881:2 Ways To Read Her Mind - Bobby Rio PDF

The
Window
of
oppORTUNITy
R
ob Judge and I have a the-
ory that with every girl ex-
ists a “window of opportunity”.
During that “window” you have an opportunity

to ask her out, go for the kiss, and take her home.
But when that window closes, you have to start
from scratch again building up the attraction.
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table of
contents
Introduction: Core Concepts.......................................................4
Part 1: The Right Frames of Mind.........................................11
Part 2: Signs A Girl Wants You To Approach Her............32
Part 3: Signs A Girl You Just Met Is Into You..........39
Part 4: Signs A Girl You Just Met Is NOT Into You..........58
6 Ways To Actively Find Out If A Girl Is Into You....69
Part 5: Signs A Girl You’ve Known Awhile Is Into You....76
Part 6: Signs A Girl You’ve Known Awhile Is NOT Into You..86
Part 7: Reading her “Sexual” Signals”................................95
Part 8: Signs You Should Be Sending To A Girl...101
3 Things To Keep In Mind As You Go Forward................126
Reminder Checklist........................................................................132
Further Resources........................................................................139
INTRODUCTION
core concepts
T
he majority of this book deals with “de-
coding” a woman’s signals to figure out
whether you have a chance with her of
if you’re just wasting your time. Understanding
the signals a woman is sending also helps you
to decide when you should ask her for a date,
go for a kiss, and even when it’s time to take
things to the next level.
To ensure you make the best use of what you’re

about to learn, it’s crucial you first understand
a few “big ideas” that put a woman’s behavior
into context...
The
Window
of
oppORTUNITy
R
ob Judge and I have a theory that
with every girl exists a “window of
opportunity.”
During that “window” you have an opportu-

nity to ask her out, go for the kiss, and take
her home.
But when that window closes, you have to

start from scratch again building up the at-
traction.
This is why its crucial you NOTICE and

CAPITALIZE on the opportunity when it
presents itself.
The Window of
Opportunity
There is an even more important reason:
Girls expect things to “happen quick” when

there is chemistry…
They expect to get “swept away”...
So the longer it takes for you to make your

move, get her out on a date, sleep with
her… the more she starts thinking “there
must not be anything here.”
She’ll even begin to backward rationalize

and start finding reasons why you’re NOT
worth meeting up with, why she should NOT
sleep with you, or why she should relegate
your sorry ass to FRIEND ZONE PRISON.
This is why in both our Unlock Her Legs pro-

gram and Magnetic Messaging we design
everything to happen fast.
The Window of
Opportunity
It creates the illusion of chemistry.
Now, if you’re currently in the friend zone

with a girl, chances are you missed your
window of opportunity.
The good news is that window will open

back up.
And this time, you’ll be ready for it.

Which brings us to the next important con-
cept before we go further…
Her
Attraction
is NOT
black or
white
R
ob and I have a second theory that
is extremely important for you
to understand: Attraction is NOT
black or white.
This means that a girl’s opinion of you can

change by the year, month, week, day, and
even by the hour.
Now, this comes with good news, and bad

news...
The good news is that even if you didn’t

make a stellar first impression you can still
win her over and get her wanting you…
Her Attraction is not
black or white
Even if you’re not her “type” or she only sees

you as a “friend”…
Even if you’ve already messed up…
And even if she’s dating someone else and

acts like you don’t even exist…
You ALWAYS have the ability to push that

“attraction needle” hotter. And make her
want you more.
But there is some bad news too...
The bad news is just because a girl feels

attraction for you today, does not mean
she’ll feel the same level of attraction for
you tomorrow.
Just like you can ALWAYS move the “attraction
Her Attraction is not
black or white
level” hotter… you can always do things that

will get things “colder” or drive her away.
This is why it’s critical to understand the

signs she’s giving you.
When you’re able to read the signals she’s

sending, you can adjust your game plan as
needed.
PART 1
T h e Ri g h t f r a m e s o f
m i n d
I
t can be very frustrating to try to read what
a girl is thinking and figure out whether or
not she is interested in you. Rob and I work
with A LOT of private coaching clients and one
of the most common things we deal with is
helping a guy decipher the words and actions
of some girl.
I’m sure you’ve experienced it before. You are

talking to a girl in a bar, club or party, and
you’re just not sure how well it’s going. Should
you continue the conversation? ask for her
number? or even ask her if she wants to come
The Right Frames
of mind
back to your place?
If you’ve ever let those questions prevent

you from closing the deal with a woman-
then this will be the most beneficial report
you’ve ever read.
Because you’re going to capitalize on every op-

portunity that arises for you from here on out.
And if you follow along with the ongoing

training lessons we’ll be sending via email…
LOTS of opportunities will be arising.
Those lessons will be coming from “Bobby

Rio” so when you see them, make sure you
open up and read them.
The Right Frames
of mind
How This Book

Will Help You
A girl almost always gives off subtle signs
about what she is thinking, but most guys
don’t know what these signs are.
In this report, we’re going to discuss the

various signals that girls give in depth.
You’ll learn to recognize them quickly so
that you can decide early on in a conversa-
tion if it’s time to escalate your flirting or
cut your losses and walk away.
When you’re texting with a girl (particularly

if you’re using the Key Lock Sequence) you’ll
know exactly when to pull the trigger and
ask her to meet up.
We’ll be discussing plenty of different types

of signs and behavior in the guide, so you
will not have to worry about missing one
The Right Frames
of mind
subtle gesture. Once you know what to look

for, it’s easy to read what a girl is thinking
about you.
Learning these all-important signals will

not only help you with girls you have just
met, but also with girls that you have been
dating or with whom you already have
some sort of relationship with.
Maybe you have a girl’s phone number or

you have hung out with her casually on
a few occasions, and now you’re wonder-
ing: what’s the next step? Keep reading
and you’ll see that learning the signals can
make your decision very easy.
Or maybe you’re in the friend zone with a girl,

and you want to try to figure out if or when
you should make your move. This guide will
make sure you strike while the iron is hot.
The Right Frames
of mind
There’is more to the
equation than learing
the signs
Reading a girl’s initial interest level is actu-
ally only part of the equation.
There is another important tool to have: the

correct mindset.
It will be much easier to approach girls and

use your signal-sensing skills if you are in
the right frame of mind. It will be much
easier to go for the kiss, invite her back
to your place, or make her your girlfriend
(if you’re following The Scrambler) if your
Mindset is SOLID.
We’ll share what thoughts you need to focus

on when you are with a girl.
Of course, part of what you are going to learn

in this book will be related to the signals a
The Right Frames
of mind
girl gives off when she is not interested in

you. Once you see these negative signs, it
can be difficult to move on, especially if you
feel that you have some sort of emotion-
al connection. I’ll share some pointers that
will help you maintain the mindset that
will allow you to walk away when you know
its time to cut your losses.
Having the correct frame of mind before

you even start talking to a woman is very
important. So important, in fact, that we
need to discuss it first before moving on to
learn to read a woman’s level of interest.
So lets discuss what needs to be on your

mind when you are approaching a woman
and when you are trying to figure out her
level of interest.
always assume
intesrest
I
t is a fact of life: women aren’t interest-
ed in guys who are overly insecure.
If you are lacking self-confidence, a
woman will probably be able to tell, and
you’ll be at a disadvantage before you even
start the conversation.
You can avoid giving off the wrong vibe by

convincing yourself that the woman who
you are approaching is already interested.
This will put the odds in your favor every
The Right Frames
of mind
time you start a conversation with a girl.
This mindset can be especially effective

when talking to women who have not yet
decided if they like you. Women find con-
fidence attractive and so a confident vibe
could be the difference between going
home with a girl and going back to your
place alone to wonder what went wrong.
The same rule applies for a girl who you al-

ready know or have already started dating...
Many guys, after they start dating a girl for

a while, will start analyzing every conversa-
tion and may start feeling insecure about
their future prospects.
Often, this is a case of simply over-thinking

things. However, if your insecurity starts to
show, it may chase the girl away, especially
The Right Frames
of mind
if she was initially drawn to you because of

your confidence.
So, even after you have scored those first

dates, continue assuming that the girl is at-
tracted to you.
Always, always work from a place of con-

fidence until you see signals that tell you
otherwise.
Trust Your
instincts
I
’ve found that most of the time, people
are generally able to intuitively read a
situation. Unless they are completely
delusional or have worked themselves into
a state of paranoia, they can usually sense a
vibe quite well.
If you are talking to a girl and you feel a

strong connection or a certain sense of ro-
mance, chances are she feels the same
thing. If you’re dating a girl and you feel like
The Right Frames
of mind
everything’s really going good–that she re-

ally likes you–chances are it’s true.
Of course, this can work the other way as

well. If you are not connecting or feeling
some sort of chemistry with a girl, chances
are she doesn’t either, and it’s better to cut
and run than to try and force the conversa-
tion. If you’re dating a girl and you feel that
she’s blowing you off or she’s just a tease
and she doesn’t really want to be with you,
chances are you’re right.
It can be difficult to trust your instincts,

especially when they are telling you some-
thing that you don’t want to hear. But it is
almost always the best policy.
That being said, double check your “instincts”

against the signs we’re going to present to
you in this guide...
look at your situation
from an outsiders’
Perspective
A
nother way you can get past your
hopes and get to the truth of a sit-
uation is to look at yourself from an
outsider’s perspective.
If you were looking at yourself, what would

you say? What would you say if you saw a
good friend doing what you are doing now?
It could be positive: “Hey she’s into you.” Or
it could be the opposite: “She’s not worth it,
The Right Frames
of mind
come on! It’s time to move on.”
A lot of times, when we take ourselves and

our emotions and insecurities out of the
equation and pretend we are looking at
someone else, it all becomes very clear.
It’s natural to make excuses about why

you don’t want to give up, especially if you
like a girl a lot. She might continuously
blow you off and make excuses about why
she can’t hang out with you. You could tell
yourself all sorts of things to convince your-
self that you’re still in the game.
However, if you saw someone else in your

situation, you’d simply say, “Sorry dude, it
really looks like she’s not into you.”
The same idea can be applied to first meet-

ing with a girl in a nightlife setting. Look at
The Right Frames
of mind
her from an outsider’s perspective. What is

her body language? What is she doing and
saying?
You might have even already done this in

a bar, maybe even subconsciously. You’ll
glance at a girl and guy and know almost
immediately what his prospects are just by
watching her body language and the way
she is reacting to him.
So take a second to step back and pretend

like you are watching yourself from some-
one else’s point of view. You will take your
ego out of the equation and get to the real-
ity of the situation very quickly.
never decide you really
like a girl before
sleeping with her
N
EVER.
We coach a lot of guys over the

phone and over email. Many want to talk
about a girl that they’ve met and that they
really, really, really like. They may have even
told her how they feel. Perhaps she didn’t
seem too excited to hear this, and now the
guy wants to know how to pursue her.
Here’s the thing: when you decide that you

really like a girl–maybe you’ll even think
The Right Frames
of mind
you’re in love with her–but you haven’t

slept with her yet, you’ve already lost.
The game’s over!
Chances are you’re not going to get her.

