Professional Documents
Culture Documents
A Book Review
by
Kelly Reddy
July 2014
A General Theory of Love is authored by Lewis, Amini, and Lannon, three
An important aspect of the book is the authors’ three brain focus: the reptilian,
the limbic, and the neocortical brains. The reptilian is the earliest brain and is termed
have them. The reptilian brain controls breathing, swallowing, heartbeating, and seeing,
but not emotion. It is the brain of instinct and of fight of flight. The limbic brain is the
mammalian brain. The authors revere mammals and their limbic brains because
humans are mammals and mammals have emotions. The limbic brain is the reason, for
example, that dogs recognize their owners and can enter into a relationship with their
adoptive human families. The limbic brain is why mammals play with one another. The
neocortical brain is the human brain because, although apes also have neocortical
brains, humans have by far the largest neocortical-to-brain ratio. The neocortical brain
is responsible for humans’ ability to speak, write, plan and reason1. The authors revere
species with neocortical brains above all others as they believe that humans are
animals, that all animals with neocortical brains have a closer common ancestor
(millions of years ago), and that animals with neocortical brains are human-like.
Christian can use if he finds a vocation with orphans or if he adopts a child out of an
to anybody and suffer from attachment disorder. The lack of attachment can result in
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Thomas Lewis, Fari Amini, and Richard Lannon. A General Theory of Love. (New York:
Random House, 2000), page 27.
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blow-ups with kids running away and getting easily frustrated. Patience is important in
these cases, and with enough love, children can form bonds of attachment. The
Christian is warned that he must have the psycho-spiritual resources to deal with
drops off a child at daycare, the child may start to cry and experience distress. This
plaintiveness is a positive sign as it indicates that an attachment bond has been formed
between parent and child. A child has developed these relational structures by age 5.
An interesting discussion in the book surrounds Frederick II, the 13th century Holy
raising children who would never hear speech. All of the infants died before speaking
their first word due to the lack of “clappings of the hands, and gestures, and gladness of
institutions due to their mothers’ death or imprisonment and who were not played with,
handled or held, died due to the lack of lack of human interaction— handling, cooing,
Religion does make its way into this secular book. The authors mention the
Hindu concept of maya, the idea that our reality is really a dream. They state that it is a
rare person who doubts his own mind or subjectivity. The authors cite Augustine to
support the unchanging science of numbers. If the science of numbers changed, the
neocortical brain would adapt quickly but the limbic brain would not. The authors use
the King James Version of the Bible as an example of memory. The King James
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Lewis, Thomas, Fari Amini, and Richard Lannon. A General Theory of Love. (New York:
Random House, 2000), page 69.
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Version of the Bible represents a durable physical representation of knowledge that
uses a mechanistic system that stores its truths in scattered dots on a page.
of the book related to the turmoil caused by humans’ triune brains on our will and on our
our ability to love and to be happy with Paul’s statement in Romans 7 as seen in the
Appendix. Through their use of science, the authors appears to have come up with a
similar observation to the one the apostle Paul made two thousand years ago about sin
that we form may be with our primary caregivers rather than with God. Theistic
Evolutionist Christians perform research on belief in God that demonstrates that belief
emerges around ages 2 or 3. A Christian can view the book’s statements on relational
structures between child and parent as God using this mechanism to form relationships
with His creatures. God has set up human development so that before the Christian
meets Him we have met people made in His image. God is firm and loving as healthy
parents are firm and loving in secular literature. If parents are a good representation of
our righteous heavenly Father, kids can develop healthy attachments and grow up to be
responsible. However, if parents are significantly damaged, they sin a lot, and they fail
and dissociated in relationships. Many people are bruised and broken by the fall and
grow up with people who are not very good pictures of God.
connecting with God. However, these people may not feel their need for God as
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strongly as people from broken situations. Thus, Christians in a local church may not as
A General Theory of Love’s discussion of neural networks can suggest that our
neural networks can still be reformed. Part of growing and healing is not activating old
neural networks. We can rewire our brains with God’s help. Over decades, God can
bring a measure of healing into our lives. In heaven, we will have new brains and a
reader can benefit from the knowledge, education, and experience of three 21 st century
psychiatrists and their view of the world. Love is important, because we are to love the
LORD our God with all our heart, with all our soul, with all our mind, and with all our
strength (Deut 6:5, Mt 22:37), and we are to love our neighbour as ourself (Mk 12:30-
31, Gal 5:13c-14). We are also to obey Jesus’ new commandment, to love one another
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APPENDIX
The scientist and artist both speak to the What shall we say, then? Is the law sin?
turmoil that comes from having a triune Certainly not! Indeed I would not have
brain (reptilian, limbic, and neocortical). known what sin was except through the
A person cannot direct his emotional life law. For I would not have known what
in the way he bids his motor system to coveting really was if the law had not
reach for a cup. He cannot will himself to said, "Do not covet." But sin, seizing the
want the right thing, or to love the right opportunity afforded by the
person, or to be happy after a commandment, produced in me every
disappointment, or even to be happy in kind of covetous desire. For apart from
happy times. People lack this capacity law, sin is dead. Once I was alive apart
not through a deficiency of discipline but from law; but when the commandment
because the jurisdiction of will is limited to came, sin sprang to life and I died. I found
the latest brain (neocortical) and to those that the very commandment that was
functions within its purview. Emotional intended to bring life actually brought
life can be influenced, but it cannot be death. For sin, seizing the opportunity
commanded. Our society's love affair afforded by the commandment, deceived
with mechanical devices that respond at a me, and through the commandment put
button-touch ill prepares us to deal with me to death. So then, the law is holy, and
the unruly organic mind that dwells within. the commandment is holy, righteous and
Anything that does not comply must be good. Did that which is good, then,
broken or poorly designed, people now become death to me? By no means! But
suppose, including their hearts.3 in order that sin might be recognized as
sin, it produced death in me through what
was good, so that through the
commandment sin might become utterly
sinful. We know that the law is spiritual;
but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin.
I do not understand what I do. For what I
want to do I do not do, but what I hate I
do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I
agree that the law is good. As it is, it is no
longer I myself who do it, but it is sin
living in me. I know that nothing good
lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature.
For I have the desire to do what is good,
but I cannot carry it out. For what I do is
not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do
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Thomas Lewis, Fari Amini, and Richard Lannon. A General Theory of Love. (New York:
Random House, 2000), 33.
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not want to do--this I keep on doing. Now
if I do what I do not want to do, it is no
longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me
that does it. So I find this law at work:
When I want to do good, evil is right there
with me. For in my inner being I delight in
God's law; but I see another law at work
in the members of my body, waging war
against the law of my mind and making
me a prisoner of the law of sin at work
within my members. What a wretched
man I am! Who will rescue me from this
body of death? Thanks be to God--
through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I
myself in my mind am a slave to God's
law, but in the sinful nature a slave to the
law of sin. (Rom 7:7-25)
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BIBLIOGRAPHY
Lewis, Thomas, Fari Amini, and Richard Lannon. A General Theory of Love. New
York: Random House, 2000.
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Counseling, Toronto Baptist Seminary. Toronto, Ontario, June 11, 2014.
Johnson, Eric L. “Thursday, June 12, 2014, afternoon session.” Introduction to Biblical
Counseling, Toronto Baptist Seminary. Toronto, Ontario, June 12, 2014.