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Crabby's Top 10 E-Mail Crabs: Crab #1: Discretion Is The Greater Part of Replying
Crabby's Top 10 E-Mail Crabs: Crab #1: Discretion Is The Greater Part of Replying
I'm going to run through this list quickly, so please try and keep up. In fact, why don't you print this list, frame
Imagine that you've received a piece of company-wide e-mail from someone in your very large organization.
If you feel the need to respond to the sender, rest assured that every member of your very large organization
does not want to have to read your reply, no matter how witty or urbane you may think it is. This goes the
For example, I'm fairly certain that Bill Gates doesn't need to know if I'll be attending the annual Microsoft
picnic with one child or twelve. Not that he doesn't care, mind you; he just has other types of e-mail that may
be more pressing. Shocking but true. So please, don't hit that Reply to All button.
USING ALL CAPITAL LETTERS IS NOT ONLY RUDE AND IRRITATING, IT'S ALSO HARD TO READ. Save
your caps for special occasions, such as those times when you want your recipient to know you're shouting.
GOT IT?
Gentle reader, if you use all caps and prefer that your senders use all caps too because you have limited
eyesight, note that you can adjust various settings for your entire computer to help with that. See Help in
(For all of you who love to use background color and stationery for your personal e-mail, please disregard
I know it's important to you that everyone knows you're creative, arty, and colorful. Your cubicle fairly
screams kitsch; how could we not know? But we're at work here, and I don't want to have to hippity-hop
through your "bunnies 'n love" stationery just to figure out what your message is.
wrote to you at the top of it, I'm going to assume you have nothing to say to me (and sent me an empty e-
Let's put this another way: when you're replying to an e-mail message and you want to include what the
sender wrote, add your comments at the top of the mail, not the bottom. I know what I wrote — why would I
That being said, I do see the logic in keeping all the notes and replies in order (my original message on top,
followed by your reply, followed by my reply to your reply, and so on). Well, it may be like that in the snail
mail world, but we're not in Kansas anymore, Toto. Adapt. Your reply on top, please — this isn't a chain
letter. (And if it is, don't send it to me. But that's a crab of a different color.)
Speaking of chain letters, if you're like me (and I know you are), you are fed up with receiving the same
jokes, Internet rumors, and chain letters promising free cases of champagne, $1000 from Bill Gates, and
miracle cream that erases all your fine lines and bad memories.
While you can cut some slack for those in your life who have just discovered that Great Oracle of
Misinformation we call the Internet, it's just not appropriate, considerate, professional, or even cool to
forward these useless things to coworkers. (And by the way: Mikey, the kid from a 1970s-era cereal
commercial, did not explode after drinking a popular cola laced with fizzy candy. I don't know where he is,
but he's probably going through a midlife crisis right about now.)
Highly personal
Scary
Sad
Angry
Tragic
Vicious
Shocking
…please do it in person. (Actually, I prefer you don't do it at all.) Sentient beings are filled with emotions (and
Crab #7: I love you but not your 500 KB image file
As I see it, there are three main reason why you should refrain from sending really large files via e-mail:
This is particularly true if you are on a dial-up connection. When your recipient is checking e-mail
because she's waiting for an important message from the President of the United States (POTUS),
it's just plain rude to make her sit there for 10 minutes to download the photo of your dog's birthday
party.
2. E-mail servers are like studio apartments: there's only so much space to keep everything.
If your huge file is taking up 3 megabytes (MB) of space on your recipient's 4 MB e-mail server, he
might ask you to move out, take your stuff, and never come back.
Some Internet service providers (ISPs) or free e-mail providers limit the size of a single piece of
mail coming through their servers. Sometimes this is because of security issues, and sometimes
these companies just want to annoy you. Whatever the reason, your recipient may never even
So please consider the size the file you're sending. If it's a large image, make it smaller. If it's large
In other words, fill out the Subject line. I get hundreds of e-mail messages each day, and when I get one
without anything in the Subject line, I tend to skip over it. If the subject of the message wasn't important
enough for the sender to fill out the Subject line, then it's not important to me. Be gone!
the font it appears in is Courier. If you decide to reply to a plain-text sender using HTML format with special
fonts and formatting, the text that your recipient receives will look like indecipherable nonsense that needs a
Cold War code breaker to untangle its message. Do your recipients a favor: send your reply in the format it
came in.
Crab #10: Itchy trigger finger? Count to 10 before hitting the Send button
You're hot under the collar and everybody knows that (and sometimes loves that) about you. But before
sending your clever and scathing message out there to the world (with virtually no chance of retrieving it),
remember this: the pushing of the Send button lasts a moment; its effects can last a lifetime — or at least
If you use Outlook 2003, however, there is a way to delay that message — kind of like counting to ten before
Recipient’s State:
Work Schedule – Busy? Keeping an email short and to the point is essential as he/she
might have hundreds of other emails to read.
Accepts HTML? You might as well check with your recipient prior to sending him/her
emails with HTML content as most people usually switch this option off to reduce the
size of their email messages.
Jargon: Try to avoid abbreviations and field-specific jargon so that your recipient may
understand you. More often than not, engineers – for example – tend to use their
abbreviations while addressing even their top management – who may have forgotten the
meaning of such technical lingo.
