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Tatay na si Totoy: Young Filipino Fathers’ Experiences on


Paternal Nurturance, Self-efficacy,
and Parental Satisfaction

A Thesis Presented to
Department of Psychology and Guidance Department
Faculty of the School of Arts and Sciences
Saint Mary’s University
Bayombong, Nueva Vizcaya

In Partial Fulfillment
of the Double Degree
Bachelor of Science in Psychology
and Bachelor of Arts in Guidance and Counseling

By

Loreto Cadiente

Abegail Montañez

Janine Vallary Tiam

February 2016
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Saint Mary’s University


Bayombong, Nueva Vizcaya
School of Arts and Sciences
Psychology and Guidance Department

APPROVAL SHEET

This research paper hereto entitled:

Tatay na si Totoy: Young Filipino Fathers Experiences on Paternal


Nurturance, Self-Efficacy and Parental Satisfaction

prepared and submitted by Abegail B. Montañez, Janine Vallary Tiam and


Loreto G. Cadiente in partial fulfillment of the course requirements for the
double degree
BS Psychology/AB Guidance and Counseling
has been examined and recommended for acceptance and approval for ORAL
EXAMINATION.
MRS. PEARL VIA COBALLES RGC, RPm
Adviser

APPROVED by the Committee of Oral Examination held on February 1, 2016.

MR. EDWIN MANIA, EdD, RGC


Chairperson

MRS. MA. TERESA TAYABAN, PhD


Member

MRS. FLORENCE NAWEW-BAHNI, RPm


Member

ACCEPTED in partial fulfillment of the course requirements for the degrees


aforecited.

MRS. FLORENCE N. BAHNI DR. MA. TERESA B. TAYABAN


Research Coordinator Dean, School of Arts and Sciences
School of Arts and Sciences
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DEDICATION

We dedicate this research work to our family


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ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

We would like to express our sincere gratitude to our research adviser,

Mrs. Pearl Via S. Coballes, for tirelessly helping us from the very beginning of

our study until our final paper, for helping us narrow down our topic and for

advising us on what to do. We want to express our gratitude for her unfailing

support and encouragement that kept us on track.

To our research panelists and instructor, Mrs. Florence N. Bahni, Mr.

Edwin Mania and Mrs. Ma. Teresa Tayaban thank you so much for providing

direction assistance and support during the course of this study. We value your

feedbacks and brilliant opinions.

To our respondents, the young fathers, without your help this study would

not be possible, thank you for sharing your experiences to us and making this

study possible.

To our parents, who are always there to support us.


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ABSTRACT

This study delved into the lives of 18 young fathers who became a parent when
they were in their teenage years. Specifically, the study explored the demographic
and sexual behavior profile of these young fathers and their experiences that
relate to self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental satisfaction. The
respondents were purposively selected from the provinces of Nueva Vizcaya,
Isabela and Quirino. Data was analyzed using descriptive statistics and thematic
analysis. The results indicated early sexual involvement and pre-marital sex
experiences among the young fathers. Their paternal nurturance was manifested
by fulfilling the provider role and by being involved in the playtime, leisure, care
and schooling of their child. Young fathers of this study experienced challenges
in their self-efficacy and these were related to finances, and ignorance or
inexperience of being a father. They solved their problems by persevering to find
work and discerning their role as a father. Furthermore, young fathers still have
low parental satisfaction.

Keywords: self-efficacy, paternal nurturance, parental satisfaction, self-efficacy,


teenage parenting, adolescent fatherhood
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Preliminaries:

Dedication…………………………………………………………………i

Acknowledgement………………………………………………………...ii

Abstract…………………………………………………………………...iv

Table of Contents………………………………………………………….v

Chapter 1: The Problem and Its Background……………………………………..1

Rationale…………………………………………………………………..1

Theoretical Framework…………………………………………………

Purpose of the Study……………………………………………………..

Scope and Delimitations………………………………………………

Significance of the Study…………………………………………………

Definition of Terms………………………………………………………

Chapter 2: Review of Related Literature and Studies……………………………

Conceptual Literature………………………………………………………

Research Literature…………………………………………………………

Synthesis…………………………………………………………………

Chapter 3: Methodology……………………………………………………………

Research Design……………………………………………………………

Subjects of the Study………………………………………………………

Research Environment…………………………………………………

Research Instruments………………………………………………………
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Procedure…………………………………………………………………

Data Analysis……………………………………………………………….

Chapter 4: Presentation, Interpretation and Analysis of Findings…………………

Section 1. Participant’s Narratives…………………………………………

Section 2. Young Father’s Profile Characteristics…………………………

Section 3. Paternal Nurturance………………………………………

Section 4. Self-Efficacy.................................................................................

Section 5. Parental Satisfaction……………………………………….80

Chapter 5: Summary, Findings, Conclusions and Recommendations…………86

Summary………………………………………………………………..86

Findings………………………………………………………………...86

Conclusions………………………………………………………...88

Recommendations………………………………………………….89

References……………………………………………………………….95

Appendices……………………………………………………………..108
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CHAPTER I

THE PROBLEM AND ITS BACKGROUND

Rationale

In today’s generation, many are engaged in teenage parenting. According

to the National Statistics Office (2011), a total of 186,527 births were born to

teenage mothers (under 20 years of age), an increase of about 7.64 percent from

the previous year’s count of 173,282. Births to teenage mothers increased by 7.6

percent from 173,282 in 2007 suggesting that fertility has a faster pace in the

youngest reproductive ages. The number of births born to teenage mothers

(186,527) was five times greater than the number of births born to teenage fathers

(39,217). Results from the 2013 National Demographic and Health Survey found

out that one in ten young Filipino women aged 15 to 19 is already a mother or

pregnant with her first child and that early childbearing is also more common in

CARAGA (38%) and Cagayan Valley (37%) than any other regions.

Tracking the incidence of teen pregnancy in the country reveals an

alarmingly steady progression of the phenomenon in the past decade. In the year

2000, 7% of all births were accounted to mothers below 19 years old. By the

2010, their share increased to 12%. The Philippines may not have the highest

incidence in Southeast Asia but the country has the highest rate of increase. In

2011, the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) reported that it is only in the

Philippines where the rate is increasing. It is decreasing in other countries in the

region. Despite the growing body of research on the topic of teenage pregnancy
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and adolescent parenthood, however, few studies have been done specifically

about young fathers and their parenting experiences.

It is in the family that people first learn how to show love and respect for

life, where people are taught the proper use of things, order and cleanliness, and

respect for the local ecosystem and care for all creatures. The Synod of Bishops,

2015, LS, 213) emphasized this with their official statement that “In the family,

people (we) receive an integral education, which enables (us) to grow

harmoniously in personal maturity”. Therefore, parents should teach their

children everything even if it is about sex and they must tell the truth about it.

However, there are some parental issues that may have caused teenage pregnancy,

and one of this is lack of parental guidance. According to the Synod of Bishops

(2015), many parents prevent their children talking about sex. In some cases, they

provide false information regarding sex and discourage their children from any

informative discussion about sex. Teenage parents are not well educated about

sex thus this leads to lack of communication between the parents and the children.

In today’s socio-cultural crisis, the family, the basic human community, is

painfully being weakened and is exhibiting signs of its fragile nature (Synod of

Bishops, 2015). Nonetheless, the family is also demonstrating its ability to find in

itself the courage to confront the inadequacy and failure of institutions in the

formation of the person, the quality of social ties and the care of the most

vulnerable (Synod of Bishops, 2015).


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Mothers and fathers have individually unique and mutually interactive

contributions to children’s development. In the Philippines, Filipino fathers and

mothers take on traditional roles in the home, with the fathers being the

“providers” and “protectors” while the mothers take on the tasks of childrearing,

discipline, and “managing the home” (De la Cruz et al.; Licuanan, , as cited in

Alampay & Jocson, 2011). Based on the perspective of children, mothers are said

to be more nurturing and involved than fathers. Mothers are also perceived to be

more powerful than fathers in that they give the directives and organize the

child’s activities (Carunungan-Robles, 1986). Nevertheless, Black (2002) argued

that fathers have a significant role in a child's development from birth through

adulthood.

Several studies (Dallas, Wilson, & Salgado, 2000; Erkut, Szalacha &

Garcia 2005; Shannon & Abrams, 2007; Weinman, Smith, & Buzi,2002;

Wilkinson, Magora, Garcia, & Khurana,2009) have suggested that teenage fathers

have similar ideals and standards regarding what it means to be a “good dad”.

This includes being physically, emotionally and financially stable for children,

spending quality time with children and raising children with hopes and dreams

for themselves. However, Applegate (1988) argued that teenage fathers face extra

challenges associated with early parenthood because they may experience

“developmental double jeopardy” as they try to cope with the normative

biological, social and psychological changes and challenges associated with

normative father development.


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Goodyear, Newcomb, and Allison (2000) found that teenage fathers were

more likely to be from disadvantaged homes, complete fewer years in schooling,

experience abuse, live in violent neighborhoods, be unemployed, and have

younger, uneducated parents who have low educational expectations of them.

These outcomes underscore the need to explore teenage fathers’ parenting

experiences and discover how to best help them manage the challenges of

becoming a young parent.

Raikes and Thompson (2005) found that parental self-efficacy appears to

be a noteworthy topic associated with parenting. Similarly, Jones and Prinz

(2005) found that parental self-efficacy is an important predictor of a parent’s

positive behaviors while parenting. Some studies found that there is a difference

in self-efficacy according to gender. Doña, Scholz, Schwarzer and Sud (2002)

reported the superiority of males with regard to self–efficacy as compared to

females in various cultures. This is supported by Gecas (1989) who stated that in

studies of the general population, males have been consistently found to report

higher levels of self-efficacy than females. Interestingly, Nebbitt’s (2009) finding

on self-efficacy among poor African American youth revealed that females were

more likely to report higher levels of self-efficacy than males.

Apart from efficacy, parental nurturance has also been thoroughly studied

in relation to parenting. Many studies verify that parental nurturance is vital to

children’s functioning (Baumrind, 1971). It has been demonstrated to be a

protective factor against risky behaviors for adolescents and was found to be
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related to adaptive coping strategies (Meester & Muris, 2004; Schwartz, et. al.,

2009). Hopkins and Klein (1993) found a positive relationship between parental

nurturance and adolescents’ global self-worth. High parental nurturance and

psychological development are thought to be a result of the belief that when a

child views their parent as nurturing, they feel positive about that relationship and

consequently feel positive about their parent. This finding supports the belief that

parental nurturance is related to adolescent positive feelings about the parent-

child relationship and therefore adolescents’ positive feelings about themselves

(Hopkins & Klein, 1993).

Caritaswissenschaft and Sozialarbeit (2012) discussed that teenage fathers

have typically negative images in the society being stereotyped as “hit and run

victimizers” who are less involved in child care.The absence of a father gravely

affects family life and the upbringing of children and their integration into

society. This absence, which may be physical, emotional, psychological and

spiritual, deprives children of an appropriate model of paternal behavior (Synod

of Bishops, 2015).

This, however, is not supported by studies (Buss, Guise, Scanlan, &

Voice, 2003; Fatherhood Institute Research Summary, 2013) which have shown

that majority of teenage fathers often continue the serious romantic relationship

with the mother of their child prior to the pregnancy and throughout the

pregnancy. Also, research has shown that teenage fathers feel a sense of

obligation not only to the child but also to the mother of his child. They are also
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more likely to be interested in being involved in decisions regarding their

child(Caritaswissenschaft & Sozialarbeit, 2012). According to the Synods of

Bishops (2015) many men are aware of the importance of their role in the family

and live according to their masculine role.

The above studies highlight how teenage fathers are actually involved in

parenting and this involvement fosters their psychological development,

contributes to their self-esteem and strengthens their relationship with their child

(Foster, 2004; Glickman, 2004). With the many challenges that a teenage father is

facing, what factors contribute to his satisfaction as a young parent? Parental

satisfaction is defined as a sense of pleasure and gratificationgained from the

parenting role. This includes satisfaction in carrying out infant care

tasks,howwellthe parent knows the infant, and the extent to which self-

expectations as a parentare being met (Pridham & Chang, 1989).

Most studies on teenage parenting focused on the mothers. In this study,

the researchers attempted to see the other side of the story, the side of young

fathers highlighting their experiences regarding self-efficacy, paternal nurturance

and parental satisfaction. In the 2008 study of Rayco, he underscored the

importance of developing parenting-related training programs for Filipino fathers.

Hence, the researchers endeavored to discover the self-efficacy, paternal

nurturance and parental satisfaction experiences of young fathers in the Filipino

context. It is hoped that findings may serve as basis for the creation of training
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programs that may allow young Filipino fathers to be better parents or

individuals.

Theoretical Framework

Parental nurturance.

Parental nurturance encompasses a number of parenting behaviors,

including warmth, closeness, responsiveness, and acceptance (Aunola, Stattin, &

Nurmi,2000; Buri, 1989; Puustinen, Lyyra, Metsapelto, & Pulkkinen, 2008).In

Filipino, nurturance is translated as “pagkalinga”, and is defined by Somera

(2000) as “pagbibigay ng karampatang pagpapahalaga at pagmamahal sa isang

taong kadugo, kasambahay at kakuwentuhan.” Rayco (2008) provided an

indigenous Filipino empirical definition of paternal nurturance referring to it as

“ugaling pagkamapagkalinga ng ama”.

Self-efficacy.

Self-efficacy has been shown to be influential in the actions and successes

of individuals in many different areas, including overcoming fears, success in the

workplace, hard life transitions, and academic performance (Bandura, 1977;

Chemers, Hu, & Garcia, 2001). Parental self-efficacy, similar to many constructs

in the social sciences, can be difficult to explain through a single definition

(Young, 2011). The difficulty comes from the many-sided definitions that have

been utilized by social science researchers. Teti and Gelfand (1991) defined

parental self-efficacy as “the degree to which parents perceive themselves as

capable and effective in the parenting role”. Coleman and Karraker (2003) took a
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slightly different approach in defining parental self-efficacy and emphasized

confidence in parenting skills. In this definition, parenting tasks were viewed as

any task related to parenting a child.

Purpose of the Study

The ultimate aim of this study was to explore young fathers’ experiences

on self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental satisfaction. Specifically, this

study sought to answer the following questions: first, who are the young fathers

of this study in terms of their demographic profile specially about their age when

they became a father, current age, sex of children, age of children, number of

children, religion, currently living with the mother of the child, source of

finances, monthly income, highest educational attainment, civil status, civil status

of parents, currently employed, socio-economic status, living arrangement and

sexual behavior profile? Secondly, what are the lived experiences of the

respondents in terms of paternal nurturance, self-efficacy and parental

satisfaction.

Scope and Delimitations

The research sample was composed of 18 male Filipinos who became a

father at the age of 19 and below. They are currently 20 – 25 years old and living

in the towns of Aglipay in Quirino province, ReinaMercedes in Isabela province

and the towns of Bayombong and Solano in Nueva Vizcaya province.

The study used purposive and snow ball sampling in selecting 6

participants per province. The study was limited to exploring the participants’
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experience of self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental satisfaction, thus a

qualitative design was employed.

Significance of the study

The results of the study may serve as basis for the identification of

programs for young fathers particularly in how they can be helped in their

parenting roles. The relevant information that may be acquired from the study

may be of help to:

Young fathers. They will know and recognize what are the most effective

coping mechanisms and the factors that can contribute to their parental

satisfaction.

Families/Parents. They will be more knowledgeable on how to handle

and understand teenage fathers. The study will enhance the knowledge of families

with regards to teenage fathers’ experiences.

Guidance Counselors. This study will widen their knowledge in

providing support and distinguish ways for helping and understanding the

struggles of teenage fathers.

Society. This study will affect the society because having knowledge on

how and what a teenage father goes through will help an individual to understand

what would be the possible consequences of having a child at an early age.

Future researchers. The study will serve as an instrument to direct future

researchers related and other concerns of teenage fathers.


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Definition of Terms

The following terms are defined operationally and conceptually to better

understand its context in the study:

Age. The life length of time during which a being or thing has existed

(Dacles, 2014). In this study, age refers to the age when the respondents become

father and their current age.