You’re not in the right frame of mind, be-
cause you’re already too emotionally in-
vested. You’re not going to make good deci-
sions. You’re going to be thinking with your
emotions rather than using the type of cool
logic that is necessary to get the girl.
This is one of the main reasons we have

guys follow a very specific plan laid out in
The Scrambler.
What you want to do is make a commit-

ment to yourself that you’re not going to
let yourself get wrapped up in any girl un-
til after you’ve slept with her.
The Right Frames
of mind
After that, you can let down your guard a

little, but you’ve still got to play it cool.
This can be hard for some guys to do, espe-

cially when they are romantics and are prone
to getting obsessed with one girl.
But you’ve got to keep a cool mindset. Just

remember, very, very few guys get a girl that
they become obsessed with.
The goal is to get HER obsessed with YOU.
And you can’t do that if you’re already ob-

sessed with her.
never chase
a loss
W
hen it comes to women, a lot
of us let our egos get involved.
When a girl starts slipping
away, guys want to recapture that “high”
that they felt when they knew that a girl
was really into them (or at least when they
thought that she was really into them).
In gambling, the terminology for pursuing

something that does not have a positive
expected return is called “chasing the loss”.
The gambler keeps pursuing the “winning
The Right Frames
of mind
high” even though it’s obvious that the odds

are less and less in his favor.
The same idea can be applied to dating. A

lot of guys chase a woman after they have
obviously lost her. They can chase her for
months or even longer. They are not real-
ly trying to get her back; they are trying to
recapture that feeling that they had when
they knew she liked them.
When they are chasing a loss, guys are usu-

ally oblivious to the fact that their social
life is in shambles. They haven’t met any
other girls. They focused all their energy on
a pursuit that isn’t going to have a happy
ending.
So the rule is: never chase, instead erase.
Erase her from your mind and move on.
The Right Frames
of mind
C
hasing the loss is a
human instinct. We
chase that which
retreats from us. It is a BIG
component of The Scrambler.
For now, just realize that you can actual-
ly use this as a weapon for your benefit.
When you sense a girl is slipping away. PULL
BACK. And get her chasing the loss. This
article explains the benefit of that move.
During that “window” you have an opportunity

to ask her out, go for the kiss, and take her home.
But when that window closes, you have to start
from scratch again building up the attraction.
Now that we have the right mindset, we can

move on to learn the signs that can tell you
that a girl is into you. These signs will be
evident regardless of the setting.
The Right Frames
of mind
If you are talking to a girl in a club or bar,

you should be looking for the same signs as
you would if you were talking to a girl in a
coffee shop, in a classroom or even just on
the sidewalk.
These are the signs that you will see if a

girl is into you. These signs might not mean
that a girl wants to jump into bed with you
or that she even wants to date you, but they
are signs that you should continue the con-
versation because, chances are, something
good is going to happen...
PART 2
signs a girl wants you
to approach her
D
o you know the easiest way to get
good at approaching women?
You learn to spot the ones that are sending

you the signals that they want you to ap-
proach them.
Yes, whether you realize it or not, every day,

every time you go out, there are women who
are trying their damndest to get your atten-
tion and to get you to approach them.
signs a girl wants You
to approach her
I’ve talked in depth about this with a lot of

extremely hot girls.
And girls will tell me how the most frus-

trating thing in the world for them is when
they hear a guy say, “Oh you’re a girl you can
get laid anytime you want…”
And the girl is like, “Sure, if I put a sign

up that said I’m looking to go home with
someone…”
But short of that, these women go out all

the time… sometimes they’re looking for
some male affection, sometimes its that
time of the month and they’re just freaken
horny, sometimes they’ve just been dumped
and their looking for a revenge lay…
Yes, they send all the signals and guys just

don’t pickup what they’re putting down. I
to approach her
think you’ll agree, that there is no easier girl
to approach then one that is actively trying to
get your attention and hinting
that she wants to talk to you.
G
uys that appear to
be extraordinari-
ly good with girls
usually have amazing “filter
mechanism” that allows him
to zone in on the girl where his odds are
extremely good. Mastering the skill of spot-
ting the “easy scores” will GREATLY increase
your success in bars and club environments.
to approach her
She makes her way over towards
you, and for no reason stands
in your general area.
Here’s what I mean. If you’re at a large
un-crowded bar and you and your friend
are talking in one corner. And you no-
tice two girls on the other side of the bar.
And then, twenty minutes later, for ap-
parently no reason, they are now on your
side of the bar. There is a reason for that.
she’is with a group and she

“accidentally” separates
herself from the group.
Or she might just keep find-
i n g exc u s e s t o w a l k p a s t y o u . . .
If she’is already close to you,
she opens her body language
to be more inviting so you see
she’is available to approach.
In that case you’ll notice that she tries
to make herself appear available. She
won’t be playing with her phone or doing
anything that signals, “leave me alone”.
to approach her
Or maybe you've had a girl
accidentally bump into you.
Did you take advantage of it? Or did you

just let her apologize and keep walk-
ing? (If so you missed an opportunity!)
One of the most obvious things a
woman will do when she wants
to talk to you is eavesdrop
on your conversation.
She’ll noticeably laugh at one of your
jokes she’s overheard, or even throw her
own opinion in to try to get your attention.
Maybe she’ll even drop some’
thing near you hoping that
you’ll pick it up.
If she can’t think of anything to say, a lot
of times she’ll do something physical to
get your attention. Another form of this
is asking you for help with something.
women aren’t stupid; they know
you need an opener so they'll try
their damndest to give you one.
If she’s reading a book or looking at
to approach her
something she’ll try to let you see so that

you can ask her about it. If she’s look-
ing at something or someone she’ll talk
out loud to herself so that you real-
ize she wants you to comment on it, too.
She’s handing you an opener on

a silver platter.
Now those are the obvious ones…
Of course there are some girls who are

subtler and with those girls, you’ll have
to pay closer attention to body language.
If she catches you looking, she

might push her hair out of the
way so you can see her face
better
Or she adjusts her clothes after look-
ing at you. She is primming her-
self to appear more attractive for you.
to approach her
She’will exaggerate her

moves or act a little ODD.
If she catches you looking at her,

and she’s interested, she’ll try to ap-
pear like she’s having a good time.
She’ll exaggerate her laughing, she’ll

dance in place, and she’ll be do-
ing something to keep your attention.
She’s trying to make her-

self seem like a “cool girl.”
The fact is: the signs are there.
But how about once you start talking to

her...
PART 3
signs a girl you just met
i s i nto yo u
N
oticing signs that girl is interest-
ed in you is helpful for a number of
reasons. For example, if you’re like
most guys, you probably won’t try to move
an interaction forward by asking a girl out,
going for a kiss, or inviting her back to your
place, unless you’re at least relatively sure
she’s into you and going to accept…
If that’s something you’re currently doing

then it might surprise you that Rob and I
feel that is one of the LEAST practical appli-
signs a girl you just
met is into you
cations of recognizing the signs of an interest-
ed girl.
Don’t think just because she’s giving you pos-

itive signs that she’s necessarily giving you
permission. Doing so often leads to a bad call
either way: you might wait too long for a sign
before escalating and miss the window of op-
portunity OR you might believe a date or a kiss
is “in the bag” because you noticed a sign and
then feel crushed if she doesn’t immediately
comply with your advance.
IMPORTANT: A girl accepting or reject-

ing your advances is often not a result of how
attracted she is to you. Girls will often “reject”
guys at first for a number of reasons: she’s not
comfortable yet, she doesn’t want you to think
she’s “easy,” she’s testing you to see how you’ll
react under pressure, etc. You should never
gauge where you stand with a girl solely on
how she reacted to you making a move.
met is into you
You’ll get much more out of this section if you
interpret these signs like markers on a roadmap.
For example, if a girl is displaying several signs
that she’s into you, then it might want to focus
more on getting to know and getting her to feel
comfortable rather than tease her and flirt.
While flirting and teasing are the key ingredi-

ents in beginning an interaction, ONLY teasing
and flirting very rarely leads to quality interac-
tions. Women not only crave the stimulation of
laughter, excitement, and sexual tension, they
also want to feel comfortable, a sense of con-
nection as well as appreciation.
Noticing the signs in this section clearly

means you’re headed in the right direction.
But like any significant journey, rarely do you
get from point A to point B in a straight line.
You may need to gradually turn and move in a
slightly different direction to steer things clos-
er to where you want them to go. This section
will help you recognize when to do just that.
met is into you
She laughs at your jokes,

even the unfunny ones.
Laughing isn’t necessarily something peo-

ple do when they find something funny.
It can also be a sign of approval.
This can be seen in many speeches: The

speaker makes some bad joke and the au-
dience laughs. It’s not because the joke
was funny; it’s the audience’s way of say-
ing “Yeah, we like you; we’re enjoying this.”
When a girl laughs at your jokes, it is

the same phenomenon. Her chuckle
is a way of saying, “Hey, I like you. Keep
talking.” When she’s laughing at your
jokes, she’s trying to tell you she gets
you and that she enjoys your company.
met is into you
She asks you if you have

a girlfriend.
This can be a tough one to catch, be-

cause a lot of times girls will try to find
this out indirectly. Maybe you say that
you went to a concert or movie, and she’ll
ask, “Oh, whom did you go with?”
Or if you say you have a roommate,

or if you talk about your apartment,
she’ll ask you whom you live with.
If you notice any of these types of
questions, she’s probably interest-
ed in knowing if you have a girlfriend.
Of course, some girls will just ask di-

rectly, in which case you don’t need
to try and pick up the subtler cues.
When a girl asks this question, it
means that she is sizing you up and
measuring your relationship potential.
met is into you
She calls you a player, a

jerk, or an asshole.
It might seem counter-intuitive, but if a

woman makes this type of statement in a
playful way, it’s usually a very positive sign.
This kind of teasing is a form of flirting.

