“DEADLY BREAKUP

LIES”
Why You Can’t Get Her Back… And What You
Can Do About It

By Ron Steven – creator of the ReSeduction System

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“DEADLY BREAKUP
LIES” About Ron
Steven
Why You Can’t Get Her Back… And What You Can Do 
About It
Ron Steven, known as
the “Get Ex Back Guru”,
is the head of
YOU WON’T LIKE WHAT I’M GONNA TELL YOU… relationship recovery
BUT I’LL SAY IT ANYWAY. practice at DerekRake,
LLC. He is also the
What I am about to share here is short and very straightforward. I Principal Coach at Ron
won't sugarcoat anything nor tell you things you would like to hear. Steven Consulting, a
premier men’s lifestyle
coaching company
based in New York City.
On the contrary, I will hit your deepest nerves and tell you the cold,
hard truth. Ron specializes in
mending broken
relationships, and has
Since I did not write this short report to soothe your post-breakup personally helped to
feelings, I won't walk on eggshells or tread softly to steer clear from recover more than a
hurting them (even though your condition right now may warrant hundred relationships
that kind of approach). in the past seven years
in the business.

Ron is the author of the

Having said that, if you are at that breakup point where you still feel
bestselling
bad for yourself and want to cry on someone's shoulder for a while,
ReSeduction™ book,
avoid this report for now.
which is now available
as a digital download.

However, if you are sick and tired of what's happening in your

relationship (or at least of what is left of that relationship) and you
feel you are prepared to take action, then here's a deal…

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I will give you the hard truth regarding your breakup in ways that nobody else will - if only they don't
have the guts to do so or just have no idea how to.

This raw approach happens to be a necessity in order to take you out of this particular obstacle and steer
you onto the right path.

Now it's time for me to give you some eye-opening (and incredibly potent) nuggets of advice that will
go a very long way in getting everything that you desire.

I am doing this on only one condition, though: ... that you go through this report from start to finish with
a completely open mind.

This isn't some rehashed theory that I just came across and wrote about. No. Everything written here has
come from my own personal experiences and which I have gone through within the last sixteen years.

I have had both the pain and the pleasure of falling into several serious relationships and getting over
them. Yes, I have experienced what you are currently experiencing and have gotten over the odds of
winning the girl back several times now.

I have also made every single relationship mistake possible, like getting into bad relationships, messing
up the good ones, and failing to fix the broken ones.

You are probably thinking, "So what?" right now. You are probably wondering what makes me special
and what gives me the right to share these things with you. Well, that question is a very good one;
however, the answer is exceedingly simple.

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It may be true that I am not the only guy out there who has entered and left relationships in his time, but
through my personal "journey", I have developed a keen eye on predicting the odds of different
relationships succeeding from the start until the end - and even reunions.

This is because I have been fascinated with this subject from the very start. In fact, it is a subject that I
keep teaching and studying aggressively to this day, not forgetting to ask the important questions on
whatever makes each relationship tick and every couple stick together.

One last thing before I start…

What you decide to do with this information is totally up to you. Sadly, the truth is that the majority of
people are going to read this, get a bit excited… and then fail to follow through in the end.

This usually happens because they would rather dream and believe that by doing what they are currently
doing, they can get their girlfriends to change their minds and return to them someday.

That, unfortunately, is bullshit. That is just the mentality of a passive loser.

Do not be a passive loser. Instead, be strong and face the truth about your situation. Don't be afraid to
get down and dirty. This is your personal life, after all… it’s not a game.

Anyway, if you end up on the losing side, you can just press restart and get that second chance you
deserve.

Your actions' and inactions' consequences happen to be permanent, so always play hard and hope to
win.

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Still there? Great… so let's move ahead.

WHY YOU REMAIN BROKEN UP… DEADLY LIES THAT YOU MUST BE AWARE OF

It's time somebody finally stepped up and spoke about the truth about women, men… and those dreaded
breakups that a lot of relationships experience in the end.

Here's the thing: a time has never existed where more men than women held the stick's short end while
thinking about what happened to break it apart.

Through this time, men have believed some myths that spoke about things taking their relationships,
breaking them apart, and destroying any chances there are of fixing them.

Well, this insanity has to stop now and the fog has to be cleared. So, without further ado, here are the
three largest lies that have held you back from getting your girl back:

THE HUGE LIE #1:

"She is my soulmate. I realize now that she is The One and I would do anything to get another chance with her."

Well, guess what? That isn't you thinking that; it's just your rejected ego. Basically, you are merely a
walking, talking, breathing and living reject right now.

You need to understand that this is being said to offend you for two basic reasons:

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1. I want to shake you up a little, so you can snap out of that destructive train of though. You need to
change your outlook significantly, so you can become more receptive to things that I say from now on.

2. I want to eliminate every guy out there who isn't qualified for this report yet. As mentioned earlier,
the majority of guys would rather dream than face the truth and I want to wish them luck and just: good
riddance. Nothing exists here for guys like that...

However, if you are still here, I promise to keep the doors open for you to a totally new world filled with
possibilities between your ex and you.

Think about it. A year ago or half a year ago, in your relationship, were your feelings for her the same?
Think about this very carefully.

Now, I do not doubt your feelings for her. It's just that we cannot know how much you really love her
right now because you are extremely hurt and this pain is making your thoughts go haywire.

I only have one bit of advice to give right now, regardless of how much you would rather not hear it: put
down this report and take some days off to reflect about the statement I just made.

See, if you are guilty of actually thinking it, you have to spend some days thinking about your
relationship and weighing its overall advantages and disadvantages.

