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Adolescents have many complex issues start from minor problems to major
problems. As the case that becomes general public there are teenagers who have
overcome the problem, but not infrequently also a failure in solving. Problem that
appear started from little problem and easy to solve until the big issues, which
Cases of student brawls, drug abuse, drinking booze, sex, rape, murder,
committed by adolescent is still often heard, it becomes the news of the mass
media and electronic media as well as in the programs "Buser", "Patrol", and
increasingly more hear. Various efforts to prevent such misconduct have been
adolescents are still common as lying, ran away from school/truant, petty theft,
smoking, talking dirty, and suffering from stress, depression and even suicide.
The behaviour of student comes from the environment around them. They
try to imitate the activity of people that they faced. Then the ability of student to
imitate others habitual appears from their competence, especially their social
friends as well as respond with positive feelings, keen to make friends with his
friends and well considered by them, can lead and follow, maintaining an attitude
of give and take in interacting with his friend.1 Social competence is the
1
Adam, G., R., Social Competence During Adolescence: Social Sensitivity, Locus Of Control, And
Peer Popularity. Journal Of Yoauth And Adolescence. Vol. 12, No 03, 203-211. 1983.
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dynamic environment, have the ability to communicate, able to take the
perspective of others, and analyze the behavior and chooses to become effective.2
So, as we know that one definition of social competence is choose the behavior to
become effective, it means that everyone who want to have good behavior must
Self-control is the ability to choose how to behave and act rather than just
acting just follow instinct and impulse. Adolescent learn to evaluate the situation
and the consequences arising out of their actions, by self-control and learn to
make proper decisions and choose behaviours that will produce positive results.
disagreement that occurs in adolescents in life, both of which occurred on its self
as well as in the general society. At the end of the teens they should have got
peace when face of problems than when they still early adolescence.
adolescents are in a transition period. Adolescent emotion tends to rise and stable
yet. They tend to be less able to control their self and no longer pay attention to
her surroundings.
and have self-control in life , as Allah says in Surah al- A'raf (7) verse 201 "Verily
those who fear Him when they are overwritten misgivings and evil , they
remember God , then when they see it's also his mistakes".
2
E.B Hurlock, Psikologi Perkembangan suatu Pendekatan Sepanjang Rentang Kehidupan , trans.,
Istiwidyanti and Soedjarwo (Bandung: Erlangga, 1999), page 45
2
Acts of delinquency that often occurs in teenagers today include sex
The results of Shali and Zeinik research (in www.bkkbn.go.id) which showed that
79.1 % of women (aged between 15-19 years) agreed to do the sexual intercourse,
although there are no plans to get married. Venereal diseases such as AIDS,
abortion, unwanted early marriage are a form of rampant free sex among
teenagers today. Behavioural patterns are actually a ban that had been normatively
either through print or electronic media, a little or more give effect to changes in
returns, loosening of kinship ties with the surrounding community, as well as the
lack of religious values embedded parents, further more reduce the social control
The series of problem above are supported by the opinion from Merbaum
and Goldfield3 :
3
Zakiah Daradjat, Ilmu Jiwa Agama (Jakarta: Bulan Bintang, 1979), page 128
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and managing the main behaviour that can lead towards
positive consequences. To be able to solve the problem of
the main way is adolescent must learn to control themself,
so by self-control can distributed properly not deviate
from the rules in the community.
of the school, they have chance to get guidance from their teacher. It can be
religion teacher, science teacher, and also social science teacher. But, commonly
the duty of the teacher is not only make student smart in formal material only, but
also the teacher have to make student in order to be able to manage student self.
One Teacher's role is guidance in the task of educating, teachers should help
students to achieve optimal maturity. Maturity means perfect (in accordance with
the nature of that students have). In this role the teacher should pay attention to
the personal aspects of each student such as maturity, needs, abilities, aptitude,
and so on so that they (students) can reach the level of development and the
optimal maturity.4
and accepting the truth of religion, including trying to understand the wisdom and
teachings of religious functions.5 By connect the material of the subject with the
religion teaching.
