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According to the English poet John Donne, “no man is an island”. This means that all
individuals interact with other individuals practically every day and often many times in any day
hence the interpersonal relationship among people. But what is interpersonal relationship? A
Interpersonal relationship refers to a strong bond between two or more people. It can also
be an attraction between individuals that brings them closer to each other and eventually results in
Interpersonal skills are the skills we used every day when we communicate and interact
with other people, both individually and in groups. People with strong interpersonal skills are often
more successful in both their professional and personal lives. They are able to communicate
effectively with others, whether family, friends, colleagues, customers or clients. Interpersonal skills
are therefore vital in all areas of life at work, in education and socially.
One must manifest the capability to listen to be able to interpret the message of the person
he’s speaking with, the capability to speak in a logical way for him to be able to be understood, the
capability to understand and be empathetic to other people’s feelings, and the capacity to converse
in group situations. Manifesting these skills results to a successful interpersonal relationship and it
would not be difficult since we've all been developing our interpersonal skills since childhood,
Some describe interpersonal skills as a type of social intelligence that relies on paying attention to
the actions and speech of others and interpreting it correctly as part of forming a response. While
they are based in part on an individual's personality and instincts, these skills also developed as a
result of life experiences and knowledge (Staff, 2015). Moreover, these skills are the foundations of
skills – between two or more individuals and is a building block of a society. A psychiatrist named
Robert Waldinger found out that one of the factors in forming genuine happiness is having a
healthy relationship. Those who were more socially and physically connected were happier and
healthier whereas those who were more isolated were less happy and lived shorter lives.
But with today’s innovated world, the way an individual communicate with other people has
become more digitalized. With the rapid growth of smartphone productions in the world, the
number of its users also skyrockets at the same time and it has become ubiquitous in every corner
of the society.
Smartphones matter partly because of their ubiquity and convenience. They have become the
fastest-selling gadgets in history, outstripping the growth of the simple mobile phones that
preceded them. They outsell personal computers four to one. Today, about half the adult
population owns a smartphone; by 2020, 80% will. Smartphones have also penetrated every
aspect of daily life. The average American is buried in one for over two hours every day. Nearly 80%
of smartphone-owners check messages, news or other services within 15 minutes of getting up.
For the first time ever, there are more gadgets in the world than there are people, including a
growing number that only communicate with other machines, according to data from digital
analysts at GSMA Intelligence. There are 34.44 million smartphone users in the Philippines as of
January 2018. This forecast shows the number of smartphone users in the Philippines from 2015
to 2016 with forecasts for 2017 to 2022. In 2017, the number of smartphone users in the
Philippines is estimated to reach 30.4 million. This would mean that around 32 percent of the
population in the Philippines will use smartphones. The number is expected to rise to 40 percent by
21st century innovative product called smartphones. There are currently 2.53 billion smartphone
users around the world and the number is expected to pass the five billion mark by 2019
(statista.com, 2018).
Furthermore, in 2012, scientists at the Chinese Academy of Sciences found that the brain
chemicals of people who habitually used the Internet in their mobile phones (and were perhaps
addicted to it) had abnormal connections between the nerve fibers in their brain. These changes
are similar to other sorts of addicts, including alcoholics that can impact communications,
The mentioned studies suggested that extreme exposure to technological devices such as
smartphones can affect the social interaction among people for it hinders in practicing interpersonal
skills. Instead of having a conversation face to face, a person can send a text message or an email
to a another individual. This affects the way a person communicate verbally and the practice of his
listening skill. Also, the longer the time a person spends with his smartphone, the more
Through social media people are able to communicate with one another all around the world. They
build relationships without actually seeing the person face to face. However, this form of
communication may seem easy and helpful, yet it is the leading reason for less sensitive
relationships. People lose face-to-face interactions because their communications are mainly
online. Being online only isolates you from the society by creating false realities in a virtual world
(Khatri, 2016).
Using a field experiment and experience sampling, a study found the first evidence that phone use
may undermine the enjoyment people derive from real world social interactions.
