called the world, and its attack is relentless. How well haps youre rounding the track as you serve. Wonderful!
our families survive has everything to do with the kind But remember, God is the judge of this race; Hes hold-
of material we use to construct our houses. The wolf of ing us accountable for making sure that our children
this world has lungpower so potent that it can destroy take firm hold of the baton of faith and keep running.
any family not made with Gods building material.
pre-empt the passing of the baton. Why settle for de-
Passing the Baton
stroying a single life when, by corrupting a marriage, he
My youngest son used to lead a prayer meeting for some can spread his poison through two, three, or even four
of his peers. One day, it occurred to me that, though generations?
I had been excited about the meetings when he lived
Since its clear that someone will pass a baton to our
at home, I had never offered my help. Consequently, I
children, dont you think we should reserve that right
took my next opportunity to submit a proposal: Sup-
for ourselves and make sure that the job is done prop-
pose we took a verse of Scripture each week and worked
erly?
on it together so that, before your prayer meeting, you
could read the verse and give a word of encouragement. We need to see beyond our children to our grandchil-
What do you think of that? My son replied, You dren and even our great-grandchildren. We will have
know, Dad, I never thought about that, but it would be to begin looking at the world not simply for what it is,
great! but also for what we wish it to become. Having deter-
mined what we want to see in the future generations
Now, he didnt know that what I had in mind was help-
of our families, we can raise our children with a goal in
ing him take the next step toward becoming a preacher.
mind rather than simply going through the motions for
My aim was to put into my sons hands the same baton
today.
which, years earlier, my father had passed on to me.
An older man once asked me what I would like to have
If we fail to hand off our baton to our children, be as-
written on my tombstone when I die. I told him, Tony
sured that someone else will. Drug pushers, for in-
Evans knew God and influenced the world for Him.
stance, are expert baton-passers.
He then said, Now that
They tell our kids, You can
you know what youd
drive fast cars, wear fancy
like said about you
clothes, and carry wads of
when you die, youd
cash...just like me. Its an
better begin work-
enticing invitation that
ing on it today.
many young people (in
the absence of a worthy
alternative) find difficult
to resist. No wonder Sa-
tan works so hard to ruin
marriages. Hes trying to
I never forgot that, because it gave me a sense of des- nerves that were to instruct the muscles to accomplish
tiny. Even so, for our children. What do you want them the task, there was not enough emotional stimulation to
to look like when they are parents? Youd better start provoke his skeletal frame into a trash-emptying mode.
working on it now. To which I responded, I can change the way you feel!
work too well. You can always try something else next most important part of guiding our children in this
time. But you dont want family worship to get boring misguided world of ours. Paul said it most boldly in
or to become the vain, mindless repetition Jesus warned I Corinthians 11:1: Be imitators of me, just as I also
about in Matthew 6:7. And with the variety of helps am of Christ. As daunting as it may seem, we parents
available today, theres no reason you should get stuck should say the same to our children and then live in
about the author perspective and also offers practical how-to advice on
providing spiritual training as instructed in Scripture.
Dr. Tony Evans is the founder and president of The
Urban Alternative, a national ministry dedicated to re- This book is for every dad or mom who wants to fulfill
storing hope and transforming lives through the proc- the parenting role God has given themnot just
lamation and application of Gods Word. For over three in raising healthy kids intellectually, physically, and
decades, Dr. Evans has also served as senior pastor of socially, but in contributing to their childs relationship
Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas. He is a prolific with God and alignment under His plan.
author of numerous books, including the best-selling
Kingdom Man. His radio program, The Alternative
with Dr. Tony Evans, is heard daily on nearly 1,000 ra-
dio outlets. Dr. Evans is also the chaplain for the Dallas
Mavericks and former chaplain for the Dallas Cowboys.
HERE'S HOW
TonyEvans.org
1-800-800-3222
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