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Table of Contents

DISCLAIMER 3

ABOUT ME 4

THE MOTIVATION OF OTHERS CAN STRENGTHEN BELIEF IN YOURSELF 9

BECOME A NEGATIVE-THINKING TURNAROUND FACTORY 11

HOW TO USE FAILURE TO STRENGTHEN BELIEF IN YOURSELF 13

CAN VISION BOARDS HELP YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF? 15

A MENTOR CAN HELP YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF 17

WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF 19

CONSIDER DOING A SWOT ANALYSIS ON YOURSELF 21

THE PERILS OF SELF-DOUBT 23

THE POWER OF SELF-BELIEF 25

TAKING A LEAP OF FAITH FOR YOUR BUSINESS 27

CONCLUSION 29

RESOURCES 30

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Emma Victoria
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About Me
Hi, I am Emma. I grew up having a humble family background. While I grew up in a
family with 2 other siblings that did not have much regarding material things, our
parents loved us very much, and we all had a very happy childhood. In school, I was
always the average student, never topping the class but never among the last in
the class too.

But I Found Out...

I can never forget the day my teacher told me that I am dyslexic at the age of 17.
Dyslexia, also known as a reading disorder, is characterised by trouble with reading
despite normal intelligence. Before that, I had not even heard the word called
“dyslexia”, much less know that I had this disorder.

I had difficulty in spelling words, reading at a reasonable speed similar to most


people, writing words and pronouncing words correctly. It is common that I have
spelling mistakes in my essay writing. I write slower than most of my peers. My
mathematics teacher complained that my alphabets “n” and “p” got mixed up while
she was marking my statistics exam script.

While I was always the average student in the class, I always thought I was not good
enough to do well academically, but nobody had pointed that I actually had such a
disorder.

But It Is OK!

I guess that ignorance is a blessing in disguise. I grew up without being aware of the
disorder, and I always made the best of my situation. I have never labelled myself
being handicapped. After taking the tests, the psychologist was surprised that I was
able to progress so far academically. Being diagnosed as “severely dyslexic” just
made me more determined to do better in my own ways. I am glad that I did not

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lose any self-confidence to work hard and achieve beyond my limit and
comprehension. Anything that does not kill you does make you stronger indeed!

However...

Upon graduating from college, I was stuck in a difficult situation for almost a year.
I was saddled with a ballooning college debt that was ever growing with interest,
low on savings, unable to find a job and not much in the means of family support
financially. Every passing day that I was unable to secure a position gets all the more
stressful. I started to withdraw myself from my family and social circles, refusing to
meet people for fear of revealing my vulnerability of not being able to get a job
since graduating from college a few months ago.

Graduated from college and I thought all good

Never Give Up

While every single passing day that I was jobless seemed like a long time, I learnt
to be patient with myself. I kept the big picture in mind, knowing that this
challenging time is only temporary and I shall outlast it.

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While finding a full-time job was tough, I decided to swallow my pride and take up
part-time jobs in the meantime while applying for a full-time job at the same time.
While taking up the part-time job seemed like “underemployment” and “a waste
of the college degree”, I took valuable lessons out of the part-time job experience
and learnt useful skills, such as dealing with difficult people and humility.

The Truth

It seemed a good idea to withdraw from my friends and family while I was jobless
so that I did not have to reveal my “vulnerable” side to them. However, it was
during these difficult times that I realised that my family members were incredibly
supportive of me throughout this difficult time. My dad offered to ferry me around
for some of my job interviews, my mum cooked meals for me to eat at home and
pack to bring out so that I can save some money on food, my siblings were always
on the lookout for job opportunities that I can take on. Importantly, my family and
close friends provided emotional support, regularly chatting with me to ask how I
am doing. The emotional support helped keep me going during the difficult period.

My family kept me going

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And Finally!

After several stressful months after graduating from college, I finally got a full-time
job!

When going through difficult times, always make the most out of the situation,
keep in sight the big picture rather than focusing on the misery, be patient with
yourself and find support from your friends and family.

Never undermine your mental toughness. You are stronger than you think.