Calling you a player is her way of test-
ing you. She wants to see what you’re
going to say. If a guy is insecure or isn’t
scoring points with his flirtatious re-
marks, she isn’t going to call him a player.
She’s calling you a player because she finds

herself attracted to you and she wants to
know if you are really a player
or if you are genuinelyinto her.
W
hen a girl
calls you a
player NEVER
go on the defensive. Jokingly
met is into you
play into the assumption. In fact, NEVER defend
yourself to a girl period. It signals to her that
you care too much and are trying to hard. Rob
and I have a saying “the person who tries harder,
holds less power.” And when she’s holding the
power, its impossible for her sleep with you.
She takes a sip of

your drink.
You’ll be at party, a bar, or some sort of so-

cial situation where drinking is involved,
and a girl will ask to take a sip of your
drink. Or she’ll simply take a sip without
asking when you put your drink down.
This is a very strong indication that she feels

comfortable—comfortable enough to put
her mouth where your mouth has just been.
This type signal can also take oth-

er forms. She might offer you her drink.
met is into you
Or perhaps offer you something that she

is eating. She’s showing you that she
has a high level of comfort with you.
A girl might lean into you
or get your attention by
touching your hand or
arm lightly.
These are all signs of intimacy and
are a sure signal that it is time to start
escalating your pursuit of the girl.
Beware: If you have TOO

MUCH comfort with a girl it could be
a sign you’re in the friend zone!
She is displaying “nervous

energy.”
When a girl is too comfortable around

a guy its NOT a good sign. You should no-
tice that she’s exhibiting some nervous-
ness around you. If there is no nervousness,
met is into you
then there is likely no attraction. A lot of

times with girls that nervousness will man-
ifest itself in rambling. Or appearing “di-
sheveled” in the way she’s communicating.
She actively tries to keep

the conversation going.
When your conversation hits an inevita-

ble lull, she’s the one keeping it going.
She might ask you questions or make re-
marks. This is because she doesn’t want
you to leave. If she asks, directly or indi-
rectly, personal questions, that’s an even
stronger indication of serious interest.
Or She Asks Questions. Women are often

very reserved when it comes to making the
first move or approaching a guy in general.
If she does this, she might be very out-

going or she’s just REALLY into you.
met is into you
She might start by saying something

like...“I think I know you from some-
where” just to initially open a conversation.
She will also want to know more about

who you are. So pay attention to how
engaged she is in the conversation.
If she asks you open-ended questions that

make you give a detailed response versus a
yes or no response, it’s a pretty good sign she is
trying to prolong the convo and
hoping to get more out of you!
D
on’t feel like you
have to always be
the one to fill the si-
lences in a conversation. Too
many guys feel the need to im-
mediately break the tension of silence. In a
seduction tension is your friend. Be the one
met is into you
who is more comfortable with the tension.
Make her do some work. Remember,
the more she’s investing and working
to keep you interested, the more pow-
er you hold. And the more power you hold,
the more attraction she feels toward you.
She teases you.
As mentioned,if she calls you a jerkor a player,

it’s a good sign. ANY type of teasing is a good
because it’s something people do with peo-
ple that they like and are comfortable with.
In the context of a male-female conversa-

tion, teasing is usually a form of flirting.
She may give you a nickname or just tease
you about something you said or did. It’s
her way of saying, “Hey, I get you, we have
a connection, I feel like I can tease you.”
met is into you
She introduces you to

her friends.
This can also be a bad sign if she in-

troduces you and then moves into the
background (that means she wants to
get rid of you or trying to pawn you off
on one of her less attractive friends).
However, if she introduces you and then

continues communicating with you,
it is a very positive sign because she
wants to show you off and/or get her
friends’ opinion of you later because she
likes you. Either way, it’s a positive sign.
She lets her friends leave
to continue talking to
you.
The opposite type of situation could also
be a good sign. I’ve slept with several girls
very quickly and this was always the biggest
indication. Perhaps the girl’s friends would
be leaving, and she’d say, “I’m going to stay.”
met is into you
If a girl is staying with you in such a situ-
ation, you know there’s a very good pos-
sibility that she is going home with
you right away. She can easily ask for
your number and leave with her friends.
If she stays, she’s in the mood for some-

thing more. DO NOT MESS THIS UP. (Re-
member earlier we talked about “window
of opportunity”… this is a MAJOR ONE!)
This usually happens in a bar or club,

but it could also happen elsewhere, too.
She follows you to

another location.
Perhaps it’s a party and there are mul-

tiple rooms and her friends go into
a different room while she stays be-
hind with you. Or maybe you tell her
you’re going to go outside for some
fresh air, and she comes along with you.
met is into you
In this specific situation, her staying or fol-

lowing you might not mean that she is ready
to sleep with you (she can still leave with her
friends later), but it is definitely a positive sign
and a signal that it’s time to escalate the con-
versation to more intimate subjects and heavi-
er flirtso you can help her, being extra “girlie”.
Her voice will

change.
When a girl is at the point in a con-

versation where she wants you to
kiss her, she’ll begin to talk slower,
more feminine, and more seductive.
She Accentuates
Her Femininity.
This is a BIG ONE. The more feminine she

portrays herself around you, the more
chemistry she is feeling towards you.
An example of this is pretending to not
know anything about sports, acting weak,
met is into you
so you can help her, being extra “girlie”.
HINT: When a girl is acting extremely fem-

inine around you, reward her for it. Show her
you notice it. And accentuate your masculinity.
Here is an example...
A lot times if the topic of sports comes up

the woman will exaggerate her lack of
knowledge about the topic. This is an ac-
tive display of her femininity. Maybe she’ll
pretend to confuse football with baseball.
And when a football player scores a touch
down she’ll ask, “Did he hit a homerun?”
She is TRYING to be cute and feminine for

you. Appreciate it. Give her a smile. Act like
you genuinely find it adorable. And then ex-
plain that was a touchdown... and that a home
run is in baseball. But make her feel like her
met is into you
gesture worked. Like she is seducing YOU.
That is one of the biggest

KEYS you need to understand.
Validation works when she believes that

she is seducing YOU. This is a major com-
ponent we discuss in Unlock Her Legs.
She will try to validate

herself to you.
This is one of those things you learn to

pick up on. You’ll notice that she con-
tinues to slip things into the con-
versation that makes her look good.
Or she’ll steer the conversa-

tion towards things that make her
seem fun, cool, interesting, sexy.
She’s trying to show you,

“Hey, I’m a cool girl.” Pick me.
met is into you
bonus signs
BONUS #1: Too much exagerrated
disinterest.
If a girl is too actively acting disinterested

making comments like, “In your dreams” or,
“You wish”… she is more likely flirting with
you and baiting you to pursue her more.
If she looks away first.
BONUS #2: Or looks away, then
look back.
If a girl can’t hold strong eye contact it could
be mean that she feels too much tension.
Signs She Wants

to Be Kissed
Although we NEVER recommend waiting
for a girl to display signs before going
for the kiss, it is CRUCIAL you recognize
them. If she puts herself out there, pro-
viding the signs but you don’t act, the
window of opportunity will quickly close.
met is into you
She holds your hand
or touches you in a
prolonged way.
If a girl is at the point where she

knows she is going to kiss you, she’ll
do things to let you know it’s TIME.
One of the things she’ll often do is

make an excuse to hold your hand. May-
be she’ll take you by the hand to guide
you through the room. Or if you’re sitting
next to her, she’ll place her hand graz-
ing against your leg and leave it there.
She’will
linger.
This is a clue that becomes obvious towards

the end of the night or the end of a date. If a
girl has decided that she wants to kiss you
she will linger and give you time to make
your move. If you’re saying goodbye she’ll
make sure not to leave too quickly. As the
met is into you
date is ending, she’ll find an excuse to linger
around the parking lot. If you’re dropping her
off, she won’t get out of the car right away.
She’ll sit there waiting for you to make a move.
½ Press herself
harder into you
when you hug.
Don’t be fooled by their warm, mushy repu-
tations: hugs can be very revealing. But be
careful: a lot of guys screw this up because
they don’t know how to give a hug without
being creepy about it. One thing I like to
do is rock back and forth as you’re hugging.
This alleviates the creepiness while giving

her a chance to decide whether she wants
the hug to continue. If you feel her trying
to peel away as you hug and rock her, not
good. But if she seems to get a small burst
of energy and/or hugs you tighter and/
or rocks with you, it’s a great (yet subtle)
sign that, not only she likes you, but also
that she’s comfortable with your touch.
PART 4
signs a girl you just met
is NOT into you
W
ant to know a secret that any
guy who is successful with
women understands: time is
more important than pride.
In other words, guys who are great with

women would rather a girl tell them she’s
not interested in the first 10 seconds rather
than have a long, drawn-out conversation,
only to have the girl “politely” tell him she
needs to go to the bathroom…
met is NOT into you
…or needs to get back to her friends…
…or offers a phone number, knowing full-well

that she’s never going to meet up. (Most of the
time, she has no intention of even respond-
ing.)
If you’ve ever heard a girl say (usually awk-

wardly), “Well, it was really nice meeting you,”
often accompanied by a pat on the shoulder or
back (the “pity pat”), then you know how frus-
trating and painful this can be.
Bad enough you were wrong about a girl you

thought might be a future romantic or sexual
prospect; you also wasted your time, energy,
and emotions pursuing her.
For guys who are trying to meet girls in night-

clubs or bars, this can sabotage an entire
night. While a guy is locked in a “friendly” in-
teraction he’s missing countless opportunities
with other girls...
met is NOT into you
Therefore, recognizing when a girl you’ve just
met is not into you is crucial for becoming
better with women.
Lots of girls will entertain a conversation with

you for a number of reasons: maybe she’s just
being well mannered, maybe she feels bad for
you, maybe she thinks you’re entertaining (but
not attractive)…
Whatever her reason, it’s your responsibility