Civil status. This pertains to the status of an individual in relation to

marriage (Dacles 2014). It is classified as single, married, or unmarried.

Civil status of respondent’s parents. This refers to the status of the

respondent’s parents in relation to marriage. It is classified as married or

separated.

Educational attainment. This is the highest level of schooling that an

individual has reached (Bautista, 2013). It is categorized into elementary

undergraduate, elementary graduate, high school undergraduate, high school

graduate, college undergraduate and college graduate.

Employment status. This refers to the state of being engaged in an

activity or service for wages or emolument (Bautista, 2013). It is categorized as

employed or unemployed.

Paternal nurturance. This is defined as the degree to which a father

attends to his children’s unique needs by building positive experiences with them,

and by sending consistent messages of love and support (Smith et al., 1994). In

Filipino, Rayco (2008) defined it as “ugaling pagkamapagkalinga ng ama” (a


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father’s affectionate, attentive encouragement of his child). In this study, paternal

nurturance was explored using a researcher made semi-structured interview

questionnaire.

Parental satisfaction. This term also pertains to parenting satisfaction

and is defined as a sense of pleasure and gratification gained from the parenting

role (Pridham & Chang 1989).In this study, parental satisfaction refers to how

satisfied the teenage fathers are as a parent. Parental satisfaction was assessed

using qualitative questions.

Socioeconomic status. This is defined as an individual’s or group’s

hierarchical social culture (The American Heritage New Dictionary of Cultural

Literacy, n.d.). In this study, it was measured using a subjective scale arranged

from high to low with the following descriptions: “I have much money and

properties that I need, can buy whatever I like”; “Income is very sufficient for

family needs, can save”; “Income is sufficient only for family needs, can hardly

save”; “Income is little, sometimes not enough for the family” and “Income is very

little, not always enough for my family” (Bautista, 2013).

Self-efficacy. This is defined as the confidence in one’s ability to behave

in such a way as to produce a desirable outcome (Bandura, 1977). In this study,

self-efficacy was measured using a researcher-made semi-structured interview

questionnaire focused on parental self-efficacy.


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Tatay na si Totoy. Tatay in English is father and Totoy is a term used to

refer to a young boy. So the term can mean “the young boy is a father” or the

“Boy Father”.

Sex of the child. This pertains to the biological sex of the respondents’

child or children.

Young fathers. This refers to the respondents of the study. They are

males currently aged 20 to 25 who became a father at the age of 19 years oldor

below (Pittsburgh, 2000).


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CHAPTER II

REVIEW OF RELATED LITERATURE AND STUDIES

This chapter contains different literature that describe the concepts of

paternal nurturance, self-efficacy and parental satisfaction. The chapter starts with

the definitions of teenage father, self- efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental

satisfaction. It then provides a discussion of relevant studies useful in

understanding the experiences of teenage fathers.

Conceptual Literature

Young Fathers.

Teenage fathers refer to biological fathers aged 19 years and younger.

Most teenage fathers have a genuine desire to be proactively involved in their

children’s lives (Rhoden & Robinson, 1997).Despite an overwhelming percentage

of teen fathers not residing with their children; they still manage to stay involved

with their children in important ways (Danziger & Radin, 1990).

Becoming a young father entails making a life event or psychosocial

transition (to parenthood) superimposed on a life span transition from youth or

adolescence to adulthood. Thus, becoming a parent in the teen years or even in

early twenties represents a faster transition than the norm, requiring a more rapid

set of adjustments at an early age. Early research on fathers concentrated on the

impact of father absence. Subsequently, efforts have been made to ascertain the

proportional involvement of fathers in various aspects of parenting and the

distinctive contributions of fathers.


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The results of the study conducted by Ronquillo and de Leon (2010)

suggested that Filipino fathers, regardless of their demographic characteristics,

give high regard to the roles they play in their children’s lives. They often see

themselves as providers, nurturers, or models of good behavior. They also believe

that being a father is something that has to be taken seriously. Ronquillo and de

Leon (2010) also found that fathers believe that their role is no longer just

confined to providing for the material needs of the family, rather they also see

themselves as nurturers of their children. This suggests that indeed, fathers are

progressively more conscious of their participation in their children’s lives both at

home and in school as the latter continue to grow and develop.

While attention appears to be turning to the needs of teen fathers and the

potential resources they can be for their children, there are methodological

problems with the research. First, involves the definition of teen fathers. Some

researchers define teen fathers as men under age 20s; and still others define teen

fathers as any man who impregnates a teenage girl.

Allen Tan (2002), a Filipino psychologist, proposed four types of

fathering styles namely: procreator, dilettante, generative and determinative. A

procreator perceives the role simply as the siring of offspring/s where activity and

affect is low. To the procreator, his main role is that of a provider. The dilettante

type is a father who does not spend much time or effort in the role, but he enjoys

the company of his children when they are with him. To the dilettante, his main

role is that of a friend. A generative father is one whose involvement with his
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children is high and who reacts to the experience in a positive way; hence, his

role is that of a guardian. A determinative father depicts one who spends much

time and effort on the job, but does not really enjoy it. He perceives fatherhood as

a task, an obligation, a responsibility to bear, perhaps a mission, and his main role

is that of a molder. Tan’s (2002) typology is based on the two dimensions: affect

which can be positive or negative, and activity which is either high or low.

Paternal Nurturance.

Buri (1989) defined paternal nurturance as the father’s role of extending

approval, acceptance, and affirmation to his children. Paternal nurturance has also

been widely defined in the literature as a parent’s responsiveness to a child’s

interest, activities and physical needs while displaying affection, acceptance and

responsiveness towards the child resulting in the child feeling accepted and loved

(Barnes, 1984; Dekovic, Janssens, & Gerris, 1991; Huver, Otten, de Vries, &

Engels 2010; Weinraub & Wolf, 1983). Paternal nurturance encompasses a

number of parenting behaviors, including warmth, loving, closeness,

responsiveness, and acceptance (Aunola, Stattin, & Nurmi,2000; Buri, 1989;

Puustinen, Lyyra, Metsapelto, & Pulkkinen, 2008).

An indigenous Filipino empirical definition of paternal nurturance is

provided by Rayco (2008) describing it as “ugaling pagkamapagkalinga ng ama”

(a father's affectionate, attentive encouragement of his child). This definition was

crafted through his development of a Paternal Nurturance Scale specifically for

Filipinos.According to Gallardo (2010), despite the changes of the times, many


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parents most especially fathers are still bound by gender-biased parenting beliefs

and practices because they are the products of the traditional family set-up; hence,

they need to be educated on the responsibilities and values of parental nurturance

and shared parenting.Liwag, Dela Cruz and Macapagal (1999) claims that the

Filipino father’s chief role is that of family provider and his role as a child

caretaker is considered secondary only. However, Gonzales (2014) reported that

the new generation of fathers is now striving to create an emotional bond with

their children and is also much more interested in being present in their children’s

lives being much less focused on primarily holding the provider role.

Frias (2008) found out that young fathers often face additional hindrances

to become actively involved as parents. Usually unemployment, low educational

attainment, poverty or job loss and low income gets in the way of their parenting

duties leading to negative or decreased interactions with their children. This

observation was supported by the findings of Gonzales (2014) which suggested

that low socio-economic men may be affected by their incapacity to perform a

fundamental dimension of fatherhood limiting their capacity to expand their

emotional realm of fathering beyond that of breadwinning. Moreover, Gallardo

(2010) found that religion is not a predictor of paternal nurturance such that

regardless of religion, fathers feel they have a responsibility to their children.

Self-Efficacy.

Bandura (1977) defined self-efficacy as the confidence in one’s ability to

behave in such a way or to produce a desirable outcome. Self-efficacy has been


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defined as the belief in one’s capabilities to organize and perform courses of

action required to produce given attainments. Self-efficacy has been shown to be

influential in the actions and successes of individuals in many different areas,

including overcoming fears, success in the workplace, hard life transitions, and

academic performance (Bandura, 1977; Chemers, Hu, & Garcia, 2001).

According to Bandura (1997), expectations of self-efficacy are the most powerful

determinants of behavioral change because self-efficacy expectancies determine

the initial decision to perform a behavior, the effort expended, and persistence in

the face of adversity.

Self–efficacy pertains to optimistic beliefs about being capable to cope

with a variety of stressors. People with high self-efficacy choose to achieve more

challenging and difficult tasks. They move toward life with a can – do attitude

that allows them to see challenges as problems to be solved instead of threats that

must be avoided. They also set appropriately challenging goals for themselves

and continue a strong commitment to those goals. People with strong self–

efficacy enjoy life because they are highly engaged. On the other hand, people

with low self-efficacy normally view difficult tasks through the lens of fear. Low

self-efficacy is viewed as a cycle starting with a lack of faith in one’s ability,

leading to a lack of action, and then consequently resulting to more self-doubt.

People who have low self-efficacy become doubtful of their own capabilities, are

more easily stressed and more frequently depressed than people with high levels
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of self-efficacy. Overall, self-efficacy beliefs provide the foundation for human

motivation, well-being, and personal accomplishment (Pajares, 2006).

Parental Satisfaction.

Parental satisfaction is defined as the sense of pleasure and gratification

gained from the parenting role (Pridham & Chang, 1989). ). In some literature,

the term “parental satisfaction” also refers to “parenting satisfaction” as it defines

the father feeling satisfied in his role as a parents. The level of satisfaction may be

influenced by the satisfaction from carrying out infant care tasks, from learning to

know the infant, and from meeting self-expectations regarding one’s role as a

parent (Pridham & Chang 1989; Hudson, Elek, & Fleck (2001) refers to parenting

satisfaction as the parents’ perception of gratification in their parental roles while

Johnson and Mash (1989) defined parental satisfaction as an effective dimension

of parental competence that reflects parenting frustration, motivation and anxiety.

Research Literature

Young Fathers.

About 9 percent or 900,000 young men in the world between ages of 12

and 16 in 1996 have become fathers before their twentieth birthday (Scott,

Manlove & Moore, 2012).Findings of the 1994 Young Adult Fertility and

Sexuality Study (YAFS II) revealed a large proportion of young people aged 15-

24 years in the Philippines reported themselves as becoming parents at an "early

age" (52% among men and 67% among women). In the more recent YAFS – the

2013 YAFS or YAFS IV, results showed that 3.9% or 197,815 of single male
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teens have gotten someone pregnant. This is mostly observed in the Western

Visayas (10%), CARAGA (9%) and MIMAROPA (8%) Regions. The YAFS IV

revealed that this statistic contributes to the increasing teen fertility in the

Philippines in the recent years.

Previous studies suggest that examining the parenting experiences of

young fathers is important because they have similar standards for themselves as

fathers despite facing the challenges associated with early parenthood (Goodyear,

Newcomb & Allison, 2000). Several researches (e.g. Dallas et al, 2000; Erkut et

al, 2005; Shannon & Abrams, 2007; Weinman et al, 2002; Wilkinson et al,

2009)suggested that teen fathers actually want to be there physically and

emotionally for their children, providing financial and material resources,

spending quality time with them and raising them with hopes and dreams for

themselves. Thus, teen fathers serve an integral role in the family system for their

partners and children.

Goodyear, Newcomb, and Allison(2000) found that teen fathers were

more likely to be from disadvantaged homes, have poor academic performance,

experience abuse, live in violent neighborhoods, have low family incomes, and

have younger, uneducated parents who had low educational expectations of them.

Young fathers typically complete lower levels of education and have higher rates

of unemployment or underemployment than older fathers (Healthy Teen

Network, 2004). Young fathers often struggle as a result of lower rates of

educational attainment and the resulting difficulties in obtaining employment to


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provide financially for a child (Mollborn &Lovegrove, 2011). Young fathers are

also more likely to engage in delinquent or criminal behavior, to use cigarettes,

drugs and alcohol, to deal drugs and to inconsistently use contraceptives, thus

often fathering multiple children, potentially with different partners (Planned

Parenthood, 2010; Weinman, Smith, & Buzi, 2002).

Paschal et al. (2011) observed that young fathers, like all adolescents,

attempt to navigate their way through the stresses and challenges brought on by

the transition from adolescence to adulthood. However, they argued that teenage

males who become parents experience “developmental double jeopardy” as they

try to cope with the normative biological, social, and psychological changes and

challenges of adolescence, as well as those associated with normative father

development. Not only are teenage fathers facing parenthood developmentally

unprepared, but the risk factors which have been identified with teenage fathers

also affect their ability to provide for their child (Gilkman, 2004). However,

several researches now indicate that young fathers are more interested in being

involved with their children than previously thought. For adolescent and young

fathers, involvement with their children may help promote the fathers’

psychological development, contribute to the fathers’ self-esteem, and strengthen

the father-child relationship (Foster, 2004; Glickman, 2004).To keep these young

men involved with their child, it is important to eliminate the barriers they are

facing and to give them the resources they need to stay involved (Kimball, 2004).
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Caritaswissenschaft and Sozialarbeit (2012) argue that society has

typically upheld a negative image of teen fathers. Some people have labeled

adolescent fathers “hit and run victimizers”, who are not interested in caring for

their children. This pessimistic attitude, however, does not do justice to the

majority of teen fathers. Although teen fathers are indeed less likely to eventually

marry the mother of the child, multiple studies have shown that the majority of

teen fathers were in a serious romantic relationship with the mother of the child

prior to the pregnancy and often continue the relationship throughout the

pregnancy. Previous research has also shown that many teenage fathers feel a

sense of obligation not only toward their child but also toward the mother of the

child and are interested in being involved in decisions regarding the child

(Caritaswissenschaft & Sozialarbeit, 2012).

Similarly, Rauschendorfer (2005) argued that teen fathers actually do want

to be involved in the family and to be responsible. But they often find it difficult

to balance home life, school life and parenting life. Indeed, young fathers

experience a lot of drastic changes brought about by parenthood. This includes

increased financial responsibility, increased duties to form deep bonds with their

children, the need to develop as a person, to find appropriate support systems, and

work out their complicated relationships with the mothers of their children (Bade,

2012). Lemay, Cashman, Elfenbein and Felice (2010) noticed that becoming a

father apparently appears to be a powerful motivator for the young men to want to

improve themselves through education, employment, and changing how they have
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been or are currently living their lives. Nevertheless, these fathers also discussed

barriers to parenting and services they used or wished existed to help them in their

journey from youth to father (Bade, 2012).

Catholic social teaching stresses the significance of both parents within

the family. While addressing more generally the importance of the family for

society, Pope John Paul II highlights the necessity of the father in his encyclical

Familiaris Consortio and urges:

“Above all where social and cultural conditions so easily


encourage a father to be less concerned with his family or at any
rate less involved in the work of education, efforts must be made to
restore socially the conviction that the place and task of the father
in and for the family is of unique and irreplaceable importance”.
(pp 42)

Paternal Nurturance.

Parental nurturance has been shown to be related to positive child and

adolescent behaviors, school readiness, high academic performance, secure

attachment style, positive self-image, and prosocial development (Finkenauer,

Engels, & Baumeister, 2005; Mowder & Shamah, 2009). Finkenauer et al. (2005)

found that adolescents from nurturing homes are less likely to develop problem

behaviors because they have parents who are emotionally involved, interested in

their lives, and responsive to their children’s needs.

Bean, Bush, McKenry, & Wilson (2003) findings suggest that parental

nurturance increases a child’s self-concept resulting in positive emotional and

academic outcomes. Because parental nurturance is positively associated with

self-concept, this allows adolescents to form positive interpersonal relationships


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since parents who engage in meaningful relationships with their children foster a

tendency for positive interpersonal relationships to form (Belsky, Steinberg, &

Draper 2005). This finding also suggests that perceived parental nurturance may

lead to less distress in emerging adults. Since nurturing parents tend to be highly

involved and responsive to their children, they in turn are able to develop positive

self-images, and adaptive coping and are less likely to have psychological distress

(Belsky et al., 2005).

