Professional Documents
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A Thesis Presented to
Department of Psychology and Guidance Department
Faculty of the School of Arts and Sciences
Saint Mary’s University
Bayombong, Nueva Vizcaya
In Partial Fulfillment
of the Double Degree
Bachelor of Science in Psychology
and Bachelor of Arts in Guidance and Counseling
By
Loreto Cadiente
Abegail Montañez
February 2016
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APPROVAL SHEET
DEDICATION
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
Mrs. Pearl Via S. Coballes, for tirelessly helping us from the very beginning of
our study until our final paper, for helping us narrow down our topic and for
advising us on what to do. We want to express our gratitude for her unfailing
Edwin Mania and Mrs. Ma. Teresa Tayaban thank you so much for providing
direction assistance and support during the course of this study. We value your
To our respondents, the young fathers, without your help this study would
not be possible, thank you for sharing your experiences to us and making this
study possible.
This study delved into the lives of 18 young fathers who became a parent when
they were in their teenage years. Specifically, the study explored the demographic
and sexual behavior profile of these young fathers and their experiences that
relate to self-efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental satisfaction. The
respondents were purposively selected from the provinces of Nueva Vizcaya,
Isabela and Quirino. Data was analyzed using descriptive statistics and thematic
analysis. The results indicated early sexual involvement and pre-marital sex
experiences among the young fathers. Their paternal nurturance was manifested
by fulfilling the provider role and by being involved in the playtime, leisure, care
and schooling of their child. Young fathers of this study experienced challenges
in their self-efficacy and these were related to finances, and ignorance or
inexperience of being a father. They solved their problems by persevering to find
work and discerning their role as a father. Furthermore, young fathers still have
low parental satisfaction.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Preliminaries:
Dedication…………………………………………………………………i
Acknowledgement………………………………………………………...ii
Abstract…………………………………………………………………...iv
Table of Contents………………………………………………………….v
Rationale…………………………………………………………………..1
Theoretical Framework…………………………………………………
Definition of Terms………………………………………………………
Conceptual Literature………………………………………………………
Research Literature…………………………………………………………
Synthesis…………………………………………………………………
Chapter 3: Methodology……………………………………………………………
Research Design……………………………………………………………
Research Environment…………………………………………………
Research Instruments………………………………………………………
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Data Analysis……………………………………………………………….
Section 4. Self-Efficacy.................................................................................
Summary………………………………………………………………..86
Findings………………………………………………………………...86
Conclusions………………………………………………………...88
Recommendations………………………………………………….89
References……………………………………………………………….95
Appendices……………………………………………………………..108
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Rationale
to the National Statistics Office (2011), a total of 186,527 births were born to
teenage mothers (under 20 years of age), an increase of about 7.64 percent from
the previous year’s count of 173,282. Births to teenage mothers increased by 7.6
percent from 173,282 in 2007 suggesting that fertility has a faster pace in the
(186,527) was five times greater than the number of births born to teenage fathers
(39,217). Results from the 2013 National Demographic and Health Survey found
out that one in ten young Filipino women aged 15 to 19 is already a mother or
pregnant with her first child and that early childbearing is also more common in
CARAGA (38%) and Cagayan Valley (37%) than any other regions.
alarmingly steady progression of the phenomenon in the past decade. In the year
2000, 7% of all births were accounted to mothers below 19 years old. By the
2010, their share increased to 12%. The Philippines may not have the highest
incidence in Southeast Asia but the country has the highest rate of increase. In
2011, the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) reported that it is only in the
region. Despite the growing body of research on the topic of teenage pregnancy
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It is in the family that people first learn how to show love and respect for
life, where people are taught the proper use of things, order and cleanliness, and
respect for the local ecosystem and care for all creatures. The Synod of Bishops,
2015, LS, 213) emphasized this with their official statement that “In the family,
children everything even if it is about sex and they must tell the truth about it.
However, there are some parental issues that may have caused teenage pregnancy,
and one of this is lack of parental guidance. According to the Synod of Bishops
(2015), many parents prevent their children talking about sex. In some cases, they
provide false information regarding sex and discourage their children from any
informative discussion about sex. Teenage parents are not well educated about
sex thus this leads to lack of communication between the parents and the children.
painfully being weakened and is exhibiting signs of its fragile nature (Synod of
Bishops, 2015). Nonetheless, the family is also demonstrating its ability to find in
itself the courage to confront the inadequacy and failure of institutions in the
formation of the person, the quality of social ties and the care of the most
mothers take on traditional roles in the home, with the fathers being the
“providers” and “protectors” while the mothers take on the tasks of childrearing,
discipline, and “managing the home” (De la Cruz et al.; Licuanan, , as cited in
Alampay & Jocson, 2011). Based on the perspective of children, mothers are said
to be more nurturing and involved than fathers. Mothers are also perceived to be
more powerful than fathers in that they give the directives and organize the
that fathers have a significant role in a child's development from birth through
adulthood.
Several studies (Dallas, Wilson, & Salgado, 2000; Erkut, Szalacha &
Garcia 2005; Shannon & Abrams, 2007; Weinman, Smith, & Buzi,2002;
Wilkinson, Magora, Garcia, & Khurana,2009) have suggested that teenage fathers
have similar ideals and standards regarding what it means to be a “good dad”.
This includes being physically, emotionally and financially stable for children,
spending quality time with children and raising children with hopes and dreams
for themselves. However, Applegate (1988) argued that teenage fathers face extra
experiences and discover how to best help them manage the challenges of
positive behaviors while parenting. Some studies found that there is a difference
females in various cultures. This is supported by Gecas (1989) who stated that in
studies of the general population, males have been consistently found to report
on self-efficacy among poor African American youth revealed that females were
Apart from efficacy, parental nurturance has also been thoroughly studied
protective factor against risky behaviors for adolescents and was found to be
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2009). Hopkins and Klein (1993) found a positive relationship between parental
child views their parent as nurturing, they feel positive about that relationship and
consequently feel positive about their parent. This finding supports the belief that
have typically negative images in the society being stereotyped as “hit and run
victimizers” who are less involved in child care.The absence of a father gravely
affects family life and the upbringing of children and their integration into
of Bishops, 2015).
Voice, 2003; Fatherhood Institute Research Summary, 2013) which have shown
that majority of teenage fathers often continue the serious romantic relationship
with the mother of their child prior to the pregnancy and throughout the
pregnancy. Also, research has shown that teenage fathers feel a sense of
obligation not only to the child but also to the mother of his child. They are also
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Bishops (2015) many men are aware of the importance of their role in the family
The above studies highlight how teenage fathers are actually involved in
contributes to their self-esteem and strengthens their relationship with their child
(Foster, 2004; Glickman, 2004). With the many challenges that a teenage father is
tasks,howwellthe parent knows the infant, and the extent to which self-
the researchers attempted to see the other side of the story, the side of young
context. It is hoped that findings may serve as basis for the creation of training
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individuals.
Theoretical Framework
Parental nurturance.
Self-efficacy.
Chemers, Hu, & Garcia, 2001). Parental self-efficacy, similar to many constructs
(Young, 2011). The difficulty comes from the many-sided definitions that have
been utilized by social science researchers. Teti and Gelfand (1991) defined
capable and effective in the parenting role”. Coleman and Karraker (2003) took a
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The ultimate aim of this study was to explore young fathers’ experiences
study sought to answer the following questions: first, who are the young fathers
of this study in terms of their demographic profile specially about their age when
they became a father, current age, sex of children, age of children, number of
children, religion, currently living with the mother of the child, source of
finances, monthly income, highest educational attainment, civil status, civil status
sexual behavior profile? Secondly, what are the lived experiences of the
satisfaction.
father at the age of 19 and below. They are currently 20 – 25 years old and living
participants per province. The study was limited to exploring the participants’
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The results of the study may serve as basis for the identification of
programs for young fathers particularly in how they can be helped in their
parenting roles. The relevant information that may be acquired from the study
Young fathers. They will know and recognize what are the most effective
coping mechanisms and the factors that can contribute to their parental
satisfaction.
and understand teenage fathers. The study will enhance the knowledge of families
providing support and distinguish ways for helping and understanding the
Society. This study will affect the society because having knowledge on
how and what a teenage father goes through will help an individual to understand
Age. The life length of time during which a being or thing has existed
(Dacles, 2014). In this study, age refers to the age when the respondents become
separated.
employed or unemployed.
attends to his children’s unique needs by building positive experiences with them,
and by sending consistent messages of love and support (Smith et al., 1994). In
questionnaire.
and is defined as a sense of pleasure and gratification gained from the parenting
role (Pridham & Chang 1989).In this study, parental satisfaction refers to how
satisfied the teenage fathers are as a parent. Parental satisfaction was assessed
Literacy, n.d.). In this study, it was measured using a subjective scale arranged
from high to low with the following descriptions: “I have much money and
properties that I need, can buy whatever I like”; “Income is very sufficient for
family needs, can save”; “Income is sufficient only for family needs, can hardly
save”; “Income is little, sometimes not enough for the family” and “Income is very
refer to a young boy. So the term can mean “the young boy is a father” or the
“Boy Father”.