to be honest with yourself, admit you’re not
getting anywhere, and move on. Doing so will
save you time, which is so much more import-
ant than saving face.
Sure, your pride may sting a bit if you walk

away without a phone number, or if you fail to
“impress” your friends or wingman with how
long you can keep a conversation going, and
you may even sometimes cause her to rudely
reject you.
met is NOT into you
In the long run, however, it’s only going to
help you. You’re setting yourself up to meet
more girls—ones you actually have a legiti-
mate chance with!
So the next you find yourself talking with a

girl you just met, not only should you have an
eye peeled for the signs in this section, you
also have to remember not to let your pride
get in the way of your dating life.
If a girl is displaying one or more of the signs

in this section, you don’t necessarily have to
cut and run right away (in fact, we recommend
you don’t). However, you should adjust what
you’re doing. If she continues to give off signs
she’s not interested, you need to make the
call: is this worth your time, attention, energy,
emotion, and (sometimes) money?
It’s always your decision…but learning and

looking for the signs ensures you make much
better informed decision.
met is NOT into you
She complains
that she's tired.
When a girl is in to you, she’ll have enough

energyto continue a conversation no matter
what time it is. You probably know this feel-
ing: when you are into someone and you are
with them, you seem to have unlimited en-
ergy. Time isn’t even a part of the equation.
Perhaps, a girl doesn’t
vocalize her tiredness,
but she keeps yawning...
This is major cue that she is not interest-

ed. She is bored, and it’s time for you to
move on. Girls will fake enjoyment if they’re
into you. She’ll hide the fact she’s tired.
She never asks you

your name.
Exchanging names might not be the

first part of your conversation, but if
you’ve been talking for a while and
met is NOT into you
it doesn’t come up you might want to
start questioning her level of interest.
It’s even worse if you
ask her name and she
doesn’t reciprocate
by asking yours.
This means that most likely she doesn’t
want the conversation to get personal and
that you’d be better off wrapping things
up and moving on to somewhere else.
She quickly brings up
her boyfriend.
Sometimes a girl will bring up her boy-

friend later on in her conversation. Any-
time a significant other comes up, it is
not a good sign, but if she brings him
up after you’ve already been flirting and
talking, you may still have a chance.
However, if she quickly brings him up, it’s

because she’s trying to send you a non-sub-
tle hint that says, “Hey, I have a boyfriend” or,
met is NOT into you
“I want you to think I have a boyfriend so that

you leave me alone.” Obviously, when you get
this sign, it is time to move on.
W
hen you’re
out at a social
event, you’re be-
ing watched. So if a girl quickly
rejects you or gives you the boy-
friend excuse. Simply give her a
high five, and say, “I bet he’s an awesome guy”… and
then tell her you’ve got to get back to your friends.
The reason for this is that all of the girls watch-

ing will just assume you are friends with the girl
and will not realize you were just shot down.
She avoids
eye contact.
If you’re trying to talk to a girl and she’s
kind of looking away, it’s not a posi-
met is NOT into you
tive sign. You might recognize this same
type of gaze in people who are try-
ing to avoid a salesman at the mall.
Obviously if you are in the same category

as a salesman, it’s not good. She’s looking
for an opening so that she can leave. If she
avoids eye contact, it’s time to move on.
She has closed off

body language.
This is the subtlest cue I’m going to

mention. Many times, it is not obvious.
Perhaps you get the feeling that she
just doesn’t feel comfortable around
you. This means that she probably isn’t.
That doesn’t mean you can’t break through

with a little more effort. Some girls just
might be nervous or shy. But if you see
this signal, you might want to start look-
ing for other signs that she is not into you.
met is NOT into you
She gives you short,
one-word answers.
If she’s giving you short, one-word an-

swers, that’s the complete opposite of
trying to keep a conversation going.
Brief answers usually mean she’s think-

ing: “I want this to end so I’m making it
as difficult as I can for you to continue.”
The shorter the answers, the quick-

er you should be looking for a chance
to exit gracefully so that you can try
to find flirtation somewhere else.
Signs She's a
"cock-tease"
She cuts off at the
high points.
Some girls love attention, but have
no interest in going any further than
that. These girls will almost always cut
met is NOT into you
off once the sexual tension mounts.
She is too high
energy.
The girls who are the loudest, highest

energy girls are rarely the ones who are
interested in you. They usually just want
your attention to boost their own ego.
She’s too comfortable
touching you too soon.
While later in the night a girl touching

you is a great sign. If she’s too comfort-
able right off the bat touching you it usu-
ally means she views you as “non threat-
ening” and has no sexual interest in you.
IMPORTANT: Remember earlier

we said attraction isn’t black or white. And
part of getting good with girls is what we
call “getting comfortable in the grey area.”
This means you are comfortable with
met is NOT into you
the fact that she might not be attract-
ed to you YET… and you have the atti-
tude that if I just show her a bit more
of my personality she’ll come around.
Rob and I have been teaching dating ad-

vice for over 8 years. We have seen first
hand that when a guy implements the
right attraction building techniques
he can “move the needle” very easily.
However, you still MUST be aware of the

signs.
As you get better with girls, and become

more comfortable in the grey zone, you be-
gin to use these signs as feedback on what
you need to do to adjust your game, rath-
er than signs that you should walk away.
WAYS
to actively
FIND OUT if
a girl is
into you
I
f you aren’t getting any readable
signs from a girl, you can do some things to
try and evoke a readable response from her.
Go in for
a kiss.
This is an obvious one, but it can actual-

ly be subtler than it seems. You can give
a kind of light peck on the cheek or on
the lips and just see how she responds.
A lot of guys might not have the balls to

do this during a first conversation, but,
if you’re not sure where you stand, it is
the most straightforward way to find out.
6 ways to actively find
out if a girl is into you
When you go for the kiss, you’ll know.
But be aware: even if she turns away or
puts up a hand, it might NOT be a bad sign.
If she kind of turns her
cheek but keeps talking
and flirting with you,
you're still all right.
If she turns away and gives you a clear indi-
cation: “Hey, you got that totally wrong idea,
I was just being nice to you,” then you’ve
got a clear cut answer as well. If you don’t
want to wonder where you
stand, a kiss is the way to go.
T
here have been quite
a few times now that
girls have rejected sev-
eral of my attempts before finally
allowing the interaction to move
forward. Hell, I can think of one
time the girl slapped me twice (playfully) before
I wound up sleeping with her later that night...
Even if she denies you again…as long as
she still seems to be enjoying the interac-
tion you can go for it again later in the night.
Many times, even when a woman wants to kiss

you, she has a clock in her head that determines
when she’ll kiss you. And it isn’t until that clock
goes off that she will accept your advance.
In that case, just follow the two steps forward,

one step back method of physical escalation.
Another extremely effective way

to handle getting the cheek is to
call out the elephant in the room.
This means that right after she

gives you her cheek when you go
for the kiss…simply say out loud:
“She slipped me the cheek? Damn!”
Or say something else that humorously ac-

knowledges the fact she turned her cheek.
I have a friend who was just telling me a
story where a girl turned her cheek when
he went for the kiss, and he said (in a Sein-
feld-like- voice, almost doing self commentary),
“That was a little awkward… totally wasn’t
expecting her to give me the cheek.”
He said she quickly played along doing her

own commentary, “Yea… A little too fast…
maybe if he seduced me a little bit more…”
Two hours later he slept with her.
Make an offhand comment

like, “we should hang out
sometime.”
Make the comment and then see how she

responds. You may not even have an actual
plan for a date, but you can learn a lot from
her response. A quick, “Oh, yeah, definitely,”
is a very good sign. On the other hand, if
she kind of ignores it, or acts weird when
you say it, it means you probably haven’t
built enough attraction and you’ve got
to either continue building attraction or
you’ve got to cut your losses and move on.
Try the High

Five Test.
Sometimes, I like to stop a conversa-

tion and just say something like “Oh,
you’re cool” and then give a girl a high
five and grip her hand lightly. (Not in
a creepy, weird way, just very lightly.)
Then, I’ll see how long she lets her

hand stays there. If she lets her hand
linger in your hand, it means there’s
some chemistry that she is feeling.
If she pulls her hand back right away,

it means there’s not enough attrac-
tion there or she doesn’t feel com-
fortable enough with you yet.
Take Her Hand and Lead

Her Somewhere.
One thing you can do is lead her somewhere

by the hand. So if you’re at a bar or party.
Say, “Come with me” and take her hand and
lead her into another spot. You’ll notice
how she reacts to you holding her hand. If
she’s into you she’ll probably grip your hand
a bit. And when you get to the destination
she won’t pull away her hand right away.
Make a joke about your
wife and kids.
I sometimes do this: I’ll just say,

“I gotta get back to my wife and
kids” and then judge her reaction.
If you say something like this and a girl

really likes you, she’s going to say “WHAT!
What do you mean your wife and kids?”
Then you can say, “I’m just kidding.” She
has shown that she is into you and that
your comment caught her off guard. On
the other hand, if you say “I’ve got get
back to my wife and kids,” and you get
no reaction out of her, then it probably
wasn’t going as well as you thought it was.
Ask Personal
Questions.
This is something you can use on a date,

or when you go back to her place to see if
she’s wants to sleep with you. The more
personal question she’s willing to answer,
the more likely she is to sleep with you.
Rob’s personal favorite strategy is to ask her

about her first kiss. After she’s answered
that, the he’ll ask her ,“ When did you lose
your virginity?” He says that every single
girl who’s answered that question he’s gone
on to sleep with. If they won’t answer the
question, it means you have to work a little
bit more at creating attraction and comfort.
PART 5
signs a girl you've known
awhile is into you
S
ome guys have been dating a girl for a
little while and they don’t know what
her interest level is. This is actually
one of the most common questions that I have
gotten in my coaching career.
Or perhaps you are not even dating a girl, but

you have exchanged numbers or met on a dat-
ing site and you want to know if you should
pursue a romantic relationship with her.
Here are the most common signs that a girl

who you already know is into you...
signs a girl you've known
awhile is into you
She sends you random
text messages.
If she is sending you messages out of the

blue, it means she’s checking up on you and
doesn’t want you to forget about her. This is
her way of testing your level of interest. She
wouldn’t be concerned about your level of
interest if she weren’t interested herself.
She wants to introduce

you to her friends.
If one of her friends is having a par-

ty and she wants you to come and meet
all her friends, it means she sees some
sort of potential with you. She’s not go-
ing to introduce you to her friends if
she’s embarrassed by you or if she plans
to end things with you soon thereafter.
She makes future plans
with you.
If she regularly says things like, “Oh,
signs a girl you’ve known
awhile is into you
we’ve got to go here together” or
“we gotta do this,” it’s a good sign.
Even if it seems like an offhand comment