4
Uzer Usman, Menjadi Guru Profesional (Bandung: Remaja Rosdakarya, 1995), page 7
5
Syaiful Bahri Djamarah dan Aswan Zain, Strategi Belajar Mengajar (Jakarta: Rinneka Cipta,
1996), page 76-77
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socialize as well as possible. In that subject also have several material that can
realize the student to control their self. By give the understanding of sociology
science and connect the material to religion teaching. In order, the teaching
learning process can combine between social science materials with religion
teaching to make student have self-control to socialize with the society. By the
explaining above, the researcher took the title THE EFFORT OF SOCIAL
B. RESEARCH QUESTION
at SMAN 1 Pandaan?
SMAN 1 Pandaan?
SMAN 1 Pandaan.
1. Theoretical
This research is expected to show that when this research is proven, it means
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2. Practical
This study may be useful as an input to determine the policy for further at
students become have better self-control. And also the significance for
practical is to make teacher who have same problem can use this research as
the teaching learning process and the activity that can build self-control. And also
Pandaan.
To amplify the problem will be observe, the researcher briefly describes the
behaviors that fulfill the needs of future development in the short term and in
2. Self-Control is the ability to guide their own behavior and also the ability to
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G. PREVIOUS STUDY
1. Mukh. Nur Sikin, in 2007, entitled : Upaya Guru PAI dalam meningkatkan
value can increase by covering Duha prayer, worshipers pray and read the
2. Sriyati, in 2009, entitled: Upaya Guru PAI dalam pembinaan Akhlak Siswa di
the role of PAI teachers in vocational in dealing with bad behavior of students
procrastination.
Dengan Kontrol Diri Pada Remaja. Found that there is a relation between
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intensity of dzikir and adolescence self-control. If the intensity of dzikir is high,
1. Social Competence
children, which was built interactions play begins with simple things, such as
playing a role, obey the order within the group , so that will awaken their social
competence.6
the result of irregular behaviours that faced the needs of future development in
the short term and in the long term. For pre-school children, behaviours that
6
Martani W. and Adiyanti, M. G., Kompetensi Sosial Dan Kepercayaan Diri Remaja, Thesis,
Fakultas Psikologi Universitas Gajah Mada Yogyakarta, 1990, page 25
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Latifah L., Kompetensi Sosial, Status Sosial, dan Viktimisasi Di Sekolah Dasar, Thesis,
Fakultas Psikologi UGM Yogyakarta, 2000, page 30
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which focus on self or other, in this case is to measure children's success in
made many a child with other children, when a child's relationship is mostly in
often interact . Conversely, sometimes the play itself does not mean less social
competence. Playing alone is different from "alone" (just to be near the group
get along with others and be well-liked.11 Social competence is also indicated
feelings, keen to make friends with his friends and well considered by them,
can lead and follow, maintaining an attitude of give and take in interacting with
8
Denham S. A. and Queenan, P., Preschool Emotional Competence: Pathway To Social
Competence. Journal Of Child Development. Vol. 74, No 1, 2003, page 238-256.
9
Adam G. R., Social Competence During Adolescence: Social Sensitivity, Locus Of Control, And
Peer Popularity. Journal Of Youth And Adolescence. Vol. 12, No 03, 1983, page 203-211.
10
Ibid., page: 211
11
Stephen J. Blumberg et al., Journal of Social Competence: Development of an Indicator for
Children and Adolescents, Springer Science + Business Media, 2008
12
Ibid., page: 177
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his friend (Vaughn and Waters in Sroufe et al, 1996), due to preschool children
knowledge to make positive relations with others. Ford gives another definition
but not much different from the social competence that action in accordance
and provide a positive effect for development.14 Furthermore, it can be said that
people who have high social competence are able to express more social
satisfactory.15
environmental and biological capabilities that they get. An individual who has
competent is person who able to use the environment and personal resources to
13
Papalia D. E. Olds S. W., and Feldman, R. D.. A Chlids World, Infancy Through Adolescence.