Parental nurturance has been demonstrated to be a protective factor

against risky behaviors for adolescents and was found to be related to adaptive

coping strategies (Meester & Muris, 2004; Schwartz, Zamboanga, Ravert, Kim,

Weisskirch, Williams, Bersamin, & Finley, 2009). Specifically, parental

nurturance increased self-esteem, successful use of adaptive coping strategies

(i.e., seeking support, comforting thoughts, and active coping), lowered

adolescent drinking behaviors, and decreased depressive symptoms (Buri, 1989;

Huver, 2010; Locke & Prinz, 2002; Meester & Muris, 2004). Parental nurturance

has also been examined in relation to coping behaviors in youth (Locke & Prinz,

2002) wherein children who experience parental rejection tend to view

interpersonal relationships as unreliable and have maladaptive coping methods

(Wolfradt, Hempel, Jeremy, & Miles, 2003).

Adolescents who perceived their parents as caring, loving, or high

nurturing reported fewer interpersonal problems and were found to have greater

psychological adjustment (Finkenauer et al., 2005). In a study of college


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students, high parental nurturance was found to assist in the healthy transition

from adolescents into emerging adults. More specifically, paternal figures were

more protective than maternal figures against health-compromising behaviors,

such as drugs, casual sex, and driving-related risk behaviors (Schwartz & Finley,

2009). The positive outcomes related to high parental nurturance may be the

result of children growing up in nurturing families having parents who are

genuinely interested in the child’s life; therefore the child has a positive self-

concept and experiences less distress (Finkenauer et al., 2005; Schwartz & Finley,

2009).

Research shows that father involvement is important in the lives of young

adult daughters (Schwartz & Finley, 2006; van Schaick & Stolberg, 2001) as it is

associated with specific health outcomes like higher levels of self-esteem and sex

refusal behaviors’ (Katz & Van der Kloet, 2010). Father involvement is also

linked to positive relationship outcomes in young adulthood, including better

functioning in intimate relationships, higher levels of intimacy, trust and

commitment (van Schaick & Stolberg, 2001).

An accumulating body of research now supports the idea that paternal

involvement is important and makes a unique contribution to the development of

their children (Goncy & Van Dulmen, 2010; van Schaick & Stolberg, 2001).

Recent literature has brought to light that father involvement continues to be

important even after children reach adolescence (Mitchell, Booth, & King, 2009).
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Paternal involvement in adolescence is associated with higher levels of

well-being in adolescents (Cookston & Finlay, 2006; Mitchell et al., 2009). Flouri

and Buchanan (2003) found the relationship between paternal involvement and

adolescent well-being statistically significant. Findings of other studies found that

reported father involvement is associated with less behavioralproblems during

adolescence (Mitchell, Booth & King, 2009). Interestingly, Flouri and Buchanan

(2003)found that paternal involvement had a stronger effect than maternal

involvement on adolescent happiness and was equally predictive of sons’ and

daughters’ reported levels of happiness. Schwartz and Finley (2006) found that

this holds true even if the paternal figure is not the biological father. Children

with involved fathers have more success at school, fewer behavior problems and

may have better economic situations than children with absent fathers, although

the quality of the father’s relationship with his child is an important variable

(Mollborn & Lovegrove, 2011).

In the study conducted by Rayco (2008), he inferred that Filipino Metro

Manila-based late adolescents have a clearly discernible indigenous concept of

paternal nurturance or “ugaling pagkamapagkalinga ng ama”. In the paternal

nurturance scale which he crafted, he was able to discover that adolescents

usually defined paternal nurturance in terms of the following: “pangangailangan”

(4), “nakikinig/pinapakinggan” (3), “matulungin” (2), and “loob” (1). Based on

theses, paternal nurturance was operationally defined in summary form as “isang

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nakakapagbigay ng kapanatagan at lakas ng loob” (one who listens and responds

to his child’s needs and makes him or her feel secure and self-confident).

Through the contributions of longitudinal studies such as the Rochester

Youth Development Study (n.d.), program evaluations and qualitative research

about young fathers and their unique needs are increasing (Kimball, 2004).

Bunting and McAuley (2004) noted that while most of quantitative data provide a

rather negative picture of paternal involvement, qualitative research highlights

how many young fathers genuinely want to be involved with their children and

would have more contact and input if they could.

Self-Efficacy.

Many studies argue that having a high self-efficacy leads to good

outcomes. Caprara, Pastarelli, Regalia, Scabini, and Bandura (2004b) reported

that filial self-efficacy was linked directly and indirectly to satisfaction with

family life suggesting that the greater the adolescents’ perceived self-efficacy, the

higher the reported open communication with their parents. Studies have also

linked high self-efficacy to a number of positive outcomes such as academic

achievement, healthy lifestyles, and the ability to negotiate risk (Nebbitt, 2009).

Those who have low self-efficacy showed greater stress and lower mental health

(Moeini et. al., 2008).

Raikes and Thompson (2005) found that parental self-efficacy indicates

the level of parenting quality. Self-efficacy allows adolescents to engage in tasks

that they believe they can succeed and keeps them motivated. According to
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Bradley and Corwyn (2004) experiences of children in their environment

particularly the home are associated with a broad domain of their development

such as social behavior and self-efficacy.

Some studies found that there is a difference in self efficacy according to

gender. Dona, Scholz, Schwarzer and Sud (2002) reported the superiority of

males with regard to self–efficacy as compared to females in various cultures.

This is in contrast to Nebbitt’s (2009) finding on self-efficacy among poor

African American youth which revealed that females were more likely to report

high levels of self-efficacy than males.

Apart from gender, family type also appears to influence self-efficacy.

Singh and Udainiya (2009) found that adolescents of joint families showed higher

self-efficacy than adolescents belonging to the nuclear family. In the study

conducted by Glickman (2004), observed that contributing financially appears to

increase a young man’s self-esteem and self-efficacy regarding fatherhood.

Ardelt and Eccles’ (2001) model suggested that parental self-efficacy can

produce a direct influence on a child’s success through the modeling of attitudes

and beliefs. Jones and Prinz (as cited in Ardelt & Eccles, 2001) found this model

to be correct as they applied it to their research shortly after. The premise of the

model is that as a parent’s level of parental self-efficacy increases, the parent’s

exhibition of positive attitudes, outlooks, and beliefs also increases. This may

result in his/her children adopting these attitudes and beliefs and applying them to
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their own behavior and mental schemas which leads to a higher level of child

success.

Parental Satisfaction.

Parenting satisfaction is defined as a sense of pleasure and gratification

gained from the parenting role. This includes satisfaction in carrying out infant

care tasks, how well the parent knows the infant, and the extent to which self-

expectations as a parent are being met (Pridham & Chang, 1989).

Salonen (2010) found that mothers who were younger scored lower on

self-concept, had more depressive symptoms and had more negative perceptions

of childbirth than fathers. Mothers also experienced greater life changes and

infant centrality. However, mothers’ assessments of their parenting satisfaction

and parenting self-efficacy were systematically more positive than fathers’

assessments. Overall, both mothers and fathers experienced parenting satisfaction

and parental self-concept very positively.

Keiningham, Aksoy, Andreassen, and Estrin (2006) found that parental

satisfaction is most important to child retention when the child isvery young

(birth to one year of age). As children grow older, however, parental

satisfactionbecomes increasingly less predictive.

Synthesis

The study is similar to previous studies in a way that self-efficacy,

parental nurturance and parental satisfaction were also used in this study. Most

of the studies on teen fathers reveal that there are now a greater number of
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youngfathers compared to the previous years. Unlike previous literature, recent

researches now agree that fathers actually want to be involved in their children’s

lives.Previous studies in paternal nurturance, self-efficacy and parental

satisfaction focused on the importance of these variables in a child’s life. Many

recent studies support the idea that paternal nurturance makes a unique

contribution to the development of children and it continues to be important even

after children reach adolescence. It is important that a child comes from a

nurturing family since it leads to greater psychological adjustment, adaptive

coping strategies and aids in the development of a child’s positive self-concept.

Recent studies found that there is a difference in self-efficacy according to

gender, family set-up and financial status. Previous studies also suggested that

parental self-efficacy can produce a direct influence on a child’s success through

the modeling of attitudes and beliefs. While there are several studies already

about self-efficacy and paternal nurturance, there are fewer studies done with

regard to parental satisfaction.

The present study on the other hand focused on the lived experiences of

the young fathers in the Philippines so as to widen the knowledge on how a young

father experiences paternal nurturance, self-efficacy and parental satisfaction.

Moreover, the demographic and sexual behavior of the young fathers serve as the

background of young fathers and to know who the Filipino young father is.
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CHAPTER III

RESEARCH METHODOLOGY

This chapter contains the subject of the study, research design, research

environment, research instruments, procedures for quantitative and qualitative

gathering and analysis of data.

Research Design

This study used primarily a qualitative design. However, it included a

quantitative section which revealed the demographic profile as well as sexual

behavior profile of the respondents. The qualitative design through the interview

method was used to explore the experiences of young fathers in terms of their

self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental satisfaction in raising their child.

Subjects of the Study

The study involved18 young fathers from the provinces of Nueva

Vizcaya, Quirino, and Isabela in Region II. They were 19 years old and below

when they first became a father and were 20-25 years old at the time of the study.

The respondents were chosen based on these criteria: they were below 20 yrs old

when they fathered a child, that they should have at least one child who is alive,

they should be living with the child most of the time, and be the custodial parent.

The chosen young fathers were not necessarily married nor living with the mother

of his child at the time of the conduct of the study.

Participants were selected from the towns of Bayombong and Solano

(Nueva Vizcaya), Aglipay (Quirino) and Reina Mercedes (Isabela). The reason or
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choosing these municipalities or provinces was because of the high reported

teenage pregnancy cases in these areas according to the Commission on

Population (2013). The study used purposive snow ball sampling to identify the

participants. Through the participants or informants who have contact with other

people who could potentially participate in or contribute to the study, the

researchers were able to select six participants per province.

Research Environment

The study was conducted in the provinces of Nueva Vizcaya, Quirino and

Isabela. All these provinces are located in Region 2, Luzon, Philippines.

According to the Commission on Population (PopCom) Region 2, the region is

second highest in the number of teen pregnancy cases recorded in their most

recent survey (PopCom, 2013).

Bayombong and Solano, Nueva Vizcaya. Bayombong is a first class

municipality and the capital of the province of Nueva Vizcaya. According to the

2010 census, it has a population of 57,416 (Official Website of the Province of

Nueva Vizcaya, 2015).Solano, Nueva Vizcaya is a first class partially urban

municipality in the province of Nueva Vizcaya, Philippines. Solano is the central

business district in Nueva Vizcaya.According to the 2010 census, it has a

population of 56,134(Official Website of the Province of Nueva Vizcaya, 2015).

In a recent survey on teenage pregnancy from 2011 to 2013, Nueva Vizcaya

ranked third in teenage pregnancy cases in Region 2 (PopCom, 2013) with 692
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reported pregnancy cases in Bayombong and 630 from Solano. Most cases of teen

pregnancy were among those away from their homes (PopCom Region 2, 2013).

Aglipay is a first class municipality in the province of

Quirino, Philippines. According to the 2010 census, it has a population of 26,187

people (Official Website of the Province of Quirino, 2015). The province of

Quirino ranked fourth in the number of teen pregnancy cases in Region 2

according to the 2013 survey of the Commission on Population.

Reina Mercedes, Isabela is a third class municipality situated in Central

Isabela with agriculture as main livelihood. According to the 2010 census, it has a

population of 23,497 people (Official Website of the Province of Isabela, 2015).

Among the provinces in Region 2, Isabela ranked first in the number of teenage

pregnancy cases during the 2011-2013 survey of the Commission on Population.

Research Instruments

Consent Letter. This was used to provide the participants information

about their rights as a participant as well as the purpose of the study.

Informed Consent Form. This presents the evidence that the participants

understood the precise information about their confidentiality rights, the risks as

well as the benefits of the study and that they willingly participated in the study.

Demographic Survey. This was used to collect demographic information

about the young fathers. The demographic survey is a researcher-made

questionnaire which consists of the current age and the age when the respondents
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became a father, the age and sex of their child, their relationship status, and

religion, among others. It was analyzed using descriptive statistics.

Semi-structured Interview. This was used to collect information about

the lived experiences of teenage fathers on self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and

parental satisfaction. A total of nine questions were crafted by the researchers to

delve into the experiences of the respondents. Three questions each were asked to

inquire about self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental satisfaction

respectively. All responses were written and thematically analyzed.

Procedure

The first step that the researchers undertook was to identify the participants.

To find the initial participants, the researchers asked family, friends and

acquaintances whether they knew someone who fit the selection criteria. Through

these referrals, snowball sampling was conducted to identify and complete the six

target participants per province.

One researcher was in-charge of Bayombong and Solano, another for

Reina Mercedes and the other researcher for Aglipay. The researchers themselves

administered the semi-structured interview. They asked permission from the

identified participant to visit them at their houses or at their workplaces. They

then introduced themselves and explained the purpose of the study and mentioned

who referred them. The respondents were also given an informed consent form.

After these, the interview about their profile was conducted. Afterwards, the semi

structured interview proper was conducted first on the questions about their self-
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efficacy, next, the questions on paternal nurturance and lastly, the parental

satisfaction questions.

Data Analysis

The quantitative data were analyzed using descriptive statistics,

specifically frequency, percent, means. Answers to questions relating to self-

efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental satisfaction were analyzed using

thematic coding.
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CHAPTER IV

PRESENTATION, INTERPRETATION AND ANALYSIS OF FINDINGS

This chapter presents the analyses of the responses of the 18 young fathers

with regard to their self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental satisfaction.

The presentation of data analysis is grouped into three sections. Section 1 answers

the question “who are the teenage fathers of this study?” describing individually

the purposively selected teenage fathers. It narrates their experiences prior to and

after becoming teenage fathers highlighting their sexual behaviors,

socioeconomic, employment and relationship statuses. Section 2 discusses the

quantitative results on the profile characteristics of the respondents and serves to

summarize results indicated in section 1. Section 3, 4 and 5 presents theparental

nurturance, self-efficacy and parental satisfaction of the respondents, respectively.

Section 1: Participant Narratives

This section is a narration of the lives of each of the participants,

highlighting their sexual behavior prior to becoming a father, their current

socioeconomic, employment and marital or relationship status. It contains 18

narratives - each one describing the unique lives of teenage fathers who were

purposively selected from the provinces of Nueva Vizcaya, Quirino and Isabela.

Their names have been changed to ensure participant anonymity.

Jay

Jay became a father at 18 years old. Now at the age of 21, he already has

two daughters, a four year-old and a one year-old. At the age of 13, he already
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engaged in premarital sex and has had many sexual partners before he had a child.

He said that the reason why he engaged in premarital sex before was peer

pressure explaining that he got teased by his peers to try it. During his first sexual

experience he got the girl pregnant. They had the child aborted for the reason that

they are afraid and they did not know how to handle it. For the second time that it

happened they already continued with the pregnancy and let the child live. His

family and the family of the girl were very disappointed when they heard about it.

He also said the family of the girl before did not like him for their daughter. But

as the years passed by he was eventually accepted by his in-laws. They got

married in 2014 but were living together for three years prior to the marriage. He

finished a vocational course and is currently working as a construction worker.

Besides his construction work, he also has a farm that he inherited from his

parents. This is where he gets income to support his family. He feels that his

income is sufficient only for family needs and he can hardly save. He is living

with his children and his spouse and he is trying his best to be a good father to his

two children. He knows that he will still face many difficulties as a father but he

is positive he can surpass these because he said that he will do anything for his

family.

Pedro

Pedro first became a father when he was 19 years old. Now at the age of

21, he already has a two year-old son. He has more than 20 past relationships and

he started having one when he was 16 years old. He experienced his first sexual
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intercourse at the age of 18 with his girlfriend at that time. Before he had a child,

he had three prior sexual partners. He said that the reason why he engaged in

premarital sex is curiosity. He did not use contraception in engaging in sexual

intercourse that is why he was often worried every time he engaged in premarital

sex that he might get his partner pregnant. And it happened when he was 19 years

old, he got his girlfriend pregnant. When he first heard about it, he was in denial.