Tough times never last long, it is tough people that do. Often when we think when
we are at the limit, our body is definitely still capable of going through much more.
It is this concept that we had seen extreme athletes achieve incredible feats even
when they thought that they are already at the limit.

My husband, Jeremy, and I in our new condominium

You Deserve To Live Your Life And Your Dreams

Most of the time we get stuck in the rat race, working in jobs we cannot progress
far in, earning money to spend on things we do not actually need, spending time

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with people who we do not like, and sacrificing our health in the process. It is always
important to focus on doing what we love and work towards the dream life that
you want.

There is a Chinese saying that “failure is the mother of success.” While there are
cases of people who succeed on the first try, these are often rare. Almost all
successful people today who have ever tasted failure at some point on their path
to success learnt from it, made themselves stronger and then worked themselves
closer to success.

On a parting note, it is important to never, ever, give up. Many people give up when
they are already on the path to success, for reasons such as caring too much about
what others think, losing the big picture, mistaking failure for lessons learned, and
not having the discipline to stick to the path to success.

Success is yours for the taking!

Emma Victoria
Author
Rekindle Your Inner Flame

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The Motivation of Others Can Strengthen Belief in


Yourself

Think back to a time when someone inspired you. It could be a conference you
attended or saw online. You could have read a profile of someone you admired.
Whatever the case, the motivation of others can strengthen how you see yourself.

You have likely read books about famous people who you admired. These often
show you what they had to go through to become successful. They write about the
pain they had to endure and all the challenges they faced to achieve their goals.
Sometimes, the stories will shock you. It’s hard to believe that these famous people
ever had to deal with adverse situations.

The internet gives us plenty of opportunities to view stories of high-profile people.


Just search on YouTube, and you will find hundreds (if not thousands) of videos of
these people describing their experiences. You may find books covering the same
subject, but videos may have more impact on you. However, there's usually much
more detail in books rather than in a video. Therefore, you should take advantage
of both.

Sometimes, you will be lucky enough to meet the people who you admire. You can
often meet people at conferences and seminars. It’s great to talk to these people
and ask them questions. Most people in this position will gladly accept these
questions. It’s part of the process. Of course, you want to be respectful of their time
and not hog the question and answer session.

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It’s great to have others who help motivate you. However, if you place them too
high on a pedestal, you may find it difficult to motivate yourself. You will start to
believe these people have an innate ability that you don’t possess. That is
counterproductive. You need to realize they all started the same as you. Some may
have had initial advantages, but even people with these advantages don’t always
do right with them. Most people still need to work hard to attain their goals.

Another issue is spending too much time listening or reading about people who
motivate you. At some point, you must take appropriate action to get going with
your own goals. It is worthwhile to feed off the motivation of others, but you need
to do more than going to seminars or reading books. None of that matters unless
you put in the effort yourself. Once that happens, others may be coming to you one
day saying how you helped motivate them.

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Become a Negative-Thinking Turnaround Factory

Negative thoughts bombard your life. They are all over the television. The news or
your favorite television shows contain negativity. You face it at work and even at
home. You will see enough of it online as well. It invades your life.

What if you could picture your brain as a factory that takes negative thinking as
input and processes it to churn out positive thoughts? Perhaps this seems a bit
abstract as you are not indeed a factory. But, if you can think in these terms, you
may be able to combat the negative thinking.

On your transition to factory status, you need to stop yourself from overreacting to
what people say. When someone says something you don’t agree with, take a
moment to consider what they are saying. When you get annoyed at others, you
stop listening to them and only want to get your point across as to why they are
wrong. Instead, after he or she speaks, take a moment and consider what the
message is.

The next stage is to try and see the other person’s point of view. If you have a
difficult time doing this, calmly ask questions of the person making the statement.
You can say that you don’t understand the reason for the statement and would like
to know more about why they said it.

You don’t have to agree with the other person, even after you start to process what
they say. But, the act of listening and considering their point of view will transform
you. You may start to challenge your belief system. Sometimes, you can get so
focused on a belief even when the reason why you feel that way has changed.

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When you start to question your beliefs, you will consider what others have to say
more openly. The process will help you turn negative thoughts into positive ones.

