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The
Mystery
Method How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed



Mystery



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Foreword 1
Preface 3
1 The Mystery behind Casanova 4

1.1 4
1.2 5
1.3 5
1.4 6

2 The Ultimate Purpose of Life 8

2.1 8
2.2 8
2.3 8
2.4 9
2.5 10
2.6 10
2.7 SR 11
2.8 11
2.9 12
2.10 13
2.11 15

3 Rewiring Her Attraction Circuitry 16

3.1 16
3.2 17
3.3 17
3.4 19
3.5 19
3.6 20
3.7 20
3.8 21
3.9 21
3.10 21
3.11 22
3.12 23

4 Rules and Structure of the Game24

4.1 24
4.2 24

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4.3 24
4.4 25
4.5 25
4.6 26
4.7 26
4.8 M3 28
4.9 M3 29
4.10 35
4.11 M3 36
4.12 38

5 A1 Open 39

5.1 39
5.2 40
5.3 40
5.4 41
5.5 41
5.6 41
5.7 42
5.8 43
5.9 44
5.10 44
5.11 47
5.12 48

6 A2 Female-to-Male Interest 49

6.1 49
6.2 51
6.3 51
6.4 54
6.5 55
6.6 56
6.7 57
6.8 57
6.9 58
6.10 60
6.11 60
6.12 61
6.13 61
6.14 62
6.15 DHV 62
6.16 63
6.17 65

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6.18 65
6.19 65
6.20 66
6.21 67

7 A3 Male-to-Female Interest 68

7.1 68
7.2 69
7.3 71
7.4 72
7.5 73
7.6 73
7.7 74
7.8 77
7.9 85
7.10 87

8 Conversation 88

8.1 88
8.2 89
8.3 89
8.4 89
8.5 C1 90
8.6 C1 90
8.7 90
8.8 92
8.9 93
8.10 94
8.11 94
8.12 95
8.13 95
8.14 96
8.15 99

9 Mid-Game and End-Game 100

9.1 101
9.2 C2 101
9.3 102
9.4 Lovedrop 104
9.5 105
9.6 Lovedrop 105
9.7 C3 107

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9.8 107
9.9 C3 S1 107
9.10 S2 108
9.11 108
9.12 109
9.13 109
9.14 S3109
9.15 111

| Conclusion | Go forth and Conquer 112


A Bonus Letter from Mystery113
Glossary 114

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Foreword

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Social Dynamics
Eric ClaptonJimi
Hendrix

2006

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Preface


magazine spreads MV



mystery@themysterymethod.com
P.S. Make sure to check out my concluding letter on page 209 for details on how to best use this book to
achieve the lifestyle with beautiful women that you want. Also, be sure to check out our companion Web site
at www.getattraction.com.

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1
The Mystery behind Casanova

Casanova 1725 1798


73
122 18

Sports Illustrated

1.1

Venusian Arts

Social
Dynamics

MAXIM

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1.2


courtship

13

Google

www.themysterymethod.com

1.3

4 10
Seven-Hour Rule


build


get shot down

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be penalized
Nice Guy

Demonstration of Higher Value, DHV



peacockingpreselection
Social Proof
neg

Hired Gun

1.4

20


Canned Material

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survivalreplication

S R

OK


S R

Don Juan

122

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The Ultimate Purpose of Life

2.1

Engine of
Survival

2.2

crossbreeding

2.3

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A.
B.
C.
D.

A 28251
28251 36500

The Martial Arts


MARTIAL
The Venusian Arts

VENUSIAN

2.4

2002

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2.5


Dynamic Social Homeostasis


Cerebral Cortex

2.6

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64.5 30

1970 40 17 7 5

46 Homo sapiens

2.7 S R


S R


S
R
Party

2.8


Approach Anxiety

2004

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2.8.1

2.8.2

S R

2.9

Hierarchy of Needs

Abraham Maslow

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2.10

1 10
10 10

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spiraling
Great Collapse

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2.11



28251




S R

Social Alignment






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3
Rewiring Her Attraction Circuitry