He eventually accepted it and he was man enough to accept the responsibility for

the pregnancy. Now his son is already two years old. He is not yet married to the

mother of his child rather they are living in together with his in-laws. He is a

college undergraduate. Not finishing college makes it hard for him to find a job

before. But now he can already provide for his family with the help of his job as a

security guard of a department store. He is earning Php 15,000-20,000 a month

which is very sufficient for his family needs and he can also save for their future.

Juan

Juan became a father when he was 19 years old. He first entered in a

relationship when he was 12. By the time he was 15, he was already engaging in

premarital sex. He had more than ten past girlfriends and six of them had become

his sexual partners before he had a child. He said that his aggressiveness or

“kapusukan” led him to engage in premarital sex. He is currently 20 and already

has a one year-old daughter. He reported that he is not use contraception before

when he engaged in sexual intercourse. He also did not worry that he might get

his sexual partner pregnant. When he heard that he will become a father already,
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he accepted it right away and he was even excited over it. He did not know the

hardships of being a teenage father until his child was born. Before, he could do

what he wants and had many vices but when his child was born, he already

matured and changed. He experienced difficulty finding a job because he is just a

high school graduate. Currently, he is working at a local market, helping sell rice

and feeds. He is earning Php 5,000-10,000 a month which he feels is sufficient

only for his family needs. He already separated from his parents and is now living

independently with his spouse and child doing all his best to be a good and

responsible father.

Popoy

Popoy has more than 12 past girlfriends. He started having one when he

was 15 years old. He experienced his first sexual intercourse at the age of 18. He

said that he has many sexual partners before he had a child and the reason why he

engaged in premarital sex was because he is a boy and his body craves for it. He

does not use any contraception in engaging in sexual intercourse. According to

him, he was not worried that he might get his partners pregnant because he was

confident that he knows what he was doing. He was 19 years old when he heard

that he got a girl pregnant. At that time, he was shocked and was in denial. He did

not know how to react and what to do but eventually he accepted it. He had no

doubt that he was the father because the girl was his longtime girlfriend. He is

now 21 years old and has a two and ½ year old daughter. He is not yet married to

the mother of his child rather they are living-in together with his in-laws and the
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siblings of his girlfriend. He finished a vocational course in TESDA and he is

currently employed as a security guard. His income is PhP 10,000 - PhP15,000 a

month that is sufficient only for his family needs and he can hardly save. He said

that he really needs to exert more effort so that he can provide all the needs of his

family.

Mario

Mario first became a father when he was 19 years old. At age 20, he is

now a father to ten month-old identical female twins. Before he had children, he

had three past girlfriends. His first girlfriend was when he was 17 year old, the

same age that he experienced his first sexual intercourse. He had two sexual

partners before he had a child. The reason why he engaged in premarital sex was

because his girlfriend at that time insisted that they should do it. He did not use

any contraception when engaging in sexual intercourse. Furthermore, he was not

worried that he might get his sexual partners pregnant. So when he heard that he

got a girl pregnant he accepted it right away and he was even happy about it. He

is currently living in with the mother of his children together with his in-laws. He

is a high school graduate that is why he has difficulty finding a job. He is

currently a helper/seller in the business of his aunt in the local market. He is

earning PhP5000 a month, which is not sufficient for his family’s needs

considering that he has twins but his in-laws are helping him in providing the

needs of his family. He knows that he cannot depend on his in-laws forever and

so he has plans to be a better provider to his family.


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Jose

Jose was 15 years old when he had his first girlfriend, the same age that he

experienced his first sexual intercourse. He had two past girlfriends and had three

sexual partners before he had a child. He said that he engaged in premarital sex

before because he is a boy and that “he has needs”. He used condom before in

engaging in sexual intercourse because he was worried that he might get his

sexual partners pregnant. His fears came true because he got his last girlfriend

pregnant. He was afraid and did not know what to do when he heard about it.

Abortion crossed their minds but they did not push through with it because they

came to their senses. So he braved it and married the mother of his child and he

accepted the responsibility for his child. He was just 19 then and he was still

studying. His parents took the responsibility of providing the needs of his family.

He is now 23 years old and a criminology graduating student. His son is now

three years old. He is ashamed to his parents because they took responsibility for

providing for his own family. But he said that he is doing his best in school to

graduate so that he can find a job that can provide for the needs of his family.

Shad

Shad was only 15 years old when he had his first girlfriend and first

sexual intercourse. His first sexual intercourse happened in their house. He felt

nervous that time since it was his first time. After the first encounter however, he

eventually had 25 sexual partners which included past girlfriends and one-night

stands. Curiosity is the reason why he engaged in premarital sex. He did not use
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contraceptives every time he engaged in sexual activity. So when he heard that he

got his sexual partner pregnant at the age of 19, he was shocked, although he had

no doubt that it was his child. Shad is 24 years old now. He has a daughter who is

four-years old and currently living with her mother. Despite having a child at a

young age, Shad was able to finish college. He now has his own income. But he

still receives financial support from his parents and in-laws to enable him to better

provide for his child. His estimated income monthly is Php5,000 and according to

him, this income is sufficient only for family needs and he can hardly save.

Rap

Rap is 20 years old now and became a father when he was 19 years old.

According to him, he entered in a relationship when he was 16 years old. He

experienced his first sexual intercourse at the age of 18 with his second girlfriend.

He had three sexual partners before he became a father. He said that he was

carried away by foreplay and romantic activities. He does not use contraceptives

because according to him he is a “happy go lucky man” and “come what may”

sort of person. When he heard that he got the girl pregnant, he was in shock.

Eventually, he realized that he needs to be serious already and find a job. Rap is a

college graduate. He took up computer engineering and is currently working as a

quality assurance specialist in Manila. He is earning PhP20,000-30,000 monthly.

He is working in Manila while his wife and son are living in the province with his

family.
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Kris

Kris became a father at the age of 18. He is 23 years old now and has a

daughter. Kris is married and living with his wife and daughter. He is a college

undergraduate but he finished a vocational course. Currently, he is working as a

bookkeeper and microfinance officer in Cordon, Isabela earning PhP10,000-

15,000 monthly which is sufficient for family needs and he can save. Kris was

only 14 years old when he entered into a romantic relationship. He said he had

two serious relationships and seven flings. He experienced his first sexual

intercourse at the age of 16. According to him, he had five sexual partners before

he became a father. He was pressured by his peers to engage in premarital sex. He

was not bothered that he would get a girl pregnant since he practices safe sex by

using contraceptives. Nevertheless, when he was 18, he got his girlfriend

pregnant. When he heard about it, they openly decided to continue with the

pregnancy and eventually got married.

Je

Je was 20 years old when he became a father. He is 22 years old now and

has a daughter. He is an assistant manager of a fast food chain in Manila and is

earning PhP35,000-40,000 monthly which is very sufficient for the family. It was

in high school when he had his first girlfriend and first sexual intercourse. He had

more than 10 sexual partners before. He feels that he was influenced by the

stories of his friends and out of his curiosity that he engaged in premarital sex.
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His first girlfriend was also his partner in his first sexual intercourse. They did it

in his house. When he heard that he got the girl pregnant he felt scared and

nervous because he did not really like his girlfriend. Je called their marriage a

‘shotgun wedding’because the family of his girlfriend forced him to marry their

daughter. Je is currently living with his sister and mother, while his daughter and

wife are living with his wife’s parents. He feels that they are married only in

paper. However, according to him, despite his complicated relationship with his

wife, he does not forget his obligations to his daughter.

Bry

Bry is now 21 years old and became a father at the age of 19. He was 16

years old when he entered into his first relationship, the same age he experienced

his first sexual intercourse. His first sexual intercourse happened in the house of

his ex-girlfriend. He had 10-15 sexual partners before he became a father and

curiosity was the reason why he engaged in premarital sex. He only uses

withdrawal method when engaging in sexual activity. When he heard that he got

his sexual partner pregnant, he was nervous because he was still studying.

Eventually he accepted his responsibility for his child. But because he was still

studying, his parents decided to allow him to finish school first. Now, he has a

two year-old daughter. Both Bry’s girlfriend (mother of his child) and daughter

are living with his in-laws. He usually just visits them there after school. Bry has

big plans for his family after graduating stating that he will find work

immediately to provide for his daughter and soon-to-be wife.


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Nem

Nem was 16 years old when he had his first girlfriend. This was the same

age when he experienced his first sexual intercourse. His first sexual intercourse

happened at the house of his former girlfriend. He had four sexual partners before

he became a father. He does not use contraceptives, so when he heard that he got

his girlfriend pregnant he was shocked and nervous. He knew his father will be so

angry if he knew about it. However, he loved his girlfriend so he just accepted the

fact that he was going to be a father. Nem is 22 years now and he was only 19

years old when he became a father. He is not yet married but he is living with his

girlfriend and son together with his father. He is working as a service crew in a

fast food chain and he earns PhP5000-10000 a month.

Macoy

He was 16 when he first became a father. Currently he is 25 years old. At

present he has 3 children - all male, and they are aged seven, five and two years

old. They are not living with the mother of his children instead they are living

with his parents because his wife is an OFW. Since he is an elementary

undergraduate, he does not have any work at the present. When asked about his

family, he says that their life is okay and still surviving despite all the hardships.

Macoy only has one past girlfriend. He had his first girlfriend when he was 15

years old. He was 12 when he had his first sexual encounter. At that time, they

did not use any contraception. The encounter occurred at Macoy’s house. When
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asked about his reaction when he heard he got his girlfriend pregnant, he said he

accepted it immediately.

Budoy

Budoy is 23 years old now. He was 17 when he became a father and 13

when he had his first girlfriend. In sum, he only had two past girlfriends. His first

intercourse was not with his past girlfriends, but with an acquaintance. Before he

had his child, he had nine sexual relations which were with friends, acquaintances

and one with a stranger. According to him, he wants to know the feeling of

having sexual intercourse that was why he engaged in it. He also said he was not

worried if he will get his sexual partner pregnant even though he did not use any

contraceptive. At the time that he found that he impregnated a girl, he doubted it

because according to him, he knows that he is not the only one who has had

sexual encounters with the girl. At present he has a son aged five. Together with

his wife, they are living with his parents. His parents are the ones supporting him

since he is a high school undergraduate and does not have financial resources.

Baguito

Baguito is 21 years old, single and has a 5 year old son. He was 15 years

old when he became a father. Baguito has four past girlfriends. He had his first

girlfriend at the age of 13, but he experienced his first sexual intercourse at the

age of 12. He recounted that, “because of my friends, I was pressured to engage

in sexual activities and from then on it became a hobby to have sex with girls”.
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Before he had a child, he had a total of eight sexual partners which were with

girlfriends and acquaintances. They usually held it at the house/boarding house of

his friends. He was worried that he might get a girl pregnant since he did not use

any contraception. And when he was informed that he impregnated a girl he

initially denied it because according to him, “May pakiramdam ako na… hindi sa

akin yun… na sa isa kong kaibigan yun. Siya ang bumuntis sa kanya” (I had a

feeling that it was not mine and it was one of my friends who impregnated her).

Together with his child, they are living with his parents who are supporting them.

He is currently unemployed since he is high school undergraduate and still unable

to find a good job. His family is happy, understanding and supportive despite of

the fact that they were burdened with Baguito’s early engagement in teen

fatherhood.

Pepito

Pepito became a father at the age of 14. He now has two children, a 3 year

old son and a 6 year old daughter. Before having children, he had two past

girlfriends. He was 13 at the time he had his first girlfriend. At the age of 14, he

already had his first sexual intercourse – but not with his girlfriend, rather with

one of his female friends. It occurred at the residence of his female friend. He did

not use any contraception at that time. According to him he was worried that he

would impregnate his friend. And when he heard that his fear came true, he ran

away trying to avoid the responsibility of being a father of the child. He stated,
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“Inaalala ko yung nanay ko baka mapatay niya ako at ayaw ko pa talagang mag

asawa” (I was worried about my mother because I was sure she was going to kill

me and in the first place I did not like to get married). Currently, Pepito is not

living with the mother of his child rather he is living with his mother. He is a high

school undergraduate and currently unemployed. According to him, his parents

are very strict and they are always angry and also always busy at the farm. They

are seven siblings in their family and one of his brothers is also a teenage father.

He grew up very sad because his parents are separated and he always has feelings

of emptiness.

Loriel

Loriel is currently 23 years old and a Catholic by religion. He is a college

undergraduate, and currently working as a cook at a local restaurant. His parents

are separated and they have their separate families. Pedro usually feels that his

parents left him alone in the custody of his grandmother, stating, “I don’t like my

parents. They are not true parents”. He feels sad and alone growing up together

with his grandmother. In sum, he had 11 past girlfriends. He was 11 years old

when he had his first girlfriend. When he turned 12, he experienced his first

sexual intercourse with his girlfriend. According to him he engaged in premarital

sex just for past time. He used contraception that is why he did not worry that he

would impregnate a girl. However, when he learned that he impregnated his

girlfriend, he initially wanted her to abort the child. According to him, he did not
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like to have a family at that time. He also shared, “Ang totoo niyan nandun na

kami noon sa harap ng bahay ng pag papalaglagan ng bata, pero hindi namin

alam… bigla kaming nakonsensya at nagdesisyon na lang kami ng girlfriend ko

na buhayin at alagaan na lang anak namin.” (Actually we are already at the

house of the abortionist. We don’t know, we were knocked by our conscience and

decided to push through with the pregnancy). He was 16 when he became a

father. He has one daughter, aged 6. He is currently living together with the

mother of his child.

Dan

Dan is currently 21 years old and Catholic by religion. He has one son

aged five. He had three past girlfriends and the first time he had a girlfriend was

when he was 13. This was the same age that he had his first sexual intercourse. It

happened with his friend. They did it at his friend’s house without using any

contraception. According to him, he was worried that he would impregnate his

friend. When he heard that he had impregnated the girl, he denied it saying,

“itinanggi ko noong una kasi natakot ako sa masasabi ng magulang ko at nang

girlfriend ko” (I denied at first because I was afraid of my parents’ and

girlfriend’s reaction). Currently, Dan is living with his child’s mother. He is a

high school undergraduate and currently unemployed. According to him, his

parents understand despite the fact that he now has his own family at a young age.
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Filipino Young Fathers: A Summary

Young fathers of this study became a parent at the age of 19 and below.

They are at their early 20s now. They have currently one child with most of them

having a son who is in early childhood. Almost all of them are Roman Catholics.

Most of the young fathers are currently living in an extended familial set-up in

which they are not only living with the mother of their child but also living with

his parents or in-laws and other relatives. Half of the young fathers are married.

While most of them are college undergraduates, they were able to find

employment and have their own income. Their income, however, remains low

and often not enough to support himself or his family. With regards their sexual

behavior, the young fathers reported that they engaged in premarital sex as early

as age 12 to 18. Often they engaged into it with their girlfriend with the venue

being in their own residence. Prior to becoming a father, they had several past

girlfriends and sexual partners. When they engaged in sexual intercourse, they

rarely use contraception; nonetheless, they did not fear they would impregnate

their sexual partner. Upon learning that their partner was pregnant, their initial

reaction was acceptance of the circumstance.

Section 2. Young Fathers’ Profile Characteristics

This section presents the quantitative results of the respondents’ profile. It

is meant to describe the collective profile of the respondents across various

demographic, socioeconomic and family-based variables. It also includes a


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discussion of their sexual behavior profile. Results of the quantitative analyses in

tables are shown as an appendix.

From the interview, it was discovered that most of the respondents are

aged 19, or in late adolescence (56%) when they became a father. The youngest

age for when they became a father is 14, with a mean age of 17.72 or 18 years

old. This is supported by the findings of the 1994 Young Adults Fertility and

Sexuality Study (YAFS II) which revealed a large proportion of young people

aged 15-24 years in the Philippines reporting themselves as becoming parents at

an early age(52% among men). In the 2014 YAFS or YAFS 4, almost 4% of the

unmarried teen males reported that they have gotten someone pregnant,

suggesting that there are indeed premarital experiences among this group of

young individuals.