Sex of the child. This pertains to the biological sex of the respondents’
child or children.
Young fathers. This refers to the respondents of the study. They are
males currently aged 20 to 25 who became a father at the age of 19 years oldor
paternal nurturance, self-efficacy and parental satisfaction. The chapter starts with
the definitions of teenage father, self- efficacy, paternal nurturance and parental
Conceptual Literature
Young Fathers.
of teen fathers not residing with their children; they still manage to stay involved
early twenties represents a faster transition than the norm, requiring a more rapid
impact of father absence. Subsequently, efforts have been made to ascertain the
give high regard to the roles they play in their children’s lives. They often see
that being a father is something that has to be taken seriously. Ronquillo and de
Leon (2010) also found that fathers believe that their role is no longer just
confined to providing for the material needs of the family, rather they also see
themselves as nurturers of their children. This suggests that indeed, fathers are
While attention appears to be turning to the needs of teen fathers and the
potential resources they can be for their children, there are methodological
problems with the research. First, involves the definition of teen fathers. Some
researchers define teen fathers as men under age 20s; and still others define teen
procreator perceives the role simply as the siring of offspring/s where activity and
affect is low. To the procreator, his main role is that of a provider. The dilettante
type is a father who does not spend much time or effort in the role, but he enjoys
the company of his children when they are with him. To the dilettante, his main
role is that of a friend. A generative father is one whose involvement with his
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role is that of a guardian. A determinative father depicts one who spends much
time and effort on the job, but does not really enjoy it. He perceives fatherhood as
a task, an obligation, a responsibility to bear, perhaps a mission, and his main role
is that of a molder. Tan’s (2002) typology is based on the two dimensions: affect
which can be positive or negative, and activity which is either high or low.
Paternal Nurturance.
approval, acceptance, and affirmation to his children. Paternal nurturance has also
interest, activities and physical needs while displaying affection, acceptance and
responsiveness towards the child resulting in the child feeling accepted and loved
(Barnes, 1984; Dekovic, Janssens, & Gerris, 1991; Huver, Otten, de Vries, &
and practices because they are the products of the traditional family set-up; hence,
and shared parenting.Liwag, Dela Cruz and Macapagal (1999) claims that the
Filipino father’s chief role is that of family provider and his role as a child
the new generation of fathers is now striving to create an emotional bond with
their children and is also much more interested in being present in their children’s
lives being much less focused on primarily holding the provider role.
Frias (2008) found out that young fathers often face additional hindrances
attainment, poverty or job loss and low income gets in the way of their parenting
(2010) found that religion is not a predictor of paternal nurturance such that
Self-Efficacy.
including overcoming fears, success in the workplace, hard life transitions, and
the initial decision to perform a behavior, the effort expended, and persistence in
with a variety of stressors. People with high self-efficacy choose to achieve more
challenging and difficult tasks. They move toward life with a can – do attitude
that allows them to see challenges as problems to be solved instead of threats that
must be avoided. They also set appropriately challenging goals for themselves
and continue a strong commitment to those goals. People with strong self–
efficacy enjoy life because they are highly engaged. On the other hand, people
with low self-efficacy normally view difficult tasks through the lens of fear. Low
People who have low self-efficacy become doubtful of their own capabilities, are
more easily stressed and more frequently depressed than people with high levels
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Parental Satisfaction.
gained from the parenting role (Pridham & Chang, 1989). ). In some literature,
the father feeling satisfied in his role as a parents. The level of satisfaction may be
influenced by the satisfaction from carrying out infant care tasks, from learning to
know the infant, and from meeting self-expectations regarding one’s role as a
parent (Pridham & Chang 1989; Hudson, Elek, & Fleck (2001) refers to parenting
Research Literature
Young Fathers.
and 16 in 1996 have become fathers before their twentieth birthday (Scott,
Manlove & Moore, 2012).Findings of the 1994 Young Adult Fertility and
Sexuality Study (YAFS II) revealed a large proportion of young people aged 15-
age" (52% among men and 67% among women). In the more recent YAFS – the
2013 YAFS or YAFS IV, results showed that 3.9% or 197,815 of single male
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Visayas (10%), CARAGA (9%) and MIMAROPA (8%) Regions. The YAFS IV
revealed that this statistic contributes to the increasing teen fertility in the
young fathers is important because they have similar standards for themselves as
fathers despite facing the challenges associated with early parenthood (Goodyear,
Newcomb & Allison, 2000). Several researches (e.g. Dallas et al, 2000; Erkut et
al, 2005; Shannon & Abrams, 2007; Weinman et al, 2002; Wilkinson et al,
spending quality time with them and raising them with hopes and dreams for
themselves. Thus, teen fathers serve an integral role in the family system for their
experience abuse, live in violent neighborhoods, have low family incomes, and
have younger, uneducated parents who had low educational expectations of them.
Young fathers typically complete lower levels of education and have higher rates
drugs and alcohol, to deal drugs and to inconsistently use contraceptives, thus
Paschal et al. (2011) observed that young fathers, like all adolescents,
attempt to navigate their way through the stresses and challenges brought on by
the transition from adolescence to adulthood. However, they argued that teenage
try to cope with the normative biological, social, and psychological changes and
unprepared, but the risk factors which have been identified with teenage fathers
also affect their ability to provide for their child (Gilkman, 2004). However,
several researches now indicate that young fathers are more interested in being
involved with their children than previously thought. For adolescent and young
fathers, involvement with their children may help promote the fathers’
the father-child relationship (Foster, 2004; Glickman, 2004).To keep these young
men involved with their child, it is important to eliminate the barriers they are
facing and to give them the resources they need to stay involved (Kimball, 2004).
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typically upheld a negative image of teen fathers. Some people have labeled
adolescent fathers “hit and run victimizers”, who are not interested in caring for
their children. This pessimistic attitude, however, does not do justice to the
majority of teen fathers. Although teen fathers are indeed less likely to eventually
marry the mother of the child, multiple studies have shown that the majority of
teen fathers were in a serious romantic relationship with the mother of the child
prior to the pregnancy and often continue the relationship throughout the
pregnancy. Previous research has also shown that many teenage fathers feel a
sense of obligation not only toward their child but also toward the mother of the
child and are interested in being involved in decisions regarding the child
to be involved in the family and to be responsible. But they often find it difficult
to balance home life, school life and parenting life. Indeed, young fathers
increased financial responsibility, increased duties to form deep bonds with their
children, the need to develop as a person, to find appropriate support systems, and
work out their complicated relationships with the mothers of their children (Bade,
2012). Lemay, Cashman, Elfenbein and Felice (2010) noticed that becoming a
father apparently appears to be a powerful motivator for the young men to want to
improve themselves through education, employment, and changing how they have
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barriers to parenting and services they used or wished existed to help them in their
the family. While addressing more generally the importance of the family for
society, Pope John Paul II highlights the necessity of the father in his encyclical
Paternal Nurturance.
Engels, & Baumeister, 2005; Mowder & Shamah, 2009). Finkenauer et al. (2005)
found that adolescents from nurturing homes are less likely to develop problem
behaviors because they have parents who are emotionally involved, interested in
Bean, Bush, McKenry, & Wilson (2003) findings suggest that parental
Draper 2005). This finding also suggests that perceived parental nurturance may
lead to less distress in emerging adults. Since nurturing parents tend to be highly
involved and responsive to their children, they in turn are able to develop positive
self-images, and adaptive coping and are less likely to have psychological distress
against risky behaviors for adolescents and was found to be related to adaptive
coping strategies (Meester & Muris, 2004; Schwartz, Zamboanga, Ravert, Kim,
Huver, 2010; Locke & Prinz, 2002; Meester & Muris, 2004). Parental nurturance
has also been examined in relation to coping behaviors in youth (Locke & Prinz,
nurturing reported fewer interpersonal problems and were found to have greater
from adolescents into emerging adults. More specifically, paternal figures were
such as drugs, casual sex, and driving-related risk behaviors (Schwartz & Finley,
2009). The positive outcomes related to high parental nurturance may be the
genuinely interested in the child’s life; therefore the child has a positive self-
concept and experiences less distress (Finkenauer et al., 2005; Schwartz & Finley,
2009).
adult daughters (Schwartz & Finley, 2006; van Schaick & Stolberg, 2001) as it is
associated with specific health outcomes like higher levels of self-esteem and sex
refusal behaviors’ (Katz & Van der Kloet, 2010). Father involvement is also
their children (Goncy & Van Dulmen, 2010; van Schaick & Stolberg, 2001).
important even after children reach adolescence (Mitchell, Booth, & King, 2009).
