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/// 25 Questions to Effectively Engage Teenagers
Teenagers are notorious for
being hard to engage. Whether
that stereotype is true or not, the
task of getting to know teens on
a deeper level can be daunting,
even for youth leaders. The ways
young people communicate, It takes practice and tenacity,
the approaches to which they but building relationships —
respond best, what they think especially with teenagers —
is valuable — it changes more takes time. The leaders whose
quickly than ever in today’s insights are included below
society. How do adults engage have walked the walk, and they
in meaningful relationships with know what has been effective
teenagers? Is it even possible, or in building those relationships
are teens totally shut off to the in their own lives.
idea of mentorship and
discipleship?
WISDOM FROM
DREW PASTOR, Church of the Redeemer, Greensboro, N.C.
WISDOM FROM
GREG
D. MIN, STUDENT MINISTRIES DIRECTOR,
Fellowship Bible Church, Brentwood TN
WISDOM FROM
ANGELA DIRECTOR OF EVENTS, YM360
TERRY
15. What’s the thing you feel like you’re spending the
most time thinking about recently?
Go deeper than asking, “How are you?” Digging into what’s taking up
their thoughts will help give you an idea of what matters to them right
now and how you can step into helping them navigate it.
WISDOM FROM
KATY PAST YOUTH LEADER, Young Life
20. What does your heart need from Jesus right now?
Most teenagers (or people) don’t take the time to even think about or
process the state of their hearts. They are overcommitted or busy or don’t
want to dig into their own heart, so they distract themselves with other
things. Actually getting them to think about how their heart is and what it
needs from Jesus is a huge step of self-awareness and reflection vital to
spiritual growth.
WISDOM FROM
STEPHANIE HIGHSCHOOL WOMEN’S DIRECTOR,
Fellowship Bible Church, Brentwood TN
TODD
23. What are some of your hopes and dreams
for your life?
This helps me understand if they have a Kingdom-focused view or
a worldly view of life. It doesn’t have to be well-formed or anything,
but I look to a reference to surrender to God in some way with life
plans and goals.
WISDOM FROM
DAVE CITY DIRECTOR,