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JULIA BRANNEN This article draws upon new analysis from a quali-
University of London
tative study of four-generation English families. It
Key words: takes a historical generational perspective and
childhood, contextualization, family
generation, historical generation, explores perspectives on the childhoods of three
life stories, motherhood generations of women. The article also offers a
Mailing address: number of theoretical and methodological reflec-
Julia Brannen tions upon the interpretation of life stories: the need
Thomas Coram Research Unit, Institute
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Childhood Copyright © 2004 different parts of an account refer; the problems in
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by Nielsen [2003]). This contrasts with the large volume of research on the
impact of early life course events on individual child outcomes in later life
(see Elder et al., 1993; Wadsworth, 1991), and a literature on childhood in
different historical periods (see, for example, Corsaro, 1997; Elder et al.,
1993; Jamieson, 1987). For example, the work of Zelizer (1985) in the US
charts the way in which children lost their role in the family economy so that
in the 1930s American children were excluded by law from paid work; in
adult eyes children’s ‘economic inutility’ was balanced by a growing belief
in their emotional value.
Childhood in different historical periods is examined retrospectively
when, as adults, people reflect upon past childhoods while also being cog-
nisant of the changes that they witness subsequently. How adults recall
childhood relates to their own experiences in childhood, the ideas and condi-
tions that shaped these at the time, their cultural location in time and place,
their linkages to others’ lives and their own agency at the time (Giele and
Elder, 1998). Recollections are also shaped by individuals’ subsequent expo-
sure to different practices and ideas about childhood. In making sense of
accounts of childhood, we need therefore to address how informants’
accounts are permeated by time perspectives as well as addressing, via our
sociological accounts, the times to which these accounts refer.
The article focuses on women’s lives over three generations. It takes a
historical perspective and identifies emblematic themes which relate to the
childhoods as they were experienced and reflected upon by three cohorts of
women who were born in three distinctive historical periods: the great grand-
mothers born around the First World War (1911–21); grandmothers born
around the Second World War (1940–8); mothers of young children born in
the late 1960s to early 1970s (1965–75). The study employed both life
course and generational perspectives. Informants did not, however, situate
their accounts neatly within particular life course phases but shifted their
time perspectives. Moreover, they varied in how much they referred to the
social contexts of their lives.
The accounts of childhood upon which the article draws are from a
small-scale study of four-generation English families carried out with three
colleagues in 1998–2000 (Brannen, 2003; Brannen et al., 2004). The study
adopted a biographical approach.1 A sociological perspective that combines
knowledge of both the individual and the structural aspects of society – the
intersection between biography and history in the tradition of C. Wright
Mills – is best suited to provide insights into the complexities of social life
as they unfold within specific historical periods. The approach explicated
life course patterns and informants’ life histories around work and care, on
the one hand, and the accounts people gave of their lives in the form in
which they chose to narrate and interpret them, on the other. This then was a
set of cases, the ‘case’ being the kinship group consisting of four generations
(of which the adult members of three generations, but not the youngest
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the sense of family as a bounded discrete unit (Jamieson, 1987: 594). They
did not identify childhood as a specific phase in which children were given
special treatment. Their stories of the past are public accounts which focused
upon the impact of external events rather than their own agency. They por-
trayed the structural features of their lives as broad descriptive landscapes
(for a similar finding, see Nielsen, 2003). Working-class grandmothers
recalled the period of their childhoods as a time of hardship and struggle for
the family and remembered their mothers for keeping families together. As
girls, they remembered helping their mothers with the enormous burden of
household work. What is striking here is that even though this generation
witnessed enormous subsequent changes in children’s lives and in the value
accorded to children, in their interviews none evaluated the past as a loss of
childhood per se.
Great-grandmother Brenda Smith2 started her account (which lasted
five hours over two visits) by positioning herself as a child growing up in an
extremely poor family; she described listening to the adults talking from her
own small space under the ‘dining table’ around which much of the indoor
life of the family took place. Despite this positioning, Brenda’s account
focused not only upon the details of ‘making do’ and ‘getting by’ in a poor
London family but embraced the broad historical landscape of events and
social change. In the first two hours of her interview Brenda scarcely paused
as she described her earliest memories of growing up poor in London in the
1920s. Her father was out of work and was forced to do ‘odd jobs’ until he
got a ‘pitch’ selling newspapers on street corners. The contribution of her
mother and the children to family income she considered crucial:
I was the youngest of seven children, and, um, I seem to have spent – we lived
in a tenement,3 you know, two rooms in a tenement . . . as far as I can remem-
ber, right back . . . I seem to have spent most of my young childhood under the
table. Because the way poor people lived then – and I mean poor – they lived in
two rooms, and in the main room there was usually a bed, and a table, chairs.