Negative thoughts seldom lead to believing in oneself. You will end up challenging
what everyone says as wrong if they don’t agree with your way of thinking. You will
become bitter towards others and eventually towards yourself. You won’t believe
that anything is possible because you shoot down every suggestion. This type of
thinking doesn’t make people happy.

When you start to open yourself to others, you will learn more and be accepting of
different beliefs. You will become enlightened when this happens.

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How to Use Failure to Strengthen Belief in Yourself

Do you try to avoid failure? Most people do. It makes sense, too. Failing is no fun.
It would be great if we could leap right to success. However, it doesn’t work that
way. But, you can use tools to help you believe in yourself, and find that success.
One of the best tools to help you is failure itself.

When you fail, you can use the experience to figure out what went wrong. You can
evaluate the steps you took and try to find the point of failure. You can then choose
alternative steps based on this information.

You do need to be honest in your assessment of why the failure happened. If you
go around blaming everyone else for your failures, this will mask the true reasons,
and you will never move on. It’s easier to blame others rather than admit mistakes.
However, you aren’t doing yourself any favors when you do this.

Recognizing your failure is important, but don’t be overly critical. If you get to the
point where you are putting yourself down because you failed, this won’t help your
cause. You need to recognize that you failed, but know that it is going to happen
and embrace it. Then, you can take a step back and figure out how to continue.

You can get inspiration from the failure of others. People write about their trials
and tribulations in books or record videos about their experiences. Their
experiences can help you by giving you tips on how to avoid the mistakes they
made. Understanding this can help succeed at a much faster rate than if you make
the same mistakes. Using other peoples' experiences to your advantage is crucial.
If you don’t do this already, it’s time to start.

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Drawing from the experiences of others also shows you that you aren’t alone. If
you read about how a successful person overcame obstacles, you can feel better
about making mistakes. In other words, if they did it, so can you. That too is a
powerful benefit of using failure to your advantage.

Is there ever a time when you should try to avoid failure? If you are repeating the
same mistakes over and over, it’s time to take a hard look at what you are doing. If
you can’t break that cycle, you may want to find a coach that can help you.
Sometimes, that extra push can be all that is needed to get you to move on from
that cycle.

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Can Vision Boards Help You Believe in Yourself?

If you have never heard of a vision board before, it is simply a board that you can
reference to reinforce some message about yourself or your goals. While not an
official definition, this should serve to give you the concept in a nutshell. Are vision
boards an effective tool towards helping you believe in yourself?

In general, you place information and pictures on your vision board that represents
aspects of your life. It could be personal, professional, or both. You could have
separate vision boards for personal and professional purposes as well.

They have their pros and cons. One of the most significant benefits of a vision board
is you can refer to it whenever you need inspiration or an aspect of your life
changes in some way. You can update the board to reflect those changes.

Another pro (but possibly also a con) is that you can put whatever you want on a
vision board. That’s great, but if it doesn’t help you with your goals, it may not be
as beneficial to have it on the board. In fact, it could hinder your progress as it takes
up prime real estate on your board. Nothing is set in stone on your board, however.
If you find something on your board that isn’t working, take it down.

Vision boards are not for everyone. Some people find them to be a waste of time.
They spend lots of time finding items to place on the boards and then never refer
to them again. They could have spent their time more productively.

One use of vision boards is to place accomplishments on them. It’s easy to forget
about events that happened earlier in our lives. Keeping spots on the vision board

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dedicated to them will serve as a reminder. If you don’t believe that you've
forgotten about your accomplishments, think back to what you accomplished in
high school and college or when you first started your job.

Having a constant reminder of your accomplishments helps to strengthen your


belief in yourself. Each accomplishment will help you remember what you went
through to get it and this can help you with your future accomplishments. Going
through this exercise will give you the confidence to tackle anything you set out to
do.

There are no right or wrong answers when creating a vision board. It just needs to
work for you. If it doesn’t, you should figure out why and adjust as you see fit.

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A Mentor Can Help You Believe in Yourself

You are going to get beaten down at certain points in your life. Between negativity
and competitiveness, it can be a brutal environment for anyone to thrive. If you are
getting complacent because nothing seems to be working for you, it may be time
to use a mentor.