USA: Mcgraw- Hill Companies, Inc, Ninth Edition. New York, 2002
14
Latifah, op. cit, page: 87
15
Hurlock, E.B., op. cit., page 198
16
Martani W., and Adiyanti, M., G., op. cit., page 29
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competence includes the ability to adapt to a dynamic environment and to
others using language and non- verbal communication. Benard suggests that
to evoke a positive response from others; flexibility, including the ability to get
along with people from cultural diverse backgrounds; ability to empathize; and
perspective from others, and analyze and chooses the behavior to become
effective.
2. Self-Control
17
J. W. Santrock , Adolescence 11th edition, (New York: McGraw-Hill, 2007), page 27
18
Ibid., page 89
19
Latifah, op. cit., page: 89
20
Kartini Kartono, dalam Kamus Lengkap Psikologi (Jakarta: Raja Grafindo Persada, 1999), page
38
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personal control, which consists of three types of control, namely: 21 Definition
a. Behavior Control
controls the situation. Individuals who have good self-control ability will be
able to regulate the behavior of their abilities. And the second is the ability
putting a grace period between the last series of stimulus, stimulus stop
b. Cognitive control
make the state the individual is able to adapt with consideration. Second, the
21
Zulkarnain. digitized by USU digital library 13 b, 2002. page 51
22
J. F Calhoun and Accocella, J. R., Psychology of Adjustment and Human Relationship, (New
York: Mcgraw Hill Publishing Company, 1990), page 99
23
Gustinawati, Peranan Kontrol Pribadi Dalam Kesesakan Pada Penghuni Perumahan Dengan
Kepadatan Tinggi di Kota Bandung, Thesis, Fakultas Psikologi UGM Yogyakarta, 1990, page
53
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interpret the situation merits attention is positive and subjective. Cognitive
c. Decisional Control
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M. Nur Ghufron. Hubungan Kontrol diri, persepsi remaja terhadap penerapan disiplin orang tua
dengan prokrastinasi akademik, Thesis, Ilmu Psikologi UGM Yogyakarta, 2003, Page 25
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Social science education in addition to have the aim to teach you how to
live in society, should also have to teach the rules that exist in the community
to be able to control students self (self- control) that a child have to has a great
be given by teachers who also have precious personalities. And Teacher not
only set a good example to the students, but all existing teachers should have
the properties that can be imitated by the learners. Or it can be said that the
b. The second step is to help children develop the internal regulatory system
c. The third step is teach children the way how to use self-control when faced
temptation and stress, teach to think before acting so that they will choose
Block and Block explained that there are three types of control, namely:27
a. Over Control :
Is the over control that cause a person have a lot of control and
25
Zakiah Daradjat, op. cit., page 28
26
Michele Borba, Membangun Kecerdasan Moral; Tujuh Kebajikan Utama Agar Anak Bermoral
Tinggi (Jakarta: Gramedia Pustaka Utama, 2008), page 117-125
27
Gustinawati, op. cit., page 55
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b. Under control :
c. Appropriate control :
well as possible.
a. Religious orientation
Bergin argues that the religious orientation can have some positive
Many experts argue that religion has a very big role for human life.
Subandi states that the religious life giving force for a person's soul to face
the challenges and trials of life, providing moral support in the face of
crisis, as well as attitudes pose willingly accept the fact that God has
destined. Solving problems through religious life will improve life to the
spiritual values so that a person will acquire from the belief that make
28
Sumadi Suryabrata, Psikologi Kepribadian, (Jakarta : C.V. Rajawali, 1983), page 46
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According Daradjat religion inculcated from childhood to children
will affect his personality, will act as a controller in the face of all desires
and impulses that arise, against religious beliefs will adjust the attitude and
c. Cognitive factors
themselves. Elkind and Weiner stated that individuals are not born under
up, the individual has entered the college will have the ability to think
29
Zakiah Daradjat, op. cit., page 29
30
E.B. Hurlock, op. cit, page 55
31
Ibid., page 30
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control themselves and can continue their activities in the situation. This is
look at the stimulus, trying not to touch the stimulus or engage in activities
that can distract from the stimulus. The activity is an effective behavior so
I. RESEARCH METHODOLOGY
is more important than the results, the analysis in qualitative research tends to
participatory, and action research. In this study, the type of the research is a
32
Ibid., page 34
33
Moleong Lexy, Metodologi Penelitian Kualitatif, (Bandung: PT. Remaja Rosda Karya, 2002),
page 3
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background of the current situation and the environment a unit of social
2. Researcher Presence
observation, because the researcher role that determines the overall scenario.35
So that, in this case the researcher is a key instrument, full participation as well
3. Research Sites
considerations:
a. SMA is a school that has not steered students to certain sub- majors such as
has been started since he was in junior high school. However, there is an
self-control.