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well-being in adolescents (Cookston & Finlay, 2006; Mitchell et al., 2009). Flouri
and Buchanan (2003) found the relationship between paternal involvement and
adolescence (Mitchell, Booth & King, 2009). Interestingly, Flouri and Buchanan
daughters’ reported levels of happiness. Schwartz and Finley (2006) found that
this holds true even if the paternal figure is not the biological father. Children
with involved fathers have more success at school, fewer behavior problems and
may have better economic situations than children with absent fathers, although
the quality of the father’s relationship with his child is an important variable
to his child’s needs and makes him or her feel secure and self-confident).
about young fathers and their unique needs are increasing (Kimball, 2004).
Bunting and McAuley (2004) noted that while most of quantitative data provide a
how many young fathers genuinely want to be involved with their children and
Self-Efficacy.
that filial self-efficacy was linked directly and indirectly to satisfaction with
family life suggesting that the greater the adolescents’ perceived self-efficacy, the
higher the reported open communication with their parents. Studies have also
achievement, healthy lifestyles, and the ability to negotiate risk (Nebbitt, 2009).
Those who have low self-efficacy showed greater stress and lower mental health
that they believe they can succeed and keeps them motivated. According to
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particularly the home are associated with a broad domain of their development
gender. Dona, Scholz, Schwarzer and Sud (2002) reported the superiority of
African American youth which revealed that females were more likely to report
Singh and Udainiya (2009) found that adolescents of joint families showed higher
Ardelt and Eccles’ (2001) model suggested that parental self-efficacy can
and beliefs. Jones and Prinz (as cited in Ardelt & Eccles, 2001) found this model
to be correct as they applied it to their research shortly after. The premise of the
exhibition of positive attitudes, outlooks, and beliefs also increases. This may
result in his/her children adopting these attitudes and beliefs and applying them to
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success.
Parental Satisfaction.
gained from the parenting role. This includes satisfaction in carrying out infant
care tasks, how well the parent knows the infant, and the extent to which self-
Salonen (2010) found that mothers who were younger scored lower on
self-concept, had more depressive symptoms and had more negative perceptions
of childbirth than fathers. Mothers also experienced greater life changes and
satisfaction is most important to child retention when the child isvery young
Synthesis
parental nurturance and parental satisfaction were also used in this study. Most
of the studies on teen fathers reveal that there are now a greater number of
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researches now agree that fathers actually want to be involved in their children’s
recent studies support the idea that paternal nurturance makes a unique
gender, family set-up and financial status. Previous studies also suggested that
the modeling of attitudes and beliefs. While there are several studies already
about self-efficacy and paternal nurturance, there are fewer studies done with
The present study on the other hand focused on the lived experiences of
the young fathers in the Philippines so as to widen the knowledge on how a young
Moreover, the demographic and sexual behavior of the young fathers serve as the
background of young fathers and to know who the Filipino young father is.
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RESEARCH METHODOLOGY
This chapter contains the subject of the study, research design, research
Research Design
behavior profile of the respondents. The qualitative design through the interview
method was used to explore the experiences of young fathers in terms of their
Vizcaya, Quirino, and Isabela in Region II. They were 19 years old and below
when they first became a father and were 20-25 years old at the time of the study.
The respondents were chosen based on these criteria: they were below 20 yrs old
when they fathered a child, that they should have at least one child who is alive,
they should be living with the child most of the time, and be the custodial parent.
The chosen young fathers were not necessarily married nor living with the mother
(Nueva Vizcaya), Aglipay (Quirino) and Reina Mercedes (Isabela). The reason or
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Population (2013). The study used purposive snow ball sampling to identify the
participants. Through the participants or informants who have contact with other
Research Environment
The study was conducted in the provinces of Nueva Vizcaya, Quirino and
second highest in the number of teen pregnancy cases recorded in their most
municipality and the capital of the province of Nueva Vizcaya. According to the
ranked third in teenage pregnancy cases in Region 2 (PopCom, 2013) with 692
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pregnancy were among those away from their homes (PopCom Region 2, 2013).
Isabela with agriculture as main livelihood. According to the 2010 census, it has a
Among the provinces in Region 2, Isabela ranked first in the number of teenage
Research Instruments
Informed Consent Form. This presents the evidence that the participants
understood the precise information about their confidentiality rights, the risks as
well as the benefits of the study and that they willingly participated in the study.
questionnaire which consists of the current age and the age when the respondents
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delve into the experiences of the respondents. Three questions each were asked to
Procedure
The first step that the researchers undertook was to identify the participants.
To find the initial participants, the researchers asked family, friends and
acquaintances whether they knew someone who fit the selection criteria. Through
these referrals, snowball sampling was conducted to identify and complete the six
Reina Mercedes and the other researcher for Aglipay. The researchers themselves
then introduced themselves and explained the purpose of the study and mentioned
who referred them. The respondents were also given an informed consent form.
After these, the interview about their profile was conducted. Afterwards, the semi
structured interview proper was conducted first on the questions about their self-
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satisfaction questions.
Data Analysis
thematic coding.
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This chapter presents the analyses of the responses of the 18 young fathers
The presentation of data analysis is grouped into three sections. Section 1 answers
the question “who are the teenage fathers of this study?” describing individually
the purposively selected teenage fathers. It narrates their experiences prior to and
narratives - each one describing the unique lives of teenage fathers who were
purposively selected from the provinces of Nueva Vizcaya, Quirino and Isabela.
Jay
Jay became a father at 18 years old. Now at the age of 21, he already has
two daughters, a four year-old and a one year-old. At the age of 13, he already
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He said that the reason why he engaged in premarital sex before was peer
pressure explaining that he got teased by his peers to try it. During his first sexual
experience he got the girl pregnant. They had the child aborted for the reason that
they are afraid and they did not know how to handle it. For the second time that it
happened they already continued with the pregnancy and let the child live. His
family and the family of the girl were very disappointed when they heard about it.
He also said the family of the girl before did not like him for their daughter. But
as the years passed by he was eventually accepted by his in-laws. They got
married in 2014 but were living together for three years prior to the marriage. He
Besides his construction work, he also has a farm that he inherited from his
parents. This is where he gets income to support his family. He feels that his
income is sufficient only for family needs and he can hardly save. He is living
with his children and his spouse and he is trying his best to be a good father to his
two children. He knows that he will still face many difficulties as a father but he
is positive he can surpass these because he said that he will do anything for his
family.
Pedro
Pedro first became a father when he was 19 years old. Now at the age of
21, he already has a two year-old son. He has more than 20 past relationships and
he started having one when he was 16 years old. He experienced his first sexual
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he had three prior sexual partners. He said that the reason why he engaged in
intercourse that is why he was often worried every time he engaged in premarital
sex that he might get his partner pregnant. And it happened when he was 19 years
old, he got his girlfriend pregnant. When he first heard about it, he was in denial.
He eventually accepted it and he was man enough to accept the responsibility for
the pregnancy. Now his son is already two years old. He is not yet married to the
mother of his child rather they are living in together with his in-laws. He is a
college undergraduate. Not finishing college makes it hard for him to find a job
before. But now he can already provide for his family with the help of his job as a
which is very sufficient for his family needs and he can also save for their future.
Juan
relationship when he was 12. By the time he was 15, he was already engaging in
premarital sex. He had more than ten past girlfriends and six of them had become
his sexual partners before he had a child. He said that his aggressiveness or
has a one year-old daughter. He reported that he is not use contraception before
when he engaged in sexual intercourse. He also did not worry that he might get
his sexual partner pregnant. When he heard that he will become a father already,
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hardships of being a teenage father until his child was born. Before, he could do
what he wants and had many vices but when his child was born, he already
high school graduate. Currently, he is working at a local market, helping sell rice
only for his family needs. He already separated from his parents and is now living
independently with his spouse and child doing all his best to be a good and
responsible father.