In Study 1, the researchers recruited over 300 community members and students to share a meal
at a restaurant with friends or family. Participants were randomly assigned to keep their phones on
the table or to put their phones away during the meal. When phones were present (vs. absent),
participants felt more distracted, which reduced how much they enjoyed spending time with their
friends/family. The study found consistent results using experience sampling in Study 2; during in-
person interactions, participants felt more distracted and reported lower enjoyment if they used
This research suggests that despite their ability to connect people across the globe, phones may
undermine the benefits we derive from interacting with those across the table (Dwyer, Kushlev, &
Dunn, 2017). Nonetheless, greater use of the Internet was associated with declines in participants'
communication with family members in the household, declines in the size of their social circle, and
Little by little, Internet and mobile technology seems to be destroying the meaningfulness
of human interactions among people, disconnecting an indivudual from his/her loved ones, and
Instead of spending time in person with friends, people would prefer to just call, text, or
instantly message them. It may seem simpler, but people ultimately end up seeing them face to
face a lot less and loss the real connection that is the basis of interpersonal skills. The more people
become connected to the world, the more they become disconnected to the people around them
In addition, another experiment, 100 pairs of people were randomly assigned to discuss either a
casual or meaningful topic together. A trained research assistant observed the participants
unnoticeably from a distance during the course of a 10-minute conversation noting whether either
participant placed a mobile device on the table or held it in his or her hand.
Using Hierarchical Linear Modeling, it was found that conversations in the absence of mobile
communication technologies were rated as significantly superior compared with those in the
presence of a mobile device, above and beyond the effects of age, gender, ethnicity, and mood.
People who had conversations in the absence of mobile devices reported higher levels of
empathetic concern. Participants conversing in the presence of a mobile device who also had a
close relationship with each other reported lower levels of empathy compared with the pairs who
were less friendly with each other (Misra, Cheng, Genevie, & Yuan, 2014).
Interpersonal skills are crucial parts of the existence as human beings. The succeeding theories
suggests that interpersonal relationship will only be possible if interpersonal skills were used.
These skills are very important for social interaction since these are the building blocks in forming a
relationship with other people. Hence, the production of smartphones, hinders the possibility for the
users to achieve interpersonal relationship. Besides, the more a person exposes himself in a
stimulus, the more likely he become fixated on it. This suggests that the more an individual uses a
smartphone, the more he becomes attached and the use of his interpersonal skills will be deprived
dramatically.
Social interactions through technology tend to be superficial, isolating, and less genuine than face-
to-face interactions. On the other hand, studies have shown that smartphone usage affects the
social interaction of people which defies the inevitability of interpersonal skills usage.
The main rationale of this study is to find out if smartphone usage affects the way we socialize with
people by means of studying the relationship between the interpersonal skills within people and
This study can be used as a reference for further studies that will be conducted in the same field
and subject matter. For some reasons, this study will be highly beneficial to the following: To
parents and guardians, to be aware and understand how smartphones affect their children when it
comes to social interaction. To smartphone users, this study may be helpful to know some
information about the impacts of smartphone usage in social interaction. To educational institutions;
to be aware about the positive and negative results of using smartphone to their students’
relationships and to future students and researchers who might study the same topic that will
Theoretical Framework
In order to support the claims of this study, the theoretical studies from www.skillsyouneed.com; a
web-based research service were adapted to interpersonal skills. The study of the said website
theorized the foundation of an interpersonal relationship. The study suggests that an individual can
be distinguished as an interpersonal individual – and build an interpersonal relationship with other
people – if he possesses the four major interpersonal skills: verbal communication, communicating
Interpersonal skills are generally considered to include a wide range of skills, such as
(Interpersonal Skills | SkillsYouNeed, 2011): (1) Listening Skill – how we interpret both the verbal
and non-verbal messages sent by others, (2) Emotional Intelligence – being able to understand
and manage your own and others’ emotions, (3) Verbal Communication – what we say and how
we say it, and (4) Communicating in Groups – being able to work and converse with others in
Emotional Intelligence helps us in so many ways: from assisting ourselves in looking after our
physical and mental health and well-being to getting through in our ability to inspire and lead. It is,
In everyone's personal life, there are certainly going to be a wide range of views regarding what is,
and is not, appropriate. The fact is that social interaction, to some degree, not only impacts, but
actually determines the success or failure of most (if not all) of our personal relationships.
Sustaining ongoing relationships with our family members, friends, and romantic partners requires
intelligence. While background experiences, values, and other characteristics are extremely
important when determining compatibility, the level of each person's EQ is likewise important in
Working on your emotional intelligence could well be the most important aspect of your personal
development. Research has shown that people with higher levels of emotional intelligence enjoy
satisfaction. Lack of or poor communication is often cited as one of the most critical factor in a
Steele (2015) said that communication is inevitable: “You cannot ‘not’ communicate”. The phrase
explicitly illustrates that people do not stop communicating and that people are constantly
consideration the contexts that enhance the ability and flexibility to adapt to different
communication contexts. Overall communication is far more in depth than people seem to think.