Hopefully, a chest of drawers . . . It was a square table, and I used to play under
there a lot. Never got trodden on. I used to, um, . . . make pictures and toys and
everything. I was always under the table, and . . . I used to listen a lot. ’Cos
sometimes I’d say something from years ago, and I think afterwards, it couldn’t
have been really me, it must’ve been me listening to the rest of the family. You
know, my mum and my – her sisters . . . My father was a – God! My father – it
was in the ’20s. Life was very hard, no jobs and all that. So he didn’t really have
a – any profession. He used to do odd jobs. Until he got a newspaper pitch, and
for the rest of time he sold newspapers for a living. Um, he was a clever man
with his hands. . . . And when we were kids, she [mother] used to do – she used
to do the washing. We used to go up to the theatres4 and get a big basket of
washing, and she used to do the towels and the tights, and all the stuff in the
theatre. And we used to go up there with the pram, with my big sister. Pick it up
and, at the end of the week, take it back and . . . [my mother] had a terribly hard
– people in those days had terrible hard lives. She had to get up, you know,
about 4 o’clock in the morning, you know. And a few of her cronies, and they
would go down Covent Garden, and they used to shell peas down there. Peel
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potatoes for the hotels, you know. Like, they do by machine now. And they
used to do that, and they used to be paid sixpence! Sixpence for – 5 days, 6 days
a week and get 3 bob. In shillings. And she used to take in washing. That’s how
we sort of lived. My mum used to take in washing. We used to go to the public
baths, which was just across from where we lived. She used to go in at 8 o’clock
in the morning, and about 8 o’clock at night. She . . . [had] a hard life. But I
don’t remember her buying anything for herself, new . . . ever. Not until she got
old. When you compare that generation to ours, it’s like a different world. It’s –
she was 93 when she died, mind you.
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The way the world is seen to have changed in this latter respect led
some great-grandmothers to remember the past through rather rose-tinted
glasses. Childhood was remembered as risk free, which contrasted with their
perceptions of the dangers of the present times. Dora Peters: ‘We used to
have nice times. Yeah. And you could go off, and nobody ever used to touch
you, or you never used to have anybody stop or anybody – no fighting or
people nasty to you. You know. It’s where I often wondered what’s gone
wrong. You know?’ In her next remark, Dora Peters suggested that child-
hood was not only remembered as being less risk prone than it is today, it
also incurred less waste and more thrift, even from children. Dora remem-
bered her father having to work hard to keep the family out of poverty; what
was no longer ‘needed was passed on to other people. I mean, as far as, like,
that part, like – as I said, my father was in work and that. But if we had any-
thing that my mother didn’t want, we used to pass on to other people.’
Most great grandmothers recalled ‘missing out’ on educational oppor-
tunities. However, they made it clear that the loss was felt more keenly in
hindsight than at the time. For over the 20th century and over their own life,
they had witnessed the growing importance of education, especially for
women. Grace Horton, who was from a middle-class family, was one such
case. Yet despite her middle-class background, in the interwar years when
access to much of the education system still depended on private means, she
was forced to move from a private school to a state secondary school when
her father’s business collapsed in the 1920s. The family moved to a smaller
house in a different part of London, a move which curtailed Grace’s subse-
quent educational and job opportunities. Grace recalled a moment in her life
when an adult spotted her academic ability and remembered how, during a
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training course after she left school to work as a cookery demonstrator, the
teacher said to her ‘What are you doing here? You should be at university.’
However, at the time she made little of the remark feeling no different from
her friends. Only subsequently, she came to regret the absence of educational
opportunity: ‘And I didn’t know what to say, really. I was very surprised.
And, um – I mean, you didn’t have a chip on your shoulder in those days
because you didn’t, because none of your friends did.’