Popoy
Popoy has more than 12 past girlfriends. He started having one when he
was 15 years old. He experienced his first sexual intercourse at the age of 18. He
said that he has many sexual partners before he had a child and the reason why he
engaged in premarital sex was because he is a boy and his body craves for it. He
him, he was not worried that he might get his partners pregnant because he was
confident that he knows what he was doing. He was 19 years old when he heard
that he got a girl pregnant. At that time, he was shocked and was in denial. He did
not know how to react and what to do but eventually he accepted it. He had no
doubt that he was the father because the girl was his longtime girlfriend. He is
now 21 years old and has a two and ½ year old daughter. He is not yet married to
the mother of his child rather they are living-in together with his in-laws and the
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month that is sufficient only for his family needs and he can hardly save. He said
that he really needs to exert more effort so that he can provide all the needs of his
family.
Mario
Mario first became a father when he was 19 years old. At age 20, he is
now a father to ten month-old identical female twins. Before he had children, he
had three past girlfriends. His first girlfriend was when he was 17 year old, the
same age that he experienced his first sexual intercourse. He had two sexual
partners before he had a child. The reason why he engaged in premarital sex was
because his girlfriend at that time insisted that they should do it. He did not use
worried that he might get his sexual partners pregnant. So when he heard that he
got a girl pregnant he accepted it right away and he was even happy about it. He
is currently living in with the mother of his children together with his in-laws. He
earning PhP5000 a month, which is not sufficient for his family’s needs
considering that he has twins but his in-laws are helping him in providing the
needs of his family. He knows that he cannot depend on his in-laws forever and
Jose was 15 years old when he had his first girlfriend, the same age that he
experienced his first sexual intercourse. He had two past girlfriends and had three
sexual partners before he had a child. He said that he engaged in premarital sex
before because he is a boy and that “he has needs”. He used condom before in
engaging in sexual intercourse because he was worried that he might get his
sexual partners pregnant. His fears came true because he got his last girlfriend
pregnant. He was afraid and did not know what to do when he heard about it.
Abortion crossed their minds but they did not push through with it because they
came to their senses. So he braved it and married the mother of his child and he
accepted the responsibility for his child. He was just 19 then and he was still
studying. His parents took the responsibility of providing the needs of his family.
He is now 23 years old and a criminology graduating student. His son is now
three years old. He is ashamed to his parents because they took responsibility for
providing for his own family. But he said that he is doing his best in school to
graduate so that he can find a job that can provide for the needs of his family.
Shad
Shad was only 15 years old when he had his first girlfriend and first
sexual intercourse. His first sexual intercourse happened in their house. He felt
nervous that time since it was his first time. After the first encounter however, he
eventually had 25 sexual partners which included past girlfriends and one-night
stands. Curiosity is the reason why he engaged in premarital sex. He did not use
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got his sexual partner pregnant at the age of 19, he was shocked, although he had
no doubt that it was his child. Shad is 24 years old now. He has a daughter who is
four-years old and currently living with her mother. Despite having a child at a
young age, Shad was able to finish college. He now has his own income. But he
still receives financial support from his parents and in-laws to enable him to better
provide for his child. His estimated income monthly is Php5,000 and according to
him, this income is sufficient only for family needs and he can hardly save.
Rap
Rap is 20 years old now and became a father when he was 19 years old.
experienced his first sexual intercourse at the age of 18 with his second girlfriend.
He had three sexual partners before he became a father. He said that he was
carried away by foreplay and romantic activities. He does not use contraceptives
because according to him he is a “happy go lucky man” and “come what may”
sort of person. When he heard that he got the girl pregnant, he was in shock.
Eventually, he realized that he needs to be serious already and find a job. Rap is a
He is working in Manila while his wife and son are living in the province with his
family.
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Kris became a father at the age of 18. He is 23 years old now and has a
daughter. Kris is married and living with his wife and daughter. He is a college
15,000 monthly which is sufficient for family needs and he can save. Kris was
only 14 years old when he entered into a romantic relationship. He said he had
two serious relationships and seven flings. He experienced his first sexual
intercourse at the age of 16. According to him, he had five sexual partners before
was not bothered that he would get a girl pregnant since he practices safe sex by
pregnant. When he heard about it, they openly decided to continue with the
Je
Je was 20 years old when he became a father. He is 22 years old now and
earning PhP35,000-40,000 monthly which is very sufficient for the family. It was
in high school when he had his first girlfriend and first sexual intercourse. He had
more than 10 sexual partners before. He feels that he was influenced by the
stories of his friends and out of his curiosity that he engaged in premarital sex.
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in his house. When he heard that he got the girl pregnant he felt scared and
nervous because he did not really like his girlfriend. Je called their marriage a
‘shotgun wedding’because the family of his girlfriend forced him to marry their
daughter. Je is currently living with his sister and mother, while his daughter and
wife are living with his wife’s parents. He feels that they are married only in
paper. However, according to him, despite his complicated relationship with his
Bry
Bry is now 21 years old and became a father at the age of 19. He was 16
years old when he entered into his first relationship, the same age he experienced
his first sexual intercourse. His first sexual intercourse happened in the house of
his ex-girlfriend. He had 10-15 sexual partners before he became a father and
curiosity was the reason why he engaged in premarital sex. He only uses
withdrawal method when engaging in sexual activity. When he heard that he got
his sexual partner pregnant, he was nervous because he was still studying.
Eventually he accepted his responsibility for his child. But because he was still
studying, his parents decided to allow him to finish school first. Now, he has a
two year-old daughter. Both Bry’s girlfriend (mother of his child) and daughter
are living with his in-laws. He usually just visits them there after school. Bry has
big plans for his family after graduating stating that he will find work
Nem was 16 years old when he had his first girlfriend. This was the same
age when he experienced his first sexual intercourse. His first sexual intercourse
happened at the house of his former girlfriend. He had four sexual partners before
he became a father. He does not use contraceptives, so when he heard that he got
his girlfriend pregnant he was shocked and nervous. He knew his father will be so
angry if he knew about it. However, he loved his girlfriend so he just accepted the
fact that he was going to be a father. Nem is 22 years now and he was only 19
years old when he became a father. He is not yet married but he is living with his
girlfriend and son together with his father. He is working as a service crew in a
Macoy
present he has 3 children - all male, and they are aged seven, five and two years
old. They are not living with the mother of his children instead they are living
undergraduate, he does not have any work at the present. When asked about his
family, he says that their life is okay and still surviving despite all the hardships.
Macoy only has one past girlfriend. He had his first girlfriend when he was 15
years old. He was 12 when he had his first sexual encounter. At that time, they
did not use any contraception. The encounter occurred at Macoy’s house. When
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accepted it immediately.
Budoy
when he had his first girlfriend. In sum, he only had two past girlfriends. His first
intercourse was not with his past girlfriends, but with an acquaintance. Before he
had his child, he had nine sexual relations which were with friends, acquaintances
and one with a stranger. According to him, he wants to know the feeling of
having sexual intercourse that was why he engaged in it. He also said he was not
worried if he will get his sexual partner pregnant even though he did not use any
because according to him, he knows that he is not the only one who has had
sexual encounters with the girl. At present he has a son aged five. Together with
his wife, they are living with his parents. His parents are the ones supporting him
since he is a high school undergraduate and does not have financial resources.
Baguito
Baguito is 21 years old, single and has a 5 year old son. He was 15 years
old when he became a father. Baguito has four past girlfriends. He had his first
girlfriend at the age of 13, but he experienced his first sexual intercourse at the
in sexual activities and from then on it became a hobby to have sex with girls”.
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his friends. He was worried that he might get a girl pregnant since he did not use
initially denied it because according to him, “May pakiramdam ako na… hindi sa
akin yun… na sa isa kong kaibigan yun. Siya ang bumuntis sa kanya” (I had a
feeling that it was not mine and it was one of my friends who impregnated her).
Together with his child, they are living with his parents who are supporting them.
to find a good job. His family is happy, understanding and supportive despite of
the fact that they were burdened with Baguito’s early engagement in teen
fatherhood.
Pepito
Pepito became a father at the age of 14. He now has two children, a 3 year
old son and a 6 year old daughter. Before having children, he had two past
girlfriends. He was 13 at the time he had his first girlfriend. At the age of 14, he
already had his first sexual intercourse – but not with his girlfriend, rather with
one of his female friends. It occurred at the residence of his female friend. He did
not use any contraception at that time. According to him he was worried that he
would impregnate his friend. And when he heard that his fear came true, he ran
away trying to avoid the responsibility of being a father of the child. He stated,
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asawa” (I was worried about my mother because I was sure she was going to kill
me and in the first place I did not like to get married). Currently, Pepito is not
living with the mother of his child rather he is living with his mother. He is a high
are very strict and they are always angry and also always busy at the farm. They
are seven siblings in their family and one of his brothers is also a teenage father.
He grew up very sad because his parents are separated and he always has feelings
of emptiness.