A mentor can view your life from an outsider’s perspective. They can advise you on
what changes to make while keeping what you are doing right. It can be a hard pill
to swallow, but a good mentor will be sensitive to how he or she presents your
critique.

Your mentor can also give you the encouragement that helps you to believe in
yourself once again. He or she can reignite the spark that has been missing in your
life. Once you have that back, there will be no stopping you. That’s why it may be
time to consider a mentor.

You want to be quite selective in your potential mentor candidates. Make sure you
ask many questions and try to find people who have used the mentors you are
considering. Get the terms of the agreement in writing and make sure you include
accountability on the part of the mentor you choose.

Of course, you need to be accountable to the mentor, as well. It’s great to have a
mentor give you advice. However, if you don’t take it, you are wasting your time
and money. Be aware that the help he or she provides is likely to put you outside
your comfort zone. You will be asked to do tasks that you never imagined you would
be doing. You'll find this both scary and exciting. You will be surprised what you can
do.

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If you are not getting the results the mentor claimed, this is where holding him
accountable comes into play. If you are meeting your end of the deal, you should
be critical when you aren’t making progress. Your agreement should come with
milestones, and you deliver payment based on them. If you pay everything upfront,
you lose the accountability factor. A good mentor would be willing to accept
payment based on milestones. They know they can deliver.

You can use a mentor for more than guiding your career. It can be for personal
reasons as well. There is a growing field in life coaching. While some people believe
this is not a valid field, many swear by it.

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Why It Is Important to Believe in Yourself

You may wonder why it is important to believe in yourself. The simple answer is
that no one else will. Your spouse and your family will believe in you to a certain
extent. However, when times get tough, family support tends to wane. It’s not that
they don’t love and care about you. It’s just they stopped believing in you.

While this doesn’t always happen, it happens often enough to cause conflict. An
example is when a spouse or parents initially give you support on a new venture.
When the venture doesn’t work out as they believe it should, they start to question
whether you should continue with it. If your belief starts to weaken, you may take
on their way of thinking.

The reason beliefs start to weaken is due to a fear of the unknown. When you start
a new venture, everyone is excited for you and will tell you to give it your best shot.
However, when the prospects of the business become murkier, that excitement
turns to fear.

The problem is the path towards success for these ventures is not a straight line up.
Having some bumps in the road is normal. In fact, this is what defines the success
of the enterprise, and the people who are taking risks. It should be welcomed and
not feared.

The fear of the unknown may start to creep into your psyche. It’s easier to listen to
your family and friends tell you to dissolve your venture because it is failing. They
will continue down this negative path until you decide to stop. If you do choose to
give up on your business, they will tell you that it wasn’t meant to be and that
starting a business is difficult.

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That time is precisely the moment that you shouldn’t stop. People never get ahead
by quitting. If you believe in yourself, you would have had the conviction to see it
through. You would have the appropriate guidance to give you strength to surge
ahead. You could have done all of it while telling your family and friends to have
some faith. A firm belief in yourself would give you the courage to stand up to them.

Whatever venture you decide to pursue, know that only by continuing will you
make it work. Think of Thomas Edison’s contribution to the lightbulb. While he did
not invent the lightbulb (contrary to popular belief), he made ones that lasted
longer. Imagine if he decided to quit after he ran into a few stumbling blocks early
on.

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Consider Doing a SWOT Analysis on Yourself

When people create case studies on businesses, they often include a SWOT
analysis. SWOT is an acronym for Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and
Threats. If you can do this for business, why not consider doing one for yourself? It
can help you gain insight about yourself and reinforce the idea of believing in
yourself.

The concept of SWOT is usually diagrammed in quadrants or squares, representing


each of the words of the acronym. It’s up to you as to which squares to place each
of the words. By convention, the upper-left square is for Strengths, while the lower-
left square is for Opportunities. The upper-right square is for Weaknesses, and the
lower-right square is for Threats.

Fill up each quadrant with appropriate items relating to the heading of the
quadrant. To take this a step further, ask family and friends to help you fill up the
quadrants. After you have them all filled, you can evaluate them to see what needs
improvement.