Thus, for the interwar great-grandparent generation, childhoods were
described in material terms, reflecting a heavily class-based society in which
many families were typically large, working class and poor. Thus the quality
of children’s lives was seen to depend upon the material viability of the
household: male breadwinning and mothers’ household management skills
and sheer hard work. Where fathers were unable to provide adequately or
died, mothers’ paid work became critical. So too was the presence of grand-
mothers, who both looked after the children and took on a parental role (see
also Attias-Donfut and Segalen, 2002). The household work of children was
also critical and sometimes involved work outside the home. The pleasurable
aspects of children’s lives depended more upon organizations in the local
community than upon the involvement of parents. While being shaped by
history, childhoods were also seen from the vantage point of the great
changes which took place in the intervening years. Children’s freedom to
roam was contrasted with the notion of risk-prone childhoods of today.
Childhood was interpreted in relation to a world of thrift in contrast to what
is seen today as wasteful consumption. Great-grandmothers viewed with
hindsight lost educational opportunities from the vantage point of what they
see to be on offer to today’s children.
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a cleaner early morning and late at night but emphasized her presence at
home during the day. ‘Y’know my mum was there during the day or whatev-
er. Didn’t miss her. Y’know she was only doing a little part-time job.’ She
then explained why her mother got a job as a school dinner lady ‘to be home
with us in the school holidays’. Later in her interview, however, Kate went
on to reflect on the fact that she herself had worked during much of her chil-
dren’s lives and was rather proud of this now. Yet she evaluated her mother’s
employment according to the mores which applied during her childhood
rather than according to the mores of the time when she herself was a full-
time working mother (the 1960s). Interestingly, her own daughter (born in
the 1970s) chose not to work while her children were young and made this
decision during a period (the 1990s) in which the employment of mothers of
young children was rising sharply and becoming more acceptable in Britain.
Kate (grandmother) was indeed rather critical of her non-employed daughter
for ‘running herself ragged’ in pursuit of her children’s welfare. In contrast,
Kate’s daughter had consciously rejected Kate’s practice and wanted to ‘be
there’ for her own children.
Working-class great-grandmothers remembered their grandmothers as
providers of care during their childhoods. So too working-class grandmoth-
ers remembered their grandmothers. Pauline Smith noted that as a child she
never came home from school to an empty house because ‘Granny was
there, Nan was there, and old aunt D. . . . There was always people.’ The
social stigma of being a ‘latchkey kid’ was thus avoided. As Attias-Donfut
and Segalen (2002) suggest, grandmothers also represent continuity; they are
a source of symbolic support as well as practical (childcare) support – the
‘backbone of the family’ – and provide a sense of ‘genetic security’.
The experiences of two grandmothers are cases in point. When Thelma
Hillyard’s father was killed, the family went to live with her maternal grand-
parents. It is perhaps significant that, although her mother was working at
the time, she did not refer to it. Her account conveys the emotional security
provided by her grandparents:
. . . they loved us very much, my nan and granddad. They had a nice big house.
And a lovely garden. And I can remember in the summer we used to – they had
a garden, they had a yard, ’cos they – my granddad was a builder, so it was
working premises – and they had a garden at the top. And I can remember we
used to sit up in the [?] to dry our hair in the summers with our nighties on, and
that sort of thing . . . And then, when Mum got married again – we didn’t live
far away, we still lived in Y. And we used to go to Nan’s every . . . for tea,
which we used to look forward after school. And Nan and Granddad were –
they were the ones that sort of – well, all nans and granddads do – look after
you. They used to take us on Sunday school outings, we used to go on the train
from X, because the train was running then. And, um, one of the highlights, I
can remember when we were tiny, was they’d take us out in the car to the pub
on a Sunday (laughs). That was quite nice. Er – yes. They were very – very
happy days, all my sort of younger days.
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Carol Masters’ parents and older sister shared a council house with her
maternal grandparents and an uncle until she was 5. She was very close to
her grandmother, whom she regarded as ‘the mainstay of the family’ and a
source of support with respect to difficulties caused by her father. ‘My
grandma was a real, dominant character in my life. I absolutely adored my
grandma … At times it wasn’t a very happy environment, but we always
went back to Grandma. So she was the mainstay of the family.’ The family
moved to a prefabricated council house in 1947.5 The house was close to her
grandparents, but they moved even closer when they got another council
house in the same road.
The grandparent generation also recalled their childhoods as being
focused on the nuclear family in which mothers occupied a pivotal position.