3.1

3.1.1

3.1.2

Emotional Stimulation

3.1.3


S R

A2

3.1.4

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3.2


peacocking


Lock-in Prop



Plausible Deniability

3.3

S R

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3.3.1

discretion

3.3.2

slut

Anti-Slut Defense, ASD


ASD

3.3.3

3.3.4

moxie

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3.3.5

3.4

Congruence Test

Indicator of Interest, IOI

3.4.1

3.5

S R

investment

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S R



4 10


3.6

3.7

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3.8


S R

Matador

3.9

6 106 10
6
7 9

S R

7 10
9 10 6 7
10

3.10


Vicomte de Valmont
Les Liaisons Dangeruses

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3.11

3.11.1

1.
2.
3.

4.

rationalization

5.
orbiters
Nice Guy

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3.12


Backward-Rationalize

S R









ASD
ASD










6 10 6
10


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4
Rules and Structure of the Game

M3 M3 Model
Group Theory M3

Venusian Arts
GambitsnegFalse Time Constraint

4.1





4 10

4.2

4 4
3 20

12 48 200
2000

4.3

calibration

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internalization

4.3.1

10 24

4.4

10 25
RELOAD

4.5

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4.6

4.7

ATTRACT

ENTICE

attractus, attrahere ad+trahere
SEDUCE
1
2
3
seducere seapart+ducere

10

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4.7.1

4.7.2

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4.8 M3

M3

4.8.1

1 2 3



be socialized
Friendship Zone

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M3

4.9 M3

1.
2.
3.
4.

4.9.1

seducer

Fools Mate

Play Solid Game


4.9.2

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Protection Shield

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4.9.3

M3

player-trap

1.
2.
3.

IOI

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4 10

Buyers Remorse

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Jim Meets Jannie

kiss

cyssan kussen

foreplay

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1929

10


20 Fools
Mate Fantasy

30

4.9.4

Friendship Zone

34
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sexuality


25 20


S R

4.9.5 M3

1.
2.
3.
4.

4.10

A C S

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4.10.1

MoveBounce
Time Bridge

A M S

T B

M Move

B Bounce

Time Bridge

T

4.11 M3

M3 AttractBuild ComfortSeduce

A1 C1 S1
A2 C2 S2LMR
A3 C3 S3

A1 A2 A3 C1 C2 C3 S1 S2 S3

A1 C1 S1

A2 C2 S2LMR

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A3 C3 S3

4.11.1

A1 A2 A3 M C1 C2 C3 M S1 S2 S3

A1

A2

A3, C1

C2, C3
C2
S1, S2, S3

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4.12


MM

www.themysterymethod.com/forum







M3





bitchy

M3 A1 A2 A3
C1 C2 C3 S1 S2 S3


A1A2A3 C1

C2



C3 S1
S2S3

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5 A1
Open

A1

5.1

5.1.1

5.1.2

target rich
target poor

Lounge
Bar

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www.themysterymethod.com

5.2


proximity

5.3


Social Proof

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5.4

5.5

opener

5.6

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leader-of-men


5.7

S R

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pawn

5.8

Canned Material
in the can

Routine Stack

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5.9

S R

5.9.1

5.10


A1
False Time Constraints, FTC

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5.10.1

Body Rocking

5.10.2

1.
2.
3.

5.10.3

OK

1.
2.
3.
4.
5.

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5.10.4

5.10.5


30
60

5.10.6

pecking
S R

5.10.7

10
10

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5.10.8


incongruence

Naturalization Phase

5.11


Negative
Social Proof
pivot

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5.12

A1
A1
























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6 A2
Female-to-Male Interest


neg
Arbitrary Target

Demonstrate Higher Value, DHV


A2

6.1

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passive
IOIs

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6.1.1

6.2

Indicator of Disinterest, IOD

A1 A2 IOI IOD
A1 A2
IOI
The Tao of SteveA1 A2

6.3

9 10

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9 10
No
Yes

neg

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10 8

10









Photo Routine
OK
















high

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6.4

6.4.1

IOD

6.4.2

A2

6.4.3

Demonstration of Lower Value, DLV

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6.4.4

6.5

S R
DHV
DHV

DHV
DLV S R

DHV

DHV
DHV







IOD




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6.6

DHV

IOI

A2
DHV

1.
2.