Is she really as great as you think she is or is your voice of rejection inside the one talking? Do not brush
this away. ACTUALLY DO IT. Seriously.

Now let's move ahead...

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Now you are ready to hear what your head has really been going through. Right now, the relationship
is being glorified with this girl. All you can think about is the great times that you shared and you
probably think she's your soulmate and that you would love to spend your whole life with her.

I know this because I have felt that exact same way on a lot of occasions and it always amazes me how
this thought process prevails each time. So, what is actually going on here? A logical reaction because of
rejection.

Because I have not just been broken up with at the moment, however, I can say this confidently and
easily. Getting you to understand and believe me, on the other hand - let alone hope you digest and
internalize it - is completely different.

Still, I want to help you a little bit. Simply put, rejection is a way of describing things we cannot have. Of
course, everyone on Earth wants things they cannot have. In fact, it turns into a fantasy similar to wealth
and fame.

However, there is problem with this thought process: when we dream about things, we destroy the
advantages of having it out of this world and if we are lucky enough to actually get it, the reality sinks
in - fast.

Because of this, the majority of couples that do end up getting back together post-breakup still don't stay
together in the end. Again, it is just because of this extraordinary fantasy that has become an ordinary
reality.

So, what you have to do is turn your extraordinary fantasy into your extraordinary reality before even
reaching your goal.

This is harder to do than to say, sure, but thinking back on the advantages and disadvantages of the
relationship would be the key to this.

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Why is doing this so vital, though (in fact, it is so vital that it can determine if you get back together or
not)? See, if you keep living in a dream, every action that you do will be dictated through despair and
desperation.

Things like pleading and begging, constantly apologizing, and other things that are out of character and
smell like need will push her away even more, basically.

You need to understand that some people come and some people go in life. If a relationship ends bad,
another one will be waiting - one that will make your previous one look paler when compared in terms
of connection and love.

Basically, I do not believe that everyone has just one soulmate out there. However, this doesn't mean you
shouldn't stop looking.

See, finding a special person is very rare and when you actually find someone, you still need to try hard
to keep them near. Remember to try this with a reality-based mindset, though, not a fantasy-based
mindset!

THE HUGE LIE #2:

"If we stay friends, she will get to see how much I've changed and as more time goes by, she will want me back."

Nothing is farther from the truth than this. Here's why: by staying friends with an ex, you are only
sending one message: that you are currently in a very acceptable state; that you are alright with the
breakup. Do you want this? Really?

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What you really want is to get back together - not be friends - unless you have given the relationship up
and are actually willing to leave her alone. Staying friends with her after your breakup is the end of the
world.

In most cases, what will happen is that she will move on with her life and leave you behind with every
step she makes. This will only get your hopes up and smother her guilt for ruining your life. Do not do
this. Take a step back and make your own rules: all or nothing.

This will take balls to do, but believe me: if you want to have a chance to make things work in the
relationship, you have to step back instead of forward. You need to follow the reactive and proactive
approach at all costs.

THE HUGE LIE #3:

"Various techniques, tactics and tricks will help me win her back."

You don't actually believe this, do you? Is that the route you would like to follow? Seriously? If that's the
case, I'll make things easy for you. I mean, how much would you pay for me to tell you that you can get
her back in 3 seconds? Does that sound interesting? I bet it does since you won't have to wait two days
or even 21 days and you won't even need four steps and any other promises people might expose you
to.

Ready? Here you go:

Go to her place, knock three times and after she opens the door, stick a gun in her face and say "If you
don't take me back, I will blow your head off". Guess what? BAM! She will be yours right away - until
she gets you arrested and you have to spend a decade in jail anyway. Get my drift?

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If you want to get a girl back, you can't rely on techniques, trick, and tacticsÉ there is a well-planned and
well-thought out strategy behind it; one that asks you to make big changes in your approach and train
of thought.

Without changes like that, every trick, tip and tactic in the book will not help you out. Without a doubt,
there is a lot of bullshit in the world nowadays pertaining to relationship fixes (most of all male
relationship fixes) that it can make anybody sick. I mean, do they really hope to kid somebody with that
bullshit?

It isn't possible to wave your magic wand or say several words to get a girl back. And a timeline definitely
cannot be placed on it, either. That would be like saying that each relationship works the exact same way
and everything works on everyone else - and that it even happens in a certain span of time!

Gag me with a spoon. Yes, relationships have a lot of things in common. After all, people are in them,
but do you really believe that your own relationship can be compared to everybody else's? I don't think
so.

There is only one lesson here - do not fall for that hype. It will only do you bad. Believe me.

TO WRAP THINGS UP…

Now that we have scratched on the surface of how to use an effective strategy to win your girl back, you
should know that it takes more than this. Because of this, I will check on you again to see how far you've
come.

And although the several vital bits of advice here may seem too simplistic, believe me when I say that
they are the most important steps to getting your needs and desires. And again, this is based on personal
experience.

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Don't let this simplicity fool you, though. Effective things are always simple and this doesn't just pertain
to relationship fixes. It's too bad that everyone completely misses the boat on solving life's problems
because we are skeptics who don't believe there are things like simple solutions, though.

Go re-read lie #1. Start there and move onto lie #2. Knowing these principles by heart and actually
using them will definitely take you far in getting your desires.

And always remember lie #3 while sorting out your thoughts and begin putting that strategy in place.

Speak soon...

To Your Success in Relationships,

P.S. If you like what you see here, then you’ll love my flagship product, ReSeduction™. It’s the
compilation of all the strategies my clients used to revive their relationships successfully.

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