According to Nancy Flynn and Tom Flynn: ‘By requiring employees to use appropriate,
businesslike language in all electronic communications, employers can limit their liability
risks and improve the overall effectiveness of the organization’s e-mail and Internet copy
in the process’
Try to make it easier for your recipient to understand the purpose of the email. You may
even define your email messages as “Requiring action”, “FYI – For Your Information”,
“Requires Reply”, “Time sensitive”, or other action, time, or sensitivity related key words
right at the beginning.
Moreover, spam controller programs often eliminate or rule as “Junk” email messages
without subjects or with ambiguous meaning.
Caps – Never use capital letters while typing and email message to anyone. For
starters, caps are considered impolite and resemble shouting in speech (Ellen Dowling).
Genre of Topic – Avoid mixing subjects in your email. Unless otherwise needed by your
superior or work culture, mixing subjects in one email message might confuse your
readers. At least, don’t mix the type of message; if you’re discussing work then stay
focused on work topics without straying to personal issues.
Proof read – Always proof read your email prior to sending it. It may take you a minute,
and it may take you 10, but after all you’ll be sure that the message you sent is free of
grammatical, vocabulary and appropriate usage errors.
Subject Line – what you write in the subject line is almost as important as the email
itself. In most cases, what your subject line is determines whether or not the recipient will
read your email, or even when he/she shall read it.
Good Email Manners - here are some simple yet effective tips for using email more
efficiently:
1. If you are sending an email to multiple people, put their email addresses in the
BCC field and your own email address in the To: field. No one likes to share their
private email address with strangers.
2. The email subject should be detailed enough to give the recipient an idea about
the email content without having to open it. Single words like "Hi" or "Hello" or
"Help" are a strict no-no. Think of meaningful but short titles.
4. If you have to email more than two documents as attachments, zip them in one
file. Doing so would ensure that your friend won't miss downloading any file.
5. Do not write an email while you are drunk or in a really bad mood. It would reflect
on the style of your writing.
7. Always reply to emails especially the ones specifically addressed to you. The
sender is still waiting to hear from you.
8. Keep you email message short and to the point. Sentences like "I hope this email
finds you alive and well" look good only in letter correspondence.
9. Do not hit the Send button without doing a spell check. An email with spelling
mistakes or grammatical errors indicate that you have written the message in a non-
serious mood and may convey a bad impression. Always read the message before
broadcasting it to the world.
10. You may want to remove your personal mobile number and the home number
from the email signature if you are participating in a big mailing list. You never know
the kind of people who have subscribed to that list.
Sender Etiquette:
1. An effective Subject line is paramount. A good Subject line helps you and your message recipients
view, file, search, and prioritize messages efficiently. I hate having an inbox full of messages with
a Subject line starting with URGENT or FYI. Subjects should state exactly what the message is
about and nothing more—most recipients can prioritize messages for themselves.
2. Be Succinct. Try to limit message text to one screen (this varies by client and resolution, of
course) so the reader can quickly peruse the message for highlights and main points. Also, stay on
topic and avoid long dialogs or discussions via email.
3. Use Reply All with caution. In some situations, this option is necessary because all recipients need
your response. However, a Reply All with the message body "Thanks" probably doesn't need to go
to everyone. Closely related to Reply All is the distribution list (DL). Make sure you use DLs with
care, and when you see that a large DL has been used, ask yourself whether everyone needs your
response before you click the Reply All button.
4. Limit the use and size of attachments. My pet peeve is dialing in via a 56K RAS connection,
replicating mail, and finding that some bloke has sent me a 20MB PowerPoint presentation that I
don't even need. Attachments aren't evil by nature—you just need to use them with care. When
you add an attachment to a message, consider whether there is an alternative. For example, can
you put the attachment on a server and provide a URL (http://server/file) or UNC (\\server\share)
instead?
5. Use Signatures—but for heaven's sake don't use the 10MB GIF file of your company logo
Here are some tips that will make your email communications more
professional.
The font of mail should be Verdana and font size should be 9.5 or 10.
o Situation : What’s the current situation is
o Action items : What you expect from the reader of the mail to-do
o Information : The information you want to give to the reader
o Conclusion : Conclude with a Thank You.
For writing use only Black or Blue color. For highlighting purpose make the
word bold. Avoid using Red color as Red signifies danger, so use it when
urgent.
o For Americans : use Hi
o For Europeans : use Hello
o For Asians : use Dear
To be more formal we could use Dear Mr. /Ms. followed by Last name or Full
name. We should not use Dear Mr. /Ms. followed by First name alone.
We should not put ‘/’ in greetings like Hi X/Y. Instead we should say Hi X and
Y.We should not use ‘Thanks and Regards’. Instead we should say:
Thank you
Regards
Your name
For requesting something we should not use can, instead we should use
could.
We should not write ‘Please find the attached file’ because the reader does
not have to find or search for the file in the mail it’s already there. So instead
we should write ‘The file has been attached for your reference’.
We should not use sentences like ‘As per your mail’ because ‘per’ is used only
with units like per Kg etc. Instead we should write ‘According to your mail’.
In our mails we often write ‘Please revert back’. Instead we should only write
‘Please revert’.
For the Signature in mail, if we are sending to people in our company only
then we should not write our company name in the signature because they
already know that we are part of the same company but if we are sending
mail to an external party like client etc then we should write our company
name in the signature because there we have to brand our company name in
front of others
Please note that the following composing methods greatly increase the difficulty level of reading any email
message:
1. Typing a message in all capital letters (the online equivalent of “SHOUTING” or
“SCREAMING” at email recipients)
2. Typing a message in all lowercase letters
3. Over-using punctuation (!!!!!!!)
4. Lack of punctuation