20









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6.7


90%

6.8

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frame





OK

6.8.1

IOI DHV

waypoint

6.9

6.9.1

1.

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2.

3.

4. LJBFLets Just Be Friend


5.
6.
7.
8.

6.9.2

1.
2.
3.

4.
5.

6.9.3

Accomplishment Introduction

1.
2.

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3.



4.

6.10

DHV

6.11

Lock In

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6.12


A1 A2

6.12.1

Compliance Test, CT
IOD DHVCompliance
Threshold

A2
180

A3

6.13

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6.14

False Disqualifier









CD

6.15 DHV


15

Mnemonic Device
Peg System

One-Bun, Two-Shoe, Three-Tree, Four-Door, Five-Hive, Six-Sticks, Seven-Heaven,
Eight-Gate, Nine-Line, Ten-Hen

6.15.1

1 10

12345678
910CD

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6.15.2

10

1020 30
10


15
A2

6.16

6.16.1


DHV

External
Interrupt

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6.16.2

obstacle

DHV
A3

OK

A3

6.16.3

OK

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A3

6.17

10
7 8 pawn
10

10 A3 7 7

6.18

pivot

6.19

Merge Forward

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Merge Backward

6.20

MM






















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6.21

A2






IOI
IOD



DHV
DLV
DHV
IOI A2








A2



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7 A3
Male-to-Female Interest

1.

3.

2.

A3

pair bonding

7.1


Yeah, that guy got off.

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Frame Game


DLV

7.2

hoop

IOI

IOD

Average Frustrated Chump, AFC

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OK



26
28





22

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Compliance Momentum

7.3

DHV

Role Reversal

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7.4

have standards

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7.5

DHV

IOI IOD

7.6

IOI

IOI IOI IOD

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7.7


kinesthetic

escalate


30

7.7.1

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7.7.2

7.7.3

7.7.4

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7.7.5

7.7.6


IOD

IOIIOD

7.7.7

Kino Pinging

IOI

7.7.8

IOD

IOI DHV
IOD

A3

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7.8

IOI
IOD

7.8.1 IOI

7.8.2

IOD DHV

DHV

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DHV


IOD

DHV

IOD IOI

IOI

IOD

7.8.3

1. DHV
2. DLV
3. IOI
4. IOD
5. CT

IOD DHV IOI IOI


IOD IOI

65%

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7.8.4

10
IOD
7

Negative Compliance

7.8.5


IOD IOI

Compliance Threshold
A3 C1
C1

7.8.6

C1 A2


OK

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IOD

A2
IOI

7.8.7


Token Resistance

Consistency Principle

7.8.8

7.8.9


IOI IOI
IOI IOD qualifier

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7.8.10

Statement of Interest, SOI

SOI

7.8.11

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7.8.12


A3 IOI IOI



IOI

IOI SOI
IOI
IOI
Particular Identity

1.

2.

2.

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A3



IOD

DHV
IOI



IOI




IOD

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23



XX

DHV
IOI







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DHV

7.9

A1

A2

IOI

IOI

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A3

A2A3

C1

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7.10

A3















Inner Game





IOD





IOI IOD



A3

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8
Conversation

5 10


keep it real

8.1


freeze-out


IOI
12

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IOI

8.2

8.3

C1C2 C3
C1
C2
C3

8.4

C1C2C3 C1 C3


C1 C2 C3

C1
C2

C1 C2
C2 C3

C1 C3 moving
C1 C2
C2 C2 C3jumping

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8.5 C1

C1

C1

C1 C1

8.6 C1

C1 C3


C1

OK 10

C1

8.7

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C1




M3
Grounding Routine

8.7.1

IOI

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8.7.2

A3 C1

8.8


meant to be

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90 Garden

Georgia on My Mind

A Perfect Circle
Tool
Tool CD


IOI IOD

8.9


A3

Shared Realityconspiracy


Murder-Marry-Shag

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8.10

8.11

C1
IOD


10

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8.12

S R
C1


DHV

Machiavelli

8.13

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10 Advanced Group Theory
10
C1 C2