(as opposed to a definitive date plan), it
is still a good sign. It means she’s dream-
ing about the future and you are in it.
She wouldn’t be doing that if she were
trying to find a reason to get rid of you.
She instigates
intimacy.
If a girl starts kissing you and doing in-

timate things without taking a cue from
you, she has a high level of interest.
Of course, this could also be a sign that you

are not being intimate enough with her.,
which makes it a tough sign to interpret.
However, if she gives you cues that are not
overtly sexual (sitting close to you, hold-
ing your hand, kissing you on the cheek),
you can be pretty sure that she is into you.
awhile is into you
She always makes
herself available.
When a girl is into you, she makes herself

available no matter what. She will come
over at 2:00 in the morning when she gets
off work. She may even cancel plans she al-
ready had. She’ll rearrange her social sched-
ule so that she can hang out with you.
Pay attention: she might not directly say, “I

canceled my plans with my friends so that I
could hang out with you.” However,if she men-
tions some cancelled plans, she is giving you
an opening to say, “Come hang out with me.”
She gets a
second wind.
Earlier, I talked about when you’re first

seeing a girl and you’re really attracted
to her how attraction gives you large re-
serves of energy. If you’ve been dating for
a while and you see that kind of energy in
awhile is into you
girl, it is a good sign. It means she’s still
enjoying your company or she has gotten
to know you more and is even more at-
tracted than she was initially. If she wants
to stay out late and then still has energy
when she gets back to your place, things
are probably going very well for you.
She continues to fix
herself up when she
knows she's going to
be seeing you.
If every time she comes to hang out with
you, she looks really good, it is a sign that
she still has a high level of interest. It
means she cares what you think about her.
If she didn’t care, she would come over as
is. If you see make-up and fresh clothes,
and smell perfume, it’s a good indica-
tion that you are still winning the game.
She is paying more
attention to you than
others while at a social
event.
If you go to a party together or a club where
she knows lots of people and she’s stay-
awhile is into you
ing with you and talking with you and not
mingling with other people, it means she
is definitely into you. She might stop by
to say high to friends, but if she does this,
she’ll either come back quickly or else call
you over so that she can introduce you.
She Spends Time On You

Even When You’re Not
Around.
One thing that is SUPER important is
the fact that the attraction between
two people should grow even when
you’re not in each other’s company.
If anything, it should become even

stronger when the two of you aren’t to-
gether! A pretty good sign she’s into
you is when she knows you’re busy,
but she texts or calls you anyway.
She is communicating when you can’t re-

spond and that’s a HUGE indicator that she’s
got you on her mind. Whether she leaves
awhile is into you
a cute voicemail just to say hello or sends
a text letting you know she’s thinking of
you...you know for sure your girl is into you!
In fact, as we talk about in this

article, it is absolutely crucial that you’re
on her mind when she’s not around you.
She Stalks You on

Facebook.
These days, when a woman first meets

a guy, the QUICKEST and easiest way to
get to know him is by digging up dirt on
Facebook or any other social media net-
work. If she starts leaving you comments
on older photos or posts, you’ll know for
sure that she’s been stalking you a bit!
But don’t worry, it’s in a good way =)
She’s using your Facebook to find

out more about you without com-
ing on too strong or scaring you away.
awhile is into you
Just keep in mind that if she doesn’t
send you a friend request, she might
not actually be that interested.
She wants you to
herself.
A woman will DEFINITELY make it known

that you are hers if she’s really into you.
If you are at a bar and she sees you

talking to another girl, chances are
that if she’s into you, she will interrupt
the conversation faster than lightning.
She will do everything in her pow-

er to make sure every other girl in
the bar sees the two of you together.
And to make things a little more

known, she may even kiss your
cheek and be extra touchy just to
make sure YOU know she’s feeling it.
awhile is into you
Decoding Her Texts

The “Bluff”
Text.
Here is an innocent text you can send a

girl that will quickly reveal what she feels
about you. Simply send her: “TONIGHT?”
What she responds to that one word text re-

veals a lot. If she seems intrigued or press-
es you for more information she definite-
ly is into you. However, if she ignores that
text or doesn’t press for more info, then
she doesn’t have a strong desire to see you.
She adds “excitement”
emoticons to texts.
If a girl responds simply with “lol” or

“haha”… not good. But if she sends you
etiher one of those followed my a lenghty
response that’s a good sign. She’s trying to
show you she’s excited to hear from you.
awhile is into you
You may also notice texts like “Heyyyyyy”,
which is a lot better than, “Hey.”
Timing of her
texts.
If she is “erratic” with her responses it’s

ususally not a good sign. But if she re-
sponds right away or always waits five
minutes before respoding it’s a good sign.
Basically if she predictiably responds after

5 to 10 minutes every time she most likely is
trying to“play the game”and make you wait.
“I’m a fun girl
texts.
A girl who is into you is going to try to

send you texts that portray her as cool,
fun girl: “Going to the Yankees! Woohoo!”
When a girl is trying to impress you

over texts it’s a good sign. A girl
who isn’t interested in you will make
no effort to appear cool or fun.h
PART 6
awhile is not into you
O
f course, you have to keep an eye
out for bad signs as well. These are
the signs that she’s NOT into you.
Remember, you have to keep the right frame
of mind and accept the situation when
these signs start popping up.
If you’re seeing more than one of them, it is

probably time to take a step back and de-
cide if it is time to cut your losses and leave
or employ a new strategy (like the one laid
out in Unlock Her Legs.)
awhile is NOT into you
If you want to “re-spark” attraction we

recommend using a move called “The
Pull Back” Here is a short article explain-
ing the move: Article on “The
Pullback”
She says she’s not ready

for a relationship.
If a girl goes out of her way to stress that

she’s not looking for a relationship, it means
she’s not looking for a relationship with you.
Even the most independent girl wouldn’t

go out of her way to say that to a guy
that she had any interest in. If she likes
him, she is going to put herself in a po-
sition to be as close to him as possible.
If she mentions not wanting a boy-

friend, it is a non-subtle cue that
you are not in her future plans.
She never calls you and
avoids your calls.
I’ve dated girls who were really into

me, but never called. However, when
I called them, they answered on the
first ring and were always available to
hang out. They just had the idea that a
guy should always be the one to call.
However, this is not always the case. If a

girl never calls you but then when you
call her she doesn’t answer or she doesn’t
call you back right away, it’s a bad sign.
If you’re calling her and she’s unavail-

able to even talk to you on the phone, it
is definitely, definitely not a good sign. If
this happens more than once, you’ll have
to face the fact that she is not into you.
She texts you back one-
word answers.
If a girl always responds with short, one
word answers like “lol” or “ha” she is ac-
tively trying to get you to NOT text her.
When a girl wants you to continue tex-

ting her she’ll put effort in and try to en-
gage you with a question or something
to encourage you to continue texting.
She cancels plans and is
always busy.
Like I said, if a girl likes you, she will come

over your house at 2:00 a.m. after the bar or
party or when she gets off work (if she works
a late job) or she’ll stop by your house in the
middle of the day if she doesn’t have time
later on or even break plans with friends.
If she’s canceling plans with you routinely,

or if every time you ask her to hang out, she’s
“busy,”you should be hearing warning bells in
your head. Some girls are very busy, but, like
I said, if they truly like you, they’ll make time.
She avoids
intimacy.
If every time you try to hold her hand, kiss,
or touch her, she pulls away then...she is
not into you. Early on in a relationship,
there should be complete sexual attrac-
tion. The early days are when the fire is
burning the strongest and that’s when she
should be the most into intimate behavior.
If she turns away from even non-sexual con-

tact (putting your arm around her, touching
her hand, kissing not on the lips), you need
to seriously consider cutting your losses.
She avoids any sort of
public displays of
affection.
Maybe you’ve slept with her already,
but when you’re out in front of her
friends or other people, she avoids
any sort of public display of affection.
It’s probably because she doesn’t really see
a future with you and she doesn’t want
people to see you with her because she
doesn’t see you as boyfriend material.
She doesn’t want people to get the wrong
idea about what’s going on between you.
She’s sketchy
or secretive.
You might just get a gut feeling that

something is wrong, like she’s giving off
a sketchy vibe. For example, a girl I dated
on and off for a long time came over for
dinner one night and I got a very weird
vibe from her. She just wasn’t acting right.
She wound up leaving early, saying she was

going to study. But I just didn’t believe her.
Now, I’m not going to recommend the next

thing that I did,but I drove to her house to see
if her car was there. Sure enough, it wasn’t.
Then I called her phone. She didn’t answer.
Turns out that she was out with another guy.
The moral of the story is that my intuition

told me that something was wrong, and I
should have trusted my gut and cut my loss-
es. I’m not a super jealous guy. I’m the kind
of guy who very rarely suspects something.
But when I do, I’m usually right.
She tries to push you

off or suggests you’d
be good for one of her
friends.
If she’s actively telling you that you’d
be good for this girl, or trying to hook
you up with her friend, it’s because she’s
not into you. If she brings it up more
than once and you’re sure it’s not teas-
ing or testing you, you can be sure that
her level of interest has gone down.
Or perhaps you thought there were

some sort of chemistry, but the girl
only thought of you as a friend. Ei-
ther way, it’s not a good sign if she is
consistently trying to push you off.
Important: Early in a flirtatious conver-

sation a girl might suggest you are good
for her friend as a way of teasing you or
testing you. In that case, it’s a GOOD SIGN.
At social events, she’s
mingling and talking
to everybody else and
leaving you alone.
If you’ve been dating a girl for 2 years,
this type of behavior is, more or less,
normal. You’re both comfortable with
each other and know you’ll be see-
ing each other at the end of the night.
But early on in a relationship you
should be the center of her attention.
In a new romance, each person’s mind and

