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SEX EDUCATION SHOULD BE MANDATORY FOR HIGH SCHOOL STUDENT

The rise of the sexual violence happened recently is no longer only threatens
the youth who are vulnerable to misinformation about sex. The sexual exploitation of
minors in fact too often by people nearby even done by the families of the victims
themselves. The increasing cases of violence is clear evidence of a lack of
knowledge of children about sex education that should have been their first gain of
the year by his parents. But the public perception on sex education are still taboo to
talk with the children is the cause that must be addressed together to provide
children against globalization is increasingly transparent in a wide range of issues
including sexuality.
Sex education should be a concern of parents of the child's future in
maintaining what has become of honor, especially for a woman. Sex education
becomes important considering the number of cases that occur on sexual violence
against children and adolescents. But what happens on the field instead of parents
being apathetic and do not play an active role to provide sex education to their
children at an early age. They assume that sex education will be obtained as the
child passes the age when he was older. They seemed to turn over sex education to
the school as a source of knowledge for his son. Though sex education itself has a
special application in the school curriculum. Lack of parental knowledge about their
own needs in facing the demands of the times is increasingly oriented towards the
west a major factor yet tersampaikannya sex education from an early age in the
family circle. Sex is an integral part of life to attain worldly happiness, but when its
existence became a drug that is corrupting the morals of a nation, need for
improvement together for terselamatkannya their future from the increasing
openness of globalization complete with a negative impact received by children due
to lack of filtration of the parents and educators in preschool. This paper is intended
to provide information to parents and educators about the importance of preschool
introduce sex education as well as how to start communication with their children in
order to obtain appropriate information in response to globalization is increasingly
transparent in many ways. The more transparency in a wide range of information
that can be accessed via the Internet by everyone it is possible for most children and
teenagers to use it as an auxiliary media to fulfill their curiosity about sex. Though
not all the information that is spread on the internet is the right information for
consumption of children and adolescents are still vulnerable due to the absence of
filtration of themselves to sort out where the right information. Understanding the
magnitude of children's curiosity about sexual behavior that is often seen requires
intense communication between parents and children in order to obtain information
that could be a bastion of self rather than plunge the future of the children because
they do not get the right information. Questions frequently asked of children is a form
of child development stages in the exploration of the environment.
Parents are advised to keep the children answered questions calmly and in
accordance with the child's understanding. Because when parents terkihat confused
or surprised to get such questions, the child should feel free to ask again. In his mind
the memory recorded stating that he had asked something wrong. This will go on
until he is an adult and will be difficult to start asking about sex on his parents.
Discussion must start by putting respect so kids do not laugh at the question or the
spoken word. If parents give an example of how to pronounce the word "sensitive"
with respect, children imitate the gesture.
Religious values play an important role as a basic understanding of the child
to be able to keep himself well. There is no doubt that Islam is not just suggesting
improvements in sexual behavior in the world of children, but also (and this is the
main palin) in adult life. For if a Muslim educator succeeded in arranging a sexual
activity in adults, it will affect the sexual education of children, where adults,
particularly parents, teach children sexual attitudes are safe or healthy.