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When Muse career coach Theresa Merrill does mock interviews with her clients, she always
leads with, “Tell me about yourself.” It’s good practice because that’s often the very first thing
an interviewer will ask you to do—whether you’re having a preliminary phone screen,
speaking to your prospective boss, or sitting down with the CEO during a final round.
Even though it’s one of the most common interview questions, “it almost always stumps them,”
Merrill says. It might seem like an easy win—after all, you know all about yourself!—but
responding to this invitation to talk about you in the context of a job interview can feel
stressful and complicated. “It’s challenging because it is broad, open-ended,” Merrill points out.
You might be thinking: Um, what do you want to know? How am I supposed to pick what to
share out of my entire life story right now?
Luckily, you can prepare in advance and use this common opening prompt to your advantage,
setting the stage for a successful interview.
It’s also a great starting point that can help inform the direction of the interview, says Muse
career coach and CareerSchooled founder Al Dea: “Depending on what you say it’s going to
help them figure out the next question,” which might help start a chain effect of follow-up
questions and lend an easy flow to the conversation.
Beyond serving as an icebreaker and transition, Dea says, this introductory question also helps
recruiters and hiring managers accomplish what’s often one of their major goals in the hiring
process: getting to know you.
If you answer it well, the interviewers will begin to find out why you’re the best candidate for
this job, in terms of hard skills and experience as well as soft skills. It’s a great opportunity to
demonstrate that you can communicate clearly and effectively, connect with and react to other
humans, and present yourself professionally.
There are plenty of times when you’ll hear these exact words: “Tell me about yourself.” But
interviewers might have their own versions of the prompt that are asking pretty much the
same thing, including:
Present: Talk a little bit about what your current role is, the scope of it, and perhaps a big
recent accomplishment.
Past: Tell the interviewer how you got there and/or mention previous experience that’s
relevant to the job and company you’re applying for.
Future: Segue into what you’re looking to do next and why you’re interested in this gig
(and a great fit for it, too).
This isn’t the only way to build your response, of course, and you can tweak it as you see fit. If
there’s a particularly potent story about what brought you into this field, for example, you
might decide to start with that “past” story and then get into what you’re doing in the present.
Whatever order you pick, make sure you ultimately tie it to the job and company. “A good
place to end it is to give a transition of this is why I’m here,” Dea says. You want to be
absolutely certain your interviewer is left with the impression that it “makes sense that
[you’re] sitting here talking to me about this role.”
“When an interviewer asks that, they really mean tell me about yourself as it’s relevant to the
position you’re applying for and this company. I think they’re giving you an opportunity to
articulate succinctly why you have the right qualifications,” says Muse career coach Tina
Wascovich.
Take advantage of the opportunity! In order to do that, you’ll want to spend some time
combing through the job description, researching the company, and figuring out how you can
tell your story in a way that makes it crystal clear why you’re interested and what you bring to
the table that aligns with the role and company.
“This is the best chance to be very direct and share your objective. But your objective needs to
fulfill their goals,” says Muse career coach and recruiter Steven Davis.
For example, a client he worked with was leaving a job where she’d worked on a team
developing a new antibacterial cream and getting it ready for clinical trials. The new job she
wanted entailed working on an entirely unrelated product, so the important thing for her to
mention in this case was that prior to her current role, she’d never had experience working on
antibacterial creams and was able to come in and figure out how to move the process forward,
just as she could do in this new role.
So when you’re in the midst of a job search looking for a particular type of role, you might
have a basic template you use for every interview, but make sure to tweak it to fit the
company. “It’s an opportunity to show them right away that you get it,” Campos says. “If they
talk a lot about culture, weave that into your answer,” she adds, and if the company or even
the particular team emphasizes something else, see if you can incorporate that. In some cases
individual keywords could help give the cue that you’ve done your research and are a good fit,
according to Campos. For example, does the company refer to itself a tech company or a
startup, a consumer brand or an online retailer, a publication or zine?
“Generally the [answers] that always resonate with me show that they really get the role,” she
says, as well as why they applied. “I get more engaged because I can see that it’s going to go
somewhere.”
2. Keep It Professional
In keeping with the notion that this question carries an invisible addendum—“as it’s relevant
to this role and company”—you’re best off keeping your answer professional. Wascovich
explains that whereas the norm in some countries might be to share personal details at this
point, in the U.S. you should avoid doing so. In other words, this isn’t the time to talk about
your family and hobbies, unless you know something very specific about the company that
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3. But Inject Some Passion Into Your Answer (if You Feel Comfortable)
Keeping your answer professional, however, shouldn’t stop you from shedding light on why
you’re passionate about your work or about this company, even if that broaches slightly more
personal territory.
“If people feel comfortable telling their story from a passionate perspective, it helps engage the
interviewer and set them apart,” says Wascovich. For example, Wascovich recently worked
with a special education administrator who’d actually been a special education student in
elementary school. Her teachers inspired her to pursue the career she did. “So in telling your
story about how you got your start, that could be a unique hook.”
You don’t have to go into a huge amount of detail, but if your goal in an interview is to stand
out among the applicant pool and be memorable, then infusing this answer with some passion
can help you do that.
“People don’t want to talk to robots—they want to talk to humans,” Dea says. “I love it when
someone tells me, I knew I wanted to work in marketing when I was a kid. I’ve always really
loved writing.”