Indeed the post-1945 period witnessed the advent of the nuclear family ideal
symbolized in the growing importance placed upon the ‘family holiday’
among a wider population. This was due to the success of some groups of
manual workers in gaining from their employers the right to annual leave.
For a minority there were also more possibilities for family travel through
the mass production of the motor car (Inglis, 2000). Holidays were not nec-
essarily very expensive or taken far from home. Holidays away were, how-
ever, only one small part of the long school holidays in which mothers’ pres-
ence was remembered as crucial. Janice Brand, whose father worked in the
local cooperative shop, described taking a family holiday with relatives and
ended her remarks by asserting that her mother never worked in the school
holidays. Janice:
My Dad didn’t travel very far, he didn’t drive, he rode a bike everywhere. So
where we went was extremely limited. Ummm. We used to go down to X for
our, for our holidays. But that was with an aunt and uncle usually. ’Cos they
probably had then a car, and they could actually take us down, or we went on
the train, or the bus, as the case may be . . . as I say, we didn’t go very far– . . .
just X, and that was probably the limit of our holidays . . . my childhood was,
was just a very basic childhood I think, just surrounded by family, with a Mum
and Dad. My Mum was always there. She had school holidays off with us. She
never worked in, in, in the holidays.
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As I say, all the children were able to play in the street. The things that we
played mostly with were – were one swing in the garden – I can remember that
– which was made by – I don’t know if it was my granddad or my dad. The
children in the street used to put on lots of concerts that we used to go to, and
we used to have to pay a farthing to get in, in the back yard of one of the chil-
dren, whoever was putting on the concert. But mainly it was simple, really sim-
ple, entertainment that we – er, managed to get by with as children. We played
in a big field at the top of the road, which I can’t imagine our children at all
going out of our sight, you know, in this day and age. But in those days I can
remember this big field being called ‘the Den’ that we all accumulated in, and
we played for hours there.
However, while this generation from the vantage point of their own
childhoods subscribed to dominant ideologies of the period concerning how
best to look after children, this did necessarily lead them to deny their own
positive adult experiences of being working parents. After their youngest
children started school, some grandmothers returned to education and the
labour market to build employment careers (Brannen et al., 2004).
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dad died young. So I think they – I think she held the family together. I think
when she dies, it will – it’s all spread out a bit. We won’t see so much of aunts
and uncles – well, my great-aunts and uncles, really. Her brothers and sisters.
’Cos there’s hundreds of them! . . . it was always in [Nan’s] after school, any-
way, even if my mum was there. A cup of tea and a chat. We still do it now.
Four o’clock, that’s it. Tea-time!
The childhoods of the parent generation were much closer in time than
for the other two generations, which adds a dimension of immediacy to their
accounts of childhood. Childhood also constitutes a large chunk of the life
course of this generation who, at interview, were in their mid-twenties to
mid-thirties. Moreover, this generational group was currently witnessing
their own children’s childhoods and was reflecting upon them from the cur-
rent vantage point of being a parent.
In accordance with a general trend towards ‘the self-regulating sub-
ject’ (Bernstein, 2000; Rose, 1990), this generation of current mothers and
fathers saw themselves as being actively involved in creating their children’s
childhoods although it may also be argued that individualism in family life
has deep roots (Jamieson, 1987). In the 1990s, as the British welfare state
was restructured and trust in experts waned, the neoliberal climate gave a
new emphasis to individual agency. The concept of ‘active parenting’ (a non-
gendered concept) infused public policies relating to children’s welfare, for
example parental involvement in schools and parental responsibility for
keeping their children off the streets (child curfews).
A current mother of two young children evaluated her own mother’s
engagement with her own children positively. Juliet Kent’s childhood was a
privileged middle-class one; Juliet considered that her mother gave a sense
of community and purpose to the lives of her three daughters. Juliet com-
mended her mother for having been very proactive in encouraging herself
and her sisters to participate in lots of extracurricular activities. Juliet was at
pains to note that, while her mother had a part-time job, she was very present
and very ‘proactive’ in their lives. Her account graphically suggests her
mother’s occupancy of space and place:
. . . there was one corner where two roads met, and a second corner, and we
would always meet at first corner or second corner, and I remember her arriving
in the car and picking us up from school. I remember homework round the
kitchen table, and I remember all the activities that we did from – we were all
quite musical, so we all had an instrument, plus the piano. And I remember all
this stuff that she used to take us to, and sit with us, and take us to exams and all
that. So she was very – definitely very – very proactive, and very, um – there
was lots always going on. It was a very noisy, kind of busy house . . . She
always picked us up from school, so she worked funny hours. I was never aware
of her – we had au pairs, we definitely had au pairs. I remember hundreds of au
pairs. So I’m sure au pairs kind of had a part to play in all of that. But, er, I cer-
tainly have absolutely no recollection of her not being there, really.
