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Hey there!
I’m Kim and I’m your guide to
the essential conversation
skills you need to sound
more natural in English.
Using these strategies can help you sound more tactful and
diplomatic if you pay attention to stress and intonation.
#1
Use modal verbs
Use modal verbs: could, would, might
Using could, would, and might can help create a little distance
between your true, strong opinion and your choice of words to
express yourself.
That’s a waste (bad use) of our time. That isn’t a good use of our time.
The sales figures are terrible. The sales figures aren’t very good.
Your timeline is inconvenient for us. Your timeline isn’t very convenient
for us.
I am pessimistic about the outcome.
I’m not very optimistic about the
outcome.
#4
Use qualifiers
Use qualifiers
When you give someone feedback that might not be welcome,
you can use one of the following qualifiers to reduce the
critical impact of your words. Using qualifiers before the noun
or adjective enables you to sound more diplomatic.
I would like some more time to Wouldn’t you like some more time
consider. to consider?
#8
Present your idea as an
indirect question
Present your idea as an indirect question
You can make questions even more polite by presenting them
as indirect or embedded questions.
Native speakers don’t actually hear the past tense when you
use these expressions; instead, they hear the polite distancing
of the request. They understand that your request is current.
Use past and past continuous expressions
more direct more polite
What time is your appointment? I wanted to check what time your
appointment is.
Are you going to accept the job?
We were hoping that you’re going
We already discussed your to accept the job.
proposal.
We were discussing your proposal.
I want to make pizza for dinner.
I was considering making pizza for
dinner.
#10
Use the plural “we” instead
of “I” or “you”
Use the plural “we” instead of “I” or “you”
As you have noticed from the previous strategies, sounding
more polite involves being inclusive and involving the other
person’s feelings and perspective in the way you present your
feedback, opinion, suggestion, or request.
You should take some time to We should take some time to think
think about it. about it.