Historically, individuals were allowed to marry at a very young age. In

Ancient Rome, the appropriate minimum age for marriage was 14 for males and

12 for females (Dahl, 2010). This standard was eventually adopted by the

Catholic Church when Rome was Christianized. Hence, in the 19th century,

marriage at age 18 and below was not unusual in the Philippines. Societally,

being married calls for pregnancy and hence it can be assumed that pregnancy

would also occur at a young age. The current findings, however, signal an

alarming trend of early sexual engagement prior to marriage. Natividad (2013)

confirmed this increasing proportion when she reported that premarital sexual
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activity now occurs at much younger age citing the decrease in the stigma of out-

of-wedlock pregnancy as a possible explanation.

Developmental neuroscientists (e.g., Luna & Sweeney; Steinberg, as cited

in Alampay, Dela Cruz & Liwag, 2009) have argued that risk-taking activities is

an intrinsic part of being a teenager simply because brain maturation is still

incomplete by adolescence. Cerebral structures specifically those responsible for

impulse control only reach maturity by adulthood or by age 18. This suggests that

because teenagers’ brain and the cerebral structures responsible for impulse

control are not fully matured, they are prone to engagement in risky behaviors

like premarital or unprotected sex.

All of the respondents, in the current study, are already in their 20s and

most are Catholics (89%). Thirty three percent (33%) of them are 21 years old

and the youngest is 20 years old. The mean age of the respondents is 21.83 or 22

years old. Two out of three fathers (66%) are currently living with the mother of

their child. Most of the respondents currently have only one child (72%). This is

similar to the finding of the YAFS-4 which found that half of married teen males

have at least one child (41%).

Almost 39% of the respondents did not finish college. Only 17%

graduated from college. Despite this, sixty percent have a source of income while

the rest are still depending on their parents or on their in-laws for finances. In

terms of monthly income, 39% of the respondents are earning less than P5,000

monthly. While most did not finish college, there is still a higher educational
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attainment compared to the national statistics provided by the YAFS 4 which

revealed that 49% of the adolescent males 15-19 years old in the Philippines are

only high school undergraduates (YAFS 4, 2014).

The table further shows that most of respondents (38.9%) are married.

Twenty seven percent (27%) are single and the other 28% are living in together.

In the YAFS-4, it was reported that there are more youth (aged 15-24) who are in

a “living-in” arrangement than married. However, in this study there are more

married teen males (39%) than those who are living-in (28%). Furthermore, most

of the respondents’ parents are married (78%).

The results of the quantitative data also show that 56% of the respondents

are currently employed and have their own income. This is consistent with the

nationwide YAFS-4 which reported that most of the male adolescents’ activity

aside from studying was working (23%). In terms of their socioeconomic status, it

can be shown that 44% reported as belonging to low socio-economic status. This

finding is supported by the survey conducted by the Healthy Teen Network

(2004) which showed that young fathers usually have higher rates of

unemployment and lower levels of education than older fathers. Mollborn and

Lovegrove (2011) observed the same when they found out that young fathers

often struggle to provide financially for a child as a result of lower rates of

educational attainment and the resulting difficulties in gaining employment.

Most of the respondents (56%) are currently living in an extended family

set up which means they are living with their parents, in-laws, and grandparents.
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Filipino families are collectivistic; hence, the extended family set-up is very

common. When a son or daughter has already had his/her own family, he/she

together with the new family reside in the same house with his/her parents. Living

in an extended family has apparent advantages with regards paternal nurturance.

Parents and in-laws can help in nurturing or looking after their grandchildren

even on a day-to-day basis. In a 2013 article entitled “The Importance of

Extended Family to Building Strong, Healthy Families” (as cited in Rush,

2016),it was discussed that extended families are sources of emotional and

physical support. More than helping in childcare, they impart encouragement for

parents and help in making children feel loved and appreciated. This results to

lesser burdens particularly among youngfathers who are often inexperienced with

childcare. Young fathers are also given some liberty to look for work, spend time

with friends or engage in leisure since someone is available to attend to his child.

On the other end, however, this circumstance can also lead to

irresponsibility among the young fathers. They may engage in their previous

“bachelor” life, precisely because their children are being looked after anyway.

Furthermore, in a typical extended family, a child’s father or mother will not

always be the primary caregiver. The grandmother or an aunt or sibling may

provide the largest support or child care, even when the spouses are around every

day (Pillitteri, 2010). If this occurs, a father’s time with his child may decrease

which in turn may prevent him from increasing his paternal nurturance and

parental satisfaction.
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Table 2 shows that most of the respondents had many past girlfriends

before they impregnated a girl. The mean number of their past girlfriends is 7.67

or 8. The youngest age for when they had their first girlfriend is 11 and the oldest

is 17, with a mean age of 14.39. When it comes to their age when they had their

first sexual intercourse, most reported that it was at the ages of 15 (22.2%) or 16

(22.2%). The youngest age for first sexual experience was 12 and the oldest age

reported was 18. According to the YAFS-4, there is an increasing proportion of

teen males that are engaging in early sex before age 15 and 18 (YAFS-4, 2014).

In this study, the mean age for first sexual initiation is 15.33 almost similar to the

YAFS-4 study which reported that sexual initiation began at 16 years old.

The results in the sexual behavior of the respondents are also almost

similar to the survey conducted by the nationwide Young Adult Fertility and

Sexuality Study among youth aged 15-24 (YAFS-3) in 2002 which revealed that

23.2% adolescents have had premarital sex (PMS) (31% males and 16% females),

with mean age at first sex of 17 for males and 18 for females. It would appear that

sexual initiation or first sexual experience is increasingly occurring at a much

younger age in the Philippines nowadays suggesting changes in prevalent sexual

behaviors and practices of young people. Natividad (2013) confirms this when

she reported that there is now a rising trend of premarital sexual activity among

young people coupled with an increasing acceptance of premarital sex. This

signify that interventions should be designed to help reverse the trend.

Almost 78% of the respondents had their first sexual intercourse not with
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any person, but with their girlfriend. This is consistent with the YAFS-3 study

which reported that 60% of the teen males also had their first PMS with a

girlfriend.

The mean number of their sexual partners is 7.50 or 8. This is higher when

compared with the YAFS-3 since 4 was the mean number of partners among

sexually active male adolescents (YAFS-3, 2002).

The respondents’ home was the usual venue of their first sexual

intercourse (55.6%). Other respondents reported that it occurred in the girl’s

residence (22.2%), in their friend’s house or boarding house (16.7%) and some

revealed it occurred in a hotel (5.6%).

In addition, most of the respondents (61.10%) were not worried that they

might get the girl pregnant. The YAFS-4 study also found out that almost 4% of

single male teens have gotten someone pregnant. Almost all (77.80%) of the

respondents did not use contraceptives when they engaged in sexual intercourse.

This is confirmed by the YAFS studies which reported among teen males aged

15-24 in the Philippines a very low level of protection during their first premarital

sex (PMS). In the YAFS-3, it reported that only 27.6% males and 14.5% females

used contraception during first PMS.

When asked about their reactions upon learning of the pregnancy of their

sexual partner, most of the respondents (44.4%) stated that they accepted it.

Almost 28%, however, denied it, while16.7% planned to abort the child.

Caritaswissenschaft and Sozialarbeit (2012) argued that society usually has a


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negative image of teen fathers portraying them as “hit and run victimizers”. The

current results however suggest otherwise. In the current study, only one (5.6%)

reported that he initially ran away, whereas another (5.6%) said that he doubted

that it was his child. According to Frias (2008), teenage fathers almost never plan

a pregnancy that is why their initial reactions may be denial, fear, and/or a desire

to escape.

Indeed, young fathers of this study handled theresponsibility of

impregnating their partner. An explanation for this might be because of “hiya”

(shame) or “kahihiyan”. Shame, in this context, refers to “a kind of anxiety, a fear

of being left exposed, unprotected and unaccepted” (Bulatao, as cited in Reyes,

2015). If a young father impregnated someone and did not take responsibility for

it, or he ran away, he is at risk of being labeled as “walang hiya” because he

violated a strong societal expectation.

In the current study, it was found that many of the young fathers engaged

in premarital sex because they are teased by their peers to do it and most of their

peers also engaged in it. For some young fathers who lack familial nurturance

and social acceptance upon learning that they would have a child, their peer group

appears to be their source of companionship, identity, emotional and social

support (Alampay, Dela Cruz & Liwag, 2009). Sadly, if the peer group is engaged

in delinquent activities like gambling, drug and alcohol use, and sexual activities,

it becomes a source of more risky behaviors than social support. Premarital sex is
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more likely when teens have friends who are sexually active (Alampay, Dela

Cruz & Liwag, 2009).

Section 3. Paternal Nurturance

The previous section revealed that the young fathers of this study engaged

in pre-marital sex with some irresponsibility and happy-go-lucky attitude.

However, did this attitude change when they became fathers? This section reveals

that changes occurred among the young fathers after knowing that they now have

a child. This further presents evidence of how the young fathers discover for the

first time how they can nurture their child/ren. Young as they are, teenage fathers

are forced into a position where they have to do parenting roles before they are

ready. How are they able to do that? The following questions were asked to

generate answers regarding paternal nurturance: “Describe yourself as a father”,

“What are your usual activities with your child at home and at school?” and

“How do you show your love to your child?”

Nurturing By Providing. In responding to the question “How do you

show your love to your child?”eight of the respondents said they can show their

love by being a “provider”, as shown in the following statements:

“Binibigay ko lahat ng kailangan niya saka kahit maliit pa siya


ngayon sinisigurado ko na yung kalinga ng isang tatay
nararamdaman niya”(I give him all his needs and even if he is
still young now, I make sure that he feels that I am here for him).
Pedro, 22 yrs old, security guard
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Yung pagtratrabaho ko para maibigay ko pangangailangan
nila”(I’m working so that I can provide all their needs)
Mario, 20, vendor

“Kung ano ang gusto nila ibinibigay ko pag lumalabas kami at


may tinuturo sila na gusto nila binbigay ko agad sa kanila”(I
give them whatever they want, when we leisurely walk and they
want something, I give it to them immediately.)
Jay, 21 yrs old, construction worker

“Financial support siguro, binibigay ko naman lahat ng kailangan


niya, gatas, diapers ganun”(Maybe financial support, because I
give all what he needs, milk, diapers and the like.)
Jose, 23 yrs old, Student

“Sa pagproprovide lahat ng kailangan niya at gusto


niya”(Providing all his needs and wants)
Rap, 20 yrs old, quality assurance specialist

“Binibigay ko lahat ng pangangailangan ng pamilya ko” (I provide


for all the needs of my family)
Kris, 23 yrs old, book keeper and microfinance

“Pagbigay ko sa mga kailangan niya, pag nagpapabili siya ng


laruan binibili ko agad”(Giving all his needs, if he wants me to
buy toys, I buy it immediately)
Nem, 22 yrs old, crew at fast food chain

“Nagtratrabaho akong mabuti para mapag-aral sila” (I work very


hard so that I can send them to school.
Pepito, 23 yrs old, construction worker

Several of the teen fathers described themselves as a “loving father” who

“will do anything for (the) family”. Indeed being a provider is one of the major

ways by which fathers nurture their children. Teenage fathers may not express

their love to their children in obvious ways like mothers but fathers of this study

expressed their love by fulfilling the “provider” role, and taking on mature roles

by finding work or working to provide for the finances of the family. In the study
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conducted by Bade (2012), the teen fathers discussed having their life plans

drastically changed placing a heavy burden for them to find employment,

increasing their financial responsibility, and their sense of duty for their children.

It appears that finding employment and providing finances for his family or child

is a core dimension of a teenage father’s nurturance. Liwag, Dela Cruz and

Macapagal (1999) claim that the Filipino father’s chief role is that of family

provider and his role as a child caretaker is considered only secondary. However,

Gonzales (2014) reported that the new generation of fathers is now striving to

create an emotional bond with their children. They are much more interested in

being present in their children’s lives and are much less focused on primarily

holding the provider role. This was supported by Rayco (2008) who defined

nurturance as “isang amang nakikinig at tumutugon sa mga pangangailangan ng

kanyang anak at nakakapagbigay ng kapanatagan at lakas ng loob” (Someone

who listens and responds to his child’s needs and makes him or her feel secure

and self-confident) suggesting that the father’s role was not limited to providing

for his children. In the paternal nurturance scale which Rayco (2008) crafted, he

was able to discover that adolescents, who had older fathers usually defined

paternal nurturance in terms of the following: nakikinig/pinapakinggan,

matulungin, pangangailangan, and loob.In the current study, most of the young

fathers’ nurturing style was “pangangailangan” only which suggest that for them,

to be a nurturing father was confined to providing the needs of their children.

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apparent that they still lack maturity and still unknowing on how else they can be

involved with their child’s life. Moreover, according to Gallardo (2010) despite

the changes of the times, many fathers are still bound by gender-biased parenting

beliefs and practices which view parenting as solely a mother’s role. For this

matter, fathers need to be educated on the responsibilities and values of parental

nurturance and shared parenting.

Nurturing by Being Involved. Data indicate, however that fulfilling the

provider role is not the only way by which teenage fathers show their love. Most

of them are also actively involved in their children’s life in leisure time, play

time, child care, and school as shown below:

Leisure. Because fathers are expected to be working for their family,

sometimes they no longer have time for the family. Usually they have no time for

their children but if they have time, they make the most out of it. This statement

was strengthened by the working teenage fathers of this study who go out with

their children if they have free time from work. For example:

“Pag day off ko sinasakay ko siya sa motor ko, iniikot ko siya”


(When I’m off from work, I let him ride on my motorcycle and we
go around.)
Pedro, 22 yrs old, bodyguard

“Namamasyal kami pag may oras ako” (If I have time, we go out
for leisure)
Jay, 21 yrs old, construction worker

“Pag nakakasama ko siya pinapasyal ko lang siya (When I’m


with him, we just go out for leisure)
Jose, 23 yrs old, student
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“Unfortunately, I’m always away from home, kapag umuuwi ako
lagi ko siyang pinapasyal ganun”. (When I’m home, I always go
out with him on leisure)
Rap, 20 yrs old, quality assurance specialist

Playtime. Play is one of the significant factors that contribute to the

development of a child. The respondents engaged themselves in the playtime of

their children and in this way they are able to form bonds with their child. Popoy

stated that his activity with his child is “naglalaro ng (playing) badminton”. The

same is through with the other participants who also said that playing with their

child is one of their ways to bond with their children as indicated below:

“(We) watch Frozen then play time tapos kain tapos pasyal [We
watch (the movie) Frozenthen we play then eat and go out]
Shad, 24 years old, security guard

“…kapag umuuwi ako, naglalaro (kami)” (…when I’m home, we


play together)
Rap, 20 yrs old, quality assurance specialist

“naglalaro (kami), nagbi-bike” (we play, we ride the bicycle


together).
Nem, 22 yrs old, crew at fast food chain

Despite the busy schedules of the young father who are employed they

still find time to bond with their child even though they are tired sometimes. This

is evident in Popoy’s statement when he said,“Naglalaan ako ng oras para

makipaglaro sa kanya kahit pagod ako galing sa trabaho.” (I always find time to

play with him even when I’m tired from work).Liwag, Dela Cruz and Macapagal

(1999) cited that Filipino fathers maintained that they were very much involved in

taking care of their children less than a year-old. Relating and playing were the

most frequent activities of the younger fathersto their child while the older
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fathers’activities were mostly going on trips and relating emotionally to their

children.