The current parent generation viewed the childhoods of their own children
as a distinctive phase not merely as a time for ‘growing up’. They saw it as a
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world which they, as parents, constructed for and engaged in with their chil-
dren. However, unlike the previous generations, this active involvement did
not necessarily imply mothers’ presence on a full-time basis. In accordance
with their employment commitments, ‘quality time’ has supplanted ‘quantity
time’ both as a value and a reality. The two discourses of mothers’ employ-
ment and parenting are, however, kept separate in their accounts. From the
vantage point of being a currently ‘involved parent’, some of this generation
of mothers looked back at their own childhoods and found them wanting.
Few criticized their mothers for being housewives (for part of their child-
hood) while more criticized them for not providing a more child-centred
childhood. Thus they evaluated their mothers and fathers according to cur-
rent parenting mores while at the same time, according to the norms which
applied during their childhoods, they were anxious to portray their child-
hoods as ‘happy’ and their mothers as ‘there’ for them.
Janet Brand grew up in a working-class family and scrutinized her par-
ents’ parenting. Through marriage and employment, she developed aspira-
tions, wanting her new family of orientation to ‘get on’ in the world. In par-
ticular she was keen to help her young daughter in her schooling. Looking
back to childhood, she reviewed her own parents’ efforts in this regard.
While emphasizing that her own parents were ‘good parents’ and that her
mother was always ‘there’, Janet now considered them too home-centred
and too concerned with humdrum routines. In seeing them as failing to help
her and her sister with their schooling, she compared them unfavourably
against her current ideals. By ‘sitting down’ more with her daughter, Janet
hoped to inculcate skills and introduce her to new places and experiences.
Janet contrasted the way her parents acted as parents with how they now act
towards their grandchild.
My childhood. Um – it was happy –. But, um, I think, with my mother – my
mother and father were – have worked all their lives, but they didn’t actually
have any ambitions to do any better than what they have – they achieved. So I
think, really, sometimes I think they look at [us] . . . and think, Ooh, I wish, you
know, we’d achieved that. But it’s trying to make them understand that, if they
wanted it, it was there. It’s just having the – the goal to go and do it. Um – but,
yeah, it was happy. I mean, they’re – they’re lovely parents, they’re very caring,
but it’s just that, perhaps homework-wise, and things that I wanted them to
understand and help me with, they just had no idea, or no clue, how to do it. . . .
I found school terribly hard. I mean, we try and encourage [daughter] as much
as we can. You know, If you have any problems, or if you want to do any read-
ing, come and see us, and – you know, she’ll sit down. But I don’t ever remem-
ber doing that with my mother and father. Um – but, yeah, it was happy times.
And, as I say, we get on – lovely now. And they absolutely dote on [grand-
daughter]. But they will actually sit down with a book with her. I’m thinking,
Why didn’t you do that with me?
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vantage point of her current hopes for her own children. ‘I had a happy
childhood. My childhood was just – because I went to boarding school, it
just seems one big blur, really. I mean, I wasn’t home at the night-time. I
didn’t do after-school clubs with my mum and dad. They really weren’t into
all of that at all.’
Sonia Masters, also from a middle-class family, regretted similarly that
her parents sent her to boarding school and found it difficult to understand
why they were not more ‘flexible’ and had not explored ‘other avenues’.
I just still to this day cannot believe how an institution can replace a family life.
I mean I think family life is so crucial, and you know to be ripped so cruelly
away from all of that, in my most formative years. Y’know, through puberty
and all of that, as a young woman developing, I thought was really very damag-
ing. Knowing how unhappy I was. Ummm. And I s’pose they in some ways,
y’know, I can see now their hands were tied. Y’know there wasn’t any alterna-
tive. They were concerned about my academ– . . . Yeah, I mean I can see . . .