energy is completely on the other person.
If her attention isn’t on you at a social
event, it could mean that she is bored
and/or on the lookout for someone else.
She doesn’t send you a
Facebook friend request
or accept your request.
If you start seeing more than one of these signs,
it is time to start thinking about moving on.
At the same time, don’t get paranoid. If you

only see one of these signs, but everything
else seems to be going well, don’t panic.
Generally, if something is not go-

ing well with a girl, you’ll get multi-
ple signals, so it will be pretty obvious.
The ultimate test on a girl you’re dat-

ing to see is to use the “Pull Back”.
If you pull away, and there are “feelings”

there, she WILL chase you. Even if the feelings
have dwindled, her “fear of loss” will kick
in and she’ll want to prevent you from
slipping away until she’s more certain.
PART 7
reading her
“Sexual" Signals”
T
oo many guys blow opportunities to
sleep with a girl because they either
miss the signs she’s giving them, or
they don’t know how to throw the right “bait”
out there to see how sexual she is willing to
get.
In this section we’ll give you some “tests” to

use on girls to see how sexual she will allow
herself to become around you. (Which, by the
way, is a huge indictation of how much she
likes you and/or feels comfortable around you.)
Use double entrendes as
bait to see how “Dirty”
her mind is.
If a girl spills something on herself you

can say, “You’re wet already?” Some girls
will laugh a comment like this off, but
if a girl is in a sexual mood she will of-
ten press it further and
take it even more sexual.
M
astering the
art of “sexu-
al flirting” is
a key skill to learn. Wom-
en immediately recog-
nize a guy who understands this sub-
tle art of sexualized flirting and banter.
Her reaction to
sexual comments.
Now there is a RIGHT WAY to make a
sexual comment. And its best done us-
ing humor (see, Make Her Horny with
Humor). But how a girl reacts to a sex-
ual comment will tell you a lot about
how far she is willing to go that night.
For instance, you can say something

like, “You need to be spanked” if she’s
teasing you. Does she take the bait?
Or does she seem turned off by it?
Suggest
another venue.
If you’ve met a girl out at a bar or are

out on a date with her, often you can
gauge her willingness to go home with
you by simply suggesting another venue.
If she’s willing to leave where she’s

at and have a drink somewhere
else with you, chances are she’s
also willing to go home with you.
She brings up
something back
at your place.
If a girl mentions how she “has to meet
your dog” or “see the pictures from your
trip” or anything that requires her go-
ing back to your apartment, she’s giv-
ing you an opening to invite her.
A
n easy way to get a
girl back to your place
is to have something
there that you can use to invite
her back for. “I have this awesome
new cappucino maker… I guaran-
tee it will be the best cappucino you’ve ever had”
or ,“I have this trampoline in my apartment, it’s the
most fun you’ll ever have…” By making comments
about things back at your place you can see how
she responds. Often girls will use this as an ex-
cuse to invite themselves back to your place.
She says, “I’m not going
to sleep with you
tonight.”
Anytime a girl says something in the
negative like, “I’m not going to kiss you”
or “I’m not going to sleep with you”…
it almost always means she is going to.
Hair, Neck
Gaze.
A true time-tested way to judge if a girl

wants you to kiss her is to touch her hair
and then gaze at her neck. This will spike
the tension and, if she wants to be kissed,
she’ll tighten up but won’t fidget, which
allows you a chance to move in for the kiss.
Ask her this

innocent question.
“How good of a cuddler are you?” Most

girls understand that cuddling is code
for get naked in your bed. If she brags
about her cuddling skills she’s also tell-
ing you she’s open to get sexual with you.
“I can’t because it will

make me tired.”
Normally if a girl uses the “I’m tired ex-

cuse” it’s a bad sign. However, later in
the night if a girl refrains from hav-
ing another drink because “it will make
me tired” it’s a good indication that
she wants to keep the night going.
She presents you with an

obstacle that you can
overcome.
If you ask her to continue the night, and
she presents an excuse that can be over-
come that is a good sign. If she says some-
thing like, “How will my friend get home?”
or, “How will I get home?” it means she’s
open to continue the night with you, but
wants you to handle the logistics of it.
PART 8
signs you should be
sending to a girl
W
hile the majority of this guide
focuses on signs she’s send-
ing you, it would be incom-
plete if I didn’t acknowledge that she’s
also trying to decode YOUR signals.
Most guys don’t even give the signals they’re

giving off so much as a second-thought
and so that’s why so many guys end com-
ing across as needy, desperate losers—
sometimes even when they’re actually
pretty winners in all other aspects of life!
signs you should be
sending to a girl
Conversely, you probably know—or at
least heard stories of—guys who are ass-
holes, socially undesirable in almost every-
thing else they do, yet because they give
off the right signals to women, they’re al-
ways surrounded with attractive women.
In the past, you have felt frustrated that dat-

ing isn’t like a job interview where the best
candidate gets the girl. Since the window of
opportunity is only open briefly, she’s going
to decide whether or not she likes you based
on only a handful of signals she gets from you.
That’s why it’s so important to remain mind-

ful of the signals you’re giving off, espe-
cially at the start of the interaction. Ear-
ly on, a lot of what you do or say around
women has subtext, which is another way
of describing the signals you’re giving off.
For example, if you’re out at a bar, the reason

walking up and immediately offering to buy
signs you should be
sending to a girl
a woman a drink is ineffective and unattractive
is because the subtext of your offer conveys: “I
don’t believe in myself or the value I bring to this
interaction so I am trying to bribe you with a free
drink in hopes you will overlook my insecurities.”
As the interaction goes on, however,

the subtext of buying a drink changes...
If you’ve been talking to a woman for more

than 5 minutes and you’re flirting, offering her
a drink conveys an attractive subtext. If you ask
in a complimentary, cool way like, “Hey so I’m
enjoying talking to you. Allow me to be a gen-
tlemen and get us drinks by the bar.” Done like
that, the subtext becomes: “I don’t have a prob-
lem being generous with people I find cool and
I understand what it means to be a gentleman.”
Everything you do or say around women does not

need to be micro-analyzed. Doing so will drive
you crazy! Yet there are a few key signals you
want to make sure to convey, as soon as possible.
signs you should be
sending to a girl
You have a bulletproof

sense of yourself.
Almost immediately women will test to see

if you’re really the guy you’re presenting
yourself as. This is especially true if you’re
meeting a woman for the first time and you’re
coming off very confident or self-assured.
Often women will say something nega-

tive, challenging, or even insulting just
to see if you crumble. If a woman can
tell her comment caused a guy to be-
come upset, defensive, insecure, angry,
sad, or even just a tad less confident,
she’ll interrupt that signal as: this guy
has no confidence in who he is…he can’t
even handle a little criticism/negativity.
Just the other night, Rob was telling me how

he approached a girl at a nightclub in Ve-
gas and she started making fun of him for
wearing a suit when it was a casual dress
signs you should be
sending to a girl
code. She teased him, “Did your mom
make you wear this outfit? Mom’s still
picking out your clothes for you, huh?”
Rob’s response had to demonstrate he wasn’t

put off by the comment. Rob, like any guy
who understands how to pass these sorts of
tests, knew he had to stand by his decision
to wear a suit and her tease didn’t bother
him or make him second-guess his decision.
Most guys would assume that means

Rob’s response should have been some-
thing like, “Don’t pretend you’re not
loving it!” or, “Oh sorry, were you ex-
pecting me to dress like all the other
guys in an ill-fitting polo and khakis?”
While that may seem like the obvious way

to handle her test, unless delivered with
perfect vocal tonality, those responses
could convey defensiveness or discomfort…
signs you should be
sending to a girl
Instead, Rob agreed with her and then
made it into a joke: “Yeah, my mom TOTAL-
LY picked this out for me! She was like, ‘Oh
Robby you look so handsome in ya little
suit… you’re gonna meet a nice girl tonight,
I know it!’ I’ll be sure to tell her you no-
ticed!” By agreeing with her and making it
into a joke, the subtext Rob conveyed was
that he’s so secure in himself and his deci-
sions that he doesn’t mind joking about it.
She is going to have to
work for it, too.
Too often I’ve coached guys who were

head-over-heels with a girl just because
she looks good. When guys throw them-
selves at women, constantly praising and
complimenting her when she’s done noth-
ing (other than look good and give them
a little attention), it signals desperation.
It’s always good to get a girl to feel that

she’s working to win you over. One of the
signs you should be
sending to a girl
simplest ways to do this is to joke you’re
putting her on a “point system.” Then,
if she says something you don’t agree
with, you can say, “What? You like that
band? Oh man, minus two points for you!”
(Of course, if she does and says some-

thing cool, you can give her points, too.)
Even though it may sound minor, the

subtext it conveys is: I like you, but you
haven’t won me over yet. I’m not des-
perate so you need to show me more
of your personality before I decided if
you’re someone I want to be with. If you
give off this signal to her, she’s going to
respect you and your affection so much
more than your average chump who’s just
ready to hand it to her because she’s hot.
You can "read" her
and see who she
really is.
An amazing signal to convey is that you
see her on a deeper level than most guys.
signs you should be
sending to a girl
Sometimes you can accomplish this
within moments of meeting a girl if you
know what to look for and what to say.
You can do this is by “cold reads,” which are

assumptions about a girl based on her be-
havior. If, say, a girl was acting bossy, you
could cold read her: “You probably have a
little brother, right? I can tell because you’re
sweet to me one minute and a bullythe next.”
What’s great about cold reading is that

you only have to be partially correct to
get her thinking you “understand” her.
Even if a girl doesn’t have an older a
brother, if she agrees that’s her behav-
ior pattern, she’ll go along with the cold
read saying something like, “I don’t have
a little brother but I do have little cous-
ins! And I do act like that with them!”
Remember: People love talking

about themselves and are fascinated
signs you should be
sending to a girl
when someone they just met presumes they
know something personal about them.
(Why do you think psychics and horoscopes
are so popular!?) Use this to your advan-
tage to give off a signal you “understand”
her more than the last 20 guys she met.
Silence does not
scare you.
Like most of the signals in this section,

using silence to your advantage is count-
er-intuitive. Most guys fear silence as
they feel awkward and so do whatever
they can to keep the conversation going.
Guys will ask interview-style questions,

ask if she’s having a good time, and
say pretty much anything so long as it
keeps the interaction from going silent…
And what signal do you think that gives

off? Hopefully you realized that it com-
municates the guy is desperately try-
signs you should be
sending to a girl
ing to keep the conversation going be-
cause he’s afraid if it stops, and he loses
her attention, she’ll leave because he’s
not attractive enough to keep her there
without acting like a dancing monkey…
…which a signal so many guys

give off without even realizing it!
To show her you’re not uncomfort-

able with silence, let there be moments
where there’s a silent pauses and wait
until SHE jumps in and starts talking.
Rob and I call this “playing chicken” be-
cause often the person who speaks first
seems to be the one trying to impress/
hold the attention of the other person.
You "Get it"...

