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SIS: Sam? Sam? I give up. I tried really hard to live not next to you. I told myself over and over how
stupid it was to need somebody so bad. I took pictures of us and spit on them. I looked at other people,
really looked and them, and tried to see how they were still good, even though they weren't you. I
accentuated the positive. Like you said. I didn't call you. Sometimes I don't call you. Even when I want
to. I make myself not do it. But I don't feel like it anymore. I give up. Maybe I am insane and maybe I
just want to control you and be controlled like you said, or whatever you said, did you say that? But I
don't care. I just wanna be back. Sam? OK. You're ignoring me. That's never happened before. This is
the first time anyone has ever ignored anybody at all. Don't you miss me?
HELEN: I'm dying to show you off, Tom, if you'd let me...I've told you to pick me up at work, all kinds
of things! I just hope you're not embarrassed by me in some way, because, well, I mean, I dunno, I
just...I feel something. A kind of isolated. At times. [You're hardly with your friends anymore.] Neither
am I. You know? I mean, we've been going out for, like...however long, and I only met that one guy.
Carter. At the restaurant. I ask you all the time if you'd want to [hang out with my friends], or if... It's
just a little like we're, I dunno, hiding or whatever. From people. Listen, I had a thing come up for me
at the...this opportunity. Remember the interview that I...yeah. That. It's a couple towns over, but far
enough away that...whatever. The point is, it's a great offer and the more I think about this – every time
we end up in the back of a café or slipping into a movie late, after it's already going – some little thing
in my head, this warning buzzer, says, “Watch it. Just watch out.” I need you to be honest with me here.
Today, if possible. Just the truth. I'm not looking for fairy-tale or out-of-the-ballpark or anything...just a
person who cares about me like I do him. Simple. I don't need you to be clever here! No jokes. Or film
quotes...just be very clear...and honest.
HELEN: Tom, you are aware that I like you. You already know that. But I get the feeling...I mean, it is
now pretty obvious that there are some problems here. Issues, or whatever. And we need to get over
them or...well, you know. Things that I don't wanna think about. Please, you need to stay in this.
Focused on it, so don't drift off or anything. I love you so much, I really do, Tom. Feel a connection
with you that I haven't allowed myself to dream of, let alone be part of, in so long. Maybe ever. But I
can't be with you if you're feeling something other than that same thing I am...completely open to that
other person. I don't know what to say here, Tom...I'm worried sick. Look at me...when did you ever
see me not eat a hot dog that was placed in front of me? Huh? I know you hate those jokes, sorry, but
I'm...Tom, tell me about it. I know you're thinking something, so we might as well just...one more
thing. Just this. And I've never said this to anyone, not any other person in the world. Ever. My parents
or a...no one. I would change for you. I would. I don't mean Slim-Fast or that one diet that the guy on
TV did...with the sandwiches from Subway. That guy... I'll so something radical to myself if you want
me to. Like be stapled or have some surgery or whatever it takes – one of those rings – because I do not
want this to end. I'm willing to do that, because of what you mean to me. The kind of, just, ecstasy that
you've brought me. So...I just wanted you to know that.
What Wasn't Said, What Didn't Happen
By: Bob Manning
KIM: Oh, no, Michael...not this. You're going to treat me like a customer. You're doing it! You're using
the standard customer service techniques on me. You said “help me understand...” “Help me
understand” is one of the useful phrases we teach in the seminar on “How to Deal With the Unhappy
Customer.” Don't deny it: you're just trying to get me to calm down. Michael, I TEACH this shit with
you, so don't try to use it on me. You're trying to understand the problem? The problem is that you live
this life of perfect order, perfect control...You always know just what to say in any situation...You speak
in complete sentences, for God's sake. Michael! You're still doing it! I really must not mean anything to
you if all you can do is treat me like a customer. How many of these trips have we been on together?
You've never made a pass at me. You've never stayed in the bar past eight o'clock, never called my
room and said, “Kim, I was just looking out at that beautiful moon, and I thought maybe it would be
fun to go for a walk on the beach.” It would be inappropriate. It would be dangerous, and spontaneous,
and exciting! Of course, there are lots of reasons NOT to do that. It's a bad idea from a business
perspective, for sure, and you don't want to muck up your precious business position by dallying with
the hired help. WHAT DOES IT TAKE to get a rise out of you? I think you ARE a statue.