But I just sort of kind of wondered why they hadn’t maybe explored other
avenues . . . Thinking about my own children and their schooling, y’know. I
s’pose it is difficult, because you know, y’know, you have the experience of
your years to know what you think will be good for them. And I can understand
that fully. Ummm. But I think there has to be some flexibility and some deci-
sion-making . . .
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know, for want of a better expression. You can just sort of say, ‘Well that’s it, I
don’t care, I’m going over there to live with them now.’ (Yeah. The other
option.) Yes, that’s right. ‘I’m going to tell Dad you’ve said this’, or, ‘I’m
gonna tell Mum you said that’, you know you just . . . it all adds to the, as I say,
you know, your stepparents telling you what to do and why should they?
The parent generation did not lay all the blame on their parents for
their upbringings. They also attributed agency to themselves. In another
family, all three generations experienced poverty and disruptions in their
childhood. The current mother reflected on the difficulties which her parents
had coped with and how she has since managed to come to terms with the
disruptions. Again, grandmothers were remembered as key figures providing
support:
. . . but it was nice, you know, you get spoiled when you go and stay with your
grandma don’t you, so that was . . . I enjoyed that, and the garden was a lot
nicer up there as well, and . . . they used to grow all their own fruit and vegeta-
bles – potatoes and radishes, well all sorts really, ’cos like I said there was a lot
of land there, you know, so you know, . . . and then there were loads of trees . . .
it was dad’s – my dad’s mum. Yeah, she looked after us . . . both my grandfa-
thers died . . . just two grandmothers, but erm, my mum’s mum, she was suffer-
ing from dementia, so she wouldn’t really have been able to look after me, any-
way, but my dad’s mum, she was quite capable and able, and she lived till about
87 I think, and erm, yeah, I used to love spending time with my nan. Yeah, I
bonded with her, better than I think I did with my mum to be honest, which I
suppose – I don’t know whether it’s a shame or not really. I get on well with
mum. It’s not that I don’t get on with my mum, but I’ve got on with my nan bet-
ter because I suppose she was there when I was so young, when I was a baby, so
it was a natural bonding instinct I think, yeah.
Sadly the grandmother died when she was 13. However, even so, Sheila
looked back now at her childhood, remembering how angry she once was
but also managing to find positive experiences and relationships in her past.
It is significant that Sheila and her partner were both very actively involved
with their children and were determined to bring them up differently.
This generation’s views of childhood involves close scrutiny of their
childhood from the standpoint of being relatively new parents. But it also
occurs in the context of what Beck refers to as widespread social processes
of individualization (Beck, 1992; Beck and Beck-Gernsheim, 1995) and
what Giddens refers to as the reflexivity of late modern society (Giddens,
1991). These social processes are reflected in shifts in British public policy
but also in the current generation’s beliefs in their own agency and autono-
my as an increasingly acceptable ‘vocabulary of motive’,7 both with respect
to parenting and their lives more generally. Such beliefs in agency and
empowerment on the part of current generations are more evident among
some groups than others (Brannen and Nilsen, 2002). However, they are typ-
ically accompanied by silence about the structural contexts and constraints
in which agency is embedded (see also Nilsen and Brannen, 2002).
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closer in time to the present. And since they viewed childhood from their rel-
atively new status as parents, it is not surprising that they put the parenting
practices of their own parents under the microscope.
An analyst of biographical accounts must take note also of the timing
of a life course phase for a given generation. Thus the grandparent genera-
tion who, on average, had children relatively young became grandparents
rather earlier in the life course than the former generation. This has implica-
tions for their capacity and willingness to care for grandchildren, the
longevity of their relationships with grandchildren, and possibly also for the
way they spoke about their relations with grandchildren.
Second, this type of study underlines the importance of taking note of
the types of account given within interviews, for example whether the inter-
viewee is giving an evaluation or a graphic description of childhood, and the
time frames particular accounts refer to, for example whether they evaluate
childhood in relation to present-day criteria or the criteria of past times.
Since the oldest generation experienced nearly a century of social change, it
is perhaps unsurprising that, in contrast to the two other generations, they
recounted more public accounts than private stories (Cornwell, 1984). They
engaged in meta-narratives of progress in which they told stories of ‘real
struggle’ of moral right over material degradation. Sometimes great-grand-
mothers and grandmothers viewed the past through the rose-tinted spectacles
of the ‘good old days’ contrasted with what they currently viewed as typical
of today’s childhoods, which they disparaged (Samuel and Thompson,
1990). At other points in their interviews, especially with respect to women’s
changing expectations of educational and employment opportunity (Brannen
et al., 2004), by present-day criteria interviewees found the past wanting.