Childcare. Patriarchal societies expect that the work of a father is to

provide the needs of his family. It is surprising to know that there are some young

fathers who are hands-on in caring for their children, as shown in the following

statements:

“nagaalaga ako ng anak ko”(I take care of my child)


Macoy, 25 yrs old, currently full time father

“Ako na tumatayong ama at ina sa anak ko. Ako na nagaalaga sa


kanya”(I’m already the father and mother of my child. I’m the one
who takes care of him)
Baguito, 21 yrs old, raising his 5 year old son by himself

“Pag dayoff ko, ako nagaalaga sa kanya”(When it’s my day-off


from work, I’m the one who takes care of him)
Pedro, 19 yrs old, body guard

“Inaalagaan ko siya pag nasa bahay na ako pagkatapos ng


trabaho ko”(I take care of her when I’m home already after my
work)
Juan, 21 yrs old, vendor

Some studies reveal that contrary to common belief, teenage fathers are

not always keen to avoiding their responsibilities. Instead, they were often very

eager about the prospect of becoming an involved parent, wanting to learn how to

do the job properly (Rivara, 1986; Speak, 1997). Gonzales (2014) also stated that

fathering today often includes nurturing and caregiving, play activities and

engaging in leisure, providing moral guidance, and taking responsibility for

coordinating their children’s care and activities; as being a father in this

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more than bringing home a paycheck or delivering punishment to a misbehaving

child.

School. Since some of the teenage fathers have children who are already

in pre-school, some of them involve themselves in the schooling of their child by

sending and fetching the child from school. Nem mentioned that “Hinahatid ko

siya sa school”(I bring him to school). Also Macoy, Budoy and Baguito stated

that “Sa school naman hatid sundo ko siya” (I bring and fetch him from school);

“Ako naghahatid at nagsusundo sa kanila sa school” (I’m the one who bring and

fetch them from school); “Ako na din ang naghahatid at nagsusundo sa kanila sa

school”(I’m also the one who brings and fetches them from school).

At the moment, school involvement is limited to bringing and fetching the

child from school given that most of the participants’ children are still in pre-

school. The children of the rest of the participants were still toddlers and not

attending school. One participant however indicated that while his child is still in

pre-school, he already is foreseeing how he could provide for his child’s tuition,

saying:

“Ang pinaka-worst ay iyong pag-aaral niya, kung paano ako


makakatulong sa pangtuition niya [The worst (problem I am
facing) is (with regards his) schooling, and on how I can help in
providing for his tuition].
Shad, 24 years old, security guard

This suggests that indeed, fathers are progressively more conscious of

their participation in their children’s lives both at home and in school as the latter

continue to grow and develop. Most researches indicate that young fathers are
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more interested in being involved with their children than previously thought.

And this is very much evident in Shad’s statement when he said, “basta kasama

ko sya, sinusulit ko yung oras na magkasama kami (I make sure that I maximize

my time with him).

For adolescent and young adult fathers, involvement with their children

may help promote the fathers’psychological development and self-esteem, and

may strengthen the father-child relationship (Foster, 2004; Glickman, 2004).

Hence, it is crucial that young fathers, in whatever way they can, should remain

involved in their children’s lives. Catholic social teaching stresses the

significance of both parents within the family. While addressing more generally

the importance of the family for society, Pope John Paul II highlights the

necessity of the father in his encyclical Familiaris Consortio and urges:

“Above all where social and cultural conditions so easily


encourage a father to be less concerned with his family or at any
rate less involved in the work of education, efforts must be made to
restore socially the conviction that the place and task of the father
in and for the family is of unique and irreplaceable importance”.
(p. 42)

In the study conducted by Frias (2008) he found that there are also

hindrances for a young father to be an involved parent. Unemployment and low

educational attainment are among the given factors for why the young father

becomes being uninvolved parent. Low income fathers, who are unable to provide

for their families due to poverty or job loss, seem to have negative or decreased

interactions with their children. This is supported by the findings of Gonzales


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(2014) which found that low socio-economic men may be affected by their

incapacity to perform a fundamental dimension of fatherhood limiting their

capacity to expand their emotional realm of fathering because their paternal

identity is pre-occupied with breadwinning. However, in this study despite the

low socio-economic status and educational attainment of the young fathers they

are still able to be involved in nurturing their child, not just by being a provider

but also by being involved in the life of their children especially in leisure,

playtime, childcare and school.

Culturally in the Philippines, fathers are viewed primarily as breadwinners

(Rayco, 2008). However, in the current study some of the respondents are also

genuinely involved by being hands on and nurturing towards their child.

The results are supported by Ronquillo and de Leon’s (2010) findings

which reported that Filipino fathers, regardless of their demographic

characteristics, give high regard to the roles they play in their children’s lives

whether they see themselves as providers, nurturers, or models of good behavior,

they all believe that being a father is something that has to be taken seriously.

They also found that fathers believe that their role is no longer just confined to

providing for the material needs of the family. Several changes were noted in the

young fathers as shown in the statements below:

Madi ak unay agbisbisyon, nga agbalbaliw nakun ta adda sunan nga


dapat alagaak, nga panpanunutik umuna isuna bago atuy sarilik. (I don’t
usually do my vices anymore, I changed already because I have a child
that I should care for, I think of my child first before myself.)
Juan, 20, Vendor
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Kung noong dati madalas akong umiinom saka nagbabasketball kasama
koiyong mga barkada ko, ngayon hindi na masyado kasi alam kong
pamilyado na ako. (If before I always drink alcohol and play basketball
with my friends, now it’s not like that because I already have a family.)
Jose, 23, Student

Umiiwas na ako. Kapag may nagyaya sa akin na maglaro o lumabas na


mag-inom hindi na ako masyado sumama sa kanila.(If there is someone
who invites me to play or to go out and drink alcohol, I seldom go with
them now.)
Bry, 21, Student

Hindi na ako pwedeng mangchicks kasi may anak na ako. (I can no longer
flirt with other ladies because I already have a child)
Shad, 24, Security Guard

Young fathers of this study are nurturing in a way that they provide the

needs of their child. Since they are still young and beginners as a parent, they still

do not know how to become a father. Many of them still think that to nurture is to

simply provide the material needs of their child. Surprisingly, young fathers of

this study are also nurturing by being involved in their child’s life by engaging

themselves in playtime, leisure, child care and in the schooling of their child. If

previously they are irresponsible, immature and happy-go-lucky, that they only

think of themselves, they do what they want, going out with their peers, doing

their vices, sports and any activities that average teenage boy are doing, now,

having a child changed their attitudes and lifestyles making them more

responsible and nurturing in their own way.


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Section 3: Self-Efficacy

Self-efficacy has been defined as the belief in one’s capabilities to execute

one’s course of action. It emphasizes a teenage father’s ability to face difficulties

and solve problems relating to parenthood. In as much as having a child at an

early age has put a stop to most of the activities they were previously doing like

going to school, most of the young fathers are faced with difficulties in the

nurturance of their family. How efficient and effective then are they in meeting

these responsibilities? In this section, respondents’ self-efficacy was revealed by

asking them questions regarding (1) their greatest problems, (2) how they solved

those problems, and (3) their abilities which helped them solve those problems.

Young fathers’ greatest problems. Given the sudden involvement of the

teenage fathers into a situation they were not prepared for, their greatest problems

were on financies, and ignorance and inexperience with fatherhood.

Financial Problems. Financial problems act as risk factors related to a

family's inability to provide sufficient financial resources to meet minimum

needs. Most of the young fathers in this study consider finances as a major

problem as shown in the following statements:

“Siguro yung pera yung panggatas niya pagdiaper pang vitamins.


Basta lahat ng kailangan niya, hindi ko maibigay noon kasi nga
hindi naman ako nagtratrabaho noong panahon na iyon. Kaya
lahat ng trabaho ginagawa ko, awa ng diyos natanggap akong
security.” (Money for milk, diaper and vitamins everything that my
baby needs I could not provide because at that time I did not have
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work but by God’s grace, I found one and I was accepted as
security guard).
Loriel, 23, unemployed
“Nu agsakit ti anak ko ta haan ko ammu nu ana iti pagalaan iti
kwartai ti pangpaagas. Ammum met nga madi ak nakapalpas awan
iti trabahok nga natinu isu nga problemak met iti pagalaan iti
kwarta idi, kasdiay.” (When my child is sick, I do not know where
to get money. I did not finish my studies, I do not have good paying
job, that is why where to get money is a problem).
Budoy, 23, unemployed

This shows that becoming a father at a young age may result to financial

problems. All of the young fathers were studying, eight were in college already

and the rest were in high school. Getting someone pregnant halted their schooling

and for ten of the respondents, prevented them from securing a degree or

finishing at least high school. This fact caused difficulty in finding and landing a

job and consequently led to financial problems. Teen fatherhood appears to be

associated with negative consequences, both for the father and child that are

similar to those observed among teen mothers. Accordingly, consequences

include reduced educational attainment, greater financial hardship, and less stable

marriage patterns for the teen parent, along with poorer health, educational, and

behavioral outcomes among children born to teen parents (Batten and Stowell

,1996). As Loriel further explains:

“Pagalaan (ku) ti kwarta ta haan nak met nakapalpas. Problema


ko din kung paano na pag-aaral ko noon kung may anak na ako.
Siyempre hindi na ako makakapag-aral kasi kailangan ko na
silang buhayin at saka syempre sa murang edad hindi ko pa
alam kung saan ako kukuha at hahanap ng pera” (Where do I get
money? I did not finish my studies.I was worried about my
studies since I already have a child. Of course I can longer pursue
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my studies already because I need to work for my child. At a
young age I do not know where to get and find money).
Apparently, because they did not finish college, young fathers are much

more likely to hold low prestige jobs. Young fathers in this study are frustrated

about how they can provide for their family. For instance, Nem, 22, a fast food

crew said:

“Yung pang araw-araw na gastos namin noon kasi wala akong


mahingan. Nahihiya naman ako sa parents ko. Meron pa minsan
inuutang ko pa pang gatas nya sa mga barkada ko.”(Our everyday
expenses was a problem before, because we do not have someone
to borrow money from. I was embarrassed (to ask) from my
parents. There was even one time when I had to borrow money
from my friends to buy milk).

Popoy, 21, security guard shared a similar difficulty stating:


“Umaasa pa din kasi kami sa mga magulang naming mag-asawa.
Kulang din kasi yung sweldo ko para sa kanilang dalawa. Ang
hirap kasi maghanap ng trabaho pag high school graduate ka
lang.” (We are still dependent on our parents because our salary is
not enough for the two of them. It’s really hard to look for a job if
you are only a high school graduate.)

These statements show that teenage fatherhood is not an easy situation.

However, it can also be seen in the young fathers’ statements that despite the

hardships, they are trying their best to give their best for their children. This also

shows that young fathers are still doubtful of their abilities to be independent

since they are still dependent on theirparents and/or grandparents. Rhein,

Ginsburg, Schwars, Pinto-Martin, Zhao, Morzan & Slap (1997) found that

financial insecurity was a factor that was likely to lead to disinterest in the rearing

of their child. Interestingly, data of this study say otherwise in that the young

fathers are motivated to look for a job and find money for their children. As said
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earlier, Filipino’s live in an extended familial set up and being collectivists in

nature they often reflect group or family goals. In this arrangement, parents or in-

laws still support their children financially even if their children have their own

family already.

Ignorance and inexperience of fatherhood. The second top problem of

teenage father as stated by the respondents of this study was how to become a

father to their child or children. This means lack of readiness in becoming a father

and being immature in their role as a father. Much of what is known about the

transition to fatherhood may be garnered from relatively older studies that

focused on how couples become parents and negotiate their new father (and

mother) roles. May (1982) found that expectant fathers' perceived readiness for

fatherhood was related to their view of the stability and quality of their marital

relationships, their financial situation, and whether they had accomplished their

life goals in the childless period. As Pedro, 21, security guard said,“Problema ko

noon kung paano ko papanindigan yung baby ko” (My problem before was how

to stand up for my baby). Popoy, in the same light, said “Nung una siguro eh

financial talaga kasi wala pa akong trabaho nun. (Ngayon) yung pagaalaga sa

kanya.”(At first it’s really financial because I did not have work before and now

and how to take care of my child). This proves that having financial resources is

one of the demands and contributory to one’s readiness to fatherhood.


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Indeed the young fathers were not ready to become fathers, such that

several of them wanted to have an abortion upon learning of their partner

pregnancy. Specifically, three out of 18 young fathers in this study reported that

they planned to abort the child. Dacles (2014) said that since they are beginners,

responsibilities experienced by teenage parents are very difficult to deal with.

Abortion came across their minds alsoprobablybecause of fear regarding the

reactions of their family.

Because of their young age, most of the participants were not yet mature

to enter the world of fatherhood that was why most of them were unsure of their

actions. Juan says “Idi umuna ket madik pay ammu ububraik bilang ama ti anak

ko. Madik pay ammu su na nga alagaan idi manu nga bulan na pay lang.” (At

first I did not know what I wasdoing. I did not know how to take care of him in

his early months as a baby). This was similar to Juan and Dan who also pointed

out that they were inexperienced and truly unaware of what they were doing

while caring for their children. Rhein et al. (1997) suggested that apart from a

young father’s financial insecurity, confusion or lack of knowledge about child

care were also likely to lead to disinterest with their child and even

uninvolvement. It is a good thing then that eventually they managed to care for

their children, influencing their children’s behavior then revealing their self-

efficacy. This power of belief in one’s capability is very important because this

impact not only the young fathers’ own behavior and involvement but as well as

their children’s behavior and development.


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The above results highlight that young Filipino fathers actually evaluate

their capacities regarding their parental role. They are trying their best to take on

the parental role despite their inexperience. This suggests that they already put

emphasis on the importance of their role in the molding of their children. This is

supported by Daganzo, Alampay andLansford (2014) who said that parental

efficacy is now a key aspect of Filipino parenting, and apparently, this is true

even for young adolescent fathers. These previously carefree individuals

transformed into young fathers who try their best to prioritize their family and be

genuinely responsible for them. This is an important change in the identity of the

young fathers since this transition into a new and more responsible role of a father

helps improve their parental self-efficacy.

Mario disclosed that “umaasa pa din kasi kami sa mga magulang naming

mag-asawa. Kulang din kasi yung sweldo ko para sa kanilang dalawa.”(We are

still dependent on our parents because my salary is not enough for the two of

them). Mario’s statement reveals the usual support – financial or otherwise - that

Filipino families give to unexpected pregnancies in the family. This contradicts

the result of the study of Sheldrake (2010) which stated that 32% of the 29 fathers

involved in the study received little or no assistance from family members.

Garcia (2012) argued that Philippine societies are collectivist in nature;

hence extended familial support is common. This shows that Filipino families

always want to help and be involved with decisions regarding their sons or

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parents and parents-in-law may interfere with the problems faced by their child

(Dacles, 2014).

How young fathers solved their problems

Finding work. When asked “How were you able to solve such problems”

Pedro, said “Iyon nga yung naghanap talaga ako ng trabaho, lahat ng trabaho na

pwede ginawa ko hanggang sa nakapasok nga ako bilang security guard.”(I

really searched for a job. I tried all jobs that were available until I was hired as a

security guard). This statement shows that fatherhood at a young age is not an

easy job. It requires full effort of a responsible father.

In a family there are times that the child will get sick and sometimes there

will be emergencies. Kris did his best to address such problem as he shared in his

statement “Alam kong may mas malaking responsibilidad na ako ngayon kaya

minsan ginagawan ko ng paraan agad. Parang kapag may kailangan sya at

walang pera nagaadvance ako sa trabaho ko.” (I know I now have a bigger

responsibility that is why if there is a problem I solve it immediately. When he

needs something and I have no money, I get my salary in advance).

Discernment. To become a good father requires accepting such

responsibility of being a father and one of the problems faced by young fathers is

accepting the fact that they are now a father and no longer a single teenager. As

stated by Loriel:

“Noong una hindi ko alam kung paano gagawin ko sa pamilya ko at


sa sarili ko kaya ang una kong ginawa tinanggap ko muna ang mga
nangyari kasi noong una talaga hindi ko tanggap. Hindi ko rin sure
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kung akin yung bata eh at sabi ko na lang sa sarili ko magpapaka-
ama nalang ako kasi si mahal ready naman siyang maging ina eh at
saka naging madiskarte at matiisin nalang din ako sa mga nangyari”.
(At first I did not know what to do with my family and to myself
that’s why the first thing I did was to accept what happened. I did not
know if it is mine or not and I told to myself I will be a father to the
child because my wife is ready to be a mother. I decided to do
something about it and persevered through the situation).