Don’t let the negative aspects (Weaknesses, Threats) trip you up when creating
your analysis. You are listing them to gain perspective in areas that you need your
focus. In fact, some weaknesses you may not want to tackle because it doesn’t
interest you. Threats are merely items to be aware of and may help you try to
overcome them.

The key to success is to be as honest as possible with yourself about all the items
included in the analysis. If you aren’t, it isn’t going to help you much, and you may

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focus on the wrong items to improve. Further, you may not be as strong in some
areas as you believed, which can lead you on the wrong path as well.

A representative SWOT analysis will give you a great foundation for your life, both
personally and professionally. You can use it as a tool to advance your goals. You
will learn about yourself and who you are. Don’t rush this process. You want it to
be as representative of yourself as possible. It’s better to take several days or even
weeks than to try to list items for the sake of filling up the quadrants.

Once you feel comfortable that you have the right items for your analysis, you can
use it to help you believe in yourself. It’s all there for you to reference, and it can
help you to refine your goals and tasks further.

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The Perils of Self-Doubt

Have you ever doubted yourself? Perhaps that seems like a silly question as most
people have doubted themselves at some point in their lives. But, many people
continue to doubt themselves, and this can be a major contributor in holding them
back towards success.

Why do people engage in self-doubt? The reason is that it is easier to doubt yourself
than it is to believe that something is possible. When you believe in your concept,
it is something that hasn’t materialized yet. It is unfamiliar territory for you. Our
protection mechanisms tell us to reach for something that is familiar. We use this
as a reason to quit.

The unknown also helps us to come up with excuses. It’s easy to say it won’t work
because, and then insert whatever reason can set your mind at ease. You can even
find help from others in coming up with excuses. They have plenty of them for you
to choose. If they didn’t, they would be succeeding at their goals.

Sometimes self-doubt can help us survive. For instance, if you someone said that
you could jump off a high cliff and not get killed, your self-doubt will reassure you
that this is a bad idea. Self-doubt can also sometimes guide you to not get into
something unnecessarily, like a business opportunity that sounds too good to be
true, etc.

In most cases, self-doubt is not something that will advance your life. It will hold
you back, and you need always to be aware of that. Don’t take the easy way out.
Do prepare yourself as much as possible for the unfamiliar situations. But, go
forward with a strong belief that you can accomplish what you set out to do.

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Try to structure your life so that you have more positive than negative energy. Use
affirmations, support groups, or whatever works to flush out as much negative
energy as possible. Negative energy is what self-doubt is all about. The two forces
are opposing each other. If you have 100% negative energy that means you have
0% positive energy. Therefore, try to tip the scale to as much positivity as possible
and push away the negativity.

The world is full of negative energy. It’s unlikely that you can ever have 100%
positive energy. But, you can work towards exposing yourself to positive energy.
You can stop listening or reading the news, and you can reduce your exposure to
negative people. Positive people do exist. You just need to find them.

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The Power of Self-Belief

If you believe in yourself, there is little to stop you in whatever you want to
accomplish. It gives you the power to push forward and to defy the odds. You will
be able to handle any roadblocks that come your way. You will also brush off the
naysayers. It gives you peace of mind when you stick to your self-belief.

To keep that self-belief strong, you need to define your goals. You wouldn’t expect
a general to fight a war without a map. You too need a map to guide you on how
to proceed. Too many people skip this step and wonder why they aren’t getting
anywhere.

Goals are your guidance, but carrying through with them is only done when you
believe that it’s possible. The belief is the energy you need to take action. It helps
you to focus on getting your tasks complete.

You will also build confidence when you have self-belief. It’s a powerful tool as
others will be attracted to that confidence. They will follow your lead, and you will
help show them what is possible. When you run into any stumbling blocks (and you
will), that confidence will help you see them through. You will know how to take
alternative action when necessary. The people following you will respect that as
well.

Several forces will try to beat you down. You may even find yourself letting it
happen. You need to get centered on why you started your journey in the first
place. Use affirmations to reinforce your message. Be consistent with your
affirmations.