Figuratively
and literally.
The way men and women expect an interac-
tion to progress sexuallyis verydifferent.Most
guys—and especially guys who have limited
signs you should be
sending to a girl
sexual experience—think interactions prog-
ress like they do in movies: guy waits to make
the “big move” and the girl is all over him.
Maybe it’s asking her out in a grandiose

way, going for the picture-worthy first kiss,
or being so smooth that a girl is practi-
cally dragging him back home for sex.
When guys operate under this presump-

tion in reality, however, they signal to a
woman they’re clueless when it comes to
sex, which means they probably are not
very attractive to women. Outside of Holly-
wood, guys enjoy abundant sex lives know
that the road from meeting to sex for the
first time is riddled with speed bumps.
It’s important to note that what I call a “speed

bump” is what most guys consider to be “re-
jection.” I’ve already discussed how it doesn’t
matter if a girl turns her head when you lean
in for a kiss. Her “rejection” of your move isn’t
signs you should be
sending to a girl
the problem and, most likely, it has noth-
ing to do with you or her level of attraction.
What DOES matter is how to react. If you

get butthurt or show any sort of negative or
hurt emotion, you’re signaling that you’re
clueless about how a romantic interaction
escalates in the real world. Instead, make a
joke about it and move on (then try again
later, when she feels more comfortable).
A quick line you can keep at your fingertips

for the next time this happen (and if you’re
interacting with girls it WILL happen) is:
“Haha you’re right we should have a prop-
er courtship before I ask you out/go for a
kiss/invite you home with me/ect. I don’t
even know your favorite animal yet! What
is it by the way?” That’s a quick, fun way to
show her that hitting a speed bump is no
big deal, that you respect her, and that you
know how to keep things from becoming
awkward or weird. All great signals to send!
signs you should be
sending to a girl
Money < Fun
It’s really sad that a question Rob and I get

a lot from our students is this: “How can I
get a girl to pay for a round of drinks?” or,
“I don’t think I should have to pay for a
date. Is it okay to ask her to split the bill?”
While I understand where these guys are

coming from, the signal that conveys is
two-fold: they’re cheap and they’re “keep-
ing score” of everything that’s happening.
Maybe you’ve had this happen out with your

friends: you’re all having a great night out,
buying each other rounds of drinks. Later
in the night, one of your friends realizes he
paid for an extra round or the bill wasn’t
split perfectly even, and then asks to be re-
imbursed. It sort of sucks all the fun out of
the night and makes you realize: this guy
just sits around counting pennies rather
signs you should be
sending to a girl
than enjoying himself out with his friends.
Remember: if you’re on a date or out with

a girl, it’s not a business transaction! Even
if you have to pay a few extra bucks for a
round of drinks or even a dinner at a restau-
rant, who cares? Do you really want to ruin a
great vibe over getting some money back?
Its more important she sees that you’re fun

and not adding up every transaction like
you’re keeping a spreadsheet. That being
said, don’t overpay for super expensive din-
ners and gifts before you really know a girl.
A good rule I like to hold myself to is

keeping the tab under $100 before sex
and/or until I REALLY get to know a girl.
Your budget may be different, howev-

er one thing should remain the same:
don’t ruin a fun vibe over a little mon-
ey. In the long run the money won’t mat-
signs you should be
sending to a girl
ter, but whether or not you get the girl
could (e.g., this might be your next seri-
ous girlfriend or even your future wife!).
You’re not
trying too
hard.
If a girl sees a guy is trying too hard it’s
an instant turn-off. This is doubly true
when a guy brags or tells stories that
are thinly veiled attempts at impress-
ing her. Ironically, almost any time you
“logically” try to impress a woman, it
backfires and does the exact opposite.
Interesting,however,the reverse is true also.

Whenever a guy says or does things that in-
dicate he’s NOT trying too hard, he’s often
perceived as attractive.Agreat way to do this
is by being a bit self-depreciating or, as Rob
and I called it, showing “cool vulnerability.”
Both Rob and I have an entire reper-

toire of stories we tell girls that poke fun
at ourselves. While it’s not advised you
signs you should be
sending to a girl
make fun yourself continually, and espe-
cially don’t say anything that makes you
look pathetic, telling her a funny story
where something embarrassing or un-
expected happened to you will usual-
ly send her a lot of attractive signals.
And if you need help picking the right

story or telling it in a humorous way,
check out our Horny With Humor and/
or Seductive Storytelling courses!
She’s in
maybe-land
Sending women “mixed signals” is one of
the oldest dating tricks in the book (used
by both men and women). I like to say that
once a woman figures you out, she feels as if
she “has” you and you will never “have” her.
Put another way: if you know how a

movie’s going to end in the first 20 min-
utes, you’re probably going to get bored
quickly and walk out of the theatre.
signs you should be
sending to a girl
Therefore, even if you really feel a girl
is special and different, you should
still keep her on her toes a bit and
make her wonder just how much you
like her. (It’s the thrill of the chase!)
One of the simplest ways to do this is by oc-

casionally referring to her as “your friend.”
For example, when asking a girl out for
drinks, you might text her something like,
“Let’s meet up for happy hour… if we play
nice together, maybe we can be friends ;)”
When you meet up with her, you might then
compliment her on how great she looks.
Remember, mixed signals means flip-flop-

ping between hot AND cold. A lot of guys
only go hot, or only go cold (this is espe-
cially true of guys who study a lot of dating
advice or think of social interactions like
a chess match). Balance calling her your
“friend”with some sexualized compliments,
like telling that she looks sexy in her dress.
signs you should be
sending to a girl
There’s life
for you outside
of her.
Women want you to have a social life
outside of them. That’s what makes dat-
ing you fun: they’ll get to meet new
people, see new places, and enter
into your “world” when she’s with you.
If you world simply revolves around

her, why would she even need
you? (Spoiler alert: she won’t.)
This one is hard to fake so it’s best if you

ACTUALLY HAVE a life outside her. So get
some hobbies, especially ones that re-
quire you to socialize with other people.
Join a meet up group. Take a class. Do

something that gets you out of your house
and makes you a little more attractive
and/or interesting. (Oh, and playing Xbox
and watching movies does NOT count.)
signs you should be
sending to a girl
women are
constantly
in your life
While they may say they hate players,
most women secretly find men who are
attractive to other women alluring. It’s
simply biology—a theory called “pre-se-
lection”. It’s in a female’s DNA to de-
sire a male who she believes has al-
ready been “selected” by other females.
That being said, society—and especial-

ly feminine society—associates “players”
with a social stigma. Therefore, if you
“brag” about your previous conquests
or directly indicate to her that wom-
en find you attractive, even if she be-
lieves you, likely her guard will go up.
Abetterwaytodemonstratethatyou’repre-se-
lected is by dropping very subtle hints. The
“hints”togiveoffarethingsyou’dprobablyonly
know if you were in the company of women.
signs you should be
sending to a girl
A way to do this instantly is if you notice a
girl wearing heels with a red bottom, they
are most likely Christian Louboutin shoes.
When you say to her, “Shoes with the red
bottoms, look at Ms. Louboutin over here…”,
assuming she knows you’re straight, she’ll
probably ask, “How do you know that?”
Just smile and nod. Most women will
connect the dots that you probably had
an ex-girlfriend who wore those shoes.
(The reason I know this is because my

ex-girlfriend was obsessed with the
“shoes with the red bottoms” and, while
annoying to listen to her talk about it at
the time, gave me the perfect way to sig-
nal I’m pre-selected in a very subtle way.)
You are a
lover of
womankind.
Just as you probably think feminists are
annoying, women usually want to screen
out guys who are misogynists. There are
signs you should be
sending to a girl
lots of men who blame women for all
their problems and see women as noth-
ing more than a masturbation sock.
Hopefully you’re not one of these men.

Aside from the ethics, it’s also a really un-
attractive attitude. One whiff of such an
attitude will send most women running.
Therefore, you want to make sure she

picks up signals from you that you en-
joy the company of women. An easy—but
incredibly effective—way to do this is by
talking about female family members in
a positive way. Make it a habit to talk up
your mom, your sister, your nieces, grand-
ma, anyone you love who’s a female!
You are busy...
but still make
time for her.
If she thinks you’re too available, she’ll
think you’re either desperate or a loser—
and probably both! Therefore, you want to
signs you should be
sending to a girl
send her the signal that you have other
things going on in your life other than her.
However, you don’t want to do it in a rude

or try-hard sort of way. An easy way to do
this is, when making plans for an eve-
ning out together, say something like,
“I probably can’t stay out late because I
have an early call tomorrow but it’d be
cool to see you later for a bit.” A statement
like that indicates your world doesn’t re-
volve solely around her and her schedule.
Moreover, saying you can’t stay out late

will help put her at ease about your sex-
ual expectations, which might make her
less likely to flake. Of course, if the date
is going well, you can stay out as late
as you’d like. Just because you say you
couldn’t stay out late doesn’t mean you
signed a binding contract to go home early!
send her the signal that you have other
things going on in your life other than her.
signs you should be
sending to a girl
She Might be Hot
But You still Keep
It Real.
There’s nothing wrong with compliment-
ing a woman on her physical appear-
ance—hell, that’s probably what caught
your in the first place! Even if you don’t
come right out and tell a woman you think
she’s hot, most women are going to as-
sume that you wouldn’t be talking to her
if you didn’t already find her attractive.
Where a lot of guys go wrong with this is

that they hand over all their power to a wom-
an just because of how she looks. Once a
woman sees you’re bending over backwards
for her just because you think she’s hot, it
signals that you clearly are not comfort-
able around women of her physical caliber.
That’s why it’s very important you real-