Since young fathers are still at a young age it was not easy for them to

become mature and become responsible. This was shown in Dan’s statement:

“Parang kelan ko lang din na solve yung mga problema na yan kasi
sabi ko nga kanina binata pa ako noon. Kahit may anak na (ako).
Bale realization (na may anak na ako) ang nakatulong sa akin. Kasi
kung hindi ko pa 100% na narealize na (may anak na) ako, siguro
may na-anakan na naman ako.” (I’ve only recently solved this
problem. Even if I already have a son. Realizing that I already have a
son helped me a lot. Because if not, I would have impregnated
another woman again)

This statement shows that his realization of his current situation and his

role as a father helps him a lot in becoming a good father to his children and to

his family, and his realization help him know his priorities and responsibilities.

However, in the statement of Jay “Iniyakan ko lang, iniyakan ko ng ilang

oras tapos wala na ok na ko.” (I just cried on it for hours then after that I was

okay). Jose said, “Binabalewala ko lang, wala pa din naman kasi akong magawa

kasi nga nagaaral pa lang ako.” (I just ignored it because I couldn’t do anything

about it since I was still studying).

Abilities that helped them to solve their problems. This part presents

the specific abilities of the young fathers which would serve as evidence of their

self-efficacy.
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Persevering despite problems. When asked about their abilities that

helped them to solve their problems, the respondents shared:

“Siguro yung pagkapursigido ko na makahanap ng trabaho para


maibigay lahat ng pangangailangan ng anak ko.” (Maybe my
perseverance to look for a job to provide his needs)
Pedro, 21, security guard

“determinasyon. Ayoko kasing magutom ang pamilya ko,”


Nem, 22, fast food crew

“siguro eh pagiging matatag at matiisin kaya nalagpasan ko mga


problema noon hanggang ngayon…saka tiwala lang kay Lord.”
(Maybe being strong and patient that why I overcome all the
problems until now and trust to the Lord)
Pepito, 23, unemployed

“Iyon nga iyong pagiging masipag ko na din siguro saka pagiging


responsable.”(Being industrious and responsible)
Popoy, 21, security guard

“siguro tibay ng loob kasi ngayon ginagawa ko na mga hindi ko


ginagawa dati like pagsasaka agbukid agubra kasdiay kunam
man…hehe”, (determination because I am now doing the things I
am not doing before like farming and working)
Dan, 21, unemployed

This shows that being a teenage father does not mean he cannot be a good

father or that he is incapable of doing his parenting responsibilities. Rather, this

shows how the young fathers truly try to take on their parenting roles by

persevering. Such is the evidence of their self-efficacy. Being a teenage father

deeply imposed challenges on how one can fulfill the role of being a father at a

young age. The challenges are greater for these young parents as compared to

older parents since they have yet to learn other important abilities that will enable

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Resourceful. Since they are still young they tried different ways and

means to provide the needs of their family. They did this by being “madiskarte”

or resourceful. For instance, Rap, 20, quality assurance specialist, said:

“Alam kong may mas malaking responsibilidad na ako


ngayon.ginagawan ko lahat ng paraan, para kapag may kailangan
siya at walang pera nagaadvance ako sa trabaho ko.” (I know that
I have now a big responsibility, I advance money from my job to
provide what is needed)

Jay, 21, construction worker, said:

“Iyon nga iyong naghanap talaga ako ng trabaho, lahat ng


trabaho na pwede ginawa ko hanggang sa nakapasok nga ako
bilang security guard” (I really looked for a job, I tried all the jobs
that are available until I was hired as a security guard).

The same experience was seen in Mario, 20, helper in the business,

who said:

“Itininda ko yung kalabaw namin dahil sa financial problem.”


(I sold our carabao because of financial problem).

Accepting responsibilities of a father. Six of the young fathers described

themselves as a “responsible father”. This is unexpected since the society

stereotypes them as “hit and run victimizers”, running away from their

responsibility when they heard that they impregnated a girl.

Popoy, who became a father at the age of 19 and is now 21 years old,

currently a bodyguard, describes himself as a “loving and responsible father” who

works hard for his family. Mario, a father who has twin daughters at the age of 20

stated that “Masasabi ko sigurong naging responsible talaga ako kasi mas iniisip

ko na talaga yung mga anak ko”. Likewise, Macoy and Pedro are responsible
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because they are “providing all the needs of their children in their own”. All five

respondents claimed that they are responsible fathers because they are providing

the needs of their children on their own despite the fact that most of them did not

finish college and they have low-paying jobs.

The consequence of being a teenage father is not easy to handle.

Rauschendorfer (2005), the Manager of the Catholic Charities Programs for

Young Moms and Dads, said that,

"They [teen fathers] do care. And when they're asked, they want to
be responsible men - not all of them, but a lot. It's not easy, and
they often start with a lot of strikes against them - their age, their
own home life, the need to finish school and still be a dad. It takes
strength and guts”. (p. 21)

Instead of enjoying their youth and having good times they are now taking

the big responsibility of a father. Catholic teachings emphasize the importance of

both parents within the family. Pope John Paul II underscores how essential a

father is in his encyclical Familiaris Consortio and encourages society to

advocate for and restore the conviction that a father should remain concerned

with his family and be truly involved in his role in the family. Despite society’s

common notion about them, the young fathers of this study proved that they can

be responsible fathers at their young age.

Self-efficacy can impact one’s own behavior and the behaviors of those

with whom the individual interacts. Young fathers’ self-efficacy is significant in

molding and raising their child as they can influence the behavior of their child

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still low since they are beginners and are only learning how to become good

fathers. They have yet to understand the other facets of childcare or parenting that

they can involve themselves with their children apart from providing their child’s

financial needs. Despite of their young age they are trying to learn and to become

the provider of their family.

Section 5. Parental Satisfaction

To reveal the participants’ level of parental satisfaction, the following

questions were asked: “How satisfied are you with yourself as a father? And

Why?”and “How satisfied are you with your children’s behavior? Why?”

Responses to the former questions revealed that majority of the respondents are

moderately satisfied as a father. When asked to rate themselves from one to ten

(1-10), responses yielded scores in the range of four to eight. Mario said “Kung

numbering siguro from one to ten, nasa eight ganun, eight or nine. Kasi di naman

ako perfect eh.” (If I will rate it from one to ten, maybe it’s eight because I’m not

perfect). Meanwhile, Kris said, “Six lang dahil madami pa kasi akong dapat

patunayan at matutunan. Basic needs pa lang naibibigay ko sa anak ko.” (I will

rate myself as six, since I have a lot to prove and learn. So far I can provide only

the basic needs of my child).

Some respondents said that they are not that satisfied with themselves as a

father because most of their time is still spent working. For instance, Rap said

“kung ire-rate ko (If I will rate it) from one to ten, it’s five because I’m not

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pero yung time and presence as a father wala.” (four? I can sustain all his needs

but the time and presence as a father is not there). According to Frias (2008)

children who lived apart from their fathers are more likely to drop out of school,

twice as likely to abuse drugs or alcohol, twice as likely to end up in jail, and two

or three times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems.

This highlights the importance of father’s presence in the child’s life.

In addition, Dan said “Ngayon hindi ko pa masasabing satisfied na ako

kasi parang nag-i-start palang akong maging mabuting ama sa anak ko. Kasi

feeling binata pa lang ako nuon eh.”(For now I can say that I’m not yet satisfied

because I’m still starting to be a good father to my child. Before I was acting like

a teenager - without a child). Fathers who are unable to provide for their families

or children due to being jobless, seem to have a decreased interaction with their

children. This is similar to Bry’s statement who mentioned that, “Parang hindi

pa tatay ang feeling ko ngayon. Lahat ng responsibilidad inako ng parents ko at

ng in-laws ko. Sakanila nanggagaling lahat kasi nga nagaaral pa lang ako.” (It

seems like I don’t feel being a father now. My parents and my in-laws took my

responsibilities as father. They provide everything because I’m still studying).

There were a few who highlighted that they are somehow satisfied

already. For example, Pedro said “Ayos naman kasi alam ko naman sa sarili ko

ko bilang tatay na naibibigay ko mga kailangan (ng anak ko).” (It’s fine because

I know that as a father that I can provide all his needs). Nem had a similar

response stating that “Okay naman, basta ginagawa ko lahat para maibigay ko
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(mga) kailangan nila.” (It’s good, what matters are that I can provide all their

needs).

There were some respondents who said that “love” is the only thing that

they can give for now. Juan said that “Adu pay siguro mapagdaanak habang

padpadakilik isuna ngem aramidik amin tapnu lang madi isuna marigatan ken

maited ko amin nga pangangailangan ken kayat na”. (I still have a lot to go

through while he is growing up. But I am doing everything to provide for his

needs and wants).

Based on the answers of the 18 respondents, in general, they are not yet

satisfied with themselves as a father particularly because they know they have a

lot more to learn and experience as fathers. It is interesting to learn that most of

the respondents stated that they are planning for the future and welfare of their

child, challenging the view that they are “hit and run victimizers”.

In response to the second question of “How satisfied are you with your

children’s behavior, majority of the respondents said that they are satisfied with

the behavior of their children. Rap said “kahit anong behavior niya satisfied na

ako kasi tatay niya ako and he will always be the best for me.” (Whatever will be

his behavior I will be satisfied with it because I’m his father and he will always

be the best for me). Jay shared the same sentiment stating, “maliit pa naman siya

natural na makulit pero sweet siya saka kahit ano pa maging ugali niya tanggap

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paglaki niya.” (She’s still a baby, it’s natural for her to be nagging me, but she’s

sweet. Whatever will be her behavior I’ll accept it because I love her and I’ll

make sure that I will take good care of her until she grows up.)

In the study of Bautista (2013) she noted that single mothers who have

children aged 0-5 years have the highest parenting satisfaction, but there was no

significant difference in their parenting satisfaction when grouped by the ages of

children. This means, regardless of the ages of the children the parenting

satisfaction is the same.

Most of the respondents’ children were either infants or pre-schoolers so it

was natural in their childhood to be so “makulit”. Juan shared that“baby pay

laeng met gamin isuna isu madi ak pay ammu ngem siguradwek met nga

dumakkil iti anak ko iti nasayaat ken nasingpet.” (I don’t know, he is still a baby

but I’ll make sure he will grow up to be a very good kid). Among the 18

respondents, Jose is the only one who was not yet satisfied with his child’s

behavior stating, “Hindi pa (ko satisfied) kasi nga hindi ko pa naman gaanong

naalagaan.”

On the last question of “How satisfied are you with your relationship(s)

with your children?”,majority of the respondents are satisfied with their

relationship(s) with their child/children. Some respondents are really close with

their child. Kris, for instance, said “sobrang ayos naman kami. Pinapakita ko sa
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anak ko na mahal na mahal ko sya.” (We’re very good. I show to my child that I

love him so much).

Surprisingly, if there are single mothers, there are also single fathers who

fulfill the duties of both mother and father. In this study, Baguito stated “aba

masaya kaming dalawa kahit dalawa lang kami kahit wala na yung ina niya!

Sobrang close nga kami eh! Anak ko ang nagpapasaya sa akin.” (Well, we’re

happy even though his mother is not with us. We’re very close! My child makes

me happy).

However, there are young fathers who are not yet satisfied with their

relationship with their child/children because most of their time was spent on

work. Rap stated, “5 (out of 10) din kasi nga hindi ko siya madalas makasama.

Minsan lang din ako umuwi dahil sa trabaho ko.” (It’s 5, out of ten. I rarely have

time to be with him because I’m often at work). Popoy also said “Kulang pa din

iyong oras ko sa kanilang dalawa eh kaya hindi pa siguro ako satisfied.” (My

time for them is still not enough that is why I’m not yet satisfied). Parenting

satisfaction was directly related to the care given to the child, suggesting that for a

parent to attain a certain level of satisfaction, sufficient care, time and nurturance

has to be spent with the child (Bautista, 2013). Other studies suggest that parental

satisfaction is also related to a parental involvement in school (Feuerstein;

LaForett & Mendez, as cited in Danner, 2012). Given that most of the

respondents’ children are still not in grade school, it is therefore not surprising

that parental satisfaction is still low.


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From the above findings, it would appear that a “batang ama” (boy father)

is someone who despite his age and parenting inexperience tries his best to take

on the parental role. He nurtures his child by primarily engaging in a financial

provider role. He deals with parenting problems by finding work and discerning

his responsibilities as a father. He genuinely wants to persevere despite the lack

of resources he currently has, and he is trying his best to assume his paternal or

parental responsibilities. At the moment, his parental satisfaction is still low

because he is still a beginner and generally lacks readiness to be a father. He

generally still gets substantial help from parents and in-laws with regards finances

and child care. Also, a large part of his time is spent on work. These

circumstances somehow prevent an increase in his parental satisfaction. Greater

commitment in his fathering role is needed therefore to ensure that they can

personally fulfill their parenting roles and attain sufficient parental satisfaction.

Moreover, the fact that most of them are forward looking shows that they have

somehow transcended their transition from single happy-go-lucky individuals into

a “batang ama” (boy father). That while the support system is essential to their

carrying out their obligations, their own parents should provide the grounds on

which they can hone their skills of fatherhood. When perhaps these teenage

fathers would have seen the connection of these factors in their lives: self-

efficacy, paternal nurturance, and parental satisfaction, they can look back with

pride for having made the right decision that of being a father to their child.
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Chapter V

SUMMARY, FINDINGS, CONCLUSIONS, AND RECOMMENDATIONS

This chapter presents the summary of the study, the findings and

conclusion and recommendations based on conclusions are made.

Summary

The study was conducted with the following objectives: a) to know who

the young fathers of this study are, b) to determine their demographic profile and,

c) to find out the lived experiences of young fathers in relation to paternal

nurturance, self-efficacy and parental satisfaction. The respondents of this study

were purposively selected young fathers who became a parent at the age of 19

years old and below. They were between the ages of 20-24 at the time of the

study and were residents of the provinces of Nueva Vizcaya, Isabela and Quirino.

The mixed methods design was employed to gather quantitative data regarding

the participants’ demographic and sexual behavior profile and qualitative data

which inquired into their paternal nurturance, self-efficacy, and parental

satisfaction. Data were analyzed using descriptive statistics and thematic analysis.

Findings

1. Young fathers of this study are aged 20-24. They became a father between 14

to 19 yrs old. They accepted their responsibility as a father at a young age by

supporting their child. They were not necessarily living with child or the

child’s mother at the time of the study.


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2. Profile of the participants. Most of the respondents are in late adolescence

when they became a father. The youngest age for when they became a father

was 14 years old and the mean age was 18 years old. All of the respondents

were in their early 20s at the time of the study. Most of them are Roman

Catholics. Most of the respondents currently have only one child. Most have

sons who are in early childhood. Most of them are currently living with the

mother of their child. Most of them are college undergraduates. Most of the

respondents are married. Most of the respondents’ parents are married. Most

of the respondents are employed. Most of the young fathers reported a low

socio-economic status. Most of the respondents are currently living in an

extended family set-up which means they are still living with their parents or

in-laws.

3. Sexual behavior profile. The mean number of the participants’ past

girlfriends is 8. The earliest age for when they had their first girlfriend was

11, and the oldest is 17. Most of them reported that they were aged 15 or 16

when they experienced their first sexual intercourse. The youngest age for

when they experienced their first sexual intercourse was 12 and the oldest was

18.Most of the respondents were not worried that they might get the girl

pregnant even though most of them did not use contraceptives when they

engaged in sexual intercourse. When they learned they impregnated someone,

most of the young fathers accepted it.


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4. Paternal nurturance of the young fathers is manifested not only in being the

provider of the family but also in being involved with childcare, and by being

engaged with his child during playtime, leisure and school.

5. Young fathers of this study experienced challenges in their self-efficacy and

these are related to finances, and their ignorance or inexperience of being a

father. These difficulties actually paved the way for them to evaluate their

paternal roles and transition from a happy-go-lucky teenager to a responsible

young father, consequently affecting their paternal self-efficacy.