b. This school is located in the middle of city in Pandaan. And near with public
area. Also the student in this school not all of them are kind person. It makes
34
Sumadi Suryabrata, Metodologi Penelitian (Jakarta: Raja Grafindo Persada, 1998), page 22
35
Moleong Lexy, op. cit., page 117.
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4. Sources of The Data
The main data source in this study are the words and actions, the rest is
extra, and other such documents. Thus the source of the data in this study are
the words and actions as a primary source, while the source data is like written,
the authors define criteria of informants based on research purposes, and the
phenomenon can be well meaning, if it is done through the interaction with the
a. Interview
teacher and ask about the effort that they have done to increase students
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b. Observation techniques
concern the background and research techniques used in this study is the
researcher directly come to the class or the place that teacher do to build
learning process. And also observe the attitude of the students. Are they
c. Documentation techniques
Used to collect data from non- human source , these sources consist
the recording , which is not prepared for specific purposes, such as Lesson
6. Data Analysis
various concepts.36
36
Nasution, Metode Penelitian Naturalistik, (Bandung: Tarsito, 1988), page 93
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Data analysis do since the beginning of the study carried out repeatedly
and continuously throughout the study process, because the research is the
process or product of the process. For it in the collected data always comes
with making field notes. The aim of this field note is to record the result of
data were analyzed by using the interactive model of Mathew Milles and
a. Data reduction
the transformation of raw data that emerged from the field notes of the
school. Reduction runs continuously, both during data collection and after
b. Presentation of Data
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Milles Mathew dan Huberman, Michael, Analisis Data Qualitatif. (Jakarta: Gramedia Pustaka
Utama, 1992), page 20-22
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c. Conclusion withdrawal
conclusion until the final conclusion. Author being open to the conclusions
Conclusions may be the idea that arises when writing to look back
field note and compare the questions asked in the interview, so the
verification carried out during the study, conducted by reviewing the records
for on the field, and interviews with key informants returned. If an error
occurs resulting in the conclusion that the data does not match, then be
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7. Checking The Validity of The Findings
of validity and reliability. Degree of t in the trusty of the data may be held
situation which is very relevant to the issue or issues that are being look for.
To test the validity of the data, the authors conducted a data triangulation,
using multiple sources or informants to collect the same data. The way is to
provide a series of questions that were restructured from the informant, then
come back to the question and ask to different informants. Triangulation will
be done in this study, other than those described above is by comparing the
observed data with the interview, and then re-read authors of systematic or
structured data and check the data repeatedly. Data is considered valid if the
data obtained are relatively the same from all informants were interviewed.
Then used as a basis for analysis, so the results can be accounted for by
For advanced in getting valid data as well as the examination of the data,
are four criteria used were: degree of confidence, shifted, reliance, and
certainty. In this research the techniques that used for checking data validity:
a. Triangulation
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the data. This research utilizes the main informants who know about the
case deeply. And compare between the information from the main
Particularly in this study, the researcher will only hold discussions with the
problem.
c. Perseverance Observations
The stages of this research, there are three stages and the last stage of
research coupled with the stage of writing research reports. Those stages of the
study were (1) pre- field stage, which includes drafting a research, choose the
field of research, the licenses, explore and assess the state of the field, select
ethical issues, (2) stage of field work, which includes understanding the
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Sumadi Suryabrata, Metodologi Penelitian, (Jakarta: Raja Grafindo Persada, 1998), page 22
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background research and preparation themselves, entered the field and
participate while collecting the data, (3) the data analysis phase, which includes
analysis during and after data collection, (4) stage of writing research reports .
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