You won’t lose the right people

The right people aren’t going to abandon you when times turn tough.
They aren’t going to leave you hanging when you need them the
most. They aren’t going to make you go through your worst moments
on your own.

The right people aren’t going to run the other way when you open up
to them about your feelings. They aren’t going to get scared off when
they see the real you. They aren’t going to call you clingy and judge
you over spilling your soul to them. They’re going to appreciate your
honesty. They’re going to be there for you. They’re going to comfort
you, listen to you, try to do what’s best for you.

You don’t have to worry about ending up alone, because you won’t
lose the right people. The people you’re missing, the people who
ghosted you and betrayed you and walked away without a word, are
better off keeping their distance from you. You don’t need their
negativity. You don’t need the doubts they put into your head. You
don’t need the drama of dealing with them.

If someone dipped out of your life, they didn’t deserve a spot there in
the first place. You might miss them, but really think about the way
they treated you. Does it make sense to miss someone who would
desert you? Someone who would rather run away at the first sign of
trouble than stick around to help you piece everything back together?

You might feel tempted to text them, to beg for them to come back,
but you have to accept the idea that maybe they aren’t meant to be there.
Maybe you’re supposed to move on. Maybe you’re better off without them
and their temporary love.
You might feel stifled right now, but you’re going to grow without
them. You’re going to flourish without them. You can’t let their
disappearing act get you down. You have to accept what happened
and give yourself permission to move forward without them in your
way.

If you have trouble trusting in the future because of what you went
through in the past, remember the right people are going to stick by
your side, even when you feel like you deserve their love the least.
They aren’t going to abandon you. They aren’t going to get chased
away easy.

The right people are going to weather your storms alongside you.
They’re going to talk through your feelings with you. They’re going to
try to cheer you up. They’re going to make an effort to help you
through your pain because you’re not an inconvenience. You’re worth
every second they spend on you.

Stop worrying about the people who chose to walk out of your life
because they don’t matter as much as you think. They were never
meant to be permanent.

You won’t lose the right people. They’re going to stick by your side,
no matter what. They’re going to be there for you on your best
days and your worst.