Loriel
are separated and they have their separate families. Pedro usually feels that his
parents left him alone in the custody of his grandmother, stating, “I don’t like my
parents. They are not true parents”. He feels sad and alone growing up together
with his grandmother. In sum, he had 11 past girlfriends. He was 11 years old
when he had his first girlfriend. When he turned 12, he experienced his first
sex just for past time. He used contraception that is why he did not worry that he
girlfriend, he initially wanted her to abort the child. According to him, he did not
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kami noon sa harap ng bahay ng pag papalaglagan ng bata, pero hindi namin
house of the abortionist. We don’t know, we were knocked by our conscience and
father. He has one daughter, aged 6. He is currently living together with the
Dan
Dan is currently 21 years old and Catholic by religion. He has one son
aged five. He had three past girlfriends and the first time he had a girlfriend was
when he was 13. This was the same age that he had his first sexual intercourse. It
happened with his friend. They did it at his friend’s house without using any
friend. When he heard that he had impregnated the girl, he denied it saying,
parents understand despite the fact that he now has his own family at a young age.
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Young fathers of this study became a parent at the age of 19 and below.
They are at their early 20s now. They have currently one child with most of them
having a son who is in early childhood. Almost all of them are Roman Catholics.
Most of the young fathers are currently living in an extended familial set-up in
which they are not only living with the mother of their child but also living with
his parents or in-laws and other relatives. Half of the young fathers are married.
While most of them are college undergraduates, they were able to find
employment and have their own income. Their income, however, remains low
and often not enough to support himself or his family. With regards their sexual
behavior, the young fathers reported that they engaged in premarital sex as early
as age 12 to 18. Often they engaged into it with their girlfriend with the venue
being in their own residence. Prior to becoming a father, they had several past
girlfriends and sexual partners. When they engaged in sexual intercourse, they
rarely use contraception; nonetheless, they did not fear they would impregnate
their sexual partner. Upon learning that their partner was pregnant, their initial
From the interview, it was discovered that most of the respondents are
aged 19, or in late adolescence (56%) when they became a father. The youngest
age for when they became a father is 14, with a mean age of 17.72 or 18 years
old. This is supported by the findings of the 1994 Young Adults Fertility and
Sexuality Study (YAFS II) which revealed a large proportion of young people
an early age(52% among men). In the 2014 YAFS or YAFS 4, almost 4% of the
unmarried teen males reported that they have gotten someone pregnant,
suggesting that there are indeed premarital experiences among this group of
young individuals.
Ancient Rome, the appropriate minimum age for marriage was 14 for males and
12 for females (Dahl, 2010). This standard was eventually adopted by the
Catholic Church when Rome was Christianized. Hence, in the 19th century,
marriage at age 18 and below was not unusual in the Philippines. Societally,
being married calls for pregnancy and hence it can be assumed that pregnancy
would also occur at a young age. The current findings, however, signal an
confirmed this increasing proportion when she reported that premarital sexual
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in Alampay, Dela Cruz & Liwag, 2009) have argued that risk-taking activities is
impulse control only reach maturity by adulthood or by age 18. This suggests that
because teenagers’ brain and the cerebral structures responsible for impulse
control are not fully matured, they are prone to engagement in risky behaviors
All of the respondents, in the current study, are already in their 20s and
most are Catholics (89%). Thirty three percent (33%) of them are 21 years old
and the youngest is 20 years old. The mean age of the respondents is 21.83 or 22
years old. Two out of three fathers (66%) are currently living with the mother of
their child. Most of the respondents currently have only one child (72%). This is
similar to the finding of the YAFS-4 which found that half of married teen males
Almost 39% of the respondents did not finish college. Only 17%
graduated from college. Despite this, sixty percent have a source of income while
the rest are still depending on their parents or on their in-laws for finances. In
terms of monthly income, 39% of the respondents are earning less than P5,000
monthly. While most did not finish college, there is still a higher educational
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revealed that 49% of the adolescent males 15-19 years old in the Philippines are
The table further shows that most of respondents (38.9%) are married.
Twenty seven percent (27%) are single and the other 28% are living in together.
In the YAFS-4, it was reported that there are more youth (aged 15-24) who are in
a “living-in” arrangement than married. However, in this study there are more
married teen males (39%) than those who are living-in (28%). Furthermore, most
The results of the quantitative data also show that 56% of the respondents
are currently employed and have their own income. This is consistent with the
nationwide YAFS-4 which reported that most of the male adolescents’ activity
aside from studying was working (23%). In terms of their socioeconomic status, it
can be shown that 44% reported as belonging to low socio-economic status. This
(2004) which showed that young fathers usually have higher rates of
unemployment and lower levels of education than older fathers. Mollborn and
Lovegrove (2011) observed the same when they found out that young fathers
set up which means they are living with their parents, in-laws, and grandparents.
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common. When a son or daughter has already had his/her own family, he/she
together with the new family reside in the same house with his/her parents. Living
Parents and in-laws can help in nurturing or looking after their grandchildren
2016),it was discussed that extended families are sources of emotional and
physical support. More than helping in childcare, they impart encouragement for
parents and help in making children feel loved and appreciated. This results to
lesser burdens particularly among youngfathers who are often inexperienced with
childcare. Young fathers are also given some liberty to look for work, spend time
with friends or engage in leisure since someone is available to attend to his child.
irresponsibility among the young fathers. They may engage in their previous
“bachelor” life, precisely because their children are being looked after anyway.
provide the largest support or child care, even when the spouses are around every
day (Pillitteri, 2010). If this occurs, a father’s time with his child may decrease
which in turn may prevent him from increasing his paternal nurturance and
parental satisfaction.
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before they impregnated a girl. The mean number of their past girlfriends is 7.67
or 8. The youngest age for when they had their first girlfriend is 11 and the oldest
is 17, with a mean age of 14.39. When it comes to their age when they had their
first sexual intercourse, most reported that it was at the ages of 15 (22.2%) or 16
(22.2%). The youngest age for first sexual experience was 12 and the oldest age
teen males that are engaging in early sex before age 15 and 18 (YAFS-4, 2014).
In this study, the mean age for first sexual initiation is 15.33 almost similar to the
YAFS-4 study which reported that sexual initiation began at 16 years old.
The results in the sexual behavior of the respondents are also almost
similar to the survey conducted by the nationwide Young Adult Fertility and
Sexuality Study among youth aged 15-24 (YAFS-3) in 2002 which revealed that
23.2% adolescents have had premarital sex (PMS) (31% males and 16% females),
with mean age at first sex of 17 for males and 18 for females. It would appear that
behaviors and practices of young people. Natividad (2013) confirms this when
she reported that there is now a rising trend of premarital sexual activity among
Almost 78% of the respondents had their first sexual intercourse not with
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which reported that 60% of the teen males also had their first PMS with a
girlfriend.
The mean number of their sexual partners is 7.50 or 8. This is higher when
compared with the YAFS-3 since 4 was the mean number of partners among
The respondents’ home was the usual venue of their first sexual
residence (22.2%), in their friend’s house or boarding house (16.7%) and some
In addition, most of the respondents (61.10%) were not worried that they
might get the girl pregnant. The YAFS-4 study also found out that almost 4% of
single male teens have gotten someone pregnant. Almost all (77.80%) of the
respondents did not use contraceptives when they engaged in sexual intercourse.
This is confirmed by the YAFS studies which reported among teen males aged
15-24 in the Philippines a very low level of protection during their first premarital
sex (PMS). In the YAFS-3, it reported that only 27.6% males and 14.5% females
When asked about their reactions upon learning of the pregnancy of their
sexual partner, most of the respondents (44.4%) stated that they accepted it.
Almost 28%, however, denied it, while16.7% planned to abort the child.
current results however suggest otherwise. In the current study, only one (5.6%)
reported that he initially ran away, whereas another (5.6%) said that he doubted
that it was his child. According to Frias (2008), teenage fathers almost never plan
a pregnancy that is why their initial reactions may be denial, fear, and/or a desire
to escape.
2015). If a young father impregnated someone and did not take responsibility for
In the current study, it was found that many of the young fathers engaged
in premarital sex because they are teased by their peers to do it and most of their
peers also engaged in it. For some young fathers who lack familial nurturance
and social acceptance upon learning that they would have a child, their peer group
support (Alampay, Dela Cruz & Liwag, 2009). Sadly, if the peer group is engaged
in delinquent activities like gambling, drug and alcohol use, and sexual activities,
it becomes a source of more risky behaviors than social support. Premarital sex is
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The previous section revealed that the young fathers of this study engaged
However, did this attitude change when they became fathers? This section reveals
that changes occurred among the young fathers after knowing that they now have
a child. This further presents evidence of how the young fathers discover for the
first time how they can nurture their child/ren. Young as they are, teenage fathers
are forced into a position where they have to do parenting roles before they are
ready. How are they able to do that? The following questions were asked to
“What are your usual activities with your child at home and at school?” and
show your love to your child?”eight of the respondents said they can show their
“will do anything for (the) family”. Indeed being a provider is one of the major
ways by which fathers nurture their children. Teenage fathers may not express
their love to their children in obvious ways like mothers but fathers of this study
expressed their love by fulfilling the “provider” role, and taking on mature roles
by finding work or working to provide for the finances of the family. In the study
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increasing their financial responsibility, and their sense of duty for their children.