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Unfortunately, many of the negative forces are going to be from your family and
friends. They will see it as helping you avoid mistakes. Many people will succumb
to this negative pressure and give up. One way to prevent this is to join groups of
like-minded individuals. It can be related to your business, or it can be groups that
focus on self-help. These organizations exist to try and push the negative forces
out. It’s great to go to meetings and get encouragement from the group.

Attending these groups can sometimes lead to friendships with people where you
can extend the encouragement of each other. You may even form business
partnerships from these friendships. It’s good to know that you have the support
of these people when these relationships form. They understand when everyone
else around you doesn’t. Your self-belief will strengthen considerably from this
arrangement.

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Taking a Leap of Faith for Your Business

You have just started a new business, and you are excited. You no longer need to
work for someone else. You're on your own. You're the boss. Even your spouse is
excited that you are doing something you have wanted to do. Then, a few months
pass, and you haven’t made a dime in your business.

Suddenly, you feel the stress of business ownership. Suppliers are calling asking for
their money. You have already dwindled a good portion of your savings into the
spending for your business. Your spouse is less confident, and your friends are all
telling you to throw in the towel. They are saying that you gave it your best shot,
but it’s time to find a regular job.

Many would follow this advice and let the business fold. However, people who
make it in business stick it out for one reason – they believe in what they are doing.
They know that the concept will eventually work. They just need to stick it out. It’s
this resolve that allows them to succeed.

Of course, just putting in the time and doing busy work is not going to advance your
business. You need to have a solid foundation at the start. You should set up a
roadmap or business plan that answers questions about how you will make your
business work. You should treat this process as though you are going to raise
venture capital funds, even if you aren’t. Try to put yourself in the position of a
venture capital entrepreneur and ask tough questions of yourself for your business.

Consider making an alternate plan in case your main plan falls short of your goals.
You might fail for any number of reasons and having a backup plan is a wise move
to counter any problems.

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Once your foundation is in place, you simply need to take a leap of faith and believe
that you can make it work. If anyone challenges you, such as your spouse or your
friends, you can have the conviction to see it through because you believe in
yourself. There is no guarantee that you will succeed. However, there is a guarantee
that you won’t succeed if you give up too soon. Often, success is right around the
corner for those who have that conviction and are willing to continue despite all
the challenges they face. You can be one of the few who makes it if you choose to
take this route.

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Conclusion
I hope you’ve enjoyed this short eBook on the various way to find that inner flamer
in our lives.

As I have mentioned many times in the books, we should view always believe in
ourselves. We should believe we can, know we can, and do it.

A simple mindset shift would allow you to attain breakthroughs that you would
have never thought possible.

Some people don’t achieve their goals because they believe others don’t want
them to succeed. But that is a limiting belief that you place upon yourself. Why are
you not thinking that everyone wants you to succeed?

If you truly want something and you are close to reaching it, you should try your
hardest to get past that point where you fall back. You will stand out among your
peers and you will increase your confidence.

I hope this ebook have given you the confidence and motivation to move forward
boldly and strongly.

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Resources

With Solar-Plexus Ritual candles


and Chakra Healing Mediation are
for everyone who needs to heal
their Solar Plexus Chakra to be
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Mala Necklaces – With your beautiful,


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your hands. You turn on your Mala
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over a track of crystal singing bowls)…

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7 Days Prayer Miracle can help you take


control of your own mind and gain the
abundance and prosperity you deserve. Big
goals fire the imagination. They get us to
pray deeply. And when we have all the
ingredients of effective prayer, we’re
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the universe.

https://decidethelifeyouwant.com/vic7d

Manifestation Miracle – Created by Law of


Attraction expert and Author, Heather
Matthews, the Manifestation Miracle will help
you get more wealth, success, happiness,
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15-Minute Manifestation – uses theta


brainwave technology to bring your brain
into the theta state almost instantly. And
this is where the magic happens. This is
where the subconscious is most receptive
to messages.

https://decidethelifeyouwant.com/vic15min

Power Quadrant System - YOU are NOT


average. Your fingerprints are different
from anyone else's on this earth. You are
a unique combination of DNA that has
never been, and will never be seen again
in the world. While you're here, I want
you to find out what you love to do
most, and do it. If you do that, I will
literally SHOWER you with money.

https://decidethelifeyouwant.com/victruecalling

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