6. Most of the young fathers still have low parental satisfaction. This is due to the

fact that they are still new in their parenting role, their children are still young,

and they are still supported and dependent on their parents or in-laws.

Conclusions

1. Filipino young fathers became a parent typically at the age of 19. Despite not

completing a college degree, they were able to find work and have their own

income. Their income, however, remains low and often not enough to support

himself or his family. The young fathers are in an extended familial set-up

where they are living not only with their child and spouse, but also with their

parents or in-laws, and relatives.

2. Young fathers may be characterized as being carefree and happy-go-lucky as

evidenced by their sexual behaviors prior to becoming a father. During their

teenage years, they reported having several pre-marital sexual experiences.

These experiences were done with their girlfriends and were often engaged in
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without fear of impregnating their partner. They engaged in unprotected sex

and the venue was often in their own residence. The most common reaction

for when they found out they got someone pregnant was they immediately

accepted it. They did not run away, but rather took responsibility for the child

and the mother of their child. The low educational attainment of the young

fathers did not serve as a hindrance for them to find a job. However, it led to

financial difficulty since the jobs they landed in were often low-paying. The

young fathers are still doubtful of their paternal abilities since they are still

inexperienced with childcare and are dependent on their parents and/or

grandparents with regards finances.

3. The young fathers expressed paternal nurturance by taking on the provider role

and by being involved with childcare and with their child’s leisure time,

playtime, and schooling.

4. The young fathers’ self-efficacy was challengedby financial difficulty and

ignorance and inexperience of fatherhood. They solved their problems by

persevering to find work and discerning their roles as a father.

5. The young fathers are not yet satisfied with themselves as a father.

Recommendations

1. For Young Fathers. It is recommended that young fathers are open to

opportunities to learn more about how to become a good and responsible

father. They are urged to always be hands-on with child care in spite of
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having parents, relatives and in-laws who help care for their child. They are

also encouraged to be genuinely involved in the continuing education of their

child for these help in increasing their parental satisfaction. It is recommended

that they participate in the different programs and activities like parenting

seminars or trainings offered to them by the school or the government for this

allow them to gain confidence in their parenting role. Moreover, it is highly

recommended that the young fathers continue to carry out their

responsibilities not only to their child but also to the mother of their child for

this helps in transforming their identity from one that is merely a provider to a

resolute parental or husband role.

2. For Families/Parents. It is highly recommended that parents become

continually supportive of their children who become young parents as they as

they are the best source of support which would enable young fathers to grow

and form into responsible and independent young parents. However, they

have to be mindful also that while they are supporting their child, they are not

interfering with the decisions as well as the daily responsibilities (i.e. child

care) that should be handled, determined and resolved by the young father.

3. For Clinicians/Guidance Counselors. Clinicians can use this material as a

guide and basis when crafting programs specifically designed in helping

teenage or young parents. Therapists and counselors can know more about the

specific challenges of young fathers so they will be better prepared in

assisting this group of individuals. They can also help in eradicating negative
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perceptions about young fathers and stigma relating to young pregnancy and

fatherhood. Counselors are recommended to help the youth clarify their

feelings about impending fatherhood and assuming adult responsibilities at an

early age. To help the young fathers feel less isolated, it is recommended that

group guidance sessions among young fathers are conducted to provide an

avenue for sharing feelings, asking questions, and identifying appropriate

interventions within the group.

4. For the Government. One of the problems of the young fathers in this study

is their low socioeconomic status. It is recommended that the government

craft job opportunities specifically for young fathers who are usually college

undergraduates. The government should check the mechanisms and processes

specifically geared to a better distribution of income and assist young parents

financially in fulfilling their desire to form a family. Moreover, given the high

incidence of premarital sexual activity among the young fathers and

premarital sex engagement occurring at an earlier age, it is recommended that

the government create programs to help reverse this trend by discovering the

confluence of factors that account for this. Also, prevention and intervention

efforts must be made to ensure that young parents will not have repeat teen

pregnancy and multiple-partner fertility.

5. For Catholic Institutions. Given that most of the respondents are Catholics,

it is but appropriate that recommendations are also provided to Catholic

institutions. The following recommendations therefore are offered based on


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the Catholic teachings discussed during the 2014-2015 Synods of Bishops on

the family:

 For the Catholic family. The Synod of Bishops noted that in many

countries “an increasing number of people live together in unions that

have not been religiously or civilly recognized”. There are some young

fathers of this study who are in a “living in” or cohabiting arrangement. It

is therefore recommended that Catholic families continue to stress the

importance of marriage for couples in a loving relationship. Its sanctity

can help transform not only the couples, but also the children allowing

them to feel the fullness of marriage and to build a family in conformity

with the Gospel.

 For priests and counselors. Young fathers are still ignorant and

inexperienced with regards fatherhood. Hence, pastoral counseling must

be given to them and it should stress the essential transmission of the

virtues that give form to a Catholic family’s existence. Priest should

encourage the training of parents and the sharing of experiences among

young families in general, and young Catholic fathers in particular.

 For Catholic educational institutions. Catholic schools are important in

the Church's evangelizing mission. In many parts of the world, Catholic

schools are the only schools to provide genuine opportunities for the

children of poor families, especially for young people, offering them an

alternative to poverty and a way to make a real contribution to society.


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Catholic schools should be encouraged to pursue their activity in the

poorest communities by serving the less fortunate who are often the ones

that eventually become parents at young age. Also, it is encouraged that

findings of the study be used as an information education campaign (IEC)

material specifically for class instruction. This way young people are able

to grasp the realities affecting their age group and hopefully instill in them

the Catholic values of marriage first before pregnancy, and accepting

consequences for one’s actions.

6. For Educational Institutions. All young fathers of this study were in high

school and college when they impregnated a girl; thus, it is recommended that

age-appropriate sexuality education should begin in the pre-adolescent years

before teenagers leave middle or high school. The high incidence of

premarital sex and the practice of engaging into it without protection suggest

the need for specific sexuality education programs highlighting abstinence,

safe sex and responsible parenthood. Also, educational trainings that teach

young fathers about shared parenting and paternal nurturance should be

provided to this group of individuals.

7. For Future Researchers. It is recommended that there be more exploration

of the experiences of young fathers given that much has yet to be known

about the “batang ama”. Changing the variables is also recommended to

further explore the qualities of a young father. More questions about their

experiences which allowed them to thrive despite difficulties associated with


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young parenthood are also advised. In addition, getting the views of children

and the wife of the young fathers are also recommended for better

understanding of who a “batang ama” is from the perspective of his family.

This study focused on teenage fathers who are living with their children.

Future studies can also focus on the perspectives of fathers who do not live

with their child.


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Saint Mary’s University
Bayombong, Nueva Vizcaya
School of Arts and Sciences
Department of Psychology and Guidance

Consent Form

Date:______________

Dear Respondent,

The undersigned is a student’s of the Psychology and Guidance & Counseling


Department of Saint Mary’s University currently conducting a thesis entitled,
“Batang Ama: Young Fathers Experiences on Self Efficacy, Paternal Nurturance
and Parental Satisfaction”. The study aims to draw out the experiences on self-
efficacy, parental nurturance and parental satisfaction of young fathers. You have
been chosen as one of the respondents of this study. Please answer honestly the
questionnaire. Your responses will be treated with utmost confidentiality. Your
name will not appear on the researchers’ final paper instead they will use a code
name. Thank you!

Sincerely, Noted:

Loreto G. Cadiente Mrs. Florence Nawew-Bahni, MAed, RPm


Abegail B. Montañez Research Teacher
Janine Vallary Tiam
Researchers

Mrs. Pearl Via S. Coballes, RGC, RPm


Research Adviser
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Saint Mary’s University
Bayombong, Nueva Vizcaya
School of Arts and Sciences
Department of Psychology and Guidance

Informed Consent for the Participation in a Research Project


Please read the following information carefully. You can also request a copy for
future reference.

Title: “Batang Ama: Young Fathers Experiences on Self Efficacy, Paternal


Nurturance and Parental Satisfaction
Researchers: Loreto G. Cadiente
Abegail B. Montañez
Janine Vallary Tiam
Contact Numbers: 09051548594

I voluntarily agree to participate in this study. I understand that I may


withdraw from the study at any point.
I understand that I will be asked to give my time on __________________
for the research. I also understand that I will be asked to participate in a semi-
structured interview which involved answering profile questionnaire and
questions about my experiences on self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental
satisfaction. I’ am aware that the whole interview will be audio recorded. Finally,
I do understand that I will be following all the instructions the researchers will tell
me from the day of the research.

_______________________________________ _______________
Participant’s signature over printed name Date
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Part I: Demographic Profile of the Respondents
These questions will be asked orally and will be stated in the vernacular. A
semi-structured interview format will be used. The entire interview will be
audio recorded.

Name: __________________________________________
1. How old where you when you first became a father? ________
2. What is your current age? _______
3. What is your religion? ____ Catholic ____ Non-Catholic
4. How many children do you have now? ______
5. What is the age and sex of your child/ren?
Sex Current Age
st
1 child
2nd child
3rd child
4th child
5th child
6th child
6. Are you currently living with the mother of your child?
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
7. What is the source of your finances?
[ ] own income
[ ] parents/ parents in-laws
[ ] others ________________
8. What is your monthly income?
[ ] 0-5,000
[ ] 5,000-10,000
[ ] 10,000-15,000
[ ] 15,000-20,000
[ ] 20,000-30,000
[ ] 30,000-40,000
[ ] 40,000 and above
9. What is your highest educational attainment?
[ ] Elementary Undergraduate
[ ] Elementary Graduate
[ ] High School Undergraduate
[ ] High School Graduate
[ ] College Undergraduate
[ ] College Graduate
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10. What is your civil status?
[ ] Married
[ ] Single
[ ] Live In
[ ] Separated
[ ] Remarried
[ ] Widowed
11. What is the civil status of your parents?
[ ] Married
[ ] Separated
12. Are you currently employed?
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
If yes, what is your job/occupation? _________________________
13. What is your socio-economic status?
[ ] I have much money and properties that I need; can buy
whatever I like
[ ] Income is very sufficient for family needs; can save.
[ ] Income is sufficient only for family needs; can hardly
save.
[ ] Income is little, sometimes not enough for the family.
[ ] Income is very little, not always enough for my family.
14. With whom are you currently living with?
[ ] with child/ren and spouse
[ ] with child/ren, spouse, in laws, own parents, grand
parents
[ ] others, please specify __________________
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Part 2: Profile of the Respondents in their Sexual Behavior asYoungrs

1. How many past girlfriends did you have? ______


2. How old where you when you had your first girlfriend? _______
3. How old where you when you had your first sexual intercourse? _______
4. Was your first sexual intercourse with your girlfriend?
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
5. If not, with whom?
[ ] friend
[ ] acquaintance
6. How many sexual partners have you had before you had a child?
________
7. What was the reason why you engage in premarital sex?
___________________________________________________________
_____________
8. Where did your first sexual intercourse happen?
[ ] own residence
[ ] residence of the girl
[ ] friends’ house/boarding house
[ ] hotel/motel
[ ] public place
[ ] others, please specify
_____________________________
9. At that time, were you worried that you might get the girlpregnant? How
about for the rest of the girls you had sexual intercourse with?
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
10. Did you use contraception in engaging in sexual intercourse before?
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
11. So, what was your reaction when you heard that you got a girl pregnant?
 Did you deny it?
 Did you doubt that it’s from you?
 Did you plan to abort the child?
 Did you run away?
 Did you accept it?
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Semi-Structured Interview

These questions will be asked orally. It is in semi-structured format to probe


the respondents to elaborate their answers. The entire interview will be
audio recorded.

Parental Nurturance Questions


1. Describe yourself as a father.
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________

2. What are your usual daily activities with your child at home? And at
school?
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________

3. How do you show your love to your child?


___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________

Self-Efficacy Questions

1. What three greatest problems did/do you experience as a young father?


___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________

2. How were you able to solve such problems?


___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________

3. What do you think are your abilities that help you to solve such problems?
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
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Parental Satisfaction Questions

1. How satisfied are you with yourself as a parent?


___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________

2. How satisfied are you with your children’s behavior?


___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________

3. How satisfied are you with your relationship(s) with your children?
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
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Table 1.Frequency and Percentage Distribution of Profile Variables
Profile Category Frequency Percent Mean
Age when they 14 1 5.60 17.72
became a father 15 2 11.10
16 2 11.10
17 1 5.60
18 2 11.10
19 10 55.60
Total 18 100
Current age 20 3 16.70 21.83
21 6 33.30
22 3 16.70
23 4 22.20
24 1 5.60
25 1 5.60
Total 18 100
Sex of children Male 9 50.0
Female 8 44.40
Male and Female 1 5.60
Total 18 100
Age of children 10 mos 2 10
2 4 20
3 5 25
4 3 15
5 3 15
6 2 10
7 1 5
Total 20 100
Religion Catholic 16 88.89
Non-Catholic 2 11.11
Total 18 100
Number of 1 13 72.20
children 2 4 22.20
3 1 5.60
Total 18 100
Currently living Yes 12 66.70
with the mother No 6 33.30
of the child Total 18 100
Source of Own income 11 61.10
finances Parents/parents 7 38.90
in-laws
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Profile Category Frequency Percent


Monthly income 0 1 5.60
0-5000 7 38.90
5000-10000 3 16.70
10000-15000 2 11.10
15000-20000 1 5.60
20000-30000 1 5.60
30000-40000 1 5.60
Not applicable 2 11.10
Total 18 100
Highest Elementary undergraduate 1 5.60
educational High school undergraduate 5 27.80
attainment High school graduate 2 11.10
College undergraduate 7 38.90
College graduate 3 16.70
Total 18 100
Civil status Married 7 38.90
Single 5 27.80
Live in 5 27.80
Separated 1 5.60
Total 18 100
Civil status of Married 14 77.80
parents Separated 4 22.20
Total 18 100
Currently No 8 44.40
employed Yes 10 55.60
Total 18 100
Socio-economic High 1 5.60
status Average 4 22.20
Low 8 44.40
Very low 5 27.80
Total 18 100
Living Living with child/ren and spouse 4 22.20
arrangement Living with children, spouse, in- 10 55.60
laws, own parents, or
grandparents
Others 4 22.20
Total 18 100
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Table 2.Respondents’ Sexual Behavior Profile

Profile Frequency Percent Mean


Number of past girlfriends
1 1 5.60 7.67
2 3 16.70
3 2 11.10
4 3 16.70
5 1 5.60
10 3 16.70
11 1 5.60
12 1 5.60
14 1 5.60
20 1 5.60
21 1 5.60
Total 18 100
Age when they had their first girlfriend
11 1 5.60 14.39
12 1 5.60
13 5 27.80
14 1 5.60
15 4 22.20
16 5 27.80
17 1 5.60
Total 18 100
Age at first sexual intercourse
12 2 11.10 15.33
13 2 11.10
14 1 5.60
15 4 22.20
16 4 22.20
17 2 11.10
18 3 16.70
Total 18 100
Was your first sexual intercourse with your girlfriend
No 4 22.20
Yes 14 77.80
Total 18 100
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Number of sexual partners
1 2 11.10 7.50
2 1 5.60
3 3 16.70
4 1 5.60
5 2 11.10
6 1 5.60
8 1 5.60
9 1 5.60
10 3 16.70
15 2 11.10
25 1 5.60
Total 18 100
Venue of first sexual experience
Own residence 10 55.60
Residence of the girl 4 22.20
Friend’s house/boarding house 3 16.70
Hotel/motel 1 5.60
Total 18 100
Worried that they might get the girl pregnant
No 11 61.10
Yes 7 38.90
Total 18 100
Used contraception
No 14 77.80
Yes 4 22.20
Total 18 100
Reaction when they found out that they got a girl pregnant
Denied it Yes 5 27.8
No 13 72.2
Doubted that it was Yes 1 5.6
his No 17 94.4
Planned to abort it Yes 3 16.7
No 15 83.3
Ran away Yes 1 5.6
No 17 94.4
Accepted it Yes 8 44.4
immediately No 10 55.6
Total 18 100.0

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