It appears that finding employment and providing finances for his family or child
Macapagal (1999) claim that the Filipino father’s chief role is that of family
provider and his role as a child caretaker is considered only secondary. However,
Gonzales (2014) reported that the new generation of fathers is now striving to
create an emotional bond with their children. They are much more interested in
being present in their children’s lives and are much less focused on primarily
holding the provider role. This was supported by Rayco (2008) who defined
who listens and responds to his child’s needs and makes him or her feel secure
and self-confident) suggesting that the father’s role was not limited to providing
for his children. In the paternal nurturance scale which Rayco (2008) crafted, he
was able to discover that adolescents, who had older fathers usually defined
matulungin, pangangailangan, and loob.In the current study, most of the young
fathers’ nurturing style was “pangangailangan” only which suggest that for them,
Since these fathers are at their young age when they became a father, it is
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involved with their child’s life. Moreover, according to Gallardo (2010) despite
the changes of the times, many fathers are still bound by gender-biased parenting
beliefs and practices which view parenting as solely a mother’s role. For this
provider role is not the only way by which teenage fathers show their love. Most
of them are also actively involved in their children’s life in leisure time, play
sometimes they no longer have time for the family. Usually they have no time for
their children but if they have time, they make the most out of it. This statement
was strengthened by the working teenage fathers of this study who go out with
their children if they have free time from work. For example:
“Namamasyal kami pag may oras ako” (If I have time, we go out
for leisure)
Jay, 21 yrs old, construction worker
their children and in this way they are able to form bonds with their child. Popoy
stated that his activity with his child is “naglalaro ng (playing) badminton”. The
same is through with the other participants who also said that playing with their
child is one of their ways to bond with their children as indicated below:
“(We) watch Frozen then play time tapos kain tapos pasyal [We
watch (the movie) Frozenthen we play then eat and go out]
Shad, 24 years old, security guard
Despite the busy schedules of the young father who are employed they
still find time to bond with their child even though they are tired sometimes. This
makipaglaro sa kanya kahit pagod ako galing sa trabaho.” (I always find time to
play with him even when I’m tired from work).Liwag, Dela Cruz and Macapagal
(1999) cited that Filipino fathers maintained that they were very much involved in
taking care of their children less than a year-old. Relating and playing were the
most frequent activities of the younger fathersto their child while the older
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children.
provide the needs of his family. It is surprising to know that there are some young
fathers who are hands-on in caring for their children, as shown in the following
statements:
Some studies reveal that contrary to common belief, teenage fathers are
not always keen to avoiding their responsibilities. Instead, they were often very
eager about the prospect of becoming an involved parent, wanting to learn how to
do the job properly (Rivara, 1986; Speak, 1997). Gonzales (2014) also stated that
fathering today often includes nurturing and caregiving, play activities and
child.
School. Since some of the teenage fathers have children who are already
sending and fetching the child from school. Nem mentioned that “Hinahatid ko
siya sa school”(I bring him to school). Also Macoy, Budoy and Baguito stated
that “Sa school naman hatid sundo ko siya” (I bring and fetch him from school);
“Ako naghahatid at nagsusundo sa kanila sa school” (I’m the one who bring and
fetch them from school); “Ako na din ang naghahatid at nagsusundo sa kanila sa
school”(I’m also the one who brings and fetches them from school).
child from school given that most of the participants’ children are still in pre-
school. The children of the rest of the participants were still toddlers and not
attending school. One participant however indicated that while his child is still in
pre-school, he already is foreseeing how he could provide for his child’s tuition,
saying:
their participation in their children’s lives both at home and in school as the latter
continue to grow and develop. Most researches indicate that young fathers are
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And this is very much evident in Shad’s statement when he said, “basta kasama
ko sya, sinusulit ko yung oras na magkasama kami (I make sure that I maximize
For adolescent and young adult fathers, involvement with their children
Hence, it is crucial that young fathers, in whatever way they can, should remain
significance of both parents within the family. While addressing more generally
the importance of the family for society, Pope John Paul II highlights the
In the study conducted by Frias (2008) he found that there are also
educational attainment are among the given factors for why the young father
becomes being uninvolved parent. Low income fathers, who are unable to provide
for their families due to poverty or job loss, seem to have negative or decreased
low socio-economic status and educational attainment of the young fathers they
are still able to be involved in nurturing their child, not just by being a provider
but also by being involved in the life of their children especially in leisure,
(Rayco, 2008). However, in the current study some of the respondents are also
characteristics, give high regard to the roles they play in their children’s lives
they all believe that being a father is something that has to be taken seriously.
They also found that fathers believe that their role is no longer just confined to
providing for the material needs of the family. Several changes were noted in the
Hindi na ako pwedeng mangchicks kasi may anak na ako. (I can no longer
flirt with other ladies because I already have a child)
Shad, 24, Security Guard
Young fathers of this study are nurturing in a way that they provide the
needs of their child. Since they are still young and beginners as a parent, they still
do not know how to become a father. Many of them still think that to nurture is to
simply provide the material needs of their child. Surprisingly, young fathers of
this study are also nurturing by being involved in their child’s life by engaging
themselves in playtime, leisure, child care and in the schooling of their child. If
previously they are irresponsible, immature and happy-go-lucky, that they only
think of themselves, they do what they want, going out with their peers, doing
their vices, sports and any activities that average teenage boy are doing, now,
having a child changed their attitudes and lifestyles making them more
early age has put a stop to most of the activities they were previously doing like
going to school, most of the young fathers are faced with difficulties in the
nurturance of their family. How efficient and effective then are they in meeting
asking them questions regarding (1) their greatest problems, (2) how they solved
those problems, and (3) their abilities which helped them solve those problems.
teenage fathers into a situation they were not prepared for, their greatest problems
needs. Most of the young fathers in this study consider finances as a major
This shows that becoming a father at a young age may result to financial
problems. All of the young fathers were studying, eight were in college already
and the rest were in high school. Getting someone pregnant halted their schooling
and for ten of the respondents, prevented them from securing a degree or
finishing at least high school. This fact caused difficulty in finding and landing a
associated with negative consequences, both for the father and child that are
include reduced educational attainment, greater financial hardship, and less stable
marriage patterns for the teen parent, along with poorer health, educational, and
behavioral outcomes among children born to teen parents (Batten and Stowell
more likely to hold low prestige jobs. Young fathers in this study are frustrated
about how they can provide for their family. For instance, Nem, 22, a fast food
crew said:
However, it can also be seen in the young fathers’ statements that despite the
hardships, they are trying their best to give their best for their children. This also
shows that young fathers are still doubtful of their abilities to be independent
Ginsburg, Schwars, Pinto-Martin, Zhao, Morzan & Slap (1997) found that
financial insecurity was a factor that was likely to lead to disinterest in the rearing
of their child. Interestingly, data of this study say otherwise in that the young
fathers are motivated to look for a job and find money for their children. As said
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nature they often reflect group or family goals. In this arrangement, parents or in-
laws still support their children financially even if their children have their own
family already.
