bounds what one can stop you. can do We can agree that “God grant me the some limitations are serenity to accept nothing but imposed by our minds and the things I cannot others by society. change, the The problem starts courage to change when there is the things I can, something outside and the wisdom to our boundary of know the control that seems difference.” and is, completely -Unknown random something that one cannot change such as Limitations come in biology. different forms and colors, but in People argue that today's society we biological have accepted one limitations does not truth that is: “All exist calming that limitations are in they only exist if we your mind,” as if to impose a value say you control structure over what we are, if I'm 5 feet army and they are tall that is not constantly looking considered as a for more but even limitation only if I they with their low impose a value standards have structure to say the decided that a value structure of a person with an I.Q. basketball player lower than 85 then suddenly, I'm cannot be in the limited by height. military forces.
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this is that biology fast we learn and has set in ourselves our success in the humans standards world therefore it and for doing a narrows our vision specific job you of it. need specific It is not the only characteristics e.g. trade that to be scientist you determinates our need an I.Q. at least success in the world of 145, it's not only and our vision of it, with the high end of how good looking our world. The U.S. one is determinates government is the success in known for accepting intimate a lot of people in the relationships, especially for outputs (grades) to females, but also the same impute how forgiven we are (essays) changes with one another in the way people a study essays were would see what a delivered to good thing is (what supervisors attached a good essay is) the with a picture of good looking person good looking person will thing that and a non-good her/his essay is looking person the good enough and ones with the the not good picture of the good looking person will looking persons think that her/his were rated higher essay is terrible. that the ones of the not good looking Near perfection or person. perfection, itself
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our limitations bread; but before determinate the way bread, one must we look at the have the ideal.” world. Taking the Víctor Hugo behavioral approach we can say that The ideal is what offering different some of us have at the top of our value perfection, so you structure the perfect don’t have to be in a something, the relationship because perfect speech, the if you find the perfect perfect girl you’ll be conversation, the trap in a perfect relationship, relationship, you the perfect job, you don’t have get a job name it. The until you find your problem starts when passion then you we realize that by can start working in our limits, we it. The problem with cannot archive this way of acting is perfection, when a there are so many pessimist tells you options that “there is always probabilities of something wrong choosing the right with what you do”. one in the first try is People approach almost zero, but this problem in even if you come different ways. across with perfection you don’t The waiting game have enough These individuals experience to believe that you identify it. must be ready and free when you find The Nihilist and Postmodernist They believe that as your positive perfection is an emotions increase unachievable goal by your movement why should forward. someone bother A way to address trying there for, they this problem act as they please and they regard The only themselves as free, conceivable way the price they pay I’ve eared and by not pursuing barely understood is perfection is not to overtry, to move exploiting their forward towards ultimate potential. something even if it They will never try is not perfect. pushing things Perhaps you won’t forward, moving find what you want things forward is but for sure you will moving then near find what you do perfection and they not want, sometimes reject that ideal. As you will have to do you are not moving drastically changes, forward you and there might be a experiment less lot of things that positive emotion. you hate but that’s Psychological better that reaming studies have proved static. to us to even Value structure or conceive what those value hierarchy realities are without help of technology “You see what you we must dip into the aim at” Darwinian -Jordan B. Peterson perspective. Biology and the value structure While we were evolving, we had The world is too limited resources, overwhelming for food wasn’t our limited abundant, humans sentences we simply were born with cannot see some source of everything around difference and those us we cannot see all who proved to be the colors, capable of surviving temperature, and even being dimensions, successful had directions at the offspring because same time or in with limited darkness. In nature resources privileges we can see animals as seen temperature that are capable of couldn’t be doing this source of supported. things. To explain why it’s impossible We limited our world to nothing but the most essential structure. We parts, but what or choose what’s the whom decided what most important were those essential thing for us then we parts? Well it’s both, have