Thus a current mother judged her childhood from the values of her time as a
child but subscribed to current values concerning present-day childhood. It
is therefore important to be attentive to the ways interviewees shift time per-
spectives within the interview since this may help to make sense of what
may appear at first sight to be contradictory viewpoints.
Third, it is important to interpret accounts of the past as ‘small pockets
of history’ preserved in individuals (Nielsen, 2003), that is to understand
childhood in relation to the sociohistorical contexts which each cohort
inhabited during childhood (Mills, 1967). As Mannheim (1952) suggested,
generational identities are shaped in the formative life course phase.
Understanding accounts as resources of history is problematic, however. It is
difficult to disentangle how far narratives of childhood represent the past and
how far they are shaped by current discourses, contexts and practices
(Nielsen, 2003). While emphasizing differences in their experiences, it is
also important to note that the older two generations shared, to some extent,
the public discourses of the present day; they were understanding and sensi-
tive to the practices of current parents – their own children and grandchil-
dren (Brannen et al., 2004). This was brought about by the fact that the life
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course phase of the youngest generation was held constant in this study, with
all current parents having a child under 10 years old. Thus it is important to
disentangle how accounts relate to lived experience and how informants
move between the remembered experiences of past and present (Nielsen,
2003).
The contextualization of life stories is a theoretical as well as a
methodological issue. In analysing generational accounts and contextualiz-
ing them in relation to the conditions which prevailed at the time of report-
ing and in relation to the times to which informants’ accounts refer, it is
important to note that informants make very variable reference to the struc-
tural contexts and resources available to them (Nilsen and Brannen, 2002).
When great-grandmothers described childhood in material terms, the
researcher may have to fill in what is unsaid. For example, she needs to
understand that most women of this generation came from working-class
families who lived through the economic uncertainty of the interwar years
and a time when few opportunities existed for women either in education or
employment. It is significant that great-grandmothers from working-class
origins were more attentive to the socioeconomic landscape than those from
advantaged backgrounds. Similarly, in making sense of the grandparent gen-
eration’s description of childhood in psychological terms, it is important to
note the context: the economic certainty of the postwar period (near full
male employment and increasing intergenerational mobility); the develop-
ment of the British welfare state; greater educational opportunities, particu-
larly for girls; the postwar psychology of maternal attachment which sup-
ported the government’s requirement to create jobs for men after the war and
return mothers to the home.
In interpreting the accounts of the current generation of mothers of
young children, emphasis has been placed upon the way they attribute
agency to themselves. Here again, as researchers we may take note of the
social context of the 1990s: a climate of economic uncertainty, a shrinking
British welfare state, a fall in traditional male employment, girls’ increased
success in education outstripping boys and the increased rates and growing
acceptance of women’s and mothers’ employment. We may also attend to
public discourses, in particular a waning belief in experts, and the reconcep-
tualization of citizens as empowering subjects who exercise individual
responsibility, a highly positive rhetoric which is contrasted with negative
discourses of ‘welfare dependency’.
However, in attributing agency to themselves, it is also important to
note that the youngest generation is least articulate about the social context
in which their agency is embedded (Brannen and Nilsen, 2002). Such
silences may in part be related to life course phase: the recent experience
of becoming a parent; the lack of distance between adulthood and childhood;
the requirement of the research interview to look back at being a child while
thinking about what it means to parent a young child. Additionally, as
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suggested earlier, the ‘agency discourse’ may relate to broad social processes
referred to as individualization. It may also be argued that such concepts
break the classical sociological link between structure and agency as two
sides of the same coin and have a particular correspondence with current
neoliberal political rhetoric (Nilsen and Brannen, 2002). Such societal
processes of individualization may constitute ideological forces which con-
strain individuals from making the connections between biography and soci-
ety (Bauman, 2001). In seeking to understand how informants make sense of
their family lives across time is a difficult sociological endeavour.
Notes
I wish to acknowledge the work of my colleagues in this study: Peter Moss, Ann Mooney and
Emily Gilbert. The work was funded by the ESRC under the Future of Work Programme.
Thanks are due to comments from Peter Moss, the anonymous referees and the journal editors.
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