teenage father as stated by the respondents of this study was how to become a
father to their child or children. This means lack of readiness in becoming a father
and being immature in their role as a father. Much of what is known about the
focused on how couples become parents and negotiate their new father (and
mother) roles. May (1982) found that expectant fathers' perceived readiness for
fatherhood was related to their view of the stability and quality of their marital
relationships, their financial situation, and whether they had accomplished their
life goals in the childless period. As Pedro, 21, security guard said,“Problema ko
noon kung paano ko papanindigan yung baby ko” (My problem before was how
to stand up for my baby). Popoy, in the same light, said “Nung una siguro eh
financial talaga kasi wala pa akong trabaho nun. (Ngayon) yung pagaalaga sa
kanya.”(At first it’s really financial because I did not have work before and now
and how to take care of my child). This proves that having financial resources is
pregnancy. Specifically, three out of 18 young fathers in this study reported that
they planned to abort the child. Dacles (2014) said that since they are beginners,
Because of their young age, most of the participants were not yet mature
to enter the world of fatherhood that was why most of them were unsure of their
actions. Juan says “Idi umuna ket madik pay ammu ububraik bilang ama ti anak
ko. Madik pay ammu su na nga alagaan idi manu nga bulan na pay lang.” (At
first I did not know what I wasdoing. I did not know how to take care of him in
his early months as a baby). This was similar to Juan and Dan who also pointed
out that they were inexperienced and truly unaware of what they were doing
while caring for their children. Rhein et al. (1997) suggested that apart from a
care were also likely to lead to disinterest with their child and even
uninvolvement. It is a good thing then that eventually they managed to care for
their children, influencing their children’s behavior then revealing their self-
efficacy. This power of belief in one’s capability is very important because this
impact not only the young fathers’ own behavior and involvement but as well as
their capacities regarding their parental role. They are trying their best to take on
the parental role despite their inexperience. This suggests that they already put
emphasis on the importance of their role in the molding of their children. This is
efficacy is now a key aspect of Filipino parenting, and apparently, this is true
transformed into young fathers who try their best to prioritize their family and be
genuinely responsible for them. This is an important change in the identity of the
young fathers since this transition into a new and more responsible role of a father
Mario disclosed that “umaasa pa din kasi kami sa mga magulang naming
mag-asawa. Kulang din kasi yung sweldo ko para sa kanilang dalawa.”(We are
still dependent on our parents because my salary is not enough for the two of
them). Mario’s statement reveals the usual support – financial or otherwise - that
the result of the study of Sheldrake (2010) which stated that 32% of the 29 fathers
hence extended familial support is common. This shows that Filipino families
always want to help and be involved with decisions regarding their sons or
(Dacles, 2014).
Finding work. When asked “How were you able to solve such problems”
Pedro, said “Iyon nga yung naghanap talaga ako ng trabaho, lahat ng trabaho na
really searched for a job. I tried all jobs that were available until I was hired as a
security guard). This statement shows that fatherhood at a young age is not an
In a family there are times that the child will get sick and sometimes there
will be emergencies. Kris did his best to address such problem as he shared in his
statement “Alam kong may mas malaking responsibilidad na ako ngayon kaya
walang pera nagaadvance ako sa trabaho ko.” (I know I now have a bigger
responsibility of being a father and one of the problems faced by young fathers is
accepting the fact that they are now a father and no longer a single teenager. As
stated by Loriel:
Since young fathers are still at a young age it was not easy for them to
become mature and become responsible. This was shown in Dan’s statement:
“Parang kelan ko lang din na solve yung mga problema na yan kasi
sabi ko nga kanina binata pa ako noon. Kahit may anak na (ako).
Bale realization (na may anak na ako) ang nakatulong sa akin. Kasi
kung hindi ko pa 100% na narealize na (may anak na) ako, siguro
may na-anakan na naman ako.” (I’ve only recently solved this
problem. Even if I already have a son. Realizing that I already have a
son helped me a lot. Because if not, I would have impregnated
another woman again)
This statement shows that his realization of his current situation and his
role as a father helps him a lot in becoming a good father to his children and to
his family, and his realization help him know his priorities and responsibilities.
oras tapos wala na ok na ko.” (I just cried on it for hours then after that I was
okay). Jose said, “Binabalewala ko lang, wala pa din naman kasi akong magawa
kasi nga nagaaral pa lang ako.” (I just ignored it because I couldn’t do anything
Abilities that helped them to solve their problems. This part presents
the specific abilities of the young fathers which would serve as evidence of their
self-efficacy.
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This shows that being a teenage father does not mean he cannot be a good
shows how the young fathers truly try to take on their parenting roles by
deeply imposed challenges on how one can fulfill the role of being a father at a
young age. The challenges are greater for these young parents as compared to
older parents since they have yet to learn other important abilities that will enable
means to provide the needs of their family. They did this by being “madiskarte”
The same experience was seen in Mario, 20, helper in the business,
who said:
stereotypes them as “hit and run victimizers”, running away from their
Popoy, who became a father at the age of 19 and is now 21 years old,
works hard for his family. Mario, a father who has twin daughters at the age of 20
stated that “Masasabi ko sigurong naging responsible talaga ako kasi mas iniisip
ko na talaga yung mga anak ko”. Likewise, Macoy and Pedro are responsible
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respondents claimed that they are responsible fathers because they are providing
the needs of their children on their own despite the fact that most of them did not
"They [teen fathers] do care. And when they're asked, they want to
be responsible men - not all of them, but a lot. It's not easy, and
they often start with a lot of strikes against them - their age, their
own home life, the need to finish school and still be a dad. It takes
strength and guts”. (p. 21)
Instead of enjoying their youth and having good times they are now taking
both parents within the family. Pope John Paul II underscores how essential a
advocate for and restore the conviction that a father should remain concerned
with his family and be truly involved in his role in the family. Despite society’s
common notion about them, the young fathers of this study proved that they can
Self-efficacy can impact one’s own behavior and the behaviors of those
molding and raising their child as they can influence the behavior of their child
(Raikes &Thompson, 2005). The self-efficacy of the young fathers in this study is
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fathers. They have yet to understand the other facets of childcare or parenting that
they can involve themselves with their children apart from providing their child’s
financial needs. Despite of their young age they are trying to learn and to become
questions were asked: “How satisfied are you with yourself as a father? And
Why?”and “How satisfied are you with your children’s behavior? Why?”
Responses to the former questions revealed that majority of the respondents are
moderately satisfied as a father. When asked to rate themselves from one to ten
(1-10), responses yielded scores in the range of four to eight. Mario said “Kung
numbering siguro from one to ten, nasa eight ganun, eight or nine. Kasi di naman
ako perfect eh.” (If I will rate it from one to ten, maybe it’s eight because I’m not
perfect). Meanwhile, Kris said, “Six lang dahil madami pa kasi akong dapat
rate myself as six, since I have a lot to prove and learn. So far I can provide only
Some respondents said that they are not that satisfied with themselves as a
father because most of their time is still spent working. For instance, Rap said
“kung ire-rate ko (If I will rate it) from one to ten, it’s five because I’m not
but the time and presence as a father is not there). According to Frias (2008)
children who lived apart from their fathers are more likely to drop out of school,
twice as likely to abuse drugs or alcohol, twice as likely to end up in jail, and two
or three times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems.
kasi parang nag-i-start palang akong maging mabuting ama sa anak ko. Kasi
feeling binata pa lang ako nuon eh.”(For now I can say that I’m not yet satisfied
because I’m still starting to be a good father to my child. Before I was acting like
a teenager - without a child). Fathers who are unable to provide for their families
or children due to being jobless, seem to have a decreased interaction with their
children. This is similar to Bry’s statement who mentioned that, “Parang hindi
ng in-laws ko. Sakanila nanggagaling lahat kasi nga nagaaral pa lang ako.” (It
seems like I don’t feel being a father now. My parents and my in-laws took my
There were a few who highlighted that they are somehow satisfied
already. For example, Pedro said “Ayos naman kasi alam ko naman sa sarili ko
ko bilang tatay na naibibigay ko mga kailangan (ng anak ko).” (It’s fine because
I know that as a father that I can provide all his needs). Nem had a similar
response stating that “Okay naman, basta ginagawa ko lahat para maibigay ko
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needs).
There were some respondents who said that “love” is the only thing that
they can give for now. Juan said that “Adu pay siguro mapagdaanak habang
padpadakilik isuna ngem aramidik amin tapnu lang madi isuna marigatan ken
maited ko amin nga pangangailangan ken kayat na”. (I still have a lot to go
through while he is growing up. But I am doing everything to provide for his
Based on the answers of the 18 respondents, in general, they are not yet
satisfied with themselves as a father particularly because they know they have a
lot more to learn and experience as fathers. It is interesting to learn that most of
the respondents stated that they are planning for the future and welfare of their
child, challenging the view that they are “hit and run victimizers”.
In response to the second question of “How satisfied are you with your
children’s behavior, majority of the respondents said that they are satisfied with
the behavior of their children. Rap said “kahit anong behavior niya satisfied na
ako kasi tatay niya ako and he will always be the best for me.” (Whatever will be
his behavior I will be satisfied with it because I’m his father and he will always
be the best for me). Jay shared the same sentiment stating, “maliit pa naman siya
natural na makulit pero sweet siya saka kahit ano pa maging ugali niya tanggap
sweet. Whatever will be her behavior I’ll accept it because I love her and I’ll
make sure that I will take good care of her until she grows up.)