ly know yourself and what like, what your
opinions are, and how you see the world,
signs you should be
sending to a girl
and hold to that no matter how a woman
feels—even if she’s drop dead gorgeous.
Even if she’s insanely hot, if she says some-
thing you disagree with, challenge her on it.
It may seem like you’re creating friction, but

in actuality you’re getting her to respect
you. If you can “keep it real” and assert your
views—even if it would be easier to just agree
and/or dilute how you really feel—you’ll
signal that, while you appreciate her looks,
that’s only a start. That sort of challenge is
exciting for most women and they’ll enjoy
your genuineness a lot more than the syco-
phants who worship her only for her looks.
½ Not walking on
eggshells
Have you ever “played it safe” with a woman?
For instance, have you ever thought of a good

joke or line, but stopped short of saying it
signs you should be
sending to a girl
because you were afraid it might “offend” her.
While you should use some discretion

in what you say around women (don’t
bring up poop, piss, farts, weird serial kill-
er shit, etc.), a lot of what you filter should
stop—especially if it’s just a little edgy.
When you make jokes or comments that

show you’re not walking on eggshells, most
women find it humorous and refreshing.
things
to keep in
mind as you
go forward
N
ow that we’ve gone over all
the signs and covered the correct
mindset, you should have a good
idea about how to read a woman’s interest
level.
Some of the ideas I’ve shared with you in this

book are very important and you need to de-
cide right now that you are going to do the
following three things...
foreplay first
Y
ou’re not going to have feelings for a girl—
you’re not going to convince yourself that
you’re in love with a girl—until you’ve at
least had heavyforeplaywith her.Preferablysex,but
if you’ve been doing everything but
sex with her, you still should be OK...
Y
ou’re also NOT go-
ing to display any “boy-
friend behavior” to her
until AFTER you’ve hooked up with
her. This article explains 8 common
behaviors to avoid in the beginning:
Click HERE to read the article
Know when to
cut your losses
M
ake a vow to yourself that you’re
going to cut your losses if things
don’t work out. You’re not going
to chase the loss. If a girl is giving you mul-
tiple negative signs, even if at one point she
seemed really into you, you need to move
on.
One thing that I tell guys all the time is that

a good-looking girl has a million guys in her
life. If all the sudden a girl that was really
3 things to keep
in mind
hot towards you goes cold, it’s probably be-

cause another guy came into the picture.
Usually that guy is a guy that was from her

past, maybe a guy she had really liked at
some point and now wants back in her life.
Maybe he’s an ex-boyfriend or a guy she had
a crush on. It is what it is.
Whenever a girl goes from calling you all

the time to suddenly not calling you, it’s
not because of something you did. It’s not be-
cause you pissed her off by saying some-
thing or not saying something. It’s because
another guy came into the picture. Sadly,
90% of the time I’ve been right about this.
I hate telling guys this. It’s one of the worst

things to hear. I feel terrible when I have to tell
a guy on a coaching call, “She’s probably with
somebody else.” But accepting that and moving
on is the best (and only) thing you can really do.
3 things to keep
in mind
Now, if you decide to pursue her, it is very

possible to get her. But it won’t happen by
doing what you’ve been doing. You’re going
to need a completely new strategy.
That new strategy requires a completely

new way of thinking. We teach the strategy
in our program Unlock Her Legs. If you are
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escalate It
O
n the other hand, when you’re
talking to a girl and you see some
of the positive signs I’ve mentioned
in this book, you’ve got to promise yourself
that you are going to really step up your
efforts and escalate the conversation to
more-intimate, more-flirtatious levels.
Decide right now that if the signs are there,

you are going to go for the kiss. You’re going
to get her number.
You’re going to close the deal.
Reminder Checklist
frames of mind
[
]Always Assume Intesrest
[
]Trust Your Instincts
[
]Look at Your Situation From an Outsiders’
Perspective
[
]Never Decide You Really Like a Girl Before
Sleeping with Her
[
]Never Chase a Loss
Signs A Girl Wants You to
Approach Her
[
]She Makes Her Way Over Towards You, and
For No Reason Stands in Your General Area.
[
]She’s with a Group and She “Accidentally”
Separates Herself from the Group.
[
]If She’s Already Close to You, She Opens Her
Body Language to be More Inviting so You See
She’s Available to Approach.
[
]She “Accidentally” Bumps Into You.
[
]She Eavesdrops on Your Conversation.
[
]She Drops Something Near You Hoping You’ll
Pick It up.
[
]She Gives You an “Opener.”
[
]She Catches You Looking and Pushes Her Hair
Out of the Way.
[
]She Exaggerates Her Moves or Acts A Little
Odd.
Signs A Girl You Just Met
Is Into You
[
]She Asks If You Have a Girlfriend.
[
]She Calls You a Player, a Jerk, or an Asshole.
[
]She Takes a Sip of Your Drink.
[
]She Leans into You or Gets Your Attention by
Touching Your Hand or Arm Lightly.
[
]She Displays “Nervous Energy.”
[
]She Actively Tries to Keep the Conversation
Going.
[
]She Teases You.
[
]She Introduces You to Her Friends.
[
]She Lets Her Friends Leave to Continue Talking
to You.
[
]She Follows You to Another Location.
[
]Her Voice Will Change.
[
]She Accentuates her Femininity.
[
]She Will Try to Validate Herself to You.
[
]Too Much Exaggerated Disinterest.
]She Looks Away First. Or She Looks Away and
[
then Looks Back.
[
]She Holds Your Hands or Touches You in a
Prolonged Way.
[
]She Lingers and/or Presses into You When She
Hugs You.
Signs A Girl You Just Met
Is NOT Into You
[
]She Complains that She’s Tired.
[
]She Keeps Yawning...
[
]She Never Asks Your Name.
[
]You Ask Her Name and She Doesn’t Reciprocate
by Asking Yours.
[
]She Quickly Brings Up Her Boyfriend.
[
]She Avoids Eye Contact.
[
]She has Closed Off Body Language.
[
]She Gives You Short, One-Word Answers.
Signs THAT SHE IS A
COCKTEASE
[
]She Cuts Off at the High Points.
[
]She is too High Energy.
[
]She’s too Comfortable Touching You Too Soon.
6 Ways to Actively Find
Out if a Woman is Into You
[
]Go in for a Kiss.
[
]Make an Offhand Comment like, “We Should
Hangout Sometime...”
[
]Try the High-Five Test.
[
]Take Her Hand and Lead Her Somewhere.
[
]Make a Joke about Your Wife and Kids.
[
]Ask Personal Questions.
Signs a Girl You've Known
Awhile is Into You
[
]She Sends You Random Text Messages.
[
]She Wants to Introduce You to Her Friends.
[
]She Makes Future Plans with You.
[
]She Instigates Intimacy.
[
]She Always Makes Herself Available.
[
]She Gets a Second Wind.
[
]She Continues to Fix Herself Up When She
Knows She’s Going to Be Seeing You.
[
]She Pays More Attention to You than Others
while at a Social Event.
[
]She Spends Time on You even When You’re Not
Around
[
]She Stalks You on Facebook.
[
]She Wants You to Herself.
[
]She “Bites” when You Send Her the “Bluff”
Text.
[
]She Lets Her Friends Leave to Continue Talking
to You.
[
]The Timing of Her Texts Indicate Interest.
[
]She Sends “I’m a Fun Girl” Texts.
Signs a Girl You've Known
Awhile is NOT Into You
[
]She Says She’s “Not Read” for a Relationship.
[
]She Never Calls You and Avoids Your Calls.
[
]She Texts You Back One-Word Answers.
[
]She Cancels Plans and is Always Busy.
[
]She Avoids Any Sort of Public Displays of
Affection.
[
]She’s Sketchy or Secretive.
[
]She Tries to Push You Off on Other Girls or
Suggests You’d be Good for One of Her Friends.
[
]At Social Events, She’s Mingling and Talking
to Everything Else and Leaving You Alone.
[
]She Doesn’t Send You a Friend Request or
Accept Your Request.
Reading Her
Sexual Signals
[
]Using Double Entredes as Bait to See how
“Dirty” Her Mind is.
[
]Suggesting Another Venue.
[
]She Brings Up Someting at Your Place.
[
]She Says “I’m Not Going to Sleep with You
Tonight.”
[
]Hair, Neck Gaze.
[
]Ask Her the “Innocent” Question.
[
]She Presents an Easy-to-Overcome “Obstacle.”
[
]“I Can’t because it will make Me Tired.”
Signals You Should be
Sending Her
[
]You have a Bulletproof Sense of Self.
[
]She has to Work for It, Too.
[
]You can “Read” Her and See Who She Really Is.
[
]You can Handle Silence.
[
]You “Get” How Escalation Works.
[
]Fun Trumps Money.
[
]You’re Not Trying Too Hard.
[
]She’s a Maybe.
[
]You have a Life Outside Her.
[
]You are Used to Having Women in Your Life.
[
]You Enjoy Women’s Company and Respect Them.
[
]You’re Busy...but make Time for Her.
[
]She Brings Up Someting at Your Place.
[
]You Keep it Real.
[
]You’re Not Walking on Eggshells with Her.
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Girls expect things to “happen quick” when

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Just like you can ALWAYS move the “attraction

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This is why it’s critical to understand the

When you’re able to read the signals she’s

I’m sure you’ve experienced it before. You are

back to your place?

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Because you’re going to capitalize on every op-

And if you follow along with the ongoing

LOTS of opportunities will be arising.

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How This Book

In this report, we’re going to discuss the

When you’re texting with a girl (particularly

We’ll be discussing plenty of different types

subtle gesture. Once you know what to look

Learning these all-important signals will

Maybe you have a girl’s phone number or

Or maybe you’re in the friend zone with a girl,

There is another important tool to have: the

It will be much easier to approach girls and

We’ll share what thoughts you need to focus

Of course, part of what you are going to learn

girl gives off when she is not interested in

Having the correct frame of mind before

So lets discuss what needs to be on your

You can avoid giving off the wrong vibe by

time you start a conversation with a girl.

This mindset can be especially effective

The same rule applies for a girl who you al-

Many guys, after they start dating a girl for

Often, this is a case of simply over-thinking

if she was initially drawn to you because of

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If you are talking to a girl and you feel a

everything’s really going good–that she re-