Campos agrees. “If a person really is connected to their mission and what they want to go after
in their next role and this company really aligns, this is a great place to bring that in,” she says.
You might incorporate a sentence like, “I’m really passionate about x and y and so I was really
attracted to your company…”
Whatever you do, don’t waste this time regurgitating every single detail of your career. “Most
people answer it like they’re giving a dissertation on their resume,” says Davis, but that’s only
going to bore the interviewer to tears.
It’s not just about entertaining or engaging your interviewer, Campos explains. You’re also
giving a hint as to how you’ll speak in meetings with co-workers, bosses, and clients. Are you
going to ramble for 10 minutes every time someone asks you a somewhat open-ended
question?
There’s no scientifically proven optimal length for answering this or any interview question.
Some coaches and recruiters will tell you to keep it to 30 seconds or less, while others will say
you should aim for a minute, or talk for no more than two minutes.
“Everyone has a different approach,” says Dea, who’s had candidates speak for one minute or
go on for five. But in his experience, people tend to start losing steam after 1.5 to 2.5 minutes of
uninterrupted talking. You’ll have to decide what feels right for you in any given context, but if
you’re speaking for longer than a couple of minutes, there’s a good chance you’re getting into
too much detail too soon.
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Make sure you’re also reading the room as you’re talking. If the other person looks bored or
distracted, it might be time to wrap it up. If they perk up at one part of your answer, it might
be worth expanding on that topic a bit more.
In general, however, remember that you don’t have to relay your entire life story here, Dea
says. Think of it as a teaser that should pique the interviewer’s interest and give them a chance
to ask follow-up questions about whatever intrigues them most.
You don’t want to wait until you get this question in a live interview to try out your answer for
the first time. Think through what you want to convey about yourself ahead of each interview
and practice saying it out loud.
Davis recommends leaving yourself a voicemail or recording your answer and then waiting an
hour or more before you listen to it to give yourself some distance and perspective. When you
finally play it back, see if the answer sounds solid and credible to you.
If you can, go beyond practicing solo. “It always helps to practice with other people to hear
yourself say it and hear feedback from how other people are interpreting what you’re saying,”
Dea says. Asking a trusted colleague, friend, or family member to listen and react to your
answer will help you hone it. If your practice buddy is game, you can even ask them what they
would say if they were being asked, and try to put yourself in the interviewer’s shoes to think
about what you’d look for on the other side.
Practice will surely make your answer stronger and help you become more confident giving it.
Dea warns, however, against memorizing and reciting your spiel word-for-word. “There’s a
fine balance between practicing and memorizing. It needs to come off as very authentic,” he
says.
Wascovich explains that recruiters might be more understanding of new grads in their first
couple of years in the workforce who sound like they’ve memorized their answer, but that it’s
likely to be a red flag for anyone with a little bit more experience. “You don’t want to sound
overly rehearsed,” she says. “You should be able to have a conversation,” she adds. “Imagine
yourself telling a story to a good friend.”
As with any interview question—or conversation for that matter—you’ll want to make sure
you understand who you’re talking to. You might get some form of “tell me about yourself” at
every single stage of the interview process for a job, from the phone screen through final
rounds, but that doesn’t mean you have to give the same exact answer every time.
If you’re speaking to a recruiter who’s not immersed in the hard skills of the team you’d be
joining, you might keep your answer more focused on the bigger picture, whereas when you
speak to your prospective boss, you might get a little bit more technical. If you’re talking to a C-
level executive as part of your final round, it’s probably smart to touch on why you’re drawn to
the overall mission of the company they run.
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You can also enhance your answer and make it more specific to the role and company based
on what you learn as you progress through the interview process, Campos says, such as,
“When I talked to so-and-so it really resonated with me that your mission or value is…”
7. Keep It Positive
If you were fired or laid off from your last job, this probably isn’t the best moment to mention
it. “There’s a time and place for everything—you don’t have to cram it all into this answer,”
Campos says. “If you view this as your first impression professionally, give them a window into
that but don’t give them everything. The conversation’s not ready for that.”
As you move further into an interview, things get more comfortable. So wait until you get a
specific question about why you’re looking to change jobs or why you have a gap on your
resume to address those topics.
And that advice you’ve probably heard a million times about not badmouthing your previous
employer? That applies here, too. Especially here. If the first thing you tell an interviewer is
how awful your boss is and you’re trying to escape the misery of their micromanaging
clutches, that’s a big turnoff.
“We really only have one chance to make a first impression,” Davis says. “My opinion is that
most hiring decisions are made in the first minute,” which includes your greeting, handshake,
eye contact, and the first thing you say, which may very well be your response to “tell me about
yourself.”
Even if the powers that be aren’t making an irreversible determination shortly after the
conversation begins, a first impression can color the rest of the interview. If you have to spend
the rest of the time making up for a bad opening, you’re in a very different position than if you
gave a succinct, confident, and relevant answer right off the bat.
“Be prepared for this question and show interviewers you prepared for it,”
Campos says. “The confidence that comes across in this is a really good place to start from.”
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A longtime word nerd and bookworm, Stav studied history and dance at Stanford and later
journalism at Columbia. Before joining The Muse, Stav was a staff writer at Newsweek, where
she wrote about everything from Nazi hunters to Chinese adoptees to Good Girls Revolt, the
real story and fictionalized TV show about a 1970 gender discrimination case at the magazine.
She prefers sunshine and tolerates winters grudgingly.
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