Verbal communication has the power of influence. This is best demonstrated by the leaders of
different countries. When a president of a country delivers a speech, the entire country is watching,
listening, and responding to his verbal gestures. Papa (2009) believed that what someone says
Conversation or communication in groups includes the decision making of the leader, of the
members, and of the whole set of people. Being able to make decisions is also crucial to moving
things forward. Group decision-making often requires compromise, and sometimes a willingness to
give up one’s own point of view in favor of the group’s shared decision (skillsyouneed.com, 2011).
Adversity is a common thing when it comes to group issues. That is why whenever a group of
people work toward a different common goal, conflict is likely to arise at one time or another. This
is where the power of effective group speaking is essential. Clear communicating in groups is
important to avoid the misunderstanding within groups and to strengthen the common goal of one
another. When it is safe to express thoughts clearly, honestly and tactfully, it is easier to move
forward with a solution that has everyone's best interest at heart. Once on the other side of conflict,
a team with good communication skills may even feel stronger for overcoming the hurdles
The study focuses on the relationship of smartphone usage and the level of interpersonal skills of
the respondents. Using the adapted theory about the four interpersonal skills that serve as the
pillars for interpersonal relationship, the theoretical framework shows all the variables and the
relation of each to one another. According to the framework, the interpersonal skills (dependent
variables) – which are the foundation of interpersonal relationship – are related and dependent to
smartphone usage (independent variable). On the other hand, smartphone usage is somehow
affected by the confounding variables which are the personal profiles of the respondents. These
variables may or may not affect the independent variable and therefore also affect the dependent
variables indirectly. Also, this variables are cannot be control or manipulate throughout the study
Conceptual Framework
(Independent (Dependent
Variable) Variable)
a.) Age
b.) Monthly
Income
c.) Gender
(dependent variable) and the demographic profile of the respondents (dependent variable)
METHODOLOGY
Participants
A clear defined population was ensured in this descriptive quantitative research and the findings
would be presented with the desired results from the responses of 1st year Social Work students of
Cavite State University- Main, Indang, Cavite were selected to participate in the process.
Instruments
A self-administered survey with closed-ended questions was used for this descriptive quantitative
research that was conducted to collect the data needed for the completion of the study. These
designs were chosen in order to meet the objectives of the study and to provide answers to the
research questions. The researchers distributed close-ended questions to the respondents in order
to meet the required results and to answer the research questions. The questions inside the eight-
page questionnaires were lifted from the interpersonal skills self-assessment test by the online
website www.skillsyouneed.com.
Sampling Technique
This study would used stratified random sampling wherein the population was divided into desired
This study would used the Slovin’s Formula to determine the sample size that is desirable for this
study. The data that would be obtained from the survey would be sorted, classified, and coded into
a coding sheet. It was then to be analyze using the statistical treatments: Analysis of Variance
(ANOVA), Pearson’s Product and T-Stat. ANOVA was used to compute and determine if there is a
significant difference between the interpersonal skills (level) and the demographic profile and
frequency of smartphone usage of the respondents when grouped accordingly. In addition, the
researchers used Pearson’s Product in order to identify if there was a significant relationship
between smartphone usage (hours/frequency) and interpersonal skills level of the respondents. In
relation with the result of the Pearson’s Product, also T-Stat would also be performed to confirm
which hypothesis they must accept and if the result is really significant.
Procedure
An informed consent would be regarded before the conductivity of the research survey. The participants in the study
would be fully informed about the evaluation to be conducted. Participants would be made aware on the purpose of
the study of identifying the existence of the relationship between smartphone usage and interpersonal skills for
improved interpersonal relationship. The participation in the study would be highly voluntarily agreed to and upon
the consent of the participants. The participants in the evaluation would be free from coercion. Participants are free to
withdraw their participation at any time without negatively impacting on their involvement in future services or the
current academic status and relationships with any of the researchers or research bodies involved. It is the right of
participants to leave a program of this nature at any time, therefore no pressure should be placed on those who choose not to continue.
