Outline of Presentation The Concept of Values Common examples of values Importance of Personal Values in lifestyle formation. Personal Values and CU core values The place of values in determining living creed of people and organization- CU Example Concluding remarks References The Concept of Values Values refer to widely held conception by members of a given society or group of people as acceptable and beneficial. Values are things, objects, activity, animate or in animate that are cherished and held in high esteem. Values can influence behaviour either Positively or Negatively E.g. Value for time. Value is a core component of the people’s culture (way of life). Common Examples of Values Africans are known to place high value on children. In some societies male children are preferred due to access to inheritance. Nine months after wedlock, questions may start coming for couples if children are not forthcoming. Unlike western societies where marriage is consummated for companionship, procreation is the primary essence of marriage in many African Societies Common Examples of Values In the western societies both hardwork and pleasure (Holidays) are of great value. The value of hardwork among the yoruba and Igbo culture is well explained in the preceding Yoruba adage… “ma fi owuro sere ore mi, ise la fi ndeni giga” Translated as : Do not play in the morning or with your childhood, you can only become an achiver through hardwork The concept of personal values As the name implies, personal values are unique to individuals and group. What may be acceptable and cherished as personal value to Mr. A may be entirely different from that of Mr. B Personal values describes the beliefs, action and inactions of an individual or group It assist individuals or group set standard, expectations and rules for behaviour and living. Examples of Personal Values Honesty Humility Discipline Diligence Respect Obedience Dependability and Reliability Honesty Another name for honesty is integrity, accountability. A honest person is truthful Transparent Not deceitful Biblical examples of honest characters include: - Joseph - King David Humility Humility is sometimes used interchangeably As Meekness. This is one personal value that leads to greatness and a life outstanding accomplishments. Notable Biblical Characters associated with Humility/Meekness include : Moses, Abraham Joseph etc. Personal values in life style formation Our personal value define our character Our character determine our altitude Every man must take personal responsibility Every man is responsible for the outcome of his/her life The choices we make will either make us or mar us - Dr David Oyedepo Chancellor, Covenant University Factors influencing Personal Values Family Peer group/Friends Environment School or Office Membership of an organisation Unique experience Personal choice and determination Note! The above can influence Personal Values either positively and negatively. 20 Lessons on Personal Values in Leadership – David Abioye
Character above Reputation
Sacrifice above function People above Task Motives above Activities Humility above promotion Faithfulness above Fame 12 Lessons on personal values in leadership – David Abioye…
Divine approval above Human commendation
Impact above success Others above Self Contributions above Recognition Responsibility above position Care above ownership 3 D’s of Personal Values Development Determination- to be resolute and focussed. It means possessing a sense of mission in the delivery of a given task. Apostle Paul was determined to obtain the prize for the high calling of God in Christ Jesus - Philippians 3: 14 Discipline – Diligence 3 D’s of Personal Values Development Discipline – This means operating as demanded not as convenient. The rules and regulations of Covenant University as stated in the student’s handbook are to guide you and help maximize your destiny as student here and later in life. 3 D’s of Personal Values Development Diligence- implies a committed, creative and tireless hardworker. Every high flyer is known as a hardworker. There is dignity in labour Nothing works like hardwork as explicitly stated in Proverbs 22:29 Personal values and CU Core Values As students of CU, your personal values must align with the 7 core values of the University namely : 1. Spirituality 2. Possibility mentality 3. Capacity Building 4. Integrity 5. Responsibility 6. Diligence 7. Sacrifice Uniqueness of CU Core values Spirituality – this emphasizes Godly principles and the fear of God in all areas of operation at Covenant University. “Spirituality is our greatest asset in the journey of life”. Dr. David Oyedepo This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth. Thou shall meditate upon it day and night where with thou shall obtain good success Joshua 1:8 Possibility Mentality For as he thinketh in his heart so is he - Proverbs 23:7 I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me Philippians 4:13 Nothing defines destiny like our mentality.For our destinies to be actualized, we must possess possibility and success mentality – Dr. David Oyedepo Capacity Building We encourage our students in this platform to imbibe the virtue of skill development. “It is skill that turns trash into treasure” - Dr David Oyedepo The skill of yesterday is not enough to cope in today’s changing world. Additional skill (TMC, EDS, CLDS etc.) is a plus and added advantage. Integrity The value of integrity to outstanding success and fulfillment of destiny cannot be overlooked. Integrity simply connotes being accountable, honest and truthful at all times Are you dependable, reliable and accountable? It takes the fear of God to demonstrate the virtue of integrity Concluding Remarks As you depart from this lecture here are some food for thoughts As Kings and Queens in Hebron are redeemed to reign and take the lead Shine like a star that you are Discover your eagle nature and begin soaring as ordained by God from the beginning Until we change the way we think, it will be impossible to change the way we live.
- Dr. David Oyedepo
References 1. Following the Paths of Eagle by David O. Oyedepo. 2. Holy Bible revised King James Version. 3. Leadership & Innovation in Africa’s Development Paradigm – A special publication in honour of Dr. David Oyedepo 4. Peoples & Cultures of Nigeria edited by A.S. Jegede, O.A. Olutayo, O.O.Omololu, B.E. Owumi published by Department of Sociology, University of Ibadan in 2012.