In the study of Bautista (2013) she noted that single mothers who have
children aged 0-5 years have the highest parenting satisfaction, but there was no
children. This means, regardless of the ages of the children the parenting
laeng met gamin isuna isu madi ak pay ammu ngem siguradwek met nga
dumakkil iti anak ko iti nasayaat ken nasingpet.” (I don’t know, he is still a baby
but I’ll make sure he will grow up to be a very good kid). Among the 18
respondents, Jose is the only one who was not yet satisfied with his child’s
behavior stating, “Hindi pa (ko satisfied) kasi nga hindi ko pa naman gaanong
naalagaan.”
On the last question of “How satisfied are you with your relationship(s)
relationship(s) with their child/children. Some respondents are really close with
their child. Kris, for instance, said “sobrang ayos naman kami. Pinapakita ko sa
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Surprisingly, if there are single mothers, there are also single fathers who
fulfill the duties of both mother and father. In this study, Baguito stated “aba
masaya kaming dalawa kahit dalawa lang kami kahit wala na yung ina niya!
Sobrang close nga kami eh! Anak ko ang nagpapasaya sa akin.” (Well, we’re
happy even though his mother is not with us. We’re very close! My child makes
me happy).
However, there are young fathers who are not yet satisfied with their
relationship with their child/children because most of their time was spent on
work. Rap stated, “5 (out of 10) din kasi nga hindi ko siya madalas makasama.
Minsan lang din ako umuwi dahil sa trabaho ko.” (It’s 5, out of ten. I rarely have
time to be with him because I’m often at work). Popoy also said “Kulang pa din
iyong oras ko sa kanilang dalawa eh kaya hindi pa siguro ako satisfied.” (My
time for them is still not enough that is why I’m not yet satisfied). Parenting
satisfaction was directly related to the care given to the child, suggesting that for a
parent to attain a certain level of satisfaction, sufficient care, time and nurturance
has to be spent with the child (Bautista, 2013). Other studies suggest that parental
LaForett & Mendez, as cited in Danner, 2012). Given that most of the
respondents’ children are still not in grade school, it is therefore not surprising
is someone who despite his age and parenting inexperience tries his best to take
provider role. He deals with parenting problems by finding work and discerning
of resources he currently has, and he is trying his best to assume his paternal or
generally still gets substantial help from parents and in-laws with regards finances
and child care. Also, a large part of his time is spent on work. These
commitment in his fathering role is needed therefore to ensure that they can
personally fulfill their parenting roles and attain sufficient parental satisfaction.
Moreover, the fact that most of them are forward looking shows that they have
a “batang ama” (boy father). That while the support system is essential to their
carrying out their obligations, their own parents should provide the grounds on
which they can hone their skills of fatherhood. When perhaps these teenage
fathers would have seen the connection of these factors in their lives: self-
efficacy, paternal nurturance, and parental satisfaction, they can look back with
pride for having made the right decision that of being a father to their child.
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This chapter presents the summary of the study, the findings and
Summary
The study was conducted with the following objectives: a) to know who
the young fathers of this study are, b) to determine their demographic profile and,
were purposively selected young fathers who became a parent at the age of 19
years old and below. They were between the ages of 20-24 at the time of the
study and were residents of the provinces of Nueva Vizcaya, Isabela and Quirino.
The mixed methods design was employed to gather quantitative data regarding
the participants’ demographic and sexual behavior profile and qualitative data
satisfaction. Data were analyzed using descriptive statistics and thematic analysis.
Findings
1. Young fathers of this study are aged 20-24. They became a father between 14
supporting their child. They were not necessarily living with child or the
when they became a father. The youngest age for when they became a father
was 14 years old and the mean age was 18 years old. All of the respondents
were in their early 20s at the time of the study. Most of them are Roman
Catholics. Most of the respondents currently have only one child. Most have
sons who are in early childhood. Most of them are currently living with the
mother of their child. Most of them are college undergraduates. Most of the
respondents are married. Most of the respondents’ parents are married. Most
of the respondents are employed. Most of the young fathers reported a low
extended family set-up which means they are still living with their parents or
in-laws.
girlfriends is 8. The earliest age for when they had their first girlfriend was
11, and the oldest is 17. Most of them reported that they were aged 15 or 16
when they experienced their first sexual intercourse. The youngest age for
when they experienced their first sexual intercourse was 12 and the oldest was
18.Most of the respondents were not worried that they might get the girl
pregnant even though most of them did not use contraceptives when they
provider of the family but also in being involved with childcare, and by being
father. These difficulties actually paved the way for them to evaluate their
6. Most of the young fathers still have low parental satisfaction. This is due to the
fact that they are still new in their parenting role, their children are still young,
and they are still supported and dependent on their parents or in-laws.
Conclusions
1. Filipino young fathers became a parent typically at the age of 19. Despite not
completing a college degree, they were able to find work and have their own
income. Their income, however, remains low and often not enough to support
himself or his family. The young fathers are in an extended familial set-up
where they are living not only with their child and spouse, but also with their
These experiences were done with their girlfriends and were often engaged in
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and the venue was often in their own residence. The most common reaction
for when they found out they got someone pregnant was they immediately
accepted it. They did not run away, but rather took responsibility for the child
and the mother of their child. The low educational attainment of the young
fathers did not serve as a hindrance for them to find a job. However, it led to
financial difficulty since the jobs they landed in were often low-paying. The
young fathers are still doubtful of their paternal abilities since they are still
3. The young fathers expressed paternal nurturance by taking on the provider role
and by being involved with childcare and with their child’s leisure time,
5. The young fathers are not yet satisfied with themselves as a father.
Recommendations
father. They are urged to always be hands-on with child care in spite of
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that they participate in the different programs and activities like parenting
seminars or trainings offered to them by the school or the government for this
responsibilities not only to their child but also to the mother of their child for
this helps in transforming their identity from one that is merely a provider to a
they are the best source of support which would enable young fathers to grow
and form into responsible and independent young parents. However, they
have to be mindful also that while they are supporting their child, they are not
interfering with the decisions as well as the daily responsibilities (i.e. child
care) that should be handled, determined and resolved by the young father.
teenage or young parents. Therapists and counselors can know more about the
assisting this group of individuals. They can also help in eradicating negative
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early age. To help the young fathers feel less isolated, it is recommended that
4. For the Government. One of the problems of the young fathers in this study
craft job opportunities specifically for young fathers who are usually college
financially in fulfilling their desire to form a family. Moreover, given the high
the government create programs to help reverse this trend by discovering the
confluence of factors that account for this. Also, prevention and intervention
efforts must be made to ensure that young parents will not have repeat teen
5. For Catholic Institutions. Given that most of the respondents are Catholics,
the family:
For the Catholic family. The Synod of Bishops noted that in many
have not been religiously or civilly recognized”. There are some young
can help transform not only the couples, but also the children allowing
For priests and counselors. Young fathers are still ignorant and
schools are the only schools to provide genuine opportunities for the
poorest communities by serving the less fortunate who are often the ones
material specifically for class instruction. This way young people are able
to grasp the realities affecting their age group and hopefully instill in them
6. For Educational Institutions. All young fathers of this study were in high
school and college when they impregnated a girl; thus, it is recommended that
premarital sex and the practice of engaging into it without protection suggest
safe sex and responsible parenthood. Also, educational trainings that teach
of the experiences of young fathers given that much has yet to be known
further explore the qualities of a young father. More questions about their
and the wife of the young fathers are also recommended for better
This study focused on teenage fathers who are living with their children.
Future studies can also focus on the perspectives of fathers who do not live
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Date:______________
Dear Respondent,
Sincerely, Noted:
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Name: __________________________________________
1. How old where you when you first became a father? ________
2. What is your current age? _______
3. What is your religion? ____ Catholic ____ Non-Catholic
4. How many children do you have now? ______
5. What is the age and sex of your child/ren?
Sex Current Age
st
1 child
2nd child
3rd child
4th child
5th child
6th child
6. Are you currently living with the mother of your child?
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
7. What is the source of your finances?
[ ] own income
[ ] parents/ parents in-laws
[ ] others ________________
8. What is your monthly income?
[ ] 0-5,000
[ ] 5,000-10,000
[ ] 10,000-15,000
[ ] 15,000-20,000
[ ] 20,000-30,000
[ ] 30,000-40,000
[ ] 40,000 and above
9. What is your highest educational attainment?
[ ] Elementary Undergraduate
[ ] Elementary Graduate
[ ] High School Undergraduate
[ ] High School Graduate
[ ] College Undergraduate
[ ] College Graduate
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2. What are your usual daily activities with your child at home? And at
school?
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
Self-Efficacy Questions
3. What do you think are your abilities that help you to solve such problems?
___________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________
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3. How satisfied are you with your relationship(s) with your children?
___________________________________________________________
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