IOI

IOI

8.14

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5
3
2

3
WTF VH1
5
5

grounding

A2

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Grounding Reality A2A3

IOI IOI

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8.15



A3



IOD




C1 C2 C2


C1






A3








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9
Mid-Game and End-Game

C2
4 10 7

4 10
7


4 10
7


1 1:30
3 0:05
4 0:10
4 1:15
4 0:45
7 0:15
7 3:00
7 0:25

7 7 25

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9.1

1
2




20






IODDHV




90/10
90% 10%



9.2 C2

C1
C1 C2 C2

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C2 C2
C2
C3

9.3

9.3.1


25 40

9.3.2

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blurring

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IOD

IOD

DLV
30

9.4 Lovedrop

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5 10 20

9.5

9.6 Lovedrop

A3

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7

7:30



8:30


9:30 80
VIP


10:00




12:30

10:30

12:00
12:15

2:00

4:00
4:15

5:00

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9.7 C3

C3 C3

C3
C3

9.8

C3

C3
C3

9.9 C3 S1

C3

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9.10 S2


Last-Minute Resistance, LMR

LMR LMR

9.11

9.11.1

A3

LMR C2

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9.11.2

LMR Token Resistance

9.12







IOI


9.13

LMR

9.14 S3

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9.15

4 10
20
C2







5 10



CALL




7
C3
C3
C3 S1





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Conclusion | Go forth and Conquer


LeBron James

DVDMysterys Video Archive


mysterymethod.com

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A Bonus Letter from Mystery




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Glossary

Accomplishment Introduction


Advanced Group Theory

AFCAverage Frustrated Chump

ASDAnti-Slut Defense

Approach Anxiety

Approach Invitation

Arbitrary Target

Bait-Hook-Reel-Release
A3
Blurring

Body Rocking

Bounce

Buyers Remorse

Calibration

Canned Material

Cat Theory


Comfort-Building Location

Compliance Momentum

Compliance Testing

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Compliance Threshold

Congruence Testing

Consistency Principle


Conspiracy

Courtship

Cutting the Thread

Decimal Rating Scale
6 OK10 6

DHVDemonstration of Higher Value

DLVDemonstration of Lower Value

Disarm

Discretion

Dynamic Social Homeostasis

Emotional Stimulation

End-Game

Engine of Survival

External Interrupt

False Disqualifier

False Time Constraint

Fools Mate


Fools Mate Fantasy

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Frame

Frame Games

Freeze-Out

Friend

Friendship Zone



Gaming Locations

Great Collapse

Grounding

Group Theory
M3
Having Standards

Hierarchy of Needs


Hired Gun

Hoop

Incongruence

IODIndicator of Disinterest

IOIIndicator of Interest





Inner Game

Internalization

Investment

Kino
kinesthetic

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Kino Escalation

Kino Pinging

LMRLast-Minute Resistance

LMR ThresholdLMR

Leader of Men

Lock-in Prop

M3 ModelM3

Martial Arts

Meeting Location

target
richtarget poor
Merge Backward

Merge Forward

Mid-Game

Move

Moxie

Multiple Conversational Threads

Naturalization Phase

Neg

Nice Guy


Obstacle

Opener


Orbiter

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Pawn

Peacocking

Pecking

Pickup

Plausible Deniability


Player-Trap
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Preselection

Protection Shield

Proximity

Rationalization


Replication

Routine Stack

Seducers

Seven-Hour Rule

Sex Location

Social Alignments

Social Hook Point

Social Proof

Social Robot

Solid Game

Spiraling

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SOIStatenent of Interest

Sticking Points

Subtext

Survival

Three-Second Rule


Time Bridge

Token Resistance

Try-Hard

Venusian Arts

Vital Areas of Focus

Waypoint


Wing

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