Explanations are also not required. Explanations are also not required. The participant’s demographic profile and responses
would be given adequate privacy and confidentiality in the research findings. The identified information would not be
made available to, or accessed by anyone but the researchers and study coordinator. Confidentiality also ensures such
identifying information is excluded from any reports or published documents. The participants reserve the rights to
Skillsyouneed.com is a web-based scholarly service founded on July, 2011 that is based in the
heart of Wales, a rural part of the UK. With years of experience in education, both face-to-face and
through distance learning, the contributors – professors and scholars – of the website believe that
they know the skills needed to help improve people's lives, both professionally and personally.
They are small independent business; researching, and writing their own materials. This validates
Interpersonal Skills
Based on the answers you provided your interpersonal skills are below average. You should spend some
time developing and practising your interpersonal skills – this is likely to lead to better and more successful
people. Although you have a basic grasp of the key interpersonal skills, there is still a lot you can do to
improve them further. Spend some time practicing and developing your interpersonal skills to enhance
Based on the answers you provided you have above average interpersonal skills. Although your
interpersonal skills are good they can always be improved further, helping you to enjoy even more
successful relationships with others, at home, socially and at work or school. Continue to practice your
Emotional Intelligence
Your score for the emotional intelligence part of the assessment was below average. Emotional intelligence
is a measure of how well you understand and deal with your emotions and the emotions of
others. Developing a better awareness of emotions and understanding why you and others behave in
certain ways will enhance your interpersonal skills. Understanding and improving your emotional
intelligence could be the most important aspect of personal development. Research has shown that people
with higher emotional intelligence enjoy more satisfying and successful careers and relationships.
You achieved an average score for the emotional intelligence part of the assessment. Emotional
intelligence is a measure of how well you understand and deal with your emotions and the emotions of
others. Developing a better awareness of emotions and understanding why you and others behave in
certain ways will enhance your interpersonal skills. It is worth taking some time to understand and improve
your emotional intelligence as it could be the most important aspect of personal development. Research
has shown that people with higher emotional intelligence enjoy more satisfying and successful careers and
relationships.
Above Average (70 to 100)
Your score for the emotional intelligence part of the assessment was above average. Emotional intelligence
is a measure of how well you understand and deal with your emotions and the emotions of others. As you
have scored well in this section it is likely that you usually understand your emotions and those of others
quite well. A higher emotional intelligence means that you are more likely to enjoy a more satisfying and
successful career and better relationships with others. You may be more suited than most to counsel
Communicating in Groups
Based on the answers you provided you are not particularly confident about communicating in group
situations, your score is below average. In most careers and while at school or university there will be
occasions when you need to participate effectively in a group situation. When possible you should work on
building your confidence around other people, practice in social and family settings. You may find that
working on your verbal communication and listening skills will also help to boost your confidence.
Based on the answers you provided you have average confidence levels when communicating in group
situations. You are likely to handle most group situations adequately, although you may well be nervous in
some situations. Communicating effectively in groups is an important part of your overall interpersonal
skills and is useful in many different areas of life. Next time you’re in a group situation watch the other
participants to pick up some ideas of what you can do, and what you can avoid doing, to improve your
You usually communicate well in a group situation - your skills in this area are above average. You are
probably quite a confident person who feels comfortable making appropriate contributions in group
settings. Although how you behave in a groups situation is linked to your self-esteem, your ability to listen
and process information and speak effectively are also important - you may find it useful to watch others
the next time you are in a group situation for ideas on how you can improve your communication skills
further.
Verbal Communication
Your verbal or spoken communication is below average – you should probably think about ways which you
can practice and improve your verbal communication. Your verbal communication skills may be a result of
low self-esteem or over-confidence, this is something that you will be able to recognize in yourself. Over-
confident people may use unfamiliar language or jargon when speaking to others, making them difficult to
understand. People with low self-esteem may not feel able to confidently communicate their ideas and
opinions. It is also possible that you have been overly self-critical in your assessment – ask a friend or family
Your verbal or spoken communication is average, most people fall into this category. As with all elements
of interpersonal skills you should aim to work on improving your ability to communicate effectively using
your voice – saying the right things at the right times to enhance the communication. When you speak to
others take time to think about what you are saying and how you are saying it – remember that
understanding is the goal of successful communication, how could you improve your message.
Your verbal or spoken communication is above average, you normally use appropriate language and know
when to talk, and when not to talk. Having good verbal communication means that you can express
yourself well to others – explaining your ideas and opinions in such a way that they are usually understood
by others. Of course you can always further improve your verbal communication.
Listening Skills
Based on the answers you provided your listening skills need some work. Listening is not a difficult skill to
learn but may be more challenging to master – try to consciously listen when others are talking, clearing
Based on the answers you provided your listening skills are average, the majority of people fall into this
category. You may have picked up some bad listening habits or never thought about the active processes
involved in effective listening. Although your listening is OK you should think about developing your
Interpersonal skills are fundamental to successful relationships at home, at school, at work and
socially. This interpersonal skills self-assessment questionnaire will help you to understand how
well developed your interpersonal skills are and identify areas that you can practice and improve.
To get accurate feedback, it is important that you answer each question honestly, thinking
about your current situation, not how you wish to be in the future. Think about how you rate
Once you have completed this questionnaire you will be provided with some feedback designed to
NAME : GENDER :
COURSE/YEAR: AGE:
_____________________________________________________________________________________
participants. After reading each item, please indicate your answer by checking the
number that best describe your response. There is no right or wrong answer. Please
read each statement carefully. However, your first reaction to the statements will
LISTENING SKILLS
Compared to other
people my listening
skills are:
Answer each
statement
honestly, Strongly Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly
thinking about
Agree Disagree
your likely
behavior.
I sit and listen
with my legs
and arms
folded in front
of me.
I nod my head
and use other
gestures and
facial
expressions to
show that I’m
interested in
what is being
said.
I finish people’s
sentences for
them, when
they pause and
I know what
they are going
to say.
When I have
something to
contribute to a
conversation,
I'll interrupt the
speaker to
make my point.
I decide
whether or not
to listen based
on the
speaker’s
appearance
and how they
talk
I offer verbal
signals while
listening, things
like, ‘Go on… ’
or ‘Uh huh’ to
encourage the
speaker to
continue.
When
communicating
with others, I
pay attention to
non-verbal
signals - body
language,
facial
expressions
and gestures.
I will interrupt
the speaker if I
disagree with a
statement they
have made.
I am often
thinking of
something witty
to say in
response while
listening.
I make eye
contact with
others while
listening.
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
I am content
with who I am.
I am confident
about my
existing skills
and abilities
and willing to
learn new ones
I avoid difficult
conversations
and
confrontations.
I can interpret
the mood of
others when I
communicate
with them.
I get irritated by
other people's
habits but avoid
telling them
about it.
I find it difficult
to make new
friends
I'm frequently
self-critical of
my mistakes.
In a group
situation, how
the members
feel about each
other.
I am usually a
good judge of
character.
If I'm feeling
stressed I know
exactly why this
is.
I understand
and respect the
views of others
– even if they
are different to
my views.
I make eye
contact with
others while
listening.
When
communicating
with others, I
pay attention to
non-verbal
signals - body
language, facial
expressions
and gestures.
Empathetic - I can put myself into the other person's shoes and see their position.
Verbal Communication and Effective Speaking
Compared to other
people my vocal skills
are:
I express my
ideas clearly.
I vary the
tone, volume
and pitch of
my voice
appropriately
in
conversations.
People
understand
what I say.
I use jargon
and technical
language
whenever
possible.
I can restate
the essence
of what others
have said in
fewer and
different
words. I can
accurately
reflect
content.
I repeat
everything I
have just
heard back to
the speaker.
I like to use
uncommon
words when
talking to
others - to
show how
intelligent I am
I'm quick to
offer advice to
people's
problems.
I am generally
nervous about
speaking to
other people.
My friends
and family tell
me I talk a lot.
I have to
repeat myself
often because
people don't
understand
my message
the first time
around.
I have
difficulty
putting my
thoughts into
words.
COMMUNICATING IN GROUPS
Pick three words to describe how you are most likely to feel when introducing yourself to new
people in a formal or semi-formal setting (such as at meeting at work, at school, or when joining a
group).
How do you feel when each statement applies to you when you're in a group situation?
Agree Disagree
I participate.
Please read the following 37 statements carefully and indicate how much you agree with each
statement about your phone use.
Strongly Strongly
Agree Agree Neutral Disagree Disagree
my phone
possible
my phone
phone
phone
bored
out of reach
table
I am addicted to my phone
phone
Agree Neutral Disagree
Strongly Strongly
Agree Disagree
successful
my phone
my phone off
out of reach
phone
feel distressed
questions
look successful
checking my phone
talking to friends