secondary the way we decided priorities. it, was by what Some people might made our offspring thing that the goal is survive, female only a simple thing decided what was that you set but our that because they perception of the were vulnerable world it’s the same when pregnant as for everyone yet the risk is big, they that couldn’t be better choose farther from reality. wisely. The gorilla We can see that we experiment had goal (to survive) which was A group of people is considered as the asked to count how most important many times the thing and we made teams score a point, sacrifices around there are two a the way to make white and a black that happen then we team of three people had other priorities each. They are that is the value watching the game in a video format. more important. At some point, a gorilla strolls into You see what you the middle of the aim at! Then all the action, faces the other things don’t camera and thumps matter. You aim at its chest, and then what’s at the top of leaves, spending your value structure. nine seconds on screen. Half people We act as we see didn’t see the gorilla at Harvard When you are told a University story of a victim that has suffered a This experiment lot to the hands of a reveals two things: tyrant you will help that we are missing this person and look a lot of what goes for a way to make on around us, and this tyrant pay by that we have no idea his horrible actions. that we are missing Then with so much but why investigation you we miss so much? find that the tyrant Is it because of our is not really a tyrant biological limits? In it’s a normal person part yeas but this is who had made telling us something mistakes but the person who told you or positive the story exaggerated his emotion faults you have Are you happy? acted incorrectly but it was shaped by Our society regard how you saw the happiness as one of world and the world the most important were this tyrant and things in one life, so the victim that never important that it is were a tyrant nor a written in the victim. declaration of the independence of the The importance of U.S., we often listen the value structure the idea that we is that it guides us should be happy. through life and it The tunnel might be set not only what dark but there is a the most important light at the end, thing is but what implying that there you see and what is a happy ending or you don’t at least positive emotions at but as important the end of the how you act in the journey. world. Putting happiness at Feeling pleasure the top of the value hierarchy implies is part of the Fourth that we’ll do Nobel Truths and everything to have one of the Three happiness in our life Marks of Existence and at first glance it of Buddhism. might seem as a reasonable thing to Some people also do the problem is argue that that life is not about Christianity is based happiness, on the idea that life happiness is as, and, is suffering the the ideal itself theologist Gilbert something Bilezikian said that unattainable at the moment in multiple religions which Jesus is at the across different crust when he asks cultures have “father why have decided that life is you abandoned me? suffering. For a brief moment Jesus himself The Duhkha becomes atheist. concept that means Analyzing this we pain, referring to the can say that the suffering to the suffering of life is mundane life, this so overwhelming concept is so that god doubts of important that that himself. meaning to life it But even if life were makes it interesting not suffering you falling it’s would not want to interesting because be happy. In a it takes us out of the physiological study mundane and if we they measure overcome failure, positive and we become negative interaction someone they concluded that remarkable. But we if a relationship has can also identify 5 negative with suffering and interaction to 1 that is not good. positive the "Don't fall in love relationship won’t with your suffering. last. Understandable Never presume that you don’t want to your suffering in have unnecessary itself is a proof of suffering. If a your authenticity." - relationship has 10 Zizek positive interactions to 1 negative the If you were happy relationship wont you will think that last as well. It’s too everything is good boring. all people are good, there are so many Suffering gives resources you invest all your many in Now we are everything because continuous, and we everything is good, make one and you get broken fundamental because most of the question for our life things are bad. “How should we see the world?” we We want something look at people different at the top around us, we ask of our hierarchy of value what is that. for advice that even I’ll leave it up to when it looks far you. from the question it comes from the Before necessity of answer continuousness it. arises, we have Doc. Jordan already structured Peterson explains the world and our that the vision of it it’s fundamental already narrowed question that we even farther before are trying to answer we are born our when we ask, “How gens have set our should we see the fate and that alone world?” is not that have set our vision. question itself but “How should we act?” because after all we don’t care about the world but we care about our success in it. My question is “What’s the perfect way of looking at world?” but in reality, my question is: How should I act so that someone else can take this path and be successful?