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BY M A RI A P O P OVA
It is a question in marriage, to my
feeling, not of creating a quick
community of spirit by tearing down
and destroying all boundaries, but
rather a good marriage is that in which
each appoints the other guardian of his
solitude, and shows him this
confidence, the greatest in his power to
bestow. A togetherness between two
people is an impossibility, and where it
seems, nevertheless, to exist, it is a
narrowing, a reciprocal agreement
which robs either one party or both of
his fullest freedom and development.
But, once the realization is accepted
that even between the closest human
beings infinite distances continue to
exist, a wonderful living side by side
can grow up, if they succeed in loving
the distance between them which
makes it possible for each to see